LIAR LIAR F **** LIAR!!!!!!

I been gone for a min. my man was supposed to come in october. Well he postponed the trip. bull crap about his boss telling him he missed too many days when he got sick and its unprofessional.... Ok.. I believed that he needed to focus on work first. Well He got better and still the muthaf was acting shady. Never called me...got toooo busy all of a sudden. He finally came to c me. last weekend. well he slipped. He lied about talking to his dad on the phone. and he lied that his cousin dropped him off. well he slept alot the four days he was here. but we partied hard though. and i checked his phone...i had to. i found a girl that he spoke alot. then i checked his notebook and found a kim and her email. i confronted him and said kim is a family friend and besides she is 40 years old and not his type. typical....

Well i found a myspace page of hers and sure enough there he is and she is 25 and has a very nice body. WTF!!!. He lied and tried to cover it up. I have her phone number and i told him im going to call her and he made me promise not to do it. Well everytime i called for him and his phone was busy...i called hers and hers was busy too. im so infuriated and feel sooo stupid. and he even called her while he was visiting me here. WHY WHEN HE GOT CAUGHT...HE STILL DIDNT FESS UP!!!
so im getting my revenge. Im forwarding all those beautiful letters he emailed me. im humiliated and i feel he was soooooooo fake with me. I mean his affection changed drastically. and he forgot so many things behind including her info.
I loved him soooo much. i feel like a fool. He took advantage of my trust. and he alwayz said he is big on honesty. yeah....right!!!

I cant wait to hear what he is going to tell me tonight. dont know that i saw his pics on her page yet. I wasnt even going to call her up like he wanted me to. and that was our discussion today. for us to let it go and move on. but as soon as i saw em pics...forget it. that liar is going down. What hurts is that he didnt fess up. and he is losing a great woman. im sad. i havent even cried yet. I lost respect for him. but i know that wen i break up with him....he's just going to move on so quickly..its going to be a slap in the face. i feel he lied to me and was dishonest bout the "love" he has for me.

Moro's right drop the loser... He doesn't deserve you anyway. You can do soooo much better hunny.

Yes, of course .. play games with him.

That's the mature thing to do.

Thanks everyone for your kind words. Man it was a very hard weekend for me. but i wasnt even crying...i was extremely infuriated with this whole situation. My girl helped me do some more investigating last friday. come to find out he is on every Myspace, Hi-5, Black-planet....any website you can think of, he's on it. and it reads...Single, and he has multiple sites where he has pics of himself with diffrnt women. So that new chic he is with is just another kitty to for his collection. Never again will i date a gemini male. I guess in time he will get his turn. I just hope he thinks of me when that happens. But hey im all good. Thanks so much all you guys for your support.

yea its some good gemini men out there...one thing you can say about...they sure are GREAT

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Ok GF...Like i say, What goes around comes around. I will never know if i was just a part of his game or if he really did feel love for me at one point. Oh well. Perhaps if we ever cross paths again in life I would talk to him. As for now I hate his guts...I had to burn all the memories we had cuz i felt it was all tainted anyway. With him I was the most honest Ive ever been and the most passionate i had ever been. I truly gave it my all. Thats why it hurt soooo bad. But me and that woman had a talk about it. She knew all about me. ugh!!! What a tramp cuz she knew. But i did tell her that He tried covering her up. I told her what he said about her. Hell yea I did!!! Now she knows that it wont last with him. It does make me feel a lil better. I told her i dont want anything to do with him....he is all hers. To me, He's a weak coward lil boy. Such a shame cuz hell yea he was the ultimate lover! Oh well. I feel alot better now. But i do hope he grows up. most of all i hope he remembers how good i was. He lost a great woman. I wonder though how he feels, you know! Does he have any remorse? does he think about me at all. I will never know. I hate that....lol.

Thanks virgolibra, I guess that how it usually happens. But I hope it does! N Gf, your sooo good at making me feel better. Your words are much appreciated. Youre
right M&M....like Mary J. Blige said..."No,Im not goin cry, no im not goin cry, Im not goin shed no tears, No im not goin cry, not this time, cuz youre not worth my tears." I have so many other things to do. then sit and cry. though i get a lil sentimental cuz he said everything right. He was so good i felt that i had found the one. I just dont know how the hell am I going to smell the real from the fake..lol! seriously....lol.

"Well everytime i called for him and his phone was busy...i called hers and hers was busy too"

after i had broken up with my former bf, his new girlfriend did the same. the thing was, it was just coincidence that sometimes our lines were busy at the same time, we hardly ever talked to each other, only when we had to figure out some practical stuff concerning the seperation. she must have gotten my phone number from his mobile, and she started to call me telling me to stay away from him (as if i ever would have wanted him back, he was a taurus :-P ). to cut a long story short, doing stuff like that will make you look like a nutcase. if you don't trust him, confront him. if the outcome doesn't convince, get out of there.