Will being too emotional scare Virgo away?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Falafudge on Sunday, March 26, 2017 and has 23 replies.

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@Falafudge
9 Years

If you are way too emotional with a Virgo, and open up completely when they are super closed off and cold, would that push them away? Would that stop them contacting you again?

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@Sunsetvirgo
10 Years5,000+ Posts

I like someone who's real with me. Shedding their pride and telling me the truth about how they feel about me. That's something I will always appreciate and NEVER shy from.

Now being overly emotional, like Romeo and Juliet, "I can't breathe oxygen without you being here" blah blah blah. yeahhhh no.

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@LazyK
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Yes it would maybe be too much for them, or it might make you look desperate. I would recommend just playing it cool and let the emotions flow naturally. I think an explosion of excitement would open them up more than an explosion of emotion. Maybe i'm wrong tho. This is just from personal experience.

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If your looking for a love affair go for it. I've had a few pisces girls and this relationship match never works for me. Prices women I've dated wanted to live a recurring fantasy, or love story over and over with new men. Maybe because i have no water in my chart, it wouldn't work. Also dated cancer, which was a lot better pair than pisces. Im not sure how this virgo guy is, but i would recommend from my experience with pisces women that you do not look at this as a possible relationship. The virgo will view you as unfaithful and never fully commit to you, at least i wouldn't.

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@Falafudge
9 Years

Posted by Damnata
And yes a married woman opening up completely to a Virgo will garner nothing but disrespect.

You are taken.

I was asking a general question? Why do you have to assume stuff? Seriously stop with your rubbish

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@Falafudge
9 Years

Posted by LazyK
If your looking for a love affair go for it. I've had a few pisces girls and this relationship match never works for me. Prices women I've dated wanted to live a recurring fantasy, or love story over and over with new men. Maybe because i have no water in my chart, it wouldn't work. Also dated cancer, which was a lot better pair than pisces. Im not sure how this virgo guy is, but i would recommend from my experience with pisces women that you do not look at this as a possible relationship. The virgo will view you as unfaithful and never fully commit to you, at least i wouldn't.

No I'm not looking for a love affair. I want him to stop contacting me. He has so many times in the past and each time I tell him to stop contacting me and then I hear from him again later and this has been going on for years. It keeps messing with my emotions and I've struggled. He was my first love. Previously I have been very cold with him when I have told him to not message me but this time I have opened up and have been emotional and I told him exactly why I don't want him contacting me anymore and I know guys hate emotions so I'm hoping this does the trick. I guess I am going to change my number if he contacts me again. I really don't want to hurt him, I hate upsetting people.

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@Legend
9 YearsCancer

Posted by Falafudge
If you are way too emotional with a Virgo, and open up completely when they are super closed off and cold, would that push them away? Would that stop them contacting you again?

I have 2 female virgo close friends. Their ideal boyfriend is supposed to be emotional and attached. Virgos don't act super closed off and cold as per my experiences. They love when you chase after them. Also, I am not sure if you are a girl or a guy asking this question so can not help you more with this.

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@Teena
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They usually always had to struggle to make me open up to them. So when n if I did, it never scared them off. They like to learn secrets n emo stuff imo. It kinda makes them feel special.