geminians do u like to change urself for some1?

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by maria24 on Monday, July 22, 2013 and has 5 replies.

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@maria24
13 YearsGemini

wot do u think? is it fair to change ur self for someone for the sake of a good reltionship. what if u stop trying to be someone else? one day u would be tired of all this trying-stuff and would want to be what u really are.. and then ur relationship will suffer. i think its a misery.

in a good relationship u dont have to change. it doesn't feel real (for me at least) i never try that. i think one should be very much honest in showing her/his true self. i rather like a relationship in which i can be crazy as hell but which never effects the relationship.. i want atleast one person in my life who never judges me no matter how weird silly or insane i act :-P

haha is it a geminian thing?

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@geminitwin
13 Years

I don't like to change of anyone. I have experienced myself adjusting to people. But the more I mature I don't even want to do that because many with the exception of very few do not have the same consideration to adjust for me.

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@DeeG
13 Years500+ Posts

If I catch myself making to many concessions for someone, thats an indication something is not vibing. No relationship should feel heavy.

It should flow and move freely.

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@DeeG
13 Years500+ Posts

Posted by geminitwin
I don't like to change of anyone. I have experienced myself adjusting to people. But the more I mature I don't even want to do that because many with the exception of very few do not have the same consideration to adjust for me.

+1

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@GemStar05
14 Years1,000+ Posts

I never change myself for anyone...I love me. Making concessions on things is different; it's not changing yourself for anyone just conceding where necessary and they should do the same on some things.

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@geminidude
13 Years500+ Posts

Will definitely change for the good. And when it comes to relationship one needs to sacrifice not always but then again yes.