My gemini and I (Page 4)

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what the fuck is it gonna take for me to let it go

commiting suicide



or maturing into an adult


take your pick



however, I doubt you actually plan on having integrity, considering you state how fucked up you know you are and then turn around and talk about how much you love him

Lol I 'll mature into an adult someday

Hold on a sec. Sometimes P-Angle can nail things right on the board, other times, she is so far off it isn't even funny.

Look at her history. Her husband is a Virgo that "turned" gay while he was with her. He left her for another man.

P-Angle also has a son that is a Gemini that she continuously looks down upon and doesn't approve of his existence. Take parenting advice from her with a grain of salt. She's one of the "worst parents of the year" candidates. She projects all her insecurities on people who are having relationship troubles.

Thank you for the info. That is exactly what I figured, but didn't know the actual history. The thing is, she is right about almost everything she said when it comes to my relationship with the gem. But other than that, what comes out of her mouth is complete shit. My son has nothing to do with that. I do like the way she will tell you exactly what she thinks though. It s refreshing.

Just don't have sex with her, she'd probably turn you gay. 😛

But you're a woman so it might improve things.

Well I was just wondering, is she that way in her day to day life? Because if she is, I can't see how anyone could hang besides cats. Lol

I bet she is just emotioanlly sick. Her outlet is online forums.

Regardless of how cruel she is, she is still human.

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Yeah, I'm assuming she s only letting it out on here. Which is cool, whatever. Lol I know she scared that poor little Leo girl that had problems with her gem. The girl deleted and left. Oh well.

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It's like ..... we have people in their 30's still on mommy's couch?

This is America. Land of the entitled. Some people live and die on their parents dime.

I have a friend who I love dearly but we will never achieve that next level of understanding because she's content to suckle the parental teat.

I'm not even sure of her true age. Since I've known her she celebrates her 29th birthday (refuses to 'turn' 30) for the last 8 years...

Side note. What I said on here is not even half of the shit that he put me through.

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It's like ..... we have people in their 30's still on mommy's couch?

This is America. Land of the entitled. Some people live and die on their parents dime.

I have a friend who I love dearly but we will never achieve that next level of understanding because she's content to suckle the parental teat.

I'm not even sure of her true age. Since I've known her she celebrates her 29th birthday (refuses to 'turn' 30) for the last 8 years...

Given the economy, living at home while your single is still valid. Our previous generation really fucked us over.

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I couldn't do it. Left home at 18, never been back. Even left the homeland. Lol

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It's like ..... we have people in their 30's still on mommy's couch?

This is America. Land of the entitled. Some people live and die on their parents dime.

I have a friend who I love dearly but we will never achieve that next level of understanding because she's content to suckle the parental teat.

I'm not even sure of her true age. Since I've known her she celebrates her 29th birthday (refuses to 'turn' 30) for the last 8 years...

Given the economy, living at home while your single is still valid. Our previous generation really fucked us over.

I couldn't do it. Left home at 18, never been back. Even left the homeland. Lol

Oh, I agree. My parents were severely abusive. I left when I was 20? Never been back!

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Oh that sucks. I'm sorry. I didn't have that problem. My brother was a bit challenging to deal with, my mom was good though. She tried her best

@OP
Regardless of how P-Angel says thing, what she said was true.. Girl, something is really wrong with your way of thinking.. I dont know why ppl ask for help if they know they cant handle negative comments...
About leaving home, i had so many problems with my father, never had a normal childhood.. But family is family, blood is blood.. If i dont forgive him, i am no better than him, if i turn my back on him, i am worse than him.. Running away from problems will never solve them...
Its a shame you said these things about P-Angel, it just proved you are no better than her...
I have a feeling that she is right, you are geting what you deserve.. Since you enjoy it so much..
smh

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I do enjoy being a martyr, it s wonderful. Lol

Wow.

Oh well, nothing to see here. Keep moaning on that cross. Imma take this ladder here and try and get other people to step down from theirs. People who actually have integrity and self-awareness. Those that stand on crosses without being aware, because you are aware and relishing in making a spectacle of yourself.

Btw, your son is standing at the foot of that cross.

"Mommy please step down from the cross, I need you home. I need a strong parent figure."
"But son, I never brought the Gemini around. You don't know my dating history, it doesn't affect you"
"Yes mommy, but you see...kids are emotional sponges and it's clear you have close to zero control emotionally or standards."
"I'll raise you right, son"
"How can you do that being on a cross and pining over a swinging dick who doesn't care?"
"Language, son. See, I'll teach you to treat women right."
"I want to know how he does it. This total submission of will and mental faculties. I find that hot"

^Not that you give a shit, mind you. But you're in a good company..my mother is on a simillar cross and has been sitting on it through one affair to the next. And she also does not get it where she went wrong with me or why I walk away laughing when she pours her obsession on the line. The weakness of it...elludes her.

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I do enjoy being a martyr, it s wonderful. Lol

Wow.

Oh well, nothing to see here. Keep moaning on that cross. Imma take this ladder here and try and get other people to step down from theirs. People who actually have integrity and self-awareness. Those that stand on crosses without being aware, because you are aware and relishing in making a spectacle of yourself.

Btw, your son is standing at the foot of that cross.

"Mommy please step down from the cross, I need you home. I need a strong parent figure."
"But son, I never brought the Gemini around. You don't know my dating history, it doesn't affect you"
"Yes mommy, but you see...kids are emotional sponges and it's clear you have close to zero control emotionally or standards."
"I'll raise you right, son"
"How can you do that being on a cross and pining over a swinging dick who doesn't care?"
"Language, son. See, I'll teach you to treat women right."
"I want to know how he does it. This total submission of will and mental faculties. I find that hot"

^Not that you give a shit, mind you. But you're in a good company..my mother is on a simillar cross and has been sitting on it through one affair to the next. And she also does not get it where she went wrong with me or why I walk away laughing when she pours her obsession on the line. The weakness of it...elludes her.

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Dude, that's called sarcasm. Wow.

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I do enjoy being a martyr, it s wonderful. Lol

Wow.

Oh well, nothing to see here. Keep moaning on that cross. Imma take this ladder here and try and get other people to step down from theirs. People who actually have integrity and self-awareness. Those that stand on crosses without being aware, because you are aware and relishing in making a spectacle of yourself.

Btw, your son is standing at the foot of that cross.

"Mommy please step down from the cross, I need you home. I need a strong parent figure."
"But son, I never brought the Gemini around. You don't know my dating history, it doesn't affect you"
"Yes mommy, but you see...kids are emotional sponges and it's clear you have close to zero control emotionally or standards."
"I'll raise you right, son"
"How can you do that being on a cross and pining over a swinging dick who doesn't care?"
"Language, son. See, I'll teach you to treat women right."
"I want to know how he does it. This total submission of will and mental faculties. I find that hot"

^Not that you give a shit, mind you. But you're in a good company..my mother is on a simillar cross and has been sitting on it through one affair to the next. And she also does not get it where she went wrong with me or why I walk away laughing when she pours her obsession on the line. The weakness of it...elludes her.

Dude, that's called sarcasm. Wow.

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Dude, what I did is called sarcasm. What you did was playing reality off as sarcasm. Are you even aware that your whole demeanor is martyrlike?

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@OP
Regardless of how P-Angel says thing, what she said was true.. Girl, something is really wrong with your way of thinking.. I dont know why ppl ask for help if they know they cant handle negative comments...
About leaving home, i had so many problems with my father, never had a normal childhood.. But family is family, blood is blood.. If i dont forgive him, i am no better than him, if i turn my back on him, i am worse than him.. Running away from problems will never solve them...
Its a shame you said these things about P-Angel, it just proved you are no better than her...
I have a feeling that she is right, you are geting what you deserve.. Since you enjoy it so much..
smh

Listen. I can handle the negative comments, see all the crap I have heard. I'm not crying about it.
People need to relax, being sarcastic is not that bad.
I was being sarcastic about enjoy it so much but it obviously passed over both or your heads.
If you say so, I get what I deserve, you all know,me so well.

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I do enjoy being a martyr, it s wonderful. Lol

Wow.

Oh well, nothing to see here. Keep moaning on that cross. Imma take this ladder here and try and get other people to step down from theirs. People who actually have integrity and self-awareness. Those that stand on crosses without being aware, because you are aware and relishing in making a spectacle of yourself.

Btw, your son is standing at the foot of that cross.

"Mommy please step down from the cross, I need you home. I need a strong parent figure."
"But son, I never brought the Gemini around. You don't know my dating history, it doesn't affect you"
"Yes mommy, but you see...kids are emotional sponges and it's clear you have close to zero control emotionally or standards."
"I'll raise you right, son"
"How can you do that being on a cross and pining over a swinging dick who doesn't care?"
"Language, son. See, I'll teach you to treat women right."
"I want to know how he does it. This total submission of will and mental faculties. I find that hot"

^Not that you give a shit, mind you. But you're in a good company..my mother is on a simillar cross and has been sitting on it through one affair to the next. And she also does not get it where she went wrong with me or why I walk away laughing when she pours her obsession on the line. The weakness of it...elludes her.

Dude, that's called sarcasm. Wow.

Dude, what I did is called sarcasm. What you did was playing reality off as sarcasm. Are you even aware that your whole demeanor is martyrlike?

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Haha are you aware that you feel like you know me when you actually don't? What do you know, except what I put on posts? Lord almighty. People are judgemental around here...smh

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I do enjoy being a martyr, it s wonderful. Lol

Wow.

Oh well, nothing to see here. Keep moaning on that cross. Imma take this ladder here and try and get other people to step down from theirs. People who actually have integrity and self-awareness. Those that stand on crosses without being aware, because you are aware and relishing in making a spectacle of yourself.

Btw, your son is standing at the foot of that cross.

"Mommy please step down from the cross, I need you home. I need a strong parent figure."
"But son, I never brought the Gemini around. You don't know my dating history, it doesn't affect you"
"Yes mommy, but you see...kids are emotional sponges and it's clear you have close to zero control emotionally or standards."
"I'll raise you right, son"
"How can you do that being on a cross and pining over a swinging dick who doesn't care?"
"Language, son. See, I'll teach you to treat women right."
"I want to know how he does it. This total submission of will and mental faculties. I find that hot"

^Not that you give a shit, mind you. But you're in a good company..my mother is on a simillar cross and has been sitting on it through one affair to the next. And she also does not get it where she went wrong with me or why I walk away laughing when she pours her obsession on the line. The weakness of it...elludes her.

Dude, that's called sarcasm. Wow.

Dude, what I did is called sarcasm. What you did was playing reality off as sarcasm. Are you even aware that your whole demeanor is martyrlike?

Haha are you aware that you feel like you know me when you actually don't? What do you know, except what I put on posts? Lord almighty. People are judgemental around here...smh

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That is all there is to know since we're online duh.

But I guess you can haha your way through being miserable and calling it bliss. Meanwhile you have a son you should think about.

Over and out.

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I do enjoy being a martyr, it s wonderful. Lol

Wow.

Oh well, nothing to see here. Keep moaning on that cross. Imma take this ladder here and try and get other people to step down from theirs. People who actually have integrity and self-awareness. Those that stand on crosses without being aware, because you are aware and relishing in making a spectacle of yourself.

Btw, your son is standing at the foot of that cross.

"Mommy please step down from the cross, I need you home. I need a strong parent figure."
"But son, I never brought the Gemini around. You don't know my dating history, it doesn't affect you"
"Yes mommy, but you see...kids are emotional sponges and it's clear you have close to zero control emotionally or standards."
"I'll raise you right, son"
"How can you do that being on a cross and pining over a swinging dick who doesn't care?"
"Language, son. See, I'll teach you to treat women right."
"I want to know how he does it. This total submission of will and mental faculties. I find that hot"

^Not that you give a shit, mind you. But you're in a good company..my mother is on a simillar cross and has been sitting on it through one affair to the next. And she also does not get it where she went wrong with me or why I walk away laughing when she pours her obsession on the line. The weakness of it...elludes her.

Dude, that's called sarcasm. Wow.

Dude, what I did is called sarcasm. What you did was playing reality off as sarcasm. Are you even aware that your whole demeanor is martyrlike?

Haha are you aware that you feel like you know me when you actually don't? What do you know, except what I put on posts? Lord almighty. People are judgemental around here...smh

That is all there is to know since we're online duh.

But I guess you can haha your way through being miserable and calling it bliss. Meanwhile you have a son you should think about.

Over and out.

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Don't be so worried about this. We got it. Maybe instead of judging people you should try to give constructive criticism. 🙂

wow ... what else more could there be to say .... just ....



wow

All sarcasm, bullshit, and teasing aside, I really do appreciate each and everyone's input on here. I do. Thank you, all!🙂

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gemini = untermensche 😄

i wish i would know an american word for a girl who...how would we call it....a girl that the whole neighborhood knows or gets to know at one point or another. Hope y'all understand what i mean 😄

NO!

you stop right there. you can put that term with the swastika. you vile racist piece of crap. you.

How dare you describe a group of people born under a particular sign with that disgusting word. you know nothing about Gems if you can make a statement such as that. This coming from a supposedly enlightened humanitarian sign. LOL.

you like others are so quick to focus only on one aspect of the guys character and disregard all the other things the this guy has stepped up to do. you know nothing other than what the OP stated with little understanding of the context of his life and their life together. others were also quick to judge that the OPs lover was financially irresponsible and yet that was not the case, if anything he's done what some would not do for their loved ones.

It doesn't matter whether or not you have had any experience with gems, using that term is unacceptable and just shows the type of person you clearly are. I bet you wouldn't say that ish to me in person.

lol.....

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....exactly

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what the fuck is it gonna take for me to let it go

commiting suicide



or maturing into an adult


take your pick



however, I doubt you actually plan on having integrity, considering you state how fucked up you know you are and then turn around and talk about how much you love him

Lol I 'll mature into an adult someday

Hold on a sec. Sometimes P-Angle can nail things right on the board, other times, she is so far off it isn't even funny.

Look at her history. Her husband is a Virgo that "turned" gay while he was with her. He left her for another man.

P-Angle also has a son that is a Gemini that she continuously looks down upon and doesn't approve of his existence. Take parenting advice from her with a grain of salt. She's one of the "worst parents of the year" candidates. She projects all her insecurities on people who are having relationship troubles.

WOW! That explains a fkn lot.. Guess I wasn't far off the mark all along. No wonder she dislikes me.. My assumptions were always correct unlike hers. Oh and I'm a Gemini.. LOL

And she had the nerve to start a thread about another user and dissect her parenting skills.. That's rich!

Yuppers; she is still the same old cow she was back in 2008.

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Let's not make it a bash the Angel thread. Lol as much as I disagree with some of what she said...
@Hera was right when she said that bashing her makes us as bad as her. 🙂

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I'm a gemini woman..and I think gemini men are the WORST !!!!!!

Lol oh I'm sure they're not all that bad... Can't generalize people by their signs 😉

Posted by Charfig5
I'm new to DXP, and by God, poor gemini men are getting bashed left and right lol Are they really that bad? It sure seems so, according to some of you. My gemini isn't so good either, but I'm blaming it on myself, cause I let him get away with it. See, I have met him almost 3 years ago. He had just moved back home where I live. Was forced to live with his parents because he had just won a custody battle with his ex, and needed help to take care of the little one. We met, and it was like an instant fall for me. I fell very quickly and very deeply, and although at the moment I didn't think it would last, against all odds, it did. My feelings at least. To say that he isn't in the right place mentally to give me his all is an understatement. I understand that. But it has been on and off for almost 3 years now. We break up (well, I leave him), and he always, always comes back begging to see me. The main reason why I always leave him is because he just can't talk to me every day or every other day, and it makes me feel like he doesn't care. Once I tried to just leave him alone and it took him 2 weeks to get back and talk to me. But when we re together, he can't shut up. We talk about anything and everything, have deep conversations about life, tell each other things we won't say to anyone else. He s talked about our future, has said that he wanted to move in together, get married, the whole nine yards. I told him I wouldn't do any of these things unless I'm sure of his feelings towards me. I told him I wanted something real. He said, it is real. He s never told me he loved me, but once I told him, that the only reason I was still around is because I love him, and that he doesn't love me, but he said, "I do, but you don't know that." He keeps on telling me that I'm too good for him and that I deserve better. I don't care that he thinks I deserve better, I guess he doesn't understand how I see him. I haven't heard from him in a few days and I don't feel like running after him. I guess I'll just wait it out. I wanted to know what fellow gemini men thought of this behavior, and maybe some of you will tell me what I should do. Maybe slap me in the face?€

I would advise not listening to a young Capricorn who's undeveloped. If you want to know the truth look to Mercury, not your element. That's not a riddle, just a different language. Good luck.

That's false.


You're in an ldr.



basically .... you're just pen and video pals

@GeminiMind what do you mean, exactly? Lol

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I'm new to DXP, and by God, poor gemini men are getting bashed left and right lol Are they really that bad? It sure seems so, according to some of you. My gemini isn't so good either, but I'm blaming it on myself, cause I let him get away with it. See, I have met him almost 3 years ago. He had just moved back home where I live. Was forced to live with his parents because he had just won a custody battle with his ex, and needed help to take care of the little one. We met, and it was like an instant fall for me. I fell very quickly and very deeply, and although at the moment I didn't think it would last, against all odds, it did. My feelings at least. To say that he isn't in the right place mentally to give me his all is an understatement. I understand that. But it has been on and off for almost 3 years now. We break up (well, I leave him), and he always, always comes back begging to see me. The main reason why I always leave him is because he just can't talk to me every day or every other day, and it makes me feel like he doesn't care. Once I tried to just leave him alone and it took him 2 weeks to get back and talk to me. But when we re together, he can't shut up. We talk about anything and everything, have deep conversations about life, tell each other things we won't say to anyone else. He s talked about our future, has said that he wanted to move in together, get married, the whole nine yards. I told him I wouldn't do any of these things unless I'm sure of his feelings towards me. I told him I wanted something real. He said, it is real. He s never told me he loved me, but once I told him, that the only reason I was still around is because I love him, and that he doesn't love me, but he said, "I do, but you don't know that." He keeps on telling me that I'm too good for him and that I deserve better. I don't care that he thinks I deserve better, I guess he doesn't understand how I see him. I haven't heard from him in a few days and I don't feel like running after him. I guess I'll just wait it out. I wanted to know what fellow gemini men thought of this behavior, and maybe some of you will tell me what I should do. Maybe slap me in the face?€

The main reason you leave is because he can't talk to you everyday— Are you serious? I can't talk to ANYONE everyday, I will get bored. I'm not a Gemini, I'm a Virgo. You need to get busy with your own life and not be so concerned with his. If you had a full life, talking to him everyday wouldn't ever be an issue.

He "wanted" to move in & get married? What's stopping him? Stop focusing on what he's saying & pay attention to what he's DOING. If he wanted to move in with you or marry you, he would've done it already. Stop chasing him & focus on yourself. Focus on what you need to do to better yourself, & LOVE yourself & stop putting his needs ahead of your own.

@RealTalk you are absolutely right.

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@RealTalk you are absolutely right.

Gotta look out for you first Hun ‰. Later for him. It will make him soooooo much more attracted to you. I guarantee it. Best of luck.

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@RealTalk you are absolutely right.

Gotta look out for you first Hun ‰. Later for him. It will make him soooooo much more attracted to you. I guarantee it. Best of luck.

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I don't even want him around anymore, he's played with my feelings so much, I'm exhausted. He keeps on trying to come back and I keep on falling for the same bullshit like a fool and nothing ever changes. I feel like I've been a nice booty call that lasted for 3 years...haha

You agree that she is right .... yet, I have the feeling you are still his doormat.

So, if you aren't practicing what you know is right .. then the problem person is likely you.

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@RealTalk you are absolutely right.

Gotta look out for you first Hun ‰. Later for him. It will make him soooooo much more attracted to you. I guarantee it. Best of luck.

I don't even want him around anymore, he's played with my feelings so much, I'm exhausted. He keeps on trying to come back and I keep on falling for the same bullshit like a fool and nothing ever changes. I feel like I've been a nice booty call that lasted for 3 years...haha

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Putting yourself first will give you all the strength you need to go forward.

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and I keep on falling for the same bullshit

To fall for bullshit, means that you are being tricked or fooled .. and so you therefore "fall" for the deception.

that is not the case here. You aren't falling.

You are deliberately putting yourself in this situation ... and then pretending to be the victim.

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and I keep on falling for the same bullshit

To fall for bullshit, means that you are being tricked or fooled .. and so you therefore "fall" for the deception.

that is not the case here. You aren't falling.

You are deliberately putting yourself in this situation ... and then pretending to be the victim.

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There is some truth in what you're saying. I m unfortunately in love with him, which is completely idiotic, I agree.

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and I keep on falling for the same bullshit

To fall for bullshit, means that you are being tricked or fooled .. and so you therefore "fall" for the deception.

that is not the case here. You aren't falling.

You are deliberately putting yourself in this situation ... and then pretending to be the victim.

There is some truth in what you're saying. I m unfortunately in love with him, which is completely idiotic, I agree.

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It's never idiotic to love someone, but what's idiotic is ALLOWING the person you love to fuck you over. You can love someone & not want shit to do with them. I still love my ex Gemini, but fuck him Ϡ

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and I keep on falling for the same bullshit

To fall for bullshit, means that you are being tricked or fooled .. and so you therefore "fall" for the deception.

that is not the case here. You aren't falling.

You are deliberately putting yourself in this situation ... and then pretending to be the victim.

There is some truth in what you're saying. I m unfortunately in love with him, which is completely idiotic, I agree.

It's never idiotic to love someone, but what's idiotic is ALLOWING the person you love to fuck you over. You can love someone & not want shit to do with them. I still love my ex Gemini, but fuck him Ϡ

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that is true... it seems like the Virgo female Gemini male combo isn't working too well hahaha

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and I keep on falling for the same bullshit

To fall for bullshit, means that you are being tricked or fooled .. and so you therefore "fall" for the deception.

that is not the case here. You aren't falling.

You are deliberately putting yourself in this situation ... and then pretending to be the victim.

There is some truth in what you're saying. I m unfortunately in love with him, which is completely idiotic, I agree.

It's never idiotic to love someone, but what's idiotic is ALLOWING the person you love to fuck you over. You can love someone & not want shit to do with them. I still love my ex Gemini, but fuck him Ϡ

that is true... it seems like the Virgo female Gemini male combo isn't working too well hahaha

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That all depends. I was with my Gemini for 6 years. We lived together also, but we both hurt each other in the end. Still love him but I had to move forward. We may make it in the future, who knows, but I've moved on with my life.

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and I keep on falling for the same bullshit

To fall for bullshit, means that you are being tricked or fooled .. and so you therefore "fall" for the deception.

that is not the case here. You aren't falling.

You are deliberately putting yourself in this situation ... and then pretending to be the victim.

There is some truth in what you're saying. I m unfortunately in love with him, which is completely idiotic, I agree.

It's never idiotic to love someone, but what's idiotic is ALLOWING the person you love to fuck you over. You can love someone & not want shit to do with them. I still love my ex Gemini, but fuck him Ϡ

that is true... it seems like the Virgo female Gemini male combo isn't working too well hahaha

That all depends. I was with my Gemini for 6 years. We lived together also, but we both hurt each other in the end. Still love him but I had to move forward. We may make it in the future, who knows, but I've moved on with my life.

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Well I do wish you the best, if anything, gems are fun and can hold interesting conversations.🙂

What do u want him to do? Why do u feel his love isnt enough for u? Sometimes we must learn that how ppl love is the way they love. Just because it doesnt fir our image of what love should be doesnt mean they dont love u. Maybe this is who he is and how he loves etc. Its you that may need to think about what u want where your happy. Once u figure this out either stay and accept him for who he is or leave amd find someone who more compatible. Hes an air sign and some of them go hot and cold and can be difficult. If pol cant understand one another this goes for him to then they should be apart. Love is abour compromise and growth..learning and loving eachother to get along. Etx he must understand that and vice versa

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Posted by Charfig5
I don't feel like I wasted three years... If anything, I'm in the process of learning something, and really, we've had some good times, and I'm grateful for everything he s ever done for me. I try not to see the situation with anger, because otherwise it will drive me crazy, and I ain't got no time for that. Lol I have read your thread about your gemini, and he seemed like a real piece of shit, but I refuse to put them all in the same category. I don't know if I am being delusional, but usually my intuitions are right, and my intuition about him was to not give up. Maybe I'm being delusional. Thank you for your input though, girl.

you can get a harvard education in 3 years, it shouldnt take three years to learn that when a guys takes 2 weeks to hit your up he doesnt give a shit. you could be dead for all he knows, and what for a few good times. you shouldn't be angry or allow this man to enter your head space at all. he's not worth your time. if you really want to send a clear message block him and don't entertain the crumbs he throws. too many other men out there who arent douchbags.

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Wow.
*clap clap*

Posted by KittenLaRouge
it doesnt matter what he says, its what he does. dump him immediately and stop being a doormat. smh

Yes, says the lady all tied up....talk about irony...

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Posted by Charfig5

and I keep on falling for the same bullshit

To fall for bullshit, means that you are being tricked or fooled .. and so you therefore "fall" for the deception.

that is not the case here. You aren't falling.

You are deliberately putting yourself in this situation ... and then pretending to be the victim.

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You speak from experience?

Posted by jadedpearl
I'm a gemini woman..and I think gemini men are the WORST !!!!!!

ditto...

Posted by lovely77
What do u want him to do? Why do u feel his love isnt enough for u? Sometimes we must learn that how ppl love is the way they love. Just because it doesnt fir our image of what love should be doesnt mean they dont love u. Maybe this is who he is and how he loves etc. Its you that may need to think about what u want where your happy. Once u figure this out either stay and accept him for who he is or leave amd find someone who more compatible. Hes an air sign and some of them go hot and cold and can be difficult. If pol cant understand one another this goes for him to then they should be apart. Love is abour compromise and growth..learning and loving eachother to get along. Etx he must understand that and vice versa

I like that. ƒ

so, you haven't gotten enabled enough to continue in your ignorance ..... so you come back again, in hopes that people will feel sorry for you?

You're not doing shit to help yourself .... that makes you a parasite to society.

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so, you haven't gotten enabled enough to continue in your ignorance ..... so you come back again, in hopes that people will feel sorry for you?

You're not doing shit to help yourself .... that makes you a parasite to society.

Nope and nope. Why would people feel sorry for me? I'm perfectly fine. ƒ You, on the other hand, continue to spit out unnecessary venom on the subject, and honestly, I wouldn't take advice from you if you were the last person left on earth, darlin. Move along!‰ oh, and if you don't like what you see, please do us both a favor and block me. ƒ

sounds like the typical pathetic behavior you've been presenting all along.

You don't like what I say, but, you just sit there on your ass and do nothing to help yourself ..... while attempting to make me feel guilty for not blocking you.


This is exactly what makes you a douchebag in his eyes and why he is going to continue to treat like shit ... because you don't do anything to help yourself. You sit there and expect him to passify you, so you won't feel so bad.

You're just a waste of space, and useless to society.

Oh, and btw, since your puny mind is obviously incapable of registering ... i'm not giving you advice, I'm giving you the shit you deserve. But, you're not smart enough to comprehend that.


And you do deserve shit, tons of it ... because you just sit like parasite, and expect the world to make your life for you.


there isn't anything that you've written anywhere that even remotely suggests that you have the integrity to do what is best for you ... instead, you prepresent yourself as a parasite - just eating away at him, and anyone else around you because you don't actually have the courage to help yourself.

Posted by Charfig5

I wouldn't take advice from you

You don't take advice from anyone.

It's obvious that you only post this shit to get pity ... because that's how a martyr operates.

You even came back with an update, and nowhere in there did you even remotely suggest that you were doing something productive to improve your situation ... and that's because being a better person and wanting help was never your intent.

Your only intent is to cry that woe is you ... because that kind of low is all you got

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Posted by Charfig5

I wouldn't take advice from you

You don't take advice from anyone.

It's obvious that you only post this shit to get pity ... because that's how a martyr operates.

You even came back with an update, and nowhere in there did you even remotely suggest that you were doing something productive to improve your situation ... and that's because being a better person and wanting help was never your intent.

Your only intent is to cry that woe is you ... because that kind of low is all you got

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Lmfao, you are so entertaining. ðŸ'œ‚ thank you for this laugh of the day!