what do geminis think of Scorpios?

I dated a Gemini guy for four years, we parted ways but we both love each other and both have agreed that no matter what we'll keep contact. But I've always felt that he would switch up on how he feels, one day he'd seem to care so much and the next like I was another random bitch. Lol I admire geminis but dam you guys can be mean! btw just because they can seem so cold at times does that mean they don't care, or they just handle things differently then others and some people don't entirely understand that.

Btw I'm sorry if I talk a lot, a short attention span an caffeine are not a good mix when blogging

I know right?! It gets crazier hahahaa

Posted by bettyfordssecondcousinidk
I dated a Gemini guy for four years, we parted ways but we both love each other and both have agreed that no matter what we'll keep contact. But I've always felt that he would switch up on how he feels, one day he'd seem to care so much and the next like I was another random bitch. Lol I admire geminis but dam you guys can be mean! btw just because they can seem so cold at times does that mean they don't care, or they just handle things differently then others and some people don't entirely understand that.

We like the get up and go Scorpio energy. We like their independence because it also gives us time to come up for air. We have multiple personalities and this can depend on several factors; How the relationship is actually going, the energy you project at us (meaning if it's negative we throw it right back at you).

Here are where the common problems with Scorpios, at least in my personal experience: You accuse of us off being cold but sometimes you can be too smothering, too investigative. You read into things and this causes us to lash out when we get tired of it. It gets old really quick when there is no alterior motive. You try to be manipulative to get what you want. Us Gems however, overall have a sharp enough quick enough mind , we catch it and you don't like that. These couple things are just prime examples, and you can expect a sharp tongue when it pisses us off. We don't like trivial BS.

Remember a Gemini mirrors, and we mirror A LOT. If you need an answer when things go wrong, try to reflect on yourself. And for Pete's sake, admit your wrong when you are!

Posted by gemguyaz34

Posted by bettyfordssecondcousinidk
I dated a Gemini guy for four years, we parted ways but we both love each other and both have agreed that no matter what we'll keep contact. But I've always felt that he would switch up on how he feels, one day he'd seem to care so much and the next like I was another random bitch. Lol I admire geminis but dam you guys can be mean! btw just because they can seem so cold at times does that mean they don't care, or they just handle things differently then others and some people don't entirely understand that.

We like the get up and go Scorpio energy. We like their independence because it also gives us time to come up for air. We have multiple personalities and this can depend on several factors; How the relationship is actually going, the energy you project at us (meaning if it's negative we throw it right back at you).

Here are where the common problems with Scorpios, at least in my personal experience: You accuse of us off being cold but sometimes you can be too smothering, too investigative. You read into things and this causes us to lash out when we get tired of it. It gets old really quick when there is no alterior motive. You try to be manipulative to get what you want. Us Gems however, overall have a sharp enough quick enough mind , we catch it and you don't like that. These couple things are just prime examples, and you can expect a sharp tongue when it pisses us off. We don't like trivial BS.

Remember a Gemini mirrors, and we mirror A LOT. If you need an answer when things go wrong, try to reflect on yourself. And for Pete's sake, admit your wrong when you are!

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Thanks for your input and I totally get it now. My Gemini guy would always tell me the same thing that I cling on too much but it's an eye opener for you to mention mirroring, very true!

Posted by AirMan
hahahaha TokerX all women talks a lot more often than men no matter what sign they are. i have never in all my life seen a woman that can't keep quiet even the ones that's shy and insecure.

gemini at times can appear cold but i wouldn't say they don't care. i think gemini women are much more compatible with scorpio men than gemini men and scorpio women.

LOl Wed be going to sleep and I'd be rambling on about random little things, one night my ex told me "you're like my annoying cousin that stayed the night when I was younger, she'd never shut up and I'd have to say goodnight every five minutes" I LMAO for five minutes straight an then he couldn't help but laugh it was so funny! women don't know when to shut up I admit haha. Why do you think that?

Our personalities cover all the bases and change like the wind, and you have to be prepared to roll with it. Not so easy for a fixed Scorpio. I find that when I'm accused of being "cold" it's usually when I'm just being quiet, introspective, or distracted. My Scorp takes this very personally. At first, I thought it was an ego thing and that he thought everything was all about him. Now I know it's just insecurity.

Posted by Whimsy
Our personalities cover all the bases and change like the wind, and you have to be prepared to roll with it. Not so easy for a fixed Scorpio. I find that when I'm accused of being "cold" it's usually when I'm just being quiet, introspective, or distracted. My Scorp takes this very personally. At first, I thought it was an ego thing and that he thought everything was all about him. Now I know it's just insecurity.

Exactly

Believe me or not I've watched Gemini man get his life sucked right out of him and I don't mean from the between his legs. Gemini's are way to freedom loving for a controlling Scorpio. The gem guy I know was the happiest guy you could ever meet after the 6 month honey moon period that all changed not sure why he is sticking it out I guess its his deep insecurity. The money has spent on her to try make her happy I lost count after 10 grand in the last 2.5 years. What p*ssed me off she would try her damndest to prevent him from doing his hobbies he would tell me she would get angry. Forcing him into doing things she wanted he would complain about that if he didn't do what she wanted she would make his life miserable.

I have some female Gemini friends not sure if I would ever want to date them but as a Cancer man its fun talking to them they are always happy they will be friends for life gemini women make me laugh they cheer me up.

I have only known one Gemini and Scorpio relationship in my life, my aunt and uncle and it didn't work. They are divorced. It was always about her, the Scorpio. They fought constantly, stayed together merely for the financial aspect of things. I see the same patterns here on DXP for the most part. While the relationship may start off great (and it's likely due to the sexual nature) it often is a failure waiting to happen in the long term. Scorps are too manipulative and controlling and never admit to being wrong and willing to compromise to change their way. Us Gems see that as very unfair.

Posted by exxtasyx
I see them as insecure because they have to manipulate and control instead of just asking for what they want straight up. They drop subtle hints or little clues or plant seeds for something way bigger down the line instead of just confronting somebody and not going through all this planning and BS. But most of them are cool, just not up front.

Yep right on! If only they were straight up with what they wanted or needed instead of constantly playing the little investigator and then having a temper when it doesn't go in their favor. I will say straight up I have no problem giving my lover what they desire or need, I will find a way. But when you manipulate me in order to get it, when there is simply no need to do so, I don't take kindly to that shit.

Posted by gemguyaz34
I have only known one Gemini and Scorpio relationship in my life, my aunt and uncle and it didn't work. They are divorced. It was always about her, the Scorpio. They fought constantly, stayed together merely for the financial aspect of things. I see the same patterns here on DXP for the most part. While the relationship may start off great (and it's likely due to the sexual nature) it often is a failure waiting to happen in the long term. Scorps are too manipulative and controlling and never admit to being wrong and willing to compromise to change their way. Us Gems see that as very unfair.

Gems are usually the life of the party they like to be funny most of them I know can talk the ear off of anybody they are usually good natured. One of the Gem guys that worked in the other division of the company I used to work at used to be fun to hang around he would make everybody laugh. Then a Scorpio appeared in his life he was happy for a little while that soon changed he changed the guy we all knew was gone.

He would talk about his hobbies poof that was all gone he wasn't allowed to do them anymore, he would try sneak off for a fishing trip she would get mad she forced him into doing things she wanted. I watched her slowly control his life it didn't happen right away but over time it got to the point he was wearing a tree trunking leash. Said to her you control his life she flat out admitted she uses him I just gave her the look. You have to stand up to a Scorpio you let them get away with that bulls*** they will keep doing I stood up to her. At work she would try get her self in the spot light trying to take credit for stuff she didn't do. She had to go over my head because she couldn't control me it p*ssed her off I was the leader of the group, today she has things so tree trunked up. In the end she has stung herself she is the most hated person in the company it is funny how Scorpios have such a tree trunked up life they do it to themselves. It is their control freak nature that takes over they have to have control no matter what.

Oh one thing I left out the problem with you gem guys you are not sensitive enough for a Scorpio woman there is no way you can read her feelings. Scorpio women don't wear their emotions on their sleeves you have to read their body language or the facial expression. You miss read their facial expressions you can be in deep butter. Scorpio's talk with body language and facial expressions only another water sign can read it I've experienced that first hand. I could tell she wasn't feeling well and everybody else in the office said she looks fine when she was not I would ask her directly she would shake her head.

Scorpios think people are mind readers, I have to say Cancers like myself are the same my ex boss was a Scorpio man he was the type of guy he would say something once you didn't hear it tough luck he would get angry if you asked him again.

They're manipulative users, who are always trying to lure people. So pretty much evildoers. They get nothing from me in rl, learned my lesson.

Posted by ScorpioStarGazer
Wow are us Scorpios really that horrible? Reading this though, I do see some things in myself that were mentioned. Eye opening for sure.

No you are not air and water just doesn't mix it causes bubbles, are Scorpios manipulative? ya you are lol Do you like control? ya, but most Gemini men are people pleasers they don't like control they will give it up to somebody else they don't take responsibility. A Gemini man won't stand up to a Scorpio they just tolerate they let a Scorp control them once the Gem has had enough they will disappear just like they do with everything else in their lives. They avoid responsibility they don't accept blame for anything.

I have Gemini dad he drives me nuts at time I've blown up at him a few times he complains I'm in moody he says things that can p*ss me off.

I find Gem men totally different than Gem women the women you don't see the twin personalities so much the Gem men you see that you don't know who in the hell you are dealing with.

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Posted by ScorpioStarGazer
Wow are us Scorpios really that horrible? Reading this though, I do see some things in myself that were mentioned. Eye opening for sure.

No you are not air and water just doesn't mix it causes bubbles, are Scorpios manipulative? ya you are lol Do you like control? ya, but most Gemini men are people pleasers they don't like control they will give it up to somebody else they don't take responsibility. A Gemini man won't stand up to a Scorpio they just tolerate they let a Scorp control them once the Gem has had enough they will disappear just like they do with everything else in their lives. They avoid responsibility they don't accept blame for anything.

I have Gemini dad he drives me nuts at time I've blown up at him a few times he complains I'm in moody he says things that can p*ss me off.

I find Gem men totally different than Gem women the women you don't see the twin personalities so much the Gem men you see that you don't know who in the hell you are dealing with.

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Don't know about that. I have no problem at all standing up to a Scorpio. They do not like being called out on their shit. It's actually quite a fireworks show and I enjoy it immensely.

I've had my fights with a Scorpio woman being a Cancer man emotions get involved I've never had fights like that with any other woman then I had to deal with a sulking Scorpio I would have to smooth things over. Funny thing 90% of the fights were started by her things would be going along smoothly then out of the blue she would pick a fight it would always leave me WTF. It really started when I tried to end our friendship she was angry with me ever since then.

Scorpios claim they don't like drama they seem to start it, I don't like drama I don't intentionally start it, I do stir the pot but not in friendship/relationships. There was a power struggle between the Scorpio and I at work she wanted control I would give it to her then yank it back if I seen something I didn't like it would get her all annoyed.

At the time she was dating a Gem man he would p*ss her off and I would bear the brunt of it because she wasn't happy in her relationship with him.

Gems are capable of standing up to Scopeps once they realize it's necessary. As a Gem, I like to be chill, go with the flow, make sure everyone's happy. When my Scorp partner wants something, I work on making it happen, fully expecting that when I want something it will also happen. That's not a given. A Scorp will take what you give, and not realize reciprocation is in order. That's when it's time to grow a backbone, insist on equality, and show the Scorp that you're partners in a world you're creating together, not a character in the Scorp's world.

LOL..."Scopeps".

There's so many contradictions air & water

U know, now that I think about it...Scorpio may be like the only sign I don't have much experience with

Except for one time 😄

lol ....

damn. yall mad?

I think it just depends on the individual person. I'm a Scorpio but im far from self centered, or manipulative. I try to look at everything from my perspective because well I'm living my life.. But I do agree I should put myself in other people's shoes at time. Everyone has flaws though. You Geminis sure do love to point fingers a lot lol

My aunt (Scorpio) and uncle (Gemini) have been married almost 30 years, have 9 kids, and are always content when I see them.

From my personal experience, they are both quick, clever, and like to play little tricks. I think it could be a good match...

-Sag Male

Scorpios are moody bastards. I am not sure whether they know anything to talk about other than themselves and the movies they watched. :O YAWN

I dated and lived with a Scorpio for a few years and let me tell you it was VOLATILE. When it was good it was GOOD but when it was bad, watch out. Funny enough when it all blew up and was over, we both felt such a sigh of relief that it sort of made us remember why we even loved each other and I remember sitting in our empty apartment moving the last couple boxes out and going our separate ways and we both just sat there and reminisced and cried and both said we wished it didn't have to end but both knowing that was the only way.

That was almost 5 years ago and very recently we randomly both found ourselves single and went on a vacation together and had the best time...but soon after we got back and emotions were stirred, we quickly realized we are just not meant to be.

He didn't understand me at all, and I found him to be easily angered, had issues with alcohol, was careless with his words and would overall just not make me feel very secure. He brought out a side of me I did NOT like...he made me feel controlling and jealous and nitpicky, none of which I relate to in my natural state. Scorps are known for their sex drive and I loved my Scorp so I never complained about the sex, but there were definitely issues there as well (on his part).