Gemini's? Hot & Cold -__-

So I recently matched with this guy on a dating site a week ago today. He's a gemini, born May 25. Anyway we have had pretty great conversation and started texting Monday. We made plans to hang out Thursday. He was the one to suggest that we meet up for coffee or drinks. Anyway, I chose coffee because I don't drink . Plans were set in stone, but when Thursday comes I don't hear from him all day. So I took it that we weren't going to hang out. I texted him around 4:00 pm that day to let him know I was going to be taking a client (I do eyelash extensions) and if we could reschedule for another day. He texted back stating he was going to text me ASAP to let me know he wasn't going to be able to make it, because he just slowed down and had been busy all day (whatever). He then texted me last night around 9:00 to see what I was doing, and basically wanted me to go over there ( he had been drinking) I denied his offer, because I think it's very inappropriate to meet him for the first time at his place around 9:00 pm especially after he had been drinking. He then asked me what I was going to be doing today around 6-7 pm, because he really wanted to see me and stated he didn't care what we did, as long as he got to see me. He stated he wants to get to know me. So, again we made plans to do a nature trail hike, and he told me he would text me this morning and during the cowboys game, because he really likes talking to me. Do I hear from him? NO lol. So, I texted him around 1 to see if he wanted to go earlier because it was going to be dark by 6:00 when we had planned. He read the text and never responded. I haven't invested any time in him, but I do like talking with him, and would like to meet him. I just don't get why he never responded. Second time making plans and having them fall through. smh. Should I cut it off, before it even starts or just go with the flow? I am cancer born June 24,I think that's cusp of gem!

Lol then why state he wants to get to know me, and enjoys talking with me. Yeah I agree, because I met him on a dating site I'm sure he's pursuing other women. Communication is key, and just because I cancelled first doesn't mean he wasn't going to lol. I'm just kind enough to communicate, instead of just ignoring. Well Thank you for the response though 🙂

Posted by littlenanobyte
He is mirroring you because you cancelled on him first, by just assuming you weren't meeting up because you hadn't heard from him by 4pm.

He also seems to have lost interest or maybe he wasn't ever too interested in the first place. Since you met on a dating site, I assume that he is probably chatting with/maybe meeting and dating a few different people.

Move on and try to find someone who treats you with more respect and someone who fits with your expectations of communication better, but also expect to be mirrored if you cancel first though.



Cancer & Gemini aren't a very good pairing IMO :/ it's probably for the best.

Good luck

I'd say move on. I know I'm young and don't have too much experience. However, from what I have experienced, Geminis are generally better friends than lovers/partners for water and earth signs like us. (Actually, I haven't really met any Gemini male relationship combinations that worked... :O)

In my opinion, they are laid back and cool about life in general, which is really great. But, having a relationship is difficult with them because they come off as lackadaisical, and don't really put any thought into the little things in a relationship that their significant other may appreciate. For instance, most people placed in the same situation as your Gemini (if they were genuinely interested) would have reached out to you earlier in the day: maybe a "Good morning" or a "Can't way to see you tonight." It's nice, and it shows the other person that you're thinking about them. Geminis don't usually afford such niceties. So if that's what you're looking for, then it's best to breeze right on past.