leo woman's gemini man tale of woe-help!

We didn't want a heavy relationship at first it was just the hottest sex ever then we fell for eachother.On so many levels i love him, he's it but he's also chicken and i know my dramatics scare him.He's the 1st one to love my mind &body. We've been bickering &split up( my idea, then his) for the last few weeks but always end up back together, for great company and sex. I want to know where i stand but don't want to push him-he's very stressed at the moment.How come the more i back off(v.hard 4 me 2 do)the more he wants me? he never struck me as so shallow.grr. Any Gemini male advice would be greatly appriciated- Ella

lol gemini's want wut they cant have. i think. o_O

Yes. I agree...every Gemini male I have known yearns for what he does not have..
I do not trust them myself...because I do not know how they act once they actually have what they thought they yearned so badly for..I always imagined there would be someone else that they would begin yearning for because they could not have her...
And so my perceived cycle goes...

we're kinda split we had a great day, i looked good he's all over me we got pleasently drunk had fun then went up for some spliff- i had my fair share he thought it should be mostly his( how childish we get!)i thought he was joking but he just did the dramatic storming out thing saying "this is just how u are" #There goes my shag, i told him to be real let's just get it on,pleaded even- hey i was horny(damn but he is good)yet still he stormed off.Before he used to come back when he realised what an arse he was being.Now bye bye. God he is such a pain guess we'll just see.whats a girl to do.i don't think he's bad just lost....ella

he's an ist class freak and it saddens me to say not worth the emotional energy. So i'm ignoring his calls, in true talk show/psychobabble style i believe i have closure! ella

Closure. Yes. I would work to get over him. That is what I did with my Gemini male. I made myself get over him. I made myself see the bad...and get over the cute little smiles and the good times...they weren't enough to sustain a relationship!

Good Luck!

There are all kinds of "gifts" you cannot derive from people in the course of our life...for example ones that share a common interest, a common laughter, a common communication, a common friendship, a common exchange, a common attraction. You can actually get these little tidbits from everyone. I don't necessarily believe in the "ONE". And it doesn't seem wrong that you couldn't just put him in the "good times" file. Maybe that is all he is able to offer you. And maybe that is all that you needed from him at the time. There are a zillion fish in the sea.

purlease -hippy bollocks- kick him to the curb