
Aww thank you! Right back at ya, sister!


Posted by muffle_kerfuffleWell what bothers me the most, is that he doesn't even reply to me anymore lol. I know I went crazy on him, but damn he deserved it. And I told him, ok, you want me to leave you the fuck alone, and he didn't even reply to that. Lol
As he panickly deletes all his conversations... LOLOLOLOLOLOL
Man, I feel for you Charfig5. That's definitely a shitty situation to be in. You love a guy but he turns out to be an non-reciprocating douche (so it seems). 😢

Posted by muffle_kerfuffleI need to be fucking slapped in the face, that's what I need. Where is p Angel at, lool. I mean really, what the fuck is it gonna take for me to let it go.Posted by Charfig5I think we need to find you a new hobby!Posted by happyface1I do care, still. That's sick. A fucking disease is what I have.
I'm sorry. You seem to care for him a lot.
You're faithful to him after all this time. It's time to cut the cord sweetie.
You deserve better for yourself.click to expand

Posted by muffle_kerfuffleThat's not normal behavior. I still wait for him to text me back. I'm a tricking glutton for punishment. It s sick. That can't be love, can it?? And yeah it seems he doesn't even feel bad about it. Or maybe he does and that's why he completely shut down. I feel like I'm always gonna make excuses for him.Posted by Charfig5You are responding like any other person who is in love with someone who doesn't acknowledge your right to emotional acknowledgment. Frankly, when someone goes this far to not even acknowledge your existence, it's rather hurtful. To be frank, it doesn't sound like he gives a shit about you. 😢Posted by muffle_kerfuffleWell what bothers me the most, is that he doesn't even reply to me anymore lol. I know I went crazy on him, but damn he deserved it. And I told him, ok, you want me to leave you the fuck alone, and he didn't even reply to that. Lol
As he panickly deletes all his conversations... LOLOLOLOLOLOL
Man, I feel for you Charfig5. That's definitely a shitty situation to be in. You love a guy but he turns out to be an non-reciprocating douche (so it seems). 😢click to expand

Posted by muffle_kerfuffleHahaha if only he was a blackhead I could squeeze out of my skin haha life would be so much easier
Here:


Posted by Charfig5Give up....are you afraid he won't look back...
To be honest tough, when I'm thinking clearly about that, I do think that he is beneath me. I do. But I feel like I invested so much time and effort and tears in this relationship that I can't give it up.

Posted by happyface1What makes it even worse and hard to give up is that he ALWAYS comes back... ALWAYS. He will get out of his shut down mode and fucking hunt me down again. Call me, text me, show up at my work... He never gives up. I guarantee you. And I will fall for it again. Know why? Cause I'm a stupid piece of ass hahahaPosted by Charfig5Give up....are you afraid he won't look back...
To be honest tough, when I'm thinking clearly about that, I do think that he is beneath me. I do. But I feel like I invested so much time and effort and tears in this relationship that I can't give it up.
And free you from this uneven relationship.
It will hurt...but the hurt gets you through to being open for an energy that appreciates yoursclick to expand

Posted by muffle_kerfufflePosted by Charfig5Nvm, you didn't get what I meant. BUT DON'T WORRY. ALL IS GOOD.Posted by muffle_kerfuffleThat's not normal behavior. I still wait for him to text me back. I'm a tricking glutton for punishment. It s sick. That can't be love, can it?? And yeah it seems he doesn't even feel bad about it. Or maybe he does and that's why he completely shut down. I feel like I'm always gonna make excuses for him.Posted by Charfig5You are responding like any other person who is in love with someone who doesn't acknowledge your right to emotional acknowledgment. Frankly, when someone goes this far to not even acknowledge your existence, it's rather hurtful. To be frank, it doesn't sound like he gives a shit about you. 😢Posted by muffle_kerfuffleWell what bothers me the most, is that he doesn't even reply to me anymore lol. I know I went crazy on him, but damn he deserved it. And I told him, ok, you want me to leave you the fuck alone, and he didn't even reply to that. Lol
As he panickly deletes all his conversations... LOLOLOLOLOLOL
Man, I feel for you Charfig5. That's definitely a shitty situation to be in. You love a guy but he turns out to be an non-reciprocating douche (so it seems). 😢click to expand

Posted by Charfig5You're not stupid...you're in love.Posted by happyface1What makes it even worse and hard to give up is that he ALWAYS comes back... ALWAYS. He will get out of his shut down mode and fucking hunt me down again. Call me, text me, show up at my work... He never gives up. I guarantee you. And I will fall for it again. Know why? Cause I'm a stupid piece of ass hahahaPosted by Charfig5Give up....are you afraid he won't look back...
To be honest tough, when I'm thinking clearly about that, I do think that he is beneath me. I do. But I feel like I invested so much time and effort and tears in this relationship that I can't give it up.
And free you from this uneven relationship.
It will hurt...but the hurt gets you through to being open for an energy that appreciates yoursclick to expand

Posted by happyface1Hopefully, never again. Thank you. 🙂Posted by Charfig5You're not stupid...you're in love.Posted by happyface1What makes it even worse and hard to give up is that he ALWAYS comes back... ALWAYS. He will get out of his shut down mode and fucking hunt me down again. Call me, text me, show up at my work... He never gives up. I guarantee you. And I will fall for it again. Know why? Cause I'm a stupid piece of ass hahahaPosted by Charfig5Give up....are you afraid he won't look back...
To be honest tough, when I'm thinking clearly about that, I do think that he is beneath me. I do. But I feel like I invested so much time and effort and tears in this relationship that I can't give it up.
And free you from this uneven relationship.
It will hurt...but the hurt gets you through to being open for an energy that appreciates yours
I wish you the best doll.click to expand


Posted by heraWow, actually, that was very eye opening. Thank you. You are right, all this time, these last three years, I wasted time, not invested it. You are so right. And I don't think I fully realized that until now. I do love myself, and I don't need him to be happy, so we re good with that. Lol respecting myself though that's prob something I gotta work on lol.
Oh honey, dont say never again.. Hopefully next time in a person that cares for you, and knows how to love you.
You say you invesred time in this relationship... No, you were losing time, you wasted it... And i think you knew that the first time he went away... Wake up! Now! Noone will respect you untill you respect yourself!! Noone will love you untill you love yourself!!!
He knows he can come back to you anytime, and you will wait.. But he doesnt care if he is hurting you or not by doing so. Thats not smth a person in love would do.. It takes time to learn what love is.. You still dont know that. Wake up!! Leave.. If he wants to come back, dont let him.
I know its easy to get addicted to that sweet pain.. But, than i realized its PAIN.. You dont deserve that.. Be happy girl!! Make yourself happy!!!


Posted by aquanibNO!
gemini = untermensche 😄
i wish i would know an american word for a girl who...how would we call it....a girl that the whole neighborhood knows or gets to know at one point or another. Hope y'all understand what i mean 😄


Posted by muffle_kerfuffleYeah and they are represented by all 12 signs of the zodiac. The nerve of the unenlightened! LOFLPosted by aquanibYeah, we call them them whores.
gemini = untermensche 😄
i wish i would know an american word for a girl who...how would we call it....a girl that the whole neighborhood knows or gets to know at one point or another. Hope y'all understand what i mean 😄click to expand

Posted by happyface1
You deserve better for yourself.

Posted by aquanibMy son is a Gemini.... And I'm telling you this, he will NEVER treat a woman like that if I can teach him right. My brother is a Gemini... Granted, he isn't a commitment type, BUT he is a good person. I like Geminis, I do. I just fell on a bad Apple. They're everywhere lol
gemini = untermensche 😄
i wish i would know an american word for a girl who...how would we call it....a girl that the whole neighborhood knows or gets to know at one point or another. Hope y'all understand what i mean 😄

Posted by heraThank you so much
🙂 now, make all these words you wrote reallity..
Leave.. It will hurt, but you already had so much pain..
Oh, and give us an update 🙂 i wish you all the best 🙂 you deserve it

Posted by Charfig5
what the fuck is it gonna take for me to let it go

Posted by gemelioristThank you. I agree with you. I was so upset last night when I said he was beneath me. He s a good person, just not good for me. I think that's what it boils down to
OP, you know that your are the one keeping yourself in this situation, time and time again you've accepted this person back into her life. Whatever his demons are that he feels he needs to find release by seeking others and lying to you about it is something that he has to deal with not you. You choose to either remain or leave.
If he didn't like you he wouldn't come back. But it is clear that there are things that he does not want or can't share with you. Know this, a gem will be by your side no matter what if you are for them even to their detriment. It might take a lot of going back and forth (not disappearing, just space) for a gem to feel comfortable with you. I'm not talking about love, because that happens fast, but that is not enough in the long run.
Gems do things backwards, they fall and then they start noticing things and begin questioning everything and will mirror. So think about your behaviour towards your guy. Why does he not feel secure with you?
One thing I despise is when a person considers themselves to be superior to another and it has nothing to do with astrology. People are complex and there are numerous factors that shape a persons values and their actions. So how one expresses their belief can be in conflict.
It's easy for another to repeat words and tell you to leave him, you are better than him, he is immature etc....live a persons existence in it's entirety and lets see how they would behave....
OP look at yourself, what are you doing, what do you want and feel is right and best for you and follow that and if you are a compassionate person that will guide you.

Posted by Charfig5
Cause I'm a stupid piece of ass

Posted by P-AngelWell, you aren't completely wrong... Even though you're a complete cunt about it, you're still not wrong. I appreciate your bluntness, I do.Posted by Charfig5
Cause I'm a stupid piece of ass
Yes, you are.
You make jokes about it in defense mode, but, it's not funny ... for the fact that you joke about your integrity, rather than actually doing anything to better yourself ... proves that you're stupid.
You can laugh all you want ..... the sad part is that you are clueless that the laugh is on you.
Leave it to a Virgo to martyr themselves rather than have the courage to do what's right for them.click to expand

Posted by muffle_kerfuffleHe called you a W $ HORE hahahaPosted by Charfig5Wow, I completely misinterpreted what he said. This is embarrassing...Posted by aquanibMy son is a Gemini.... And I'm telling you this, he will NEVER treat a woman like that if I can teach him right. My brother is a Gemini... Granted, he isn't a commitment type, BUT he is a good person. I like Geminis, I do. I just fell on a bad Apple. They're everywhere lol
gemini = untermensche 😄
i wish i would know an american word for a girl who...how would we call it....a girl that the whole neighborhood knows or gets to know at one point or another. Hope y'all understand what i mean 😄click to expand

Posted by Charfig5
My son is a Gemini.... And I'm telling you this, he will NEVER treat a woman like that if I can teach him right.

Posted by P-AngelLol I 'll mature into an adult somedayPosted by Charfig5
what the fuck is it gonna take for me to let it go
commiting suicide
or maturing into an adult
take your pick
however, I doubt you actually plan on having integrity, considering you state how fucked up you know you are and then turn around and talk about how much you love himclick to expand


Posted by P-AngelListen, girlfriend. My son, does not have a clue about this. So shut your mouth about things you don't know. I do not include him in my relationships unless it is solid. This relationship was not. Hence, he did not know. He wasn't around my son. My son never saw me upset about it either.Posted by Charfig5
My son is a Gemini.... And I'm telling you this, he will NEVER treat a woman like that if I can teach him right.
What a joke ... you can't even manage to do right for yourself.
Yet, you're this deluded in where you believe you have the proper standards and values in teaching a child to have integrity?
Kids follow their parents lead ... and you are leading him to be an abuser to women, via watching you be a moron, and proud of it.click to expand

Posted by Charfig5You think it's funny being this ridiculous ... it's as if you're not even living your life, and you're standing on the sidelines laughing at the stupid woman allowing herself to be abused.
Lol I 'll mature into an adult someday

Posted by P-AngelI'd rather laugh than cry about it.Posted by Charfig5You think it's funny being this ridiculous ... it's as if you're not even living your life, and you're standing on the sidelines laughing at the stupid woman allowing herself to be abused.
Lol I 'll mature into an adult someday
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Posted by Charfig5
about things you don't know.

Posted by heraThat is true, unfortunately.
@ Charfig5
girl, i am sorry for how this is gonna sound but: you enjoy being in this situation, you enjoy leaving him just so he could come back and prove some theory of yours that he cares...he might be a good person and you want to believe you are good for him...you keep repeating how you are not good enough for him...my god!!
i cant say i know how things work, i am still learning, but one thing i have learned...i will never let another man make me shed one tear for him, if im not happy im gone...i have loved, madly, blindly, and i will again..with a smile 🙂
good luck

Posted by Charfig5
I'd rather laugh than cry about it.

Posted by Charfig5Posted by heraThat is true, unfortunately.
@ Charfig5
girl, i am sorry for how this is gonna sound but: you enjoy being in this situation, you enjoy leaving him just so he could come back and prove some theory of yours that he cares...he might be a good person and you want to believe you are good for him...you keep repeating how you are not good enough for him...my god!!
i cant say i know how things work, i am still learning, but one thing i have learned...i will never let another man make me shed one tear for him, if im not happy im gone...i have loved, madly, blindly, and i will again..with a smile 🙂
good luckclick to expand

Posted by P-AngelRight now, you're the one looking pretty dumb for judging people by a few lines on online posts.Posted by Charfig5
about things you don't know.
... meanwhile, you laugh at how foolish you are as if you don't know about the things in your life.
Considering he's a Gemini ..... he's realized how ridiculous you are a long time ago.
Whether he's met this man or not isn't relevant .... for the fact that that is what you addressed in the response to me proves that you aren't capable of critical thought. Seeing that he's a Gemini .. he picked up on your inability to judge right from wrong already.
A person who lacks common sense can't fake it ...... and you're dumb enough to not realize it.
Again ... I hope there is an adult present to teach him right from wrong.click to expand


Posted by P-AngelI do enjoy being a martyr, it s wonderful. LolPosted by Charfig5Posted by heraThat is true, unfortunately.
@ Charfig5
girl, i am sorry for how this is gonna sound but: you enjoy being in this situation, you enjoy leaving him just so he could come back and prove some theory of yours that he cares...he might be a good person and you want to believe you are good for him...you keep repeating how you are not good enough for him...my god!!
i cant say i know how things work, i am still learning, but one thing i have learned...i will never let another man make me shed one tear for him, if im not happy im gone...i have loved, madly, blindly, and i will again..with a smile 🙂
good luck
I have no clue why you added the word, "unfortunately" .... considering that you are relishing in it, and enjoying being a martyrclick to expand

Posted by P-AngelI'd like to know about you. Do you live completely alone, or do you have a couple cats? Haha
You're a moron.
And everyone knows it except you. There's no doubt in my mind that your son has figured this out already.

Posted by Charfig5
my home life and the values I teach him everyday are completely separate from my personal life. He just thinks I rarely date and I like to keep it that way.


Posted by P-AngelWhat muffle said, darling. HahaPosted by Charfig5
my home life and the values I teach him everyday are completely separate from my personal life. He just thinks I rarely date and I like to keep it that way.
who you date, and when you date is irrelevant. For the fact that you are incapable of grasping the point to focus on what you tell him or not tell him .... proves how stupid you are.
.... because an ignorant person cannot fake being aware.
You are not aware of the reality of your own life .... and you cannot fake it. As we all can see, you can't even manage to grasp this point, even as it's being said to you by nearly every person who has responded in here.click to expand

Posted by P-AngelHave a great day. Tell your cats I said hello
I'm done with you for today .... I can only handle this kind of ignorance in people in small doses.

Posted by muffle_kerfuffleThank you for the info. That is exactly what I figured, but didn't know the actual history. The thing is, she is right about almost everything she said when it comes to my relationship with the gem. But other than that, what comes out of her mouth is complete shit. My son has nothing to do with that. I do like the way she will tell you exactly what she thinks though. It s refreshing.Posted by Charfig5Hold on a sec. Sometimes P-Angle can nail things right on the board, other times, she is so far off it isn't even funny.Posted by P-AngelLol I 'll mature into an adult somedayPosted by Charfig5
what the fuck is it gonna take for me to let it go
commiting suicide
or maturing into an adult
take your pick
however, I doubt you actually plan on having integrity, considering you state how fucked up you know you are and then turn around and talk about how much you love him
Look at her history. Her husband is a Virgo that "turned" gay while he was with her. He left her for another man.
P-Angle also has a son that is a Gemini that she continuously looks down upon and doesn't approve of his existence. Take parenting advice from her with a grain of salt. She's one of the "worst parents of the year" candidates. She projects all her insecurities on people who are having relationship troubles.click to expand

Posted by Charfig5Op never mind that one, she sold her soul a long time ago and now projects unto others. She knows what is done cannot be undone, it's past. All that time wasted.Posted by P-AngelI'd like to know about you. Do you live completely alone, or do you have a couple cats? Haha
You're a moron.
And everyone knows it except you. There's no doubt in my mind that your son has figured this out already.click to expand

Posted by gemelioristI can see that! Lol it s too bad, sometimes she really does speak truthPosted by Charfig5Op never mind that one, she sold her soul a long time ago and now projects unto others. She knows what is done cannot be undone, it's past. All that time wasted.Posted by P-AngelI'd like to know about you. Do you live completely alone, or do you have a couple cats? Haha
You're a moron.
And everyone knows it except you. There's no doubt in my mind that your son has figured this out already.
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Posted by muffle_kerfuffle....a grain of salt....Posted by Charfig5Hold on a sec. Sometimes P-Angle can nail things right on the board, other times, she is so far off it isn't even funny.Posted by P-AngelLol I 'll mature into an adult somedayPosted by Charfig5
what the fuck is it gonna take for me to let it go
commiting suicide
or maturing into an adult
take your pick
however, I doubt you actually plan on having integrity, considering you state how fucked up you know you are and then turn around and talk about how much you love him
Look at her history. Her husband is a Virgo that "turned" gay while he was with her. He left her for another man.
P-Angle also has a son that is a Gemini that she continuously looks down upon and doesn't approve of his existence. Take parenting advice from her with a grain of salt. She's one of the "worst parents of the year" candidates. She projects all her insecurities on people who are having relationship troubles.click to expand

Posted by muffle_kerfuffleVirgo vendetta? Like sensitive blues lolPosted by Charfig5Hold on a sec. Sometimes P-Angle can nail things right on the board, other times, she is so far off it isn't even funny.Posted by P-AngelLol I 'll mature into an adult somedayPosted by Charfig5
what the fuck is it gonna take for me to let it go
commiting suicide
or maturing into an adult
take your pick
however, I doubt you actually plan on having integrity, considering you state how fucked up you know you are and then turn around and talk about how much you love him
Look at her history. Her husband is a Virgo that "turned" gay while he was with her. He left her for another man.
P-Angle also has a son that is a Gemini that she continuously looks down upon and doesn't approve of his existence. Take parenting advice from her with a grain of salt. She's one of the "worst parents of the year" candidates. She projects all her insecurities on people who are having relationship troubles.click to expand

Posted by muffle_kerfuffleWell I was just wondering, is she that way in her day to day life? Because if she is, I can't see how anyone could hang besides cats. LolPosted by Charfig5Just don't have sex with her, she'd probably turn you gay. 😛Posted by muffle_kerfuffleThank you for the info. That is exactly what I figured, but didn't know the actual history. The thing is, she is right about almost everything she said when it comes to my relationship with the gem. But other than that, what comes out of her mouth is complete shit. My son has nothing to do with that. I do like the way she will tell you exactly what she thinks though. It s refreshing.Posted by Charfig5Hold on a sec. Sometimes P-Angle can nail things right on the board, other times, she is so far off it isn't even funny.Posted by P-AngelLol I 'll mature into an adult somedayPosted by Charfig5
what the fuck is it gonna take for me to let it go
commiting suicide
or maturing into an adult
take your pick
however, I doubt you actually plan on having integrity, considering you state how fucked up you know you are and then turn around and talk about how much you love him
Look at her history. Her husband is a Virgo that "turned" gay while he was with her. He left her for another man.
P-Angle also has a son that is a Gemini that she continuously looks down upon and doesn't approve of his existence. Take parenting advice from her with a grain of salt. She's one of the "worst parents of the year" candidates. She projects all her insecurities on people who are having relationship troubles.
But you're a woman so it might improve things.
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