When a gem ..says he wants to be just friends

When dating a gem and he decides that he wants to include you in his life 100% and then their is a misunderstanding...he says I need some space..and this week and next week..but we just be friends..via text...he also states lets just be friends..I hope you understand...Is it time to move on! He said he needed space...but he wants to be just friends...why not move on...there is no space need when you are just friends...

he means it. i'm sorry it didn't work out with the gemini. you always had a feeling that things weren't right though. keep your head up! don't be his friend, don't text anymore, and yes, move on. he's trying to string you along. don't let him have his cake and eat it too

i concur with i love ewe trobin, if you continue to be his friend, he will play the game with you and try and string you along, as friends, but there will always be undertone that confuses you, leaves you a smidgen of hope, while the whole time tellng you "just friends". He has plenty of friends already. An dont' be suprised if you cut it off completely, in a few months or even longer, if he comes back trying to be "friends" again. they love the games, being chased and stringing you along if they aren't really feeling you.

I love ewe and baby grrl ...great feedback! We moved into this mode cause of my scorpio temper..I went off on him...he made a lot of comments prior about women and how I need to step up my game,, and it manifest into a reaction that really didn't warrant me going off...anyway he immediately said, lets be just friends after incident and he needed space a week or two..me being stubborn and spoiled didnt like that plan..I wanted closure (Not Really) just like being on top!

Anyway...we exchanged a few texts with me stating I want to give him his things and him trying to desperately avoid seeing me (I am his Krptonite).anyway he asked if I could wait till next week or he could mail..if that was ok. I then suggested I drop it at his concierge cause I was leaving for LA this week! He said, have fun! Ouch..anyway I took out the big guns and I said that I would like to take the edge off before I leave wink! wink!..his immediate response, was when? I said Wed eve..I had a 9:00 am flight Thursday! I really wanted to see if we had anything left, and to take the edge off! LOL! I know he has a special thing for me! I don't know why. but he is weak when he sees me...and I think he is in love, yes, he told me, but I also see it in him!

I still think he has options and he is fighting...I hope he finds what he is looking for, but he has been a player for a long time and Karma is Mother! Funny when we were seeing each other..he said things like ...if you come over you have to stay overnight..,,You just can't come over and just leave! Just because he played himself I wont take advantage! He still may back out! Thanks Ladies--