Help me compare/interperate our charts *fixed*

I did the compatibility charts of the Gem girl and Me, and of Her and her Ex bf/bf who she more and more often gets into bigger fights. Now From what I've read in the report stunned me, everything in our compatibility was "negative" even though most of the negative situations described are actually happening quite often but theres no way they are negative, it gives uniqueness to our friendship, she knows how blunt i am, i am not over doing it and i am not doing it in a retarded way i know my limits.. for the past few weeks we actually got pretty close, closer than ever before, and are now freely sharing things, now im feeling the real friendship, when on my bday some dude asked her if she liked me ( was a breif and quick question) she turned to me i turned to her we made eye contact and she giggled, and we went back to conversations. On the other hand her ex/bf chart compatibility, even though he is a taurus, surprisingly showed many "positives" like everything on that chart was positive! i was stunned! but in the past two years that i know her they have been having big fights, i would approximate 2-3 so far this year, big ones. and she one time recently emphasized that her and I only fought once, and its been 2 years, despite our differences, as the charts claim..

Question, I am really confused, maybe some of u are better interpreters of the charts than those who wrote the compatibility thingy, because it makes n o sense at all, basing from those charts we shouldnt be even talking to each other, yet we are like best friends!, i dont wanna say i feel weird saying that we're best friends but we do act as such.

here are the charts:
My bday April 15 1992
the ex/bf April 28 1990
the girl June 20 1990

Their chart
http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/comp2f?d1day=20&d1month=6&d1year=1990&d2day=28&d2month=4&d2year=1990<BR>
Her and mine chart
http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/comp2f?d1day=15&d1month=4&d1year=1992&d2day=20&d2month=6&d2year=1990<BR>

aww cool thanks for heads up, but who the hell ever knows the birth times, my mom doesnt even remember what time she gave birth nor they have recorded the hour... same with them im not gonna ask her when she was born... i dont think its that important anyway i think the location on earth is more important and the website didnt request that info... that could be it

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Posted by KingOfAries
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well hello, good morning i'm awake. but i think the rest of the gems are still asleep. no offense dude but you've been coming here on the gem board asking for some advise about these gem girls you meet. unlike ispikeddacoffee i'm not that much of help ither but i think what you need is someone you can settle down with man. and someone that's faithful and someone you can trust. and make up your mind who you wanna be with. if you can find the perfect mate then maybe you won't have to keep coming back on these boards asking for advise.
sorry dude. i didn't mean to come off so hard on ya man, but that's just words of advise. you dig?

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absolutely true, i just dont have anyone i trust to share these things with to get good advice, since here ppl dont know me, except for few, they have no agenda to make me fail, thats why i keep coming back and telling how things are going to see whether you approve or not, i do need a perfect soul mate, the gem is everything i need, the pisces is so exotic and unique and its like we are reading each others mind we think not alike, but exactly the same! she is as mean as me, i love it, and shes smart too, gets all A's, and acts like a little princess. Im sure if i go out with her the gem will be very jealous and upset

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Posted by KingOfAries


the gem is everything i need, the pisces is so exotic and unique

You seem very honest and sincere. As a Gemini, I appreciate that very much. I also love how you are willing to talk about how you feel.

I am an astrologer, and I will freely admit that sometimes you don't need to look at the astrology between two people to decide what's right. It may shine some light, but it is not the most important thing to consider.

Your statement above says it all to me. You obviously love this Gemini girl. It doesn't matter if your two charts are difficult, two people who genuinely love each other can overcome anything. I have seen couples with horrible charts make an honest and good effort to keep their relationship together. Some, few and rare, people seem to be able to do this.

You are no doubt an Aries King in the making, and I admire your persistence and —ramming.?? It shows that you mean what you say. I wouldn't be surprised if she falls for you. You seem to be doing just fine. Look how far you have come.

As for the Pisces, she seems more like an invitation and a seduction than a real partner, at least in your eyes.

I always say, "Go for the gold and settle for the silver and bronze, but don't aim for the silver and bronze." Follow your heart and you will do the right thing, and learn from it.

Best wishes to you, King of Aries

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Thank you so much for your kind words! You are so intelligent! You may be right, even though our charts do not match according to that website, I believe the difference is what makes relationships interesting, she talks about me with her "best friend" and i saw that girl yesterday and since i was without the gem girl (we're always together now) she surprisingly asked me "where is yourrr... ...your best friend" (after my little fight with the gem few weeks ago i told her she was by best friend and that i won't leave her alone cause she kept telling me to go away) i did not say anything back just laughed and told her where the gem was.. I am however sort of confused, I am afraid to be misinterpreting our relationship; She may just be a good friend to me, I honestly do not ask her about her bf all the time, but they do not text, I look on purpose on her phone when she texts someone and I don't

Posted by anearthygemini
Hi KOA,

I think you??re doing just fine. If a Gemini doesn't like you, then you would definitely know. There would be no doubt in your mind. Friendship and romance is usually a shady area when you are in your 20s. As you get better at deciding what you want, then you can separate the two. It seems to me like whatever she had with the Taurus is loosing steam and she's dealing with the changes.

I think you are doing right by being there for her. I think you should also know when to let her be. You seem to be getting better at balancing this. If her friends are acknowledging you, even in jest, as her boyfriend, then people are sensing your chemistry.

I'm personally routing for you because I am very impressed with your determination and stamina. You seem very genuine, sincere and resolute. Awesome! The insults and hard feelings that could have shaken weaker souls seems to have rolled off you pretty well. You stand your ground with true conviction and strength. This is the heart of courage. I'm sure she's impressed. It might take time, but I think she??ll notice that you are a pretty impressive guy and she should definitely reconsider her feelings. You are doing great.

You are very correct in your astrological observation. Tension between two charts bind people together better than too much ease. Yes, I have seem this repeatedly. Too much ease makes people not want to fight to stay together. They are more inclined to drift apart. Many people tend to value more the things they worked hard to get than the things that come to them with ease.

Wishing you the best. Good Luck!

wow, thank you so much 🙂