ozzzy
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Is she just kidding, or what? :)
Posted by ozzzy
Cancer guy in the first year of college, and is still with him
Don't want to ruin our friendship.
If she was single
It doesn't really matter what anyone says to you .... you are currently participating in emotionally cheating.
You seem to have in your mind that so long as you're not sleeping together, that it's not cheating ... and that couldn't be further from the truth.
According to what you have written, it appears that you have it in your mind that's it ok to do what you have described above. So therefore, since you believe it is ok to do those things .... then words from other people are pointless.
I have no counsel for you, because I believe you two are emotionally cheating on the Cancer man .. and neither of you seem to mind that you're hurting him. So, I have nothing more to say, and certainly not on your behalf in terms of helping you.
I don't believe bad people are deserving of kindness.
So, I'm out ........ but, don't worry, someone will come along and validate your behavior and give you the answers you want to hear. I'm not that person.
Have a good day 🙂
@P-Angel - What emotional cheating? She loves him, and we didn't kissed, so, what are you talking about? Who is hurting him, and how? LMAO
@FyzaGememiee - Well, yeah, I have five planets in Sag, so it is hard for me to control that desire and passion. You see, I did the right thing after she said that she wants to kiss with me, 'cause I just said "I know", and changed the subject.
We spend a lot of time together, talking and teasing, so I would say that I can resist well, and already said to her that I'm not interested in taken girls through some discussions. Yeah, we poke each other, but that is not cheating, and when the attraction is strong, you cannot just stop with teasing, joking, and all that. Easier said than done.
I just asked why she behaves that way, because I know that she is faithful, but it seems like that it is hard for her to resist too. I don't want to complicate things, and that is why I was in control, and started talking about something else.
Nothing will happen because at the end of this months the college is over, and I will rarely see her, so, maybe it's better that way. It's more safe. 😄
I mean, she has that prolonged eye contact with smiling and all that. She drinks from my glass, or share with me her bottle of water/juice. She was wearing my jacket when it was cold, so yeah, the signs are there, maybe not on purpose, and if she was single, I would already done something. But still, I can resist, although I must tease, cause she is like that too.
We must finish some project together at my place, and yeah, she gets shy at my place when our eyes meet after silence, but as I said, I can control myself when I must.
I just wanted to know why is she behaving that way, and when I'm talking about other girls, she's hitting on me, etc...not always, but sometimes. I ask cause I know that Gems can be very faithful when in love.
On classes she is writing his name in her book, etc...she loves him, and that is why I find it strange that she is behaving that way. I believe that she would not cross the line, but well, chemistry is just strong between those two signs, so it is hard to control on both sides I guess. 🙂
But as I said, when I talk about other girls, she compliments me, or tease me first, she even text me first. I know when to pull the plug, or change the subject, so it's not me, I'm good. 😉
@FyzaGememiee - Well, yeah, I have five planets in Sag, so it is hard for me to control that desire and passion. You see, I did the right thing after she said that she wants to kiss with me, 'cause I just said "I know", and changed the subject.
We spend a lot of time together, talking and teasing, so I would say that I can resist well, and already said to her that I'm not interested in taken girls through some discussions. Yeah, we poke each other, but that is not cheating, and when the attraction is strong, you cannot just stop with teasing, joking, and all that. Easier said than done.
I just asked why she behaves that way, because I know that she is faithful, but it seems like that it is hard for her to resist too. I don't want to complicate things, and that is why I was in control, and started talking about something else.
Nothing will happen because at the end of this months the college is over, and I will rarely see her, so, maybe it's better that way. It's more safe. 😄
I mean, she has that prolonged eye contact with smiling and all that. She drinks from my glass, or share with me her bottle of water/juice. She was wearing my jacket when it was cold, so yeah, the signs are there, maybe not on purpose, and if she was single, I would already done something. But still, I can resist, although I must tease, cause she is like that too.
We must finish some project together at my place, and yeah, she gets shy at my place when our eyes meet after silence, but as I said, I can control myself when I must.
I just wanted to know why is she behaving that way, and when I'm talking about other girls, she's hitting on me, etc...not always, but sometimes. I ask cause I know that Gems can be very faithful when in love.
On classes she is writing his name in her book, etc...she loves him, and that is why I find it strange that she is behaving that way. I believe that she would not cross the line, but well, chemistry is just strong between those two signs, so it is hard to control on both sides I guess. 🙂
But as I said, when I talk about other girls, she compliments me, or tease me first, she even text me first. I know when to pull the plug, or change the subject, so it's not me, I'm good. 😉
Why would you touch another man's woman's thigh?
Posted by ozzzy
What emotional cheating? She loves him, and we didn't kissed, so, what are you talking about? Who is hurting him, and how?
Like I said ..... it's pointless to try and talk to you.
Your mind is closed to what you want.
Posted by LillyPetalBecause I'm burning inside, and she's teasing me, so I must sometimes...
Why would you touch another man's woman's thigh?
Posted by ImpulsvWell, what she does when I'm not around, I don't care. It's very rare that people stop with flirting and occasional touching when they're with one person. I saw many times on random birthdays that drunk friends of the girls that celebrates are touching that girl in different places, so real m-f friendships without any attraction are very rare...
Wow u really don't see ur dick behavior
Imagine being with the women ur going to marry n sqeezing her thigh
N talking about taping each other n kissing.
Mm I guess ur future gf or wife is up
For grabs n u be ok with that
Lol
At knowing she's faithful
Not from her behavior she got both played good.
Posted by littlemegabytesWell, she doesn't have the power over me. She contacted me first, she first offered me help, she asked if she can sit with me on the classes, she texts me first...sPosted by ImpulsvTrue, this girl is loving the attention that he (sag) is giving her and she has a lot of power over both men it seems.
Wow u really don't see ur dick behavior
Imagine being with the women ur going to marry n sqeezing her thigh
N talking about taping each other n kissing.
Mm I guess ur future gf or wife is up
For grabs n u be ok with that
Lol
At knowing she's faithful
Not from her behavior she got both played good.
OP, when you are physically touching her and she is allowing this, and it is more than a friendly hug, IMO, it's no longer even considered "emotional cheating", but verging on physically cheating. My guy is a gem with scorp moon and he would fucking lose it if another guy did such things, and the things she is saying to you omg.
You are stroking her ego and nothing more. She wants to have sex with you obviously, and then she would break your heart. Don't you think that if she wanted to be with you, then she would—
You are venturing into dangerous territory and playing with fire with this one.
I just read your response to Pangel and I am actually floored that you are unable to identify that this is emotional cheating? She said that she wanted to kiss you on multiples occasions according to you, you touch her inappropriately, and she jokes about raping you, and then you are putting her on this "faithful" pedestal?
SMH. You sound like my Sag best friend - totally blind and ignorant when it comes to love.
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So how come she has the power?
And I don't think that she would really cheat on him. Obviously, she is attracted to me, but that doesn't mean that she would cross the line. I would cross it already if I wanted. I just wanted to know what other Gem girls think of her behavior. And she said that she only believes her mom, and her bf, also that she knows that he is the one, and that it will last until the end. She likes to joke and tease like me, and yes, maybe that touching and poking is considered like crossing the line, but then, I think that we still didn't crossed it.
Ofc that nobody would want that some guy touches his girl, he would be very mad for sure. He already did once, when our teacher was hitting on her, so he got pissed, and wanted to beat him for that. It was before I switched, and he moved. And this is worse than hitting, but he isn't there, and what you don't know, can't hurt you. I wouldn't do it if he was there, nor would she.
And I don't think that she would really cheat on him. Obviously, she is attracted to me, but that doesn't mean that she would cross the line. I would cross it already if I wanted. I just wanted to know what other Gem girls think of her behavior. And she said that she only believes her mom, and her bf, also that she knows that he is the one, and that it will last until the end. She likes to joke and tease like me, and yes, maybe that touching and poking is considered like crossing the line, but then, I think that we still didn't crossed it.
Ofc that nobody would want that some guy touches his girl, he would be very mad for sure. He already did once, when our teacher was hitting on her, so he got pissed, and wanted to beat him for that. It was before I switched, and he moved. And this is worse than hitting, but he isn't there, and what you don't know, can't hurt you. I wouldn't do it if he was there, nor would she.
Posted by InstantkarmaIf someone is attracted to somebody, that doesn't mean that they want to be in a relationship with them. Ofc that taken person can feel chemistry with many other people, but that doesn't mean that something will happen. And yes, she is faithful, and she loves him. I know many Gem ladies that are in committed relationship, but flirt with their friends, even sexual. That doesn't have to mean anything. Often it stays on just that.
If she is attracted to you, she should break up with her Cancer guy and then get with you.
And you must man up and stop allowing this bad behaviour from her. If you truly love her, you wouldn't want the woman you love to be a cheater. Either tell her openly you want more than friendship but you can't continue like this because she is taken or walk away without saying a word. Emotional or physical. Cheating is cheating. And no, she is NOT being faithful to her bf. You don't love her. You like the chemistry.
If you ask me, she doesn't love either one of you. Geminis don't find love easily, but when we do, we are faithful and loyal.
Posted by ozzzybut what are you getting out of this? she is taken, you both enjoy the flirting but then what? even if it is harmless flirting you are not available to each other. wouldn't you save it for someone who is available and you have chemistry with? at the end of the day where is this going? you cannot control chemistry and feelings but you can how you act on them based on what is morally right in the situation. also, is the attracion because she is taken? what if she were single would you make her your gf? would you be okay with her flirting/touching another guy?
So how come she has the power?
And I don't think that she would really cheat on him. Obviously, she is attracted to me, but that doesn't mean that she would cross the line. I would cross it already if I wanted. I just wanted to know what other Gem girls think of her behavior. And she said that she only believes her mom, and her bf, also that she knows that he is the one, and that it will last until the end. She likes to joke and tease like me, and yes, maybe that touching and poking is considered like crossing the line, but then, I think that we still didn't crossed it.
Ofc that nobody would want that some guy touches his girl, he would be very mad for sure. He already did once, when our teacher was hitting on her, so he got pissed, and wanted to beat him for that. It was before I switched, and he moved. And this is worse than hitting, but he isn't there, and what you don't know, can't hurt you. I wouldn't do it if he was there, nor would she.
Posted by InstantkarmaIf someone is attracted to somebody, that doesn't mean that they want to be in a relationship with them. Ofc that taken person can feel chemistry with many other people, but that doesn't mean that something will happen. And yes, she is faithful, and she loves him. I know many Gem ladies that are in committed relationship, but flirt with their friends, even sexual. That doesn't have to mean anything. Often it stays on just that.
If she is attracted to you, she should break up with her Cancer guy and then get with you.
And you must man up and stop allowing this bad behaviour from her. If you truly love her, you wouldn't want the woman you love to be a cheater. Either tell her openly you want more than friendship but you can't continue like this because she is taken or walk away without saying a word. Emotional or physical. Cheating is cheating. And no, she is NOT being faithful to her bf. You don't love her. You like the chemistry.
If you ask me, she doesn't love either one of you. Geminis don't find love easily, but when we do, we are faithful and loyal.
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This sounds ridiculous. Well in truth, she is the one in the relationship. Therefore she should be stopping this, not you. But you know she's in a relationship, yet you continue. Although a Gem and a Sag may have more chemistry than a Gem and a Cancer, it still doesn't make it ok. You are flirting and she is flirting while she says "he is the one." That's BS. I would never flirt with my guy friends like that. She obviously needs to let go of this Cancer and just be with you. Be careful with that Cancer guy if he finds out you are flirting with her that way. Cancer men have a very, very badddddd temper.
Posted by HarukkaPosted by ozzzyPosted by LillyPetalBecause I'm burning inside, and she's teasing me, so I must sometimes...
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and connection is good, but I still prefer Gemini. And Sag girl, well, dunno. She is looking at me often at the classes, and we even danced in one club, and she tapped me on the shoulder when she saw me, obviously she is attracted, but dunno,
Gem friend also noticed that Sag girl likes me, so she joked about it, and when I told her that I danced with her at the club, she was smiling, but I had a feeling that she didn't like that. Maybe was little jealous.
I have met double Gemini girl recently, but strange, I didn't felt chemistry, and she was very short, and not my type physically. And too fast for my liking. I guess that she was attracted physically, as every other Gem girl that I met over years.
Gem friend also noticed that Sag girl likes me, so she joked about it, and when I told her that I danced with her at the club, she was smiling, but I had a feeling that she didn't like that. Maybe was little jealous.
I have met double Gemini girl recently, but strange, I didn't felt chemistry, and she was very short, and not my type physically. And too fast for my liking. I guess that she was attracted physically, as every other Gem girl that I met over years.
>but what are you getting out of this? she is taken, you both enjoy the flirting but then what? even if it is harmless flirting you are not available to each other. wouldn't you save it for someone who is available and you have chemistry with? at the end of the day where is this going? you cannot control chemistry and feelings but you can how you act on them based on what is morally right in the situation. also, is the attraction because she is taken? what if she were single would you make her your gf? would you be okay with her flirting/touching another guy?Well, probably nothing will happen. As I already said, I'm aware of all that, and that is why I didn't kiss her...otherwise I would just grab her, and do many things. 🙂 I just wanted the opinion about her behavior. I'm just observing, experimenting, etc. But even so, I find myself little jealous when she mention her bf through some discussion, so I just ignore everything about him. I don't show that, it's just that I know inside. 🙂 And yeah, I don't like when she flirts with others sometimes, but we spend a lot of time together, and the connection is great, I rarely have that kind of connection with some girl, that we are so similar, so that is why I'm attracted. And there is here prolonged eye contact which lasts about 6-10 seconds, she looks my directly in the eyes, and smiling...she's teasing me, so I have that fire burning in me when she do that, and makes me wanna grab her, and kiss her. But still, I can chill, and will continue so 'till the end of the month. And then, we will rarely see each other, so it doesn't matter any way.
Posted by FyzaGememieeYeah, It's all about that special connection. We always have to talk about so many things, and time just flies. And plus, so natural as Gems are, and intelligent, charming, it's just hard to ignore all of that.Posted by Harukka@Hakuraa
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Haha I always love sag/gem couple ..it's like they are friends/lovers by nature
Please spell my name properly. 😆
Yeah, I have to agree. Gem and Sag make the best pair. We can be friends and lovers all at the same time.
It's like we understand one another very well. 😛click to expand
Posted by jane84
This sounds ridiculous. Well in truth, she is the one in the relationship. Therefore she should be stopping this, not you. But you know she's in a relationship, yet you continue. Although a Gem and a Sag may have more chemistry than a Gem and a Cancer, it still doesn't make it ok. You are flirting and she is flirting while she says "he is the one." That's BS. I would never flirt with my guy friends like that.
She obviously needs to let go of this Cancer and just be with you. Be careful with that Cancer guy if he finds out you are flirting with her that way. Cancer men have a very, very badddddd temper.Well, yeah, they have a bad temper. He lives in another city, so there is no way that he can know something about our flirting. He was jealous that teacher was hitting on her at the first year, so he wanted to beat him for that, but still, he cooled down for logical reasons. But that is very insecure behavior...if you are so sure of yourself, you wouldn't wish to beat someone because he is hitting on your girl. Sometimes she acts normal when talking to me, I mean, not flirting, but it all depends on the mood I guess.
I know that our connection is stronger, and we have more similar views at the future, which is not the case with him, but she met him before me, and they were already two years together. Those pairing is quite often, like Nicole Kidman, and Tom Cruise, but also Angelina Jolie with Brad Pitt, which is stronger. Heck, Marilyn Monroe was with many guys, and although she was officially with DiMaggio only a year in a marriage, they kept seeing each other 'till the end. She was searching for him many times...that is special connection. 🙂
One more thing. Couple of times her bf called her while she was at my place. She always said that she is at my place, and first time he said hi to me over her (maybe because he wanted to let me know something this way), and other times it seems like he didn't like it when she was at my place (i guess maybe he was moody sometimes because of that). He calls her every day on the phone, I find that behavior very needy and insecure.
There's being faithful and also being loyal..think on, everyone probably has a little flirt or chuckle with someone they find attractive, but your behaviour seems much more disrespectful it is in my mind being disrespectful to her partner, how do you think you would feel if you loved someone and walked in on them unexpectedly and found this kind of obvious sexual attraction going on behind your back, I take it you are not friendly also with her partner, you just see him as insignificant because of what she is telling you.
She is making you feel like oh, hes 'nobody' so how can you say that its ok, make friends with him too, then you will know who he is really and then see how much you fancy each other when she is near him ? She probably wouldn't belittle him in front of him, think about it ªª
She is making you feel like oh, hes 'nobody' so how can you say that its ok, make friends with him too, then you will know who he is really and then see how much you fancy each other when she is near him ? She probably wouldn't belittle him in front of him, think about it ªª
Well, yeah, probably it's not nice, but as I said, if I wanted to take it further, I could have done it many times.Just wanted some insight. She asked me yesterday out of nowhere, if I would defend her in the case that somebody attack her...lol. And then she first said before I answered that she would defend me as much as she can, and I joked about that. I know one young Gemini that flirts heavily with her friends, and they are even joking about having the baby together, etc, and she is June Gem also, and considered faithful (knowing her dating history). But they all flirt heavily with their good friends to which they are attracted. They love to flirt. So, I'm not hitting on her, I'm looking for other girls, otherwise, I would already done something, but I didn't, 'cause she is taken, so I would not want to complicate things.
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