Help me out with this Gemini guy

My sun is virgo, moon Capricorn and venus Libra. His sun Gemini, moon Capricorn, venus cancer.
Story began from matrimony site. We chatted for 2 weeks intensely. Common interest was our experimental nature in sex and kinks. Though v discussed many other things also. For first two dates every thing was rosy. Second two dates there was smooching n cuddling. Third n fourth date v got bit more physical.. But only foreplay as I told him I don't wanna have sex before being sure he is the right guy. He agreed n he promised for coming 5months he won't do sex. Sex will happen only if v find each other compatible. We both agreed upon d fact that the moment v will realise v r not finding each other interesting enough to be in love, v will confess n part ways. He had been both affectionate n lusty with me. He talked a lot n v shared good time. After 6th dating, that day v had foreplay and he told me someday he wanted to fuck me hard, he started disappearing act. Generally absent from WhatsApp... Monosyllabic answer. I also stopped messaging. Later he said he was down with fever and there was work pressure. I understood his situation n never complained. I started discussing about different topics with him so that he doesn't get bored. He took part in discussion but as usual after sometime disappeared. I also disappeared... Ignored his one text. Then replied his second text... He started giving monosyllabic answers... So being annoyed I replied back after several hours. I went through Gemini guy characteristics in different forum. I came to know they easily get bored, they hate clingy women. I am not clingy actually but I appreciate bit attention. I roamed around with my friends while he disappeared. I had my part of good time. But till now he didn't ask for another date. I am just confused... Has he lost interest!?... Then y d hell he doesn't tell that on my face!? I told him already M open to accept truth n he agreed. In my heart... I feel v have many things to discover about ourselves. N there is a strong chance that v may b good partners. That's y M just spending bit energy thinking about him. Please can anyone help me out with genuine ideas... About how to keep him or get his attention for good. How should I approach him so that he asks me for another date. I really wanna give it a try. Please advise.

Sounds like he lost interest, to me...

Also, just fyi... You really can't make a Gemini do anything they don't want to do. If you happen to manage to get them to, there will be resentment.

Posted by misslissa
Sounds like he lost interest, to me...

Also, just fyi... You really can't make a Gemini do anything they don't want to do. If you happen to manage to get them to, there will be resentment.

I dont agree 100% with the lost interest bit, but i do agree 100% about the last line... don't ever try to manipulate a gem to do something we don't want to, cause there would be LOTS of resentment... and is a big turn off!

Maybe he hasn't lost interest yet, but sure something seem off.... to get his attention, don't give him any and you can even be a little mysterious, we love puzzles, we are all about the mind and a hard to solve puzzle will keep us interested... but be careful cause if you get to hard to solve, he can also give it up and move on to the next thing...

Thanks to all for your suggestions. I just wanna know how to b hard to catch and still not too hard. I don't wanna manipulate him. Somewhere I read Gemini guys lose interest when he gets to know everything about a girl. But he knows me little. And he admitted that. I told him once he knows only a bit of me.. Rest he has to explore. At the beginning v clicked so well. He talked to me continuously. He couldn't control his desire to smooch me on 3rd date. Then suddenly how can he lose interest. I Never appeared clingy to him. When I found him talking less I just stopped talking. I was out with friends in parties n places... Put my pic on chat page. He never knew about this side of mine. So after one day he asked me where I had been... I answered one day later. My point is...After that next morning he texted... I answered hours later.... That.. I was out with friends.. He gave monosyllabic answers... So I got pissed off... N left chat room. Later I asked about him.. But that time he left already... Since he is not back to chat room. The way I disappeared... As he did... Doesn't he feel puzzled too!? He really doesn't know how unpredictable I am... I just want him to consider my other sides also. Moreover he is 34 years old mature guy.... He told me once he had been with many gals... He was loyal to his first wife... After her death in 8 years M his first date. This time he is not thinking about timepass. I was pretty cool with his decision If he is not interested... He will tell me right away. So why d hell is he playing this game if he is not interested