Wth is up with this Gemini

So my Gemini bf tries to confuse my Taurus mind with manipulation and lies. I mean I can see lying about something big. Ok you don't wanna hurt my feeling but lying about something small? I.E. We live together and your next to me and I'm talking to you *no response* and I have to shake you to wake you up. After you get up you tell me you were never sleeping *¿Que?* and sit there and ARGUE with me about being awake. Mind you, this occurs in every situation whether it be a argument or convo. I catch you in a lie and you continue to try and convince me I am wrong and what you are saying is the truth. WTF is up with that. Why are geminis so defensive. And not just saying it from a gf/bf perspective I have a couple of Gemini friends/ associates that do the same thing.

Yeah been throug that too. Sucks and you know what else I learned not to just jump into moving with each other no matter what.

You might want to move out and maybe you will get along better like that.

Yeah that's how I feel. Now we're on our second year of living together and the situation is ok aside from my mild OCD and being annoyed by the fact that they LOVE not listening to me and making shit hard and eventually I have to clean the issue up.

Facts. These people will act like they are sincere and care about you but when it comes time to be there emotionally
For me it just don't cut. I'm not a "omg you send me a beautiful, heartfelt text message" but when I see you face to face you are unemotionally, loves to change the conversation and ignore me for days on end.

He sounds really immature. I'm sorry, I deal with that with my Gemini..he gets very defensive about stupid shit. And angry and needs to be right. I try to brush it off. Stand your ground and if he keeps treating you poorly..then tell him to go fuck himself.

Oh he bought to get it. And the fact that I am young and very independent and I fell he is being callous and manipulative in trying to take that away from me. Making me dependent on him, and then turn around and try to use that "I take care of you" against me. He really don't know who he fucking with. And when I do try to leave he cry about it and try to convince me he's going to change

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Yeah that's how I feel. Now we're on our second year of living together and the situation is ok aside from my mild OCD and being annoyed by the fact that they LOVE not listening to me and making shit hard and eventually I have to clean the issue up.

Facts. These people will act like they are sincere and care about you but when it comes time to be there emotionally
For me it just don't cut. I'm not a "omg you send me a beautiful, heartfelt text message" but when I see you face to face you are unemotionally, loves to change the conversation and ignore me for days on end.

Why did you move in if you were having these problems? I did what you did that was have my bff be with my after graduation. About 4-5 years in I was ready to pack my stuff up, he took any pride I had for getting my own and destroyed ever wanting someone to live with me. He actually almost got me evicted too.

And to top it off I tried working it out before shit hit the fan. I was young, he was young, and it just wasn't meant to be. And in 6 years total I was done and sick, and finally when my lease was up I left and went to my moms. NOW I was always raised to be independent, my parents were independent learn from experiences types, the hard way because they are no short cuts.

So if you can try doing things your own, get your own, then try again later.