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What poor man to do if woman lost drive
What Can a Man in a Long-Term Marriage Do When His Wife Loses Interest in Sex
A man facing emotional and sexual dissatisfaction in a marriage should consider open communication with his partner or seek counseling to explore solutions. If the relationship remains unfulfilling and divorce is financially or emotionally challenging, finding support through therapy or support groups can help manage feelings and find healthy outlets for needs.
Is the 60 year old man your Scorpio lova'?
Is the 60 year old man your Scorpio lova'?
This is Gem! We born on a same day! Only Gem man I don’t want to strangle...lmao
His story isn’t unheard of. There is a deep emotional wounding when one partner puts an end to the sexual relationship. I’ve seen sexless marriages happen for a avatietybof reasons and typically if it’s long term it’s usually due to the emotional break down between spouses.
He’s going to end up having an affair...
Apparently it’s not as easy as it sounds...
Just gives me another look at women!
Once I’ve heard man said his wage claimed that God doesn’t want her to have sex anymore...lmao
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Do you think she let him from the back? Naaahhh...dorkypoo!
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Is the 60 year old man your Scorpio lova'?
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It’s up again? 💀
What can he do??
Uhh talk to his wife?? Is that not an option that occurs people after 60 years of life?
They’ve talk a lot! She is sweet and innocent and frigid...what he can DO?
Keep dying while excersizing?
Is the 60 year old man your Scorpio lova'?
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Hon! If I want to post about my Scorp - I do it freely in Scorpio forum and I don’t have to disquize him as a Gem.
Stick your 100% up and shit ta fuck up!
If Gem was as nit as my Scorp - I would have him anytime!
Too bad there is no match for my God! He is above every man was ever born! Don’t make me want to make another post! We are so fine now...please! You don’t want to read about it...you might think I am crazy.
Whatever...
What can he do??
Uhh talk to his wife?? Is that not an option that occurs people after 60 years of life?
They’ve talk a lot! She is sweet and innocent and frigid...what he can DO?
Keep dying while excersizing?
What was her response to why they stopped having sex then?
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She said she doesn’t feel like it anymore. Blaming on menopause. As all others...but he is so sweet for a Gem. He says it might be all her worries about kids...yeah!!!
Talk does not exual to understand each other. They can talk butvif they have no understanding for each other it's no use. So she's all innocent but she gave birth to 3 children. Perhaps she needs a reminder for that. That she ISN'T innocent and that she should stop pretending to be a virgin cause it's not growing back lol And who would even want it to grow back anyway?!
Therapist needs to talk to her. Her behavior isn't normal, not his. If they have emotional disconnect that's causing the issue therapist should be able to locate it quite fast. Both should see a therapist, talk together and separately as well.
I think it’s beyond that point now.
I wish I knew what husbands feel when they are able and willing and wife said...well...no more sex.
And if they don’t hate each other...
Just growing old together...while she is contained with herself and he is going out of her mind!
Is the 60 year old man your Scorpio lova'?
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Hon! If I want to post about my Scorp - I do it freely in Scorpio forum and I don’t have to disquize him as a Gem.
Stick your 100% up and shit ta fuck up!
If Gem was as nit as my Scorp - I would have him anytime!
Too bad there is no match for my God! He is above every man was ever born! Don’t make me want to make another post! We are so fine now...please! You don’t want to read about it...you might think I am crazy.
Whatever...
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Panties in a twist much lol? I was just sayin I thought the same thing when I read it... I hope that at 60 none of us are going thru the same crazy shit we’ve once share on dxp tho that’s for damn sure! Carry on👌
Is the 60 year old man your Scorpio lova'?
Valid 💯
Hon! If I want to post about my Scorp - I do it freely in Scorpio forum and I don’t have to disquize him as a Gem.
Stick your 100% up and shit ta fuck up!
If Gem was as nit as my Scorp - I would have him anytime!
Too bad there is no match for my God! He is above every man was ever born! Don’t make me want to make another post! We are so fine now...please! You don’t want to read about it...you might think I am crazy.
Whatever...
Panties in a twist much lol? I was just sayin I thought the same thing when I read it... I hope that at 60 none of us are going thru the same crazy shit we’ve once share on dxp tho that’s for damn sure! Carry on👌
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Trust me! 20 or 60 - same urges. Different age!
When I was 20 and my mom’s friend who was 40-45 fell in love - I thought she was cra-ZY!
No she wasn’t! I can attest to that...
You’ll see...if there any men left then...lol
Talk does not exual to understand each other. They can talk butvif they have no understanding for each other it's no use. So she's all innocent but she gave birth to 3 children. Perhaps she needs a reminder for that. That she ISN'T innocent and that she should stop pretending to be a virgin cause it's not growing back lol And who would even want it to grow back anyway?!
Therapist needs to talk to her. Her behavior isn't normal, not his. If they have emotional disconnect that's causing the issue therapist should be able to locate it quite fast. Both should see a therapist, talk together and separately as well.
I think it’s beyond that point now.
I wish I knew what husbands feel when they are able and willing and wife said...well...no more sex.
And if they don’t hate each other...
Just growing old together...while she is contained with herself and he is going out of her mind!
Then how can she be contained? Anyway, key to solving problems of that kind is communication. If it's not going to solve by itself the one suffering more has to take steps. No one should put up with anyones bs if they don't want it
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She is fine because she is taken care of. She knows she has a husband who is by her ass. They just came from awesome vacation. He said she didn’t even let him touch her there...
She had entered stage of living without sex happily! Whatever he says - she is nicely tuning out knowing he is a family man and he is going to be there! She is happy! Or who knows? Maybe she is crying herself to sleep wishing for man she loved...and she doesn’t love him anymore as a man!
However financial stability and family togetherness is there! She used to it.
And that’s all she knows...
It’s such a huge problem with people in long marriages. Wondering if there are books aboutnit...
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Do you think she let him from the back? Naaahhh...dorkypoo!
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It’s an escort site. You pay for sex.
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Do you think she let him from the back? Naaahhh...dorkypoo!
It’s an escort site. You pay for sex.
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FINALLY! That’s what you do? 👋👋
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Do you think she let him from the back? Naaahhh...dorkypoo!
It’s an escort site. You pay for sex.
FINALLY! That’s what you do? 👋👋
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Aww don’t be mad that you give it up for free.
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Do you think she let him from the back? Naaahhh...dorkypoo!
It’s an escort site. You pay for sex.
FINALLY! That’s what you do? 👋👋
Aww don’t be mad that you give it up for free.
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How can I not be? Same shit but getting paid for? How much per pop?
Is it more when you bring a dog? Or depends on clients allergies? Lmao
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Do you think she let him from the back? Naaahhh...dorkypoo!
It’s an escort site. You pay for sex.
FINALLY! That’s what you do? 👋👋
Aww don’t be mad that you give it up for free.
How can I not be? Same shit but getting paid for? How much per pop?
Is it more when you bring a dog? Or depends on clients allergies? Lmao
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Surprisingly there is a market for granny pussy. Niche market but I’m sure you could make waves.
I believe in you 💫
You only know his side of things. Not hers.
So don’t be so quick to judge.
Didn’t you not fuck your cap husband for years, even slept in separate beds. So what’s wrong with you 👀👀
See, every situation has nuance
You only know his side of things. Not hers.
So don’t be so quick to judge.
Didn’t you not fuck your cap husband for years, even slept in separate beds. So what’s wrong with you 👀👀
See, every situation has nuance
No retard’ I haven’t fuck my Cap husband forever! Which part of he can’t get it up is foreign to you dummydoll?
Never heard of men ED? Google it. Along with sunscreen shit...you think you have brains. So prove you can google...something!
You only know his side of things. Not hers.
So don’t be so quick to judge.
Didn’t you not fuck your cap husband for years, even slept in separate beds. So what’s wrong with you 👀👀
See, every situation has nuance
No retard’ I haven’t fuck my Cap husband forever! Which part of he can’t get it up is foreign to you dummydoll?
Never heard of men ED? Google it. Along with sunscreen shit...you think you have brains. So prove you can google...something!
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I know nothing about your husbands dick, it’s true. But I was a lifeguard for 11years, I know sunscreen babe.
You only know his side of things. Not hers.
So don’t be so quick to judge.
Didn’t you not fuck your cap husband for years, even slept in separate beds. So what’s wrong with you 👀👀
See, every situation has nuance
No retard’ I haven’t fuck my Cap husband forever! Which part of he can’t get it up is foreign to you dummydoll?
Never heard of men ED? Google it. Along with sunscreen shit...you think you have brains. So prove you can google...something!
I know nothing about your husbands dick, it’s true. But I was a lifeguard for 11years, I know sunscreen babe.
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And all you know is wrong! According to your invo vs Google!
Talk does not exual to understand each other. They can talk butvif they have no understanding for each other it's no use. So she's all innocent but she gave birth to 3 children. Perhaps she needs a reminder for that. That she ISN'T innocent and that she should stop pretending to be a virgin cause it's not growing back lol And who would even want it to grow back anyway?!
Therapist needs to talk to her. Her behavior isn't normal, not his. If they have emotional disconnect that's causing the issue therapist should be able to locate it quite fast. Both should see a therapist, talk together and separately as well.
I think it’s beyond that point now.
I wish I knew what husbands feel when they are able and willing and wife said...well...no more sex.
And if they don’t hate each other...
Just growing old together...while she is contained with herself and he is going out of her mind!
Then how can she be contained? Anyway, key to solving problems of that kind is communication. If it's not going to solve by itself the one suffering more has to take steps. No one should put up with anyones bs if they don't want it
She is fine because she is taken care of. She knows she has a husband who is by her ass. They just came from awesome vacation. He said she didn’t even let him touch her there...
She had entered stage of living without sex happily! Whatever he says - she is nicely tuning out knowing he is a family man and he is going to be there! She is happy! Or who knows? Maybe she is crying herself to sleep wishing for man she loved...and she doesn’t love him anymore as a man!
However financial stability and family togetherness is there! She used to it.
And that’s all she knows...
It’s such a huge problem with people in long marriages. Wondering if there are books aboutnit...
You know what-that doesn't even surprise me cause that is like a dream come true to some women. They're simply asexual, have always been and they see sex as a troubl that they're happy they got away from but at the same time have a fool who will put up with that tied to their asses. Some even go as far as not being bothered if a man has affair. As long as he's providing for ger and she doesn't have to do a thing. But it's the problem with these women, they have something in their minds that's blocking them from enjoying sex and when there's no joy in doing it, why do it at all?
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BINGO!!!
You only know his side of things. Not hers.
So don’t be so quick to judge.
Didn’t you not fuck your cap husband for years, even slept in separate beds. So what’s wrong with you 👀👀
See, every situation has nuance
No retard’ I haven’t fuck my Cap husband forever! Which part of he can’t get it up is foreign to you dummydoll?
Never heard of men ED? Google it. Along with sunscreen shit...you think you have brains. So prove you can google...something!
I know nothing about your husbands dick, it’s true. But I was a lifeguard for 11years, I know sunscreen babe.
And all you know is wrong! According to your invo vs Google!
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Everything you read online is 100% true
Is the 60 year old man your Scorpio lova'?
Valid 💯
Hon! If I want to post about my Scorp - I do it freely in Scorpio forum and I don’t have to disquize him as a Gem.
Stick your 100% up and shit ta fuck up!
If Gem was as nit as my Scorp - I would have him anytime!
Too bad there is no match for my God! He is above every man was ever born! Don’t make me want to make another post! We are so fine now...please! You don’t want to read about it...you might think I am crazy.
Whatever...
Panties in a twist much lol? I was just sayin I thought the same thing when I read it... I hope that at 60 none of us are going thru the same crazy shit we’ve once share on dxp tho that’s for damn sure! Carry on👌
Trust me! 20 or 60 - same urges. Different age!
When I was 20 and my mom’s friend who was 40-45 fell in love - I thought she was cra-ZY!
No she wasn’t! I can attest to that...
You’ll see...if there any men left then...lol
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Well I expect to be 40-45 when I fall in love for the LAST time and pray it’s with the person I’m to grow old with I can’t do this nonsense forever 😂👌
Is the 60 year old man your Scorpio lova'?
Valid 💯
Hon! If I want to post about my Scorp - I do it freely in Scorpio forum and I don’t have to disquize him as a Gem.
Stick your 100% up and shit ta fuck up!
If Gem was as nit as my Scorp - I would have him anytime!
Too bad there is no match for my God! He is above every man was ever born! Don’t make me want to make another post! We are so fine now...please! You don’t want to read about it...you might think I am crazy.
Whatever...
Panties in a twist much lol? I was just sayin I thought the same thing when I read it... I hope that at 60 none of us are going thru the same crazy shit we’ve once share on dxp tho that’s for damn sure! Carry on👌
Trust me! 20 or 60 - same urges. Different age!
When I was 20 and my mom’s friend who was 40-45 fell in love - I thought she was cra-ZY!
No she wasn’t! I can attest to that...
You’ll see...if there any men left then...lol
Well I expect to be 40-45 when I fall in love for the LAST time and pray it’s with the person I’m to grow old with I can’t do this nonsense forever 😂👌
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I was 42! Dates since 13. Been married at 26. Shit knows!!!
Hope you’ll get it all together! ❤️
I’ve just got his text:
Overall I am not down to much. I have much to be thankful for.
I am concerned about any effects on my Children and Grandchildren. That iI know...that's sucks that we just can't have bit more and life would be more enjoyable.
I said:
I've met a man who finally did it! Also with 3 adult kids and grandkids. He said one day he decided to live a life and filed for divorce.
His wife is remarried. And he is a friend with her husband but she is still mad at him and not speaking! And she was the one who cheated on him with that man! Be happy bitch! Lol
He is great with kids and grandkids and says it was the best desicion he had ever made.
He had to start from beginning though because divorce whiped him out financially.
But for 10 years he built all back.
I was listening to him admiring his strenght.
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Back to my friend...
What a wonderful man! And he bound to live like that to the end?
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I have a Gem man friend. He is 60. Fit as not many of his age.
Married with 3 sons forever.
His wife is a doll adored by everybody. However she isn’t sexually interested for over 10 years and for him it’s a disaster.
He is however very happy, working a lot. It’s seems all he does to provide for the family.
She doesn’t watch what he is doing. He can come and go as he pleases but due to workload and house chores and kids he isn’t really meeting available women to calm his urges. Though he is trying...
Last night we’ve talked and he said he really want out of this marriage. He wants to be out and about and find sexually compatible partner...
I’ve asked if he can really leave.
He said probably not...
Oldest son is off heroin on pot.
No friends, no job. They happy he is off heroin so they don’t push.
Younger boys are finishing school and probably college is in future that needs to be paid for.
So it was the first time he said that and I understand at his age he wants to have a woman! But life is in the way!
And his seeetheart wife doesn’t even think about having man next to her who is dying without sex!!!
So what men like him are supposed to do to do a right thing?
Apparently divorce isn’t affordable on any level due to above said...she doesn’t work. Never did because of all kids and one with an addiction so she was watching his every move...
Is he supposed to just be boiling in all this until the end?