getting to know you

hi 🙂

i'm having trouble reaching a guy that i'd like to get to know better. there are days when we are both open and days much less so. he's a gemini-taurus cusp with a virgo moon, and i, a virgo-leo cusp with a gemini moon. it seems like we have a lot in common, including the ability to be awkward at opportune times! as a starting point, what do you think the problems are if you had to conjecture? and this is just for entertainment, but if you had to guess how our first interaction went, suppose??_

i wish i could help you, but judgements are hard to make(for me) for cuspers...especially since BOTH of you guys are...jeez.

im going to guess you guys had a rough "first interaction"?

maybe, come right out and tell him you want to know him better. he's not going to know unless you tell him. 🙂

the possibilities are endless, good or bad. 🙂

Posted by misslissa
maybe, come right out and tell him you want to know him better. he's not going to know unless you tell him. 🙂

the possibilities are endless, good or bad. 🙂

I totally agree! There's nothing better than being open about such things.

Cusps are a bit harder to find information on or people to judge by, but I do hear and read often that they're more likely to be attracted to other cusp signs. Also, fire and air signs get along very well and obviously earth gets along well with other earth. If it were me I'd give it a try, and be upfront like they've all suggested. Seems like there would be good chemistry to me.

@westside; it was rough. i pretty much thought he hated me. i actually had a very similar interaction with another gem, virgo moon dude, which is why i was wondering if it had something to do with that. cusps can be strange people, myself included. for example, my sag-scorp friend who appears to be the happiest guy around. i've known him for some years and he's the one always encouraging other people and being positive. i'm kind of like that and tried to do the same for him once??_ out of nowhere, this completely dark side erupts and he ends up revealing a past suicide attempt.

@misslissa, GeminiSoul, Sickleesweet; my sister and one of my closest friends said the same thing as what you guys have mentioned - be really open and approach him. unfortunately i don't know how i feel about him anymore. he was talking shiz about someone, even though it was provoked by someone else, which is kind of a turnoff -_- it may sound hypocritically judgmental, but really i just value him in a different way now. i guess now i'm just gonna lay low and see if that's his true personality. i'm not gonna go out of my way though 😢