Let me tell you all about my experience with a libra man. I met him last November. It was instant "love bombing". Soul mate to let's get married within weeks. He had claimed he was a wanted man. Told me his story. But it did not matter to me. He stayed with me a few weeks. Left Right before Xmas to another state with his family. His sister's family. Told me he was going to work his way down to another state,to get work and then send for me. After the first week. I missed him. We would communicate every few days. He missed me too he said. So, we decided he should come back. So I purchased his bus ticket. He complained about the long ride. Didn't care about my long drive to get him. I had recently just started a second job. I needed the money to get my car fixed. The same night he got here,he got a call from his sister saying they needed him back. Apparently the family decided they to were coming back. I declined purchasing his ticket back. Oh did I forget to mention I had given him some very valuable items,to sell so he could buy tools he needed for work. Supposibly he was a iron Man. Of course those items he said he sold to pay for his family's motel. I know. All the red flags. I saw them. I just did not want to think negatively. So.. my friend gets him a job. After he was here a few weeks. Within that time he had rearranged my entire house. And I'm assuming gone through every trunk I had. Coin collections. Stamps. Antique jewelry. More valuables. Sentimental to me as I inherited them. Coins back to late 1800s. Unfortunately his job did not pay him. I will say. He was a extremely hard worker. Long hours no days off. Then all of a sudden. He was accusing me of cheating. Granted I had gone out a few times with friends. Always came home. And it all went to shit from there. Very verbally abusive. Long story short. He scammed me. Oh how he loved me when he was getting money or valuables from me. Then he'd start a fight to go stay at the slime motel where his family stayed. He got another job. Working for some lady who had a rep for not paying either he'd work till 4am seven days a week with leaving for work at 6am. He was conning her too. Ripping her off cuz she owed him. He shot up drugs. I still wanted to believe I had not fallen for this pos and that I couldn't be that desperate . How embarrassing. Needless to say. I finally put my foot down. Several loans no pay backs. And his words of oh I use to be a player but not with you. U. I'm real. Right. Not to mention the sex. He'd say tell me you love me. And I did. Even after months of knowing what a scum bucket he is. I still love him but I'm taking the time to heal myself. But I am sending him several text messages a day to make him suffer a bit for using women and screwing up their heads and breaking their hearts. Oh ya the wanted out of state that would put him away for life. Just another lie amongst the several he told. So ladies if you meet a libra man with a few tats says he was inside for a bit. Do yourself a favor. Run a background report. Very seldom does a con reform. Check his arms too. Look for those marks. He a smooth talker. Two weeks he says is all women like him for. I finally realized. I should have listened. And he loved the song I wish you were a better man. He did get me to like country so that positive and to realize I got some issues that I need to fix before I can give love or accept another's I got to love me. Be careful ladies.
