JuzzWifey
@JuzzWifey
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Should I wait? Consider diving in?
When anyone finally does show up to answer: let me give a quick update. We agreed to be together Sunday. I broke it off this morning. He said he wanted the relationship so I won’t run off again.
Now I am struggling with being single and not having freedom... that butter don’t mix. I love him truly... but I have to live too 🤦🏾♀️.
Now I am struggling with being single and not having freedom... that butter don’t mix. I love him truly... but I have to live too 🤦🏾♀️.
You want your cake and eat it too 🤷🏻♀️
You realise things can be seen across boards right? What you say here doesn't exactly line up with your own expectations of a partner.
Your failure to trust or his is your own doings. You clearly have a good grasp of what a relationship entails yet you say you're terrified of committing whilst commenting you are loyal to the core, it doesn't work like that.
I believe in love long term but I still like flings while I’m single. I have an ego to stroke. I am not a Love sick puppy waiting for it to come home.
Your failure to trust or his is your own doings. You clearly have a good grasp of what a relationship entails yet you say you're terrified of committing whilst commenting you are loyal to the core, it doesn't work like that.
Were y'all fucking during your marriage? Or after the breakup?
To be clear: I was heart broken 15 years ago. Yes that’s along time. Again, I am an aqua so I rather cheap thrills until I know deep down I can settle down and be happy for real. Aquas are highly misunderstood. We understands what it takes to be a great partner and we deliver but... can you reciprocate? I am actual sensitive to the point I rather be cold than to be warm and get hurt. Hint: I am on a forum trying to make sense before diving in.
Yes, I am afraid of commitment. However, more afraid of it being with the wrong person. I feel he is being real and typically without the Magic’s foresight, I want to get some clarity. Relationships are never easy. I have been in a few. I protect, love, and have strong loyalty to my family and friends. I expect that from my partner as I will devote myself to his family as well. The extension of me is hard to get but once he get it... he has to world on a silver platter.
This puts me in vulnerable situation. If anyone has truly loved someone, you understand that vulnerability is a real thing. You let go of egos and expectations and just love. But why dive in head first and get hurt, when you can carefully assess whether it’s worth it. At the same time, this has been a situation between us for years. So for me, this is not a testing ground. This is a man I love, respect, and adore (from afar because I don’t express it). I have a father Gem who once he gets a woman, he destroys them. My mother is a Leo, she does the same thing relentlessly. It actually make me see that people don’t understands truw values for a real long term commitment. That’s what I want from him. Not 6 years but 60. However, he doesn’t think that far. And I was curious because the reputation of Gems is that they are constantly changing their mind. While I have my mind made up, I really don’t want to play with someone who thinks this is how he feels today, living in the moment, then bam when that listful infatuation leaves, it’s like oh a new shiny thing. That’s devotion.
I am well worth it in gold. Not tooting my own horn but I know I am not just going to hand it out. Flings are a great way to keep it simple. That’s it. So it would be nice to know if Gems truly desires thy or is that based on how they Fee today? Is his words only good for a period of time? If not, I will give him the love of his dreams because I don’t get tired of spoiling whoever I love with real love, understanding, and loyalty. That’s why my circle stays small. I am only one person.
Yes, I am afraid of commitment. However, more afraid of it being with the wrong person. I feel he is being real and typically without the Magic’s foresight, I want to get some clarity. Relationships are never easy. I have been in a few. I protect, love, and have strong loyalty to my family and friends. I expect that from my partner as I will devote myself to his family as well. The extension of me is hard to get but once he get it... he has to world on a silver platter.
This puts me in vulnerable situation. If anyone has truly loved someone, you understand that vulnerability is a real thing. You let go of egos and expectations and just love. But why dive in head first and get hurt, when you can carefully assess whether it’s worth it. At the same time, this has been a situation between us for years. So for me, this is not a testing ground. This is a man I love, respect, and adore (from afar because I don’t express it). I have a father Gem who once he gets a woman, he destroys them. My mother is a Leo, she does the same thing relentlessly. It actually make me see that people don’t understands truw values for a real long term commitment. That’s what I want from him. Not 6 years but 60. However, he doesn’t think that far. And I was curious because the reputation of Gems is that they are constantly changing their mind. While I have my mind made up, I really don’t want to play with someone who thinks this is how he feels today, living in the moment, then bam when that listful infatuation leaves, it’s like oh a new shiny thing. That’s devotion.
I am well worth it in gold. Not tooting my own horn but I know I am not just going to hand it out. Flings are a great way to keep it simple. That’s it. So it would be nice to know if Gems truly desires thy or is that based on how they Fee today? Is his words only good for a period of time? If not, I will give him the love of his dreams because I don’t get tired of spoiling whoever I love with real love, understanding, and loyalty. That’s why my circle stays small. I am only one person.
That’s not devotion*
Posted by LadyNeptune
Were y'all fucking during your marriage? Or after the breakup?
No neither one of us has ever been married... or even attempted marriage with people. 🤦🏾♀️
Posted by JanMayMarry
We are capable of being a loyal and faithful partner more than the Aquas, honestly.
I am a Gem and I'm with one of your kind. When I compared mine and his past, his story sounds like a nightmare on elm street. 🤪 I was married to an Aqua before and same thing, he was the nightmare, but I believe, people can change to be better as they grew older.
Your words doesn't speak the same as to your expectations though. How could you demand something from someone when you can't even do the same? It is never gonna work like that.
It does it simple. I let myself fall when it’s safe or some type of security. I don’t see that, I won’t fall.
Posted by Moonbutter
You want your cake and eat it too 🤷🏻♀️
No! I want security in the situation. He can guarantee me that, we good. My word is good! I say we in it, we are in it. I will only leave him in death or if he is abusive towards me or loved ones. That’s my confusion on whether even if he says it today, he won’t do the chasing butterflies thing Gems do. 🤷🏾♀️ If so, I can stay in my lane, and mind my business like I have been.
heeyyyy gurrrlll u the Double Aqua with Aqua mercury and Venus Sag and Aries mars?
and u want urself a gemini lover?
go get him then. they are EASY PEASY for u. lol ;p
and u want urself a gemini lover?
go get him then. they are EASY PEASY for u. lol ;p
Posted by lisabethur8
heeyyyy gurrrlll u the Double Aqua with Aqua mercury and Venus Sag and Aries mars?
and u want urself a gemini lover?
go get him then. they are EASY PEASY for u. lol ;p
Oh Thanks! That’s what I wanted to hear 😊
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