Revenge or obsession?

I have this gemini women that keeps looking at me like she has a problem. She also keeps coming around me. She likes a guy that I was dating. I no longer speak to him. It's been almost two months. If they're communicating, I'm pretty sure he told her that him and I don't communicate anymore. So, why is she acting this way towards me. Also, after she taunts me, she walks around with her friends acting like I'm after her. She plays the victim. What's the reason for all this?

Woman*

Posted by Noreallynow
I have this gemini women that keeps looking at me like she has a problem. She also keeps coming around me. She likes a guy that I was dating. I no longer speak to him. It's been almost two months. If they're communicating, I'm pretty sure he told her that him and I don't communicate anymore. So, why is she acting this way towards me. Also, after she taunts me, she walks around with her friends acting like I'm after her. She plays the victim. What's the reason for all this?

Maybe she fancies the thought that she is taking something you had, even though she didn't.

Most Geminis are lovely (imo)-- but I met one yesterday that reminded me that this doesn't apply to all of them.

This one is an aggressive control freak.

bleh.

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by Noreallynow
I have this gemini women that keeps looking at me like she has a problem. She also keeps coming around me. She likes a guy that I was dating. I no longer speak to him. It's been almost two months. If they're communicating, I'm pretty sure he told her that him and I don't communicate anymore. So, why is she acting this way towards me. Also, after she taunts me, she walks around with her friends acting like I'm after her. She plays the victim. What's the reason for all this?

Maybe she fancies the thought that she is taking something you had, even though she didn't.

Most Geminis are lovely (imo)-- but I met one yesterday that reminded me that this doesn't apply to all of them.

This one is an aggressive control freak.

bleh.

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I agree that all geminis aren't like this. I have a gemini parent. I also have other geminis that I'm cool with.

One day, she was by herself I walked near her. When I did that, she didn't even come around me, later that day.

Posted by peritwinkle

Lol. It was nothing like this.

Posted by TokerX

Posted by Montgomery

Maybe she fancies the thought that she is taking something you had, even though she didn't.

Most Geminis are lovely (imo)-- but I met one yesterday that reminded me that this doesn't apply to all of them.

This one is an aggressive control freak.

bleh.

Most (if not all) Gems are lovely AND aggressive AND control freaks. It just depends on their mood/maturity/... I don't know what. :p

And define "looking at me like she has a problem" 😕

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A stare like she wants to fight me. She always does it from a distance.

Posted by peritwinkle

Hmmmm.....

Posted by TokerX

Posted by Montgomery

Maybe she fancies the thought that she is taking something you had, even though she didn't.

Most Geminis are lovely (imo)-- but I met one yesterday that reminded me that this doesn't apply to all of them.

This one is an aggressive control freak.

bleh.

Most (if not all) Gems are lovely AND aggressive AND control freaks. It just depends on their mood/maturity/... I don't know what. :p
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Yeah, but there are different kinds of aggression-- not all of which are bad.

This Gem just started working where I work, and from what I've heard, she thinks she makes her own

rules which include telling (not asking) others what to do.

With the exception of a couple of (bossy! but nice) Pisces, everyone I work with is a Fixed sign--

3 Leos, 2 Scorps, an Aqua and a Taurus.

So this should be interesting. 😛

Posted by auriqa
I think Gemini girls get curious about their partners exes, so that might be why she keeps coming near you, to scope you out. I for one (and so do a couple of other Gemini girls I know) do a little Facebook stalking just to make sure I'm better looking than their ex and to see if they seem to have a type. It's just curiosity but I think this girl you're talking about is going a bit too far. I think she's just trying to make you jealous of her, if you ignore her she'll probably lose attention and go away 🙂 I think she just wants to rule out the possibility of our ex still liking you and trying to make him like her instead.

They're not in a relationship. He said that she's not even attractive. He doesn't even want to be in the middle of all this. He said he doesn't talk to her. She just doesn't like me. Which I think he maybe lying because I don't think that a female would act like that if he wasn't giving her any attention. Idk.

I do ignore her. It didn't work. This has been going on for almost two months. Numerous people told me to ignore her. I'm use to just letting my temper get the best of me. Then I end up using my hands. I'm trying not to go there.