Accidently ditched a Leo man

Hello there!

I have met a very cute Leo man during my exchange abroad. He put a lot of effort into showing me around, introducing me to people and making sure I was okay. At the actual moments I didn't realize how much he was flirting with me, both verbally as in his body language and all the effort he put in. I found him attractive from the start, but because I didn't know whether this was mutual, I threw him into the friendzone for my own safety. I didn't really flirted back and I started calling him my friend or even brother. Thinking back on it, he actually seemed very interested and I completely ditched him. In the first weeks of me having returnes to my country, we had some contact here and there, but now, months later, he doesn't message me at all. I really want to start a conversation with him again and if that goes well, at a certain point honestly tell him how I really felt ánd still feel. However, I don't know what method to use, since I have probably damaged his Leo ego a little..

Thank you for reading! Love!

*accidentally! Not a native English speaker 🙂

Posted by Miaou


So how do you know it's mutual now?

Thank you for responding 🙂

I don't haha.. I just regret being scared of falling in love with him because he lives on the other side of the world and not being more open to his flirting and just throwing him into the friendzone. But looking back on it, he made it so clear that he had an interest in me, and he did that in such a cute manner. In short: I regret & I miss him!

I have no idea whether he would still think the same way about me, however, I want to just chat with him again and see where this goes. But I don't know how haha! Should I just text him right now like "Hi handsome, how are you doing? and just get overly interested in everything" . I bet he wouldn't expect that at allll, but perhaps it would be a plaster to the perhaps damaged ego..

I mean, I understand that attention, complementing and recognition is crucial to a Leo and that's something that I wasn't giving him

Just call or text him and let him know how you feel. Granted it may be too late, but no harm is trying. Since you're the one who "friendzoned" him, you'll need to be the one to speak up.