Venus in gemini guy?

How do I deal with a Venus in gemini man? What can I expect in a relationship with them? My feelings have been played... eh so far. I stopped communicating once and he insisted he found someone else and seemed to be moving forward with her. But he then came back and started heavily flirting with me, stating he "didn't want to miss out on me" which confused me even further. He couldn't decide between me and another girl, which I thought to myself, "ok, come back when you decide" but again didn't want to influence his decision. We keep talking and it seems, now that we've talked, he's definitely made a decision however is still moving quite fast for me: talking about moving in, wanting to be more physical (even though for me, I don't feel emotionally intimate). At times he seems so sweet, at other times, quite pushy and not on the same page (i.e. moving too fast, pushing sensitive subjects in a playful 'salacious' manner). I just want to be forewarned, prepared if I truly jump in this relationship.

Having sensitive feelings, especially in the game of love, I don't want to get burnt.. or should I even be willing to lay my heart on the line?

I have Venus in Capricorn, Sun in Cap. So I'm as cautious as a person can get, however pretty hopelessly romantic (Leo Ascendant).

Altho I'm a female, I have a gem venus.... And I don't play games like that. If I'm in it, I'm in it. If not, you'll know.

Posted by JustALeo
I'm venus in Gemini and all I can say is if you can't keep my interest and I'm not in a serious relationship with you, then best believe I will play games. If I'm in a relationship though I'll stick with it unless she's a boring person and nothing spontaneous .

True.

It's a placement I feel is a boon and sometimes a curse.

My boyfriend and i both have venus in gemini.

I would be very wary of this man, especially since he is trying to move things so fast after such a period of indecision. It all seems a little odd. I would slow things down to your pace, don't be pushed and do not let him dictate the progression of your relationship.

Thank you sunshinedaze. I agree it's pretty fast. I sense in a way that he's fairly inexperienced in relationships so I'm willing to have patience, I'm just having trouble communicating that in a way that he could... see the message I guess? without coming off as demanding or dry. Dropping subtle hints because he reads in subtlety. Or maybe doesn't. How do you say something that directly says what you want in an indirect way? :/ Or maybe I'm just not good at communicating this whole "I need to take it slow" manner. I say those things and I get the usual, "I understand completely, nothing to worry about. So what do you think about moving in?" without the necessary action or attitude to come with it. It can be very frustrating. :/

Posted by JustALeo
I'm venus in Gemini and all I can say is if you can't keep my interest and I'm not in a serious relationship with you, then best believe I will play games. If I'm in a relationship though I'll stick with it unless she's a boring person and nothing spontaneous ever.

Sounds to me like he's having a hard time deciding what he wants...let me ask you, why would you want a guy who can't decide if he wants you or another girl? Don't be the girl on the side or even the girl who knows he has a girl on the side, don't do that to yourself, keep your dignity and wait for a guy who is 100% sure about only wanting you.

i agree!

Is it so wrong to want to know how his mind (or heart) works. I thought Gemini typically likes that stuff if someone is interested in them. He's mentioned plenty of times that he enjoys talking so I'm not totally worried about that or being boring. I can be impulsive, spontaneous, which is why I've stuck it out this far. Sounds like you have a stick up your butt about Capricorns which I could figure out with my "dull" brain.

Keep talking to him....conversation is important.