I'm a earth sign , but weirdly I really like gems! Always a good time never much drama. Why such the bad rep? What makes people dislike you?
Why do Geminis get such a bad rep ?
Posted by Negail92
I'm a earth sign , but weirdly I really like gems! Always a good time never much drama. Why such the bad rep? What makes people dislike you?
We are too honest. People can't handle the truth and we don't act fake. People sleep on the fact we aren't one dimensional so when we show another side they think we are fake.
Cause they're evil, they have a retard in them, and a genius, and they feel very ashamed about their R persona, so they lash out at people with wit and sarcasm and they're just soul-crushing....just leave them be.
Posted by CobyActually I think this might be true honestly!!!! Most Geminis I meet I feel are so smart!!!! And witty sometimes to a point of genius That's why I love them. Plus they are unpredictable and fun but a lot of people take the sometimes moody and different personality they show as fake. I take it as the twin showing its face not fake.
We are too honest. People can't handle the truth and we don't act fake. People sleep on the fact we aren't one dimensional so when we show another side they think we are fake.
I honestly just think it's stereotypes, a lot of people say that we have a very dark side, which isn't completely true. I'm a gemini and I have many sides. I act different with different people, it depends on who I'm with. Also, many people say that we are flaky, this isn't false but if we think that someone is boring, we will probably stop hanging out with them. For example, I had a friend who is capricorn and honestly she wanted to talk all about herself, I don't know if this is a capricorn trait or anyting but she completely bored me to death, I felt bad but I stopped hanging out with her. We don't do it on purpose, I apologise for any mean gemini person, we're not actually bad at all!! I'm a very nice person, try to stay out of any drama and try and make friends as much as possible, why wouldn't anyone hate us!
I know a lot of Gems. My former bff used to be one.
Gems that I know tend to only talk about them selfs. They go from one story to another which always annoys me cause I can never follow.
They tend to make stuff up or lie a lot...
They talk sooooo much omg hahaha.
Their moodswings are annoying too.
A bit two faced also sometimes and that they go from one job to another or just don't stick to one thing and their nervous movements. Sit tf down for a while omg hahahaha.
But I like their charm and they're super funny!! And most Gems I know are very smart.
Gems that I know tend to only talk about them selfs. They go from one story to another which always annoys me cause I can never follow.
They tend to make stuff up or lie a lot...
They talk sooooo much omg hahaha.
Their moodswings are annoying too.
A bit two faced also sometimes and that they go from one job to another or just don't stick to one thing and their nervous movements. Sit tf down for a while omg hahahaha.
But I like their charm and they're super funny!! And most Gems I know are very smart.
Posted by OneKnightI think it's pretty cool you can admit this.
^ this might be the best Gem description ever. I was born on the Gem Cancer cusp and I have all those flaws above.
Can I ask why Gems talk a lot about them selfs ? Like why they never ask how the other is doing? 🙂
Posted by ChunkyTaurusTry getting a Gemini with a cancer Mercury to talk about themselves. Mofo is a dude of little words.Posted by OneKnightI think it's pretty cool you can admit this.
^ this might be the best Gem description ever. I was born on the Gem Cancer cusp and I have all those flaws above.
Can I ask why Gems talk a lot about them selfs ? Like why they never ask how the other is doing? 🙂click to expand
overall i like geminis.
Posted by CobyExactly! I hate to make up things or play dumb like I have no idea what people want when they dropping hints. I just answer straight in their faces. It works most of the time.
We are too honest. People can't handle the truth and we don't act fake. People sleep on the fact we aren't one dimensional so when we show another side they think we are fake.
Posted by nanobyteNot interested if she was my bff for over 10 years?! Wow...Posted by ChunkyTaurusPosted by OneKnightI think it's pretty cool you can admit this.
^ this might be the best Gem description ever. I was born on the Gem Cancer cusp and I have all those flaws above.
Can I ask why Gems talk a lot about them selfs ? Like why they never ask how the other is doing? 🙂
I would have to think that the gemini had no interest in you, your life, or interests to not ask you anything about yourself LOL. If I don't give a fuck about someone, I don't ask them shit. Because I just don't care and don't care to know. Usually geminis ask a person they are interested in, be it romantically or platonically, copious amounts of questions and personal questions, as a matter of fact.
We are curious entities by nature, so why would we talk about ourselves, when we have so much to inquire about? It makes no sense. Are you sure you didn't actually meet a Leo? 😆
I hate talking about myself really, but sometimes I find that I do if I am at a loss for something to say or I want to get information out of someone - I think we talk about ourselves in those kind of situations to make ourselves seem relatable and to make the other party feel comfortable in our presence. It can be seen as a social tactic.
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Nope I know my fam and friends Gems are selfish sorry to say. They only care about them and no one else. Saw it with my ex too. All those lies he spread..
Posted by LadySagitaMe and Gems never go well. They get on my nerves for not shutting up at times and their need to always pick a fight. And they need to sit their nervous a ss down and relax lol
I hv no idea why tbh..
I adore every gem I know and im surrounded by them in the family..
One thing that irritates me sometimes is:
They talk a lot when I want some silence or when Im busy doing something.. like i really really really want some silence ?
Nosy, all up in my business ? always ask questions i dont want to answer.. i'm usually good with giving broad answer.. but the gems are so nosy they want chronology ?
They like to start making comment to tease.. while it's entertaining to watch and I have a good laugh sometimes.. 1 sensitive younger member of the fam will end up sulking ? Yesterday a sag/scorp cusper literally cried by the gem, sag sun cancer moon, sag sun aqua moon, and capricorn combo ?
Funnily enough, all of them run to me for advise. And will keep coming back to ask me to repeat that advise ? like cant you write that down?? —
You cant tell them to do something once. They tend to forget it.. ?
They can't keep secrets, they are like a newspaper spreading stories like it's water.
Im not hating them, cause as I said I love their charm, sarcasm, intelligence and humor.
Because they're heartbreakers. They come into your life so easily with full force. But before they reach the deeper level, they're already on to their next conquest, unless you're worth it to them(for now). Similiar to Aries without the attention span and need to take control. Loveable and lighthearted but unreliable. But gems have probably burned the most people of all the signs.
Posted by LadySagitaNaw it's picking a fight for sure. Just intentionally lying about stuff or act moody or just get cranky all of a sudden when the mood in the room is good.Posted by ChunkyTaurusPosted by LadySagitaMe and Gems never go well. They get on my nerves for not shutting up at times and their need to always pick a fight. And they need to sit their nervous a ss down and relax lol
I hv no idea why tbh..
I adore every gem I know and im surrounded by them in the family..
One thing that irritates me sometimes is:
They talk a lot when I want some silence or when Im busy doing something.. like i really really really want some silence ?
Nosy, all up in my business ? always ask questions i dont want to answer.. i'm usually good with giving broad answer.. but the gems are so nosy they want chronology ?
They like to start making comment to tease.. while it's entertaining to watch and I have a good laugh sometimes.. 1 sensitive younger member of the fam will end up sulking ? Yesterday a sag/scorp cusper literally cried by the gem, sag sun cancer moon, sag sun aqua moon, and capricorn combo ?
Funnily enough, all of them run to me for advise. And will keep coming back to ask me to repeat that advise ? like cant you write that down?? —
You cant tell them to do something once. They tend to forget it.. ?
They can't keep secrets, they are like a newspaper spreading stories like it's water.
Im not hating them, cause as I said I love their charm, sarcasm, intelligence and humor.
Hahahahhahaaa ? i think for them it's not picking fights ? it's an 'ice breaker'.. like really, they will comment about me to start talking to me or get my attention...
And only with gems I can hv a roasting competition with none of us getting butthurt over it ?
And I think Gems are the people who hv less problem than the entire zodiac. They seems to have a lot because they somehow think that their loved one's problem are their problem too ??
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Idk I don't hate Gems but I always clash with them eventually.
Posted by einpiscesTrue ! We Geminian's got lot of ego to accept the truth. Sometimes I really want to get rid of the ego in me.Posted by Negail92My best friend and my little sister both is gemini. We get along good.
I'm a earth sign , but weirdly I really like gems! Always a good time never much drama. Why such the bad rep? What makes people dislike you?
Though back then, i usually angry at her because she make my cap father and aqua mother fight alot.
But today, thanks to me for lecturing her many time for making our parents fight, she become a better person. And today, i know the right way to handle her.
I think its because like every sign, gemini have weakness.
The problem is that, some people cant accept that weakness, so they dislike them.click to expand
Gemini is apparently in my house of marriage bc I have so much sag or some HEADASS like that. Idk. I don't even know how that's supposed to go LMFAOO
I don't mind gems, all the gem friends I have are women, so I'm not sure about the men.
The thing is, I don't really take what they say at face value so I don't really care what they do as long as it doesn't hurt me. The gems in my life apparently respect that.
And our humor is usually the same so that's okay with me.
I don't mind gems, all the gem friends I have are women, so I'm not sure about the men.
The thing is, I don't really take what they say at face value so I don't really care what they do as long as it doesn't hurt me. The gems in my life apparently respect that.
And our humor is usually the same so that's okay with me.
The ones I know have been lying sacks of shit.
They play mind games for fun and can be users.
people don't like getting fucked and lied to.
They play mind games for fun and can be users.
people don't like getting fucked and lied to.
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