Gemini's In arguments

Don't you geminis think you do lie overtly in arguments? Because of astrology I learned to be lenient with peoples behavior because i'm really convinced its part of their nature, so they can not help it. I find it impossible almost to argument with geminis i care about. I battle with my heart and mind in arguments with people i love. Even if i don't even love the person my heart is so big and my feelings are so strong i literally become passive with my logical thoughts. My heart is by far stronger than my head. Arguing with a gemini is so frustrating when in the company of others. Especially since men are all about their egos i try my best not to offend people. I know so much but i deliberately choose to stray from logical material that can make people really catch feelings. I'm so aware that the truth hurts sometimes, so i just prefer to stay on the surface even if it makes me look stupid in the end or what i say makes no sense. Its only because i don't want to hurt people. Sometimes i get so mad my impulsiveness causes me to do or say things that are horrible. Then after i feel so terrible about it later it haunts me. This gemini feels the need to always class me in front of company, he doesn't understand my carefree nature. It makes it very hard and frustrating to voice my true thoughts in front of his friends i rather not do it. So i ask if he can end the argument and he just keeps going and pushes me back into another one. Be honest geminis, do you find yourself having no emotional attachments in arguments? You dont care what you say or who you say it in front of no matter how embarrassing or personal it is? Because the moment i gave this gemini a little tiny dose of his own medicine he got veryyyyyyyyyyy mad like "Why you tryna expose me?" but i get exposed all the time, he always lies on me assumes things, never believe me, embarrasses me, and all that. But when its one on one argument or what ever it never goes like this. Yup they have a way with words because they use words and change it. (by adding words, changing the expression, and even using it against people in the wrong sides of the arguments just to prove their point.)

Wow, catching some deja vu reading this. Arguing with my gemini girl feels this way at times. She'll literally put words in my mouth that I never said lol.. it'll be similar to what I said, but the inclusion or removal of one word (that gets translated while going through her mental processing) REALLY changes things. And she does it with a straight face, convincingly. All I can do is laugh. Gem perceive things differently. No point arguing in the moment really. Just throw it back at them later when their other twin surfaces and they call themselves on whatever you were arguing about previously... trust me, give it time, it'll happen. lol... granted it'll annoy them but it's how your side of the argument sticks -- wait for the other TWIN to show up!!! Word of advice, don't come across weak. Just make your point, laugh it off. And whatever you do, don't call them a liar, even if the recorded evidence reveals them to be lying lol. Good luck.

I wont tell lies, what I say is exactly what I mean, I will never argue for the sake of arguing, i will back up my argument with fact.. I wont lie because being untruthful stops growth for yourself and the other person.. if its someone being immature and vindictive and arguing to cause harm rather than trying to resolve then I will just enjoy running rings around them.

When I was younger, getting into an argument with me was an impossible situation. I was going to win the argument ANY way I had to, and I was very good at it. Lying was NOT a problem. My specialty was twisting things around and coming at my opponents from so many angles that they would eventually completely "lose it". The crazier I drove them, the more satifying it was for me.

Nowadays, I have a much more level head and can keep my cool and talk things out so that things work out for both parties. I'm not "in it to win it" anymore.

Posted by jahthx
Wow, catching some deja vu reading this. Arguing with my gemini girl feels this way at times. She'll literally put words in my mouth that I never said lol.. it'll be similar to what I said, but the inclusion or removal of one word (that gets translated while going through her mental processing) REALLY changes things. And she does it with a straight face, convincingly. All I can do is laugh. Gem perceive things differently. No point arguing in the moment really. Just throw it back at them later when their other twin surfaces and they call themselves on whatever you were arguing about previously... trust me, give it time, it'll happen. lol... granted it'll annoy them but it's how your side of the argument sticks -- wait for the other TWIN to show up!!! Word of advice, don't come across weak. Just make your point, laugh it off. And whatever you do, don't call them a liar, even if the recorded evidence reveals them to be lying lol. Good luck.

Omg i could kiss you lol They are so convincing i do smile =P and they'll be like stop smirking and try to hurt me some more. i do throw it in his face when we calm down and were alone i just want to be able to accept him for that matter. Cause if this is just a problem with him I don't think i would be able to want to accept it.

Posted by Whimsy
When I was younger, getting into an argument with me was an impossible situation. I was going to win the argument ANY way I had to, and I was very good at it. Lying was NOT a problem. My specialty was twisting things around and coming at my opponents from so many angles that they would eventually completely "lose it". The crazier I drove them, the more satifying it was for me.

Nowadays, I have a much more level head and can keep my cool and talk things out so that things work out for both parties. I'm not "in it to win it" anymore.

Yes yes your so good at this but you guys don't understand doing this to an aries just creates more anger our sadness turns into angry more of. Were so impulsive that we don't care either we'll win later on because if you hurt us we withdraw if that hurt turns into anger or started from anger were coming back for you and it wont be in an arguments. I became better at arguments as well i still have a yelling problem do to anger but i got better at using words instead of acting out my anger. (Fighting, pushing, breaking things, throwing things, slamming doors, banging on walls and other surfaces lol) Us aries need to channel our energies in any means possible else it becomes an emotional and psychological brain clog. We need to release all energy its so painful not to.

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Posted by Whimsy
When I was younger, getting into an argument with me was an impossible situation. I was going to win the argument ANY way I had to, and I was very good at it. Lying was NOT a problem. My specialty was twisting things around and coming at my opponents from so many angles that they would eventually completely "lose it". The crazier I drove them, the more satifying it was for me.

Nowadays, I have a much more level head and can keep my cool and talk things out so that things work out for both parties. I'm not "in it to win it" anymore.

Yes yes your so good at this but you guys don't understand doing this to an aries just creates more anger our sadness turns into angry more of. Were so impulsive that we don't care either we'll win later on because if you hurt us we withdraw if that hurt turns into anger or started from anger were coming back for you and it wont be in an arguments. I became better at arguments as well i still have a yelling problem do to anger but i got better at using words instead of acting out my anger. (Fighting, pushing, breaking things, throwing things, slamming doors, banging on walls and other surfaces lol) Us aries need to channel our energies in any means possible else it becomes an emotional and psychological brain clog. We need to release all energy its so painful not to.

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Yes, back then I wasn't considering the long-term effects of my style of arguing. To me, once the argument was over, it was over...and on to the next thing. But not all signs (or people in general) are like that.

depends on Mars and Acs I think. My Asc lets me perceive the bullbutter keenly, but my Mars is a wishy washy Pisces... meh... on the other hand... I can debate till you (not me) are blue in the face 😉 - not you porsonaly, hope you know what I mean 😉

Posted by roamingfree
depends on Mars and Acs I think. My Asc lets me perceive the bullbutter keenly, but my Mars is a wishy washy Pisces... meh... on the other hand... I can debate till you (not me) are blue in the face 😉 - not you porsonaly, hope you know what I mean 😉

do you feel the pisces in you? my black moon is pisces and it does make me feel like a live in a fantasy world sometimes. Always my vision is not like it use to be it just seems different and slightly altered from reality. I doubt people see and feel how i do.

I feel my Pisces moon. I definitely have my own world. No one has ever actually lived in it with me. The only person I thought might have come close was a Pisces. He might or might not have visited my world, but I am sure I never visited his.

Pisces is a calamity for a Gem. in any way you put it. It drives me up the wall at times.

Funny, on the Cap board we would find that too much (clutter) to read...


Just saying 🙂

I think I exaggerate to make my point in most cases

i never exaggerate, I just give details with gusto!

i agree with maturity being an issue.... i pick and choose my battles. i won't just start an argument for the sake of it. i've got better things to do with my time than to start an argument. i just don't like to argue. plus, i like to be happy and not angry all the time. it's just unhealthy....

Posted by Maddy
I will say what I mean then I will walk away. It depends who am I arguing and why. My sister on the other hand who is also a Gem, will argue until she has the last word. I don't know why! Maybe she feels better after it, don't know but she loves to argue with anyone, anytime. I'd rather save the energy for something else.

They feel like they won if they have the last word. But they look really stupid in arguments because anyone can see that they just begging and dying to win the argument. It looks just as pathetic as aries chasing the one they love.

Posted by Geminems
I think I exaggerate to make my point in most cases

that too

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Posted by guccigemini55
I wont tell lies, what I say is exactly what I mean, I will never argue for the sake of arguing, i will back up my argument with fact.. I wont lie because being untruthful stops growth for yourself and the other person.. if its someone being immature and vindictive and arguing to cause harm rather than trying to resolve then I will just enjoy running rings around them.

Same here. And another thing is I actually tend to provoke the person during an argument. Like for example, I can see in his eyes that he wants to say something really harsh to me and he can't bring himself to say it, I challenge him to say it to my face because we are being honest in the situation ( alright. You wanna call me manipulative? Say it. Go ahead. Let's get real. Because I think you have issues. Stop giving my that look. I can read your mind. Say it!!! ) And yeah. That's how I argue. Lol

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I already know it they try and be you to the cut. Its in their nature. They'll he reject you first. People are ignorant when their angry. They'll everything when their. But believe everything and are more humble when their happy. Moods impact the way we think.

Im not a gemini but i can relate to some of the things said here. Maybe its an air sign thing to use words as a weapon (usually u take what the other person is saying, sharpen it, turn it back and stab them with it). The advice is not to say a thing cause whatever u say will be used against u. There are times in argument where i just flex my brain muscles waiting for them to say something...anything.

And i hardly regret anything i say in argument, at that moment u deserved it (its YOUR OWN words against u, remember?) and thats all that matters. But after im done its forgotten, moving on- why is it hard for other ppl to just let verbal disputes go? Its annoying. I said it 5 minutes ago, its history to me now..catch up!

Posted by WaterCup
And i hardly regret anything i say in argument, at that moment u deserved it (its YOUR OWN words against u, remember?) and thats all that matters. But after im done its forgotten, moving on- why is it hard for other ppl to just let verbal disputes go? Its annoying. I said it 5 minutes ago, its history to me now..catch up!

That exactly how i am. I going say what i have to say then im done. Someone else said that they felt the gemini was putting words in their mouth. I like using ppl own words against to make them feel stupid. I hate when ppl say u putting words in their mouth. Just because you felt the need to sugarcoat whatever you said doesn't mean i have to.

Posted by WaterCup
And i hardly regret anything i say in argument, at that moment u deserved it (its YOUR OWN words against u, remember?) and thats all that matters. But after im done its forgotten, moving on- why is it hard for other ppl to just let verbal disputes go? Its annoying. I said it 5 minutes ago, its history to me now..catch up!

That exactly how i am. I going say what i have to say then im done. Someone else said that they felt the gemini was putting words in their mouth. I like using ppl own words against to make them feel stupid. I hate when ppl say u putting words in their mouth. Just because you felt the need to sugarcoat whatever you said doesn't mean i have to.

I'm a Gemini rising and I can relate to the "battle of words" I don't care for arguing or fighting of any kind. I'm not interested in "winning." When I find myself involved in this type of dispute, argument or whatever you choose to call it with that particular type of Gemini, I usually just agree with them to shut them up and let them think whatever they want to. It gets old and unattractive after a while.

Posted by jahthx
Wow, catching some deja vu reading this. Arguing with my gemini girl feels this way at times. She'll literally put words in my mouth that I never said lol.. it'll be similar to what I said, but the inclusion or removal of one word (that gets translated while going through her mental processing) REALLY changes things. And she does it with a straight face, convincingly. All I can do is laugh. Gem perceive things differently. No point arguing in the moment really. Just throw it back at them later when their other twin surfaces and they call themselves on whatever you were arguing about previously... trust me, give it time, it'll happen. lol... granted it'll annoy them but it's how your side of the argument sticks -- wait for the other TWIN to show up!!! Word of advice, don't come across weak. Just make your point, laugh it off. And whatever you do, don't call them a liar, even if the recorded evidence reveals them to be lying lol. Good luck.

My ex told me once i put words in her mouth. The issue tho she felt the need to sugarcoat what she was saying i see whatever was said how it really is. In the end im not even upset at what was said im upset that you backtracking from what you said because you didnt think i would catch it. She would say im putting words in her mouth and then i would ask what did she mean by whatever she said. And then i wont get an answer.