🙂 You're right, he could just be taking his time because you are a student and he doesn't want to make a move in front of a lot of people. Although, if he finds you very attractive, you will be intimidating to him regardless of the fact that he is a doctor and you're a student.
Hmmmm...it is possible that he has picked up on you being a person who won't be rushed. But, if that is the case, don't be deceived into thinking that he'll always be so restrained or detached with you...if you two become more than friends, you should prepare yourself for a very passionate and open person. Do you think you can handle that, or will it be too much for you? Just something to consider.
You have to let him jump you. Much better that way. 😉
Of course we would WH! I am not sure how we would meet but if we struck up an interesting conversation I would make a friend out of you for sure. Ages don't really matter in some respects. We can all learn from each other.
No, it wouldn't be too much to handle if the Leo doctor and I became more than friends. What would have scared me, would be if he, right now, was showing me too much emotions and we aren't even dating. To me that would be frightening. If I was his girlfriend, I wouldn't want him to continue with being restrained or detached. Then I would like him to show me how he feels. When I like a guy, I become extremly loyal. Like regarding the Virgo guy, I didn't even look at other guys because my heart couldn't. Now that I was able to let go of the Virgo guy, I was able to look around. Then suddenly this Leo doctor showed up at the hospital in the same internship place as I. It's really weird. If he and I did get together and I was to tell my friends where I met him it would be too funny because it's in the Psychiatrics ward. I mean that is odd. Well, nothing regarding me goes the normal way anyway, but that's okay because I'm different (you know being an Aquarian).
You know I still find it odd that I would intimated him since he's a doctor and I'm a nursing student. I'm not intimated by him at all. In fact, I totally respect him which is something that has to be earned regarding me. Gosh, I wouldn't want him intimated by me. Nope nope nope.
When it comes to not being rushed, I think he could have picked up on that. However, when I know it's right, I go full force and don't hold back. Therefore I'm only slow in the very beginning and then when I feel comfortable (which can happen pretty quickly as it has with him which has totally surprised me) there's no stopping me. In fact, I turn the guy's head because all of sudden they have to keep up with me. Then I slow down a little so they reach me. I'm all about fairness.
LS, Well, it could be fun if I jumped him. However, I couldn't do it now. I have to get to know him a little better and see if he even makes a move. Or sends me more signals. I'm observing now.
To continue my update for today: He again zeroed in on me and said to everyone in the room "I'll be sitting right here", meaning right next to me. It astonishes me that he zeroes in on me. So he keeps on sending the signals. During the morning meeting, he said he was going to be doing some tests on a patient. I jumped at the opportunity and asked him if I could be with him when he was going to do the testing. He said absolutely. He asked if I was going to be around all day and I said yes. He said he'd let me know when he going to be doing the testing. Now I know he's very busy since he's a doctor so he has a lot on his mind. He disappeared from the ward for a few hours. However, I did see him at lunch. I was sitting with some of the nurses and some of his colleagues were sitting at another table. He seemed torn as he wanted to sit with us but figured it was better for him to sit with his colleagues. Anyway, after 1.30 when I heard his voice, I asked him if he was going to do the tests. He said absolutely yes. I was able to see how they are done which was really cool. Then about an hour later I was ready to leave for the day but he told me he was going to talk to another patient and I could come with. So I did. Boy, is he a great doctor. He talked in a very calm and soothing way to the patient even though the patient was being very pessimistic about her situation. He didn't give up and his voice never changed. The patient was saying she was dizzy so he tested her which it turned out she was fine. Then she said she couldn't read. So he went out of the room to get special reading cards to test her reading skills. I saw this as my opportunity to go and was going to tell him. He asks me: "Are you leaving?" and I replied well, it's 3.30. I also asked wasn't he done for the day. He said yes, but he didn't want me to go which I thought was so sweet. I thanked him for showing me the different tests which he liked very much. I said it's a great opportunity for me to be able to be with him since he's a doctor and that there usually aren't many chances for that. He replied that it was great. So when everything was done, I was ready to go and so was he. We walked out of the ward together. I told him he's a wonderful doctor (which is the truth) and he said thanks. I asked him is he a compassionate person with his friends. He said yes he is. I replied back saying I hoped I'd get to see it too. He said: "Of course you will because you'll be in the ward until
Christmas time". See, he remembers how long I'll be there til. Unbelievable. I said: "Yeah, I'll be seeing you around then so I'll get to know you better". He replied yes that was true. Then I told him he has to visit me at the foodstore where I work parttime. He said yes he's going to do some shopping there and that I'd have to give him a rabate. I didn't answer but laughed and so did he. Wow, he's absolutely adorable. All the nurses adore him. Even a patient told me she thinks he's wonderful to which I agreed with. I don't know, but I have a good feeling about him. I just hope he moves toward me. I'm my bubbly self. I see him smile and stare at me a lot. Gosh, I'd be lucky if I could get him. For some reason, I feel very comfortable around him. Also when he remembers details about me, I think that is impressive. Can you imagine how much he has going on in his head, and yet he finds time to remember me? I told a nurse today, I'll be in the ward tomorrow and then I'll be going to work again. She looked puzzles when I said that, but somehow he was listening and said: "You are working in the foodstore tomorrow." Now he was busy writing but still he was listening to what I was saying to somebody else. I've noticed he likes to have eye contact with me when he speaks with me. When he stares, it's a bit of a long stare. It's not like a quick look away. Well, I'm going to see what he does. I'm being friendly with him but also in my own way showing him an interest. I just hope he gets the message.
Really? You stare when you're reading a persons soul and sizing them up? Wow. Well, I want him to get me so I won't fight him on that. I'm ready for him. However, I'll still be a little bit of challenge. He was so helpful today. It showed the type of person he is. He's a wonderful doctor. Yes, there is a lot more to me that he'll find out, if he sticks around. You know something. He says that I can be a great help to him since I'm an American because a lot of things in medicine are written in English. So he was asking me for help. Can you imagine? I'm able to help him and he's the doctor and all I am is a student. It astonishes me. I couldn't believe it. What I find weird is if he's already made up his mind about me, why does it seem like he's taking his time? I wonder if it has do with there's usually always people around. However, I hope he does take a chance if he's already mind his mind up about me.
Well, if he's ready, I'm ready. I don't think I've ever been ready so quickly in my life which scares me a little. However, I would like for him to make the move since he's the guy.
Oh, I'll be so astonished if he actually visits me at the store sitting at the register. Even better if he only has eyes for me (I love being the center of attention, maybe it has to do a little bit with having a Leo moon). In my eyes, he'll be showing more interest in me then.
His eyes are a blueish-grey color. Absolutely beautiful combination. He has a way of looking at me that I can feel him staring at me. That is why I look back.
Today, when he was showing me the tests he was going to be doing, I was sitting a little bit from him as I didn't want to be too pushy with sitting next to him. Don't you know, he asks for me to move closer to him and other people heard these. I wanted him to ask me so others would see I'm not after him (well, I'm interested in him but don't want everyone knowing it). I don't know how many opportunities I'm going to get to be with him, but I'm going to look for them any way I can, you can bet. He is one person that has my attention.
I agree with you that he's smart and good. Very good. I'll keep being myself. Hopefully, he'll take a chance then when he sees I'm the real deal.
I'm an American living in Norway. Been here for years now. However, I'm born on Long Island, so I'm a New Yorker all the the way. I walk fast, talk fast (but sweetly), and move fast. 🙂
Question: now if he had moon in aqua...can you imagine that? Who? Leo doctor?
Chocolate, When he does sit next to me/or I him, he gives me small glances. However, if we are sitting at different areas, then he'll stare at me and when I look back, he'll hold my stare and then look away. Or he'll look in my direction and pretend to be looking at something about my head. Smart guy. Sure, I want him but I'd like to get to know him. He's got my attention and that isn't an easy thing. Remember, Virgo guy had my full attention for 9 months so when I like a guy, I like a guy. My attention would still be with Virgo guy if I didn't let him go (it wasn't easy to do and I haven't completely let him go either as he and I are friends). I'm ready for Leo doctor. Usually it takes me time to get comfortable with a guy, but this Leo doctor changed that. It only took 3 days. However, if you've read in my previous posts, I wasn't attracted to him in the beginning (over a week ago). I didn't even notice him until Wednesday so he had to make himself known to me in a subtle way with the sitting next to me and the staring. Oh, the yes, the eyes are gorgeous. I don't stare at him because I don't want to be too obvious. Very true I wish for a soulmate. I don't know if I've found it with this Leo doctor yet. I do know though I am among the living again.
"I'm an American living in Norway. Been here for years now. However, I'm born on Long Island, so I'm a New Yorker all the the way. I walk fast, talk fast (but sweetly), and move fast.
A fellow New Yorker! Cool. I wanna travel too. I hope I'll have the courage to do what you're doing!
Question: now if he had moon in aqua...can you imagine that? Who? Leo doctor?"
Leo doctor. You guys would really be on the same wavelength.
OMG,I just went to Astro.com and typed in his birthday. I can't believe it. His rising is in Libra and guess what..... His moon is in Aquarius. Unbelievable. I can't believe my luck. This is freaky. Have no idea what this mean though. I guess it's good. My rising is Libra and moon is in Leo.
PM, I think he does the look from the corner of his eye thing. When I say something or whatever, he's attention is on me.
Yes, I am a fellow New Yorker. I miss New York very much. I hope to travel back there at least for a visit. No matter how long I live in Norway, I'll always be an American first. I told Leo doctor that there is a lot status being a doctor in America and make tons of money. He told me he was scared because if he did anything wrong, he could be sued and it'd cost him a fortune. Well, I told him in life there are always positive and negative things and I smiled. He smiled back.
I will hang on but with class. I would like for him to pursue me. Hopefully, he will. I guess since this combo is so great, it would explain why I feel so comfortable around him. As I've stated before, it takes me time to warm up to a guy I like. I didn't even notice this Leo doctor until he made himself noticable to me. To get my attention is not easy.
No, I will never forget this Leo doctor. There aren't many people that I truly feel are worth remembering. However, Virgo guy is someone I'll definitely never forget. Virgo guy opened me up as I was like in a shell. In knowing him I've blossomed. In life people come into our lives to teach us things. Maybe Virgo guy was the helping hand I needed to show my true self. Then this Leo doctor comes along when I least expect it.
I'm not dating anybody yet. I'm interested in the Leo doctor. I casually asked him on Monday when his birthday is and time of birth. I said there weren't many days left of year and asked if he had his birthday yet. He said yes, and then I asked.
PM, I never thought of Virgo guy as being a soulmate but you are right. He has been because he was one of the best things (and most painfullest things) in my life. He truly has been a blessing in disguise. I'll be forever grateful to him. How sad about the Gem guy. That is truly tragic.
I have a date with the Virgo guy tomorrow night. He is really excited about it. I guess that is nice. I am really hoping my attraction grows. He really is perfect for me on paper. We shall see.
Other than that my friend is going to be in my hometown this weekend and I offered to show him the nightlife. It should be fun. It will be nice to get out of the city for a few.
good on paper - means we have everything in common. I have never met anyone with as many and as diverse interests as myself. Like the Leo, he is also from one of my hometowns, so we even know a number of the same people. He is kind, considerate, affectionate, creative, interesting ... and I am completely not attracted to him. Physically, I do not find him attractive.
I have not fallen in love with Leo doctor whatsoever. Yes, he's peeked my interest faster than any other guy, but I'm not in love with him. There is something about him that I find attractive that is for sure. I will not give my heart too quickly. I learnt that lesson very well regarding the Virgo guy. I couldn't take being heartbroken twice in one year. It's taken me awhile to get over the Virgo guy.
LS, Good luck with your Virgo date tomorrow. You know, maybe just because you aren't attracted to him right now doesn't mean it can't happen. Hey, I wasn't attracted to Leo doctor either in the beginning. To be honest, I didn't even notice him until he made sure I did. I guess he didn't like me not taking notice of him. Strange things happen to me, especially during 2006. I've never been so emotionally up and down in my life. This is why I'm taking my time regarding Leo doctor. If he makes a little headway, I'll follow. I feel he should take the lead since he's the guy. My heart has been repaired and I'm guarding it. However, it's great to be able to still attract guys. I thought I had lost it so I'm so proud.
I imagine I will have a great time on the date. He is so interesting and we can talk to each other for hours and hours and hours but the sexual chemistry? I dunno. I really, really hope my attraction grows. Unfortunately, he is heavier. He is very active so it isn't going to go away. The thing is I have done the boyfriend I wasn't attracted to physically but loved because he was a good man. I have also done the boyfriend I had no sexlife with. (Both Virgos) At this time in my life, I really want the package deal. I really want to be with a guy who I find attractive and sexy, who I enjoy sex with, AND is a great, reliable, creative, interesting man that I can count on. If you don't have that ... what do you have?
I sincerely did not believe sex was that important or attraction was that important until I met the Leos. They changed my mind about that. Great sex can bind a relationship together. Plus why couple up if you don't have sex? Sex is what separates this relationship from all others.
Plus, men are attracted to me. They just are. He isn't going to be happy when he sees how many men are attracted to me and I am going to be resentful that I am giving up sexual attraction and passion. Of course, I am putting the cart before the horse. My attraction may grow.
For the most part, we don't tell men to date women they aren't attracted too. For the most part, it is a given that men will only date or be with women they are sexually attracted too. It would be absurd to say to a man but she is a such a nice girl. Why do women always have to settle?
Chocolate, "HIs confidence, charm, intelligence". Thank you so much. You summed it up for me. Also he isn't bad looking either. His personality is awesome too. That voice of his.
LS, Thank you so much for your ranting post because I believe the same things. Sex is great with the right person. Some people can just have sex for the sake of it. I am not one of those types of people. From what I can gather, you don't seem to be that way either. You should be physically attracted to the one you love. However, sometimes life throws us curve balls and we end up changing without realizing it. I never ever thought in my wildest dreams I'd be interested in a Leo doctor. Never. Nope, nope, nope. It's crazy. I wasn't even looking and there he is right in front of me. Do I notice him? No. He had to make himself noticable. Logically, I should have noticed him but for some reason I didn't. I guess I thought he wouldn't look at me since I'm just a nursing student and he's a doctor. The guys I normally go for are Geminis, Aquarians and Libras, and the one Virgo guy. Virgo guy has been the absolute hardest to get over and I who thought would never be heartbroken over some guy. Guess again. I can't wait for 2007 to start because 2006 has been so emotionally draining. I genuinely thought I did lose the magic touch regarding guys. I've never failed before so it was so hard for me to except failure. However, I have no idea what went wrong either with Virgo guy. It must be he knows I deserve better. My beauty is being myself and I'm told I'm pretty. This is why I felt so lost when things turned out the way they did with Virgo guy because I was being my true self which is loyal and the best friend I could be. Then when he doesn't let me go and calls me in the middle of the night drunk, it has confused me because I don't understand what he wants either. Therefore I had to move on but it's been really tough. I don't want to go through it again, if I can help it. I still love Virgos though. I'm not against Virgos ever.
Good question. Well, since I've taken my time getting over Virgo guy, I haven't been on the market looking for guys. Therefore it's so weird this Leo doctor has appeared, just when I least expected it. I have a friend I work with (at the foodstore) and she wants to take me out on the town. I don't feel like going because of a major reason. She is 10 years younger than me so I don't feel I have so much in common with her. She feels I should go out and party so I can meet other guys. In a way I agree with her. To get her off my back, about two weeks ago, I gave her a challenge which I don't think she'll be able to manage. I told her if she can find a decent guy around my age then I might consider going out with him. It's not easy for her to find someone my age because I'm 10 years older than her. I told her I wasn't interested in someone that parties non-stop and that he had to be clean-cut. I told her I'm no bar-hopping babe either who gets drunk as I don't drink at all. See, this is a challenge I'm basically sure she isn't able to handle. I'll meet somebody when the time is right. I don't know if Leo doctor is the right one. Time will tell. However, my adrenalin has been turned on now so eventually, if things don't work out with Leo doctor, I'll meet someone. My colleagues at the foodstore like to tease me and say I could meet Mr. Right at the register. I just say: "Oh brother". I have a lot of guys (customers) who like to talk with me at work and I talk back. I've tried to smile more and be a bit more of a flirt but not overboard. Flirting is not something I'm very good at but I try now. About a month ago, I didn't even try so I am making headway. Oddly enough, I didn't even flirt with this Leo doctor to get his attention. He just placed himself in front of me and made sure I noticed him.
I just don't see the point of being in an exclusive relationship with a guy who I am not attracted to and can't have sex with anyone I am attracted too.
Yes, Leo doctor got me to notice him. I didn't notice him at all to begin with. Then all of sudden, he just sits right by me or he just stared at me from across the room. When he started to remember little details, gave up a seat for me, holds the door for me, is helpful, and looks to me like I can help him, I took notice (I love helping people). I'm just blown away that he'd take an interest in me. He's the doctor and I'm just a nursing student. With all the things he has on his mind, I find it odd how he remembers me. I can feel him moving towards me. I like though that he isn't rushing things as I'd like to first get to know him.
Yes, you are right. I do have to get over it. It just astonishes me. Yes, I am great, thanks. Well, he has good taste, if I don't say so myself. I am a great catch. I just hope he realizes that.
That maybe ls but you still need to prove your worth just being yourself wont make you great only lazy people say that who cant work or achieve .
Kris
You don't understand the sexual politics between men and women. Men generally do not date a woman for her career/financial stability, unless they are deadbeats. They date women for other reasons. Her earning power is not a priority.
Mystical he wants you........How old is he? You could ask him for coffee or maybe if you guys get a lunch you could casually ask him if he wanted to go to the cafeteria for lunch or ask him in the morning what time he was going to lunch and suggesr you all go together.....just a thought. I think tis is just the thing to make you push the v guy to the side....this man is (hopefully a well rounded focused guy) who will treat you in the manner you deserve!
You are right. This Leo doctor has been a great help in being able to push the Virgo guy further to the side (been very difficult). As I've stated many times, Virgo guy will always have a special place in my heart no matter what. However, I do have a big heart, so the man I eventually get with, will have the majority as it should be. Yes, I do think this Leo doctor wants me which is absolutely great. You asked how old he is. He is 26 years old, and is a doctor. He's just finishing up his internship. As far as I can see he is a very well rounded and focused kind of guy with a lot compassion for people (which is a great plus in my book). As for asking him when he's going to have lunch is a little tricky because it looks like he eats when he has time. Also when I have seen him eat lunch he eats with the other doctors. The nurses eat together. Nobody mixes with other professions. Very good idea though.
I will be back later on, as things have moved a little further (not much but making headway). Yesterday, I really showed him my caring side so he knows that now. I was being a typical nurse, just so that is stated.
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Hmmmm...it is possible that he has picked up on you being a person who won't be rushed. But, if that is the case, don't be deceived into thinking that he'll always be so restrained or detached with you...if you two become more than friends, you should prepare yourself for a very passionate and open person. Do you think you can handle that, or will it be too much for you? Just something to consider.