Virgo in love w Gem Man who calls me crazy but always checkn my Snapchat everyday & every night!!!!

We haven't gone out since the Superbowl just convo. But, now our convos have slowed down from every day and night to barely a call. He taunts me on social media and checks up on all my posts. Last night we texted until 2am (we both had work) but it's just not the same. He doesn't come around 😢

I've never physically done anything to him outta the way or crazy, but I do tend to pry into his private affairs and personal life.. a lot. I notice that his vibe changes when I ask questions. Is this a Gem thing bc he doesn't want to "lie" or "hurt my feelings"? He confuses the heck outta me. It's been 7 months.. it feel's as if he's been pulling away for the last month, so technically only 6 steady months.

He has children, which I used to ask about but stopped when he seemed uncomfortable about me bringing it up. Idk, this guy is so peculiar but always calling me crazy. I personally thing that's a cop-out. Just another mechanism he uses to avoid the convo. I called him a coward for not speaking on his true emotions about certain things.. Then, he just rebuts that with the whole...."Girl, you crazy" notion!! Wtf, eva....What does drive me crazy that he always says that to me for no apparent reason. Any logical mind could see his deflections are abnormal aka crazy. Sometimes tho, he opens up... but the emotional immaturity outweighs. We're adults, let's have adult conversations here. He's 41 so...Urrrrrrgh!! So many mixed signals w this guy. But, something about him is soo amazing 🙂

Idk, maybe I don't even have a choice.. he's made it for me. But, it's hard to tell if he really likes sometimes even though he's told me he loved me and I've never said it back bc I kinda felt weirded-out when he derails my conversations and calls me crazy it throws me off-guard and has me second guessing like.. Deg, DID i just say something crazy?&*!! But, NO!! None of that insecure stuff over here. I know he's just playing head games. But, it's like walking on eggshells not knowing whether being myself by bringing up touchy subjects is gonna trigger an insult followed by a shutdown. Help yal!!!

If something doesn't work the way you want it to...change tactics, till you run out of ideas. Then take a break. Simple!

You can only control what you are doing, not what the other person is doing.

I can't help you, but I'm a Virgo dating a Gemini man for 6 months. We have similar issues almost to a T. Although I'm the one who thinks he's crazy, I don't say that to him because it wouldn't do anything except start a fight.

Also, he too says he loves me., but with his actions, sometimes I'm not so sure. I call him out on that and then he gets irritated that I don't seem to believe him. I argue, that I do, I just don't know if it's equal to the degree of love I have for him. We have both said each of us is a pain in the butt. Frustrating always, but we've stuck it out so far because we love each other. The future though, feels unknown.