
PancakeFace
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I completely agree with you! She just has always said its in the past so they don't matter. I didn't wanna pressure her into telling me. Even though I wanted to know. Mostly because I knew it would be hard to handle if I came out later. It's a pretty tough situation. I didn't want her to think I was weird by asking her either.
That's why you ask these questions before being in a relationship with them. I'm all about honesty just tell me when I casually ask you somethings that are important not to you but for myself. And hell if you find someone mutually to open up to with out judgment cool that means be prepared for honest answers all the time and it must be given back. Some people don't care at all I know. I've met some like that too.

Posted by lovinglioness1115Yeah I think this is the same case with her. Can I ask what your placements are? Especially your Venus.
I really don't want to hear about s/o's past relationships, but that's just because I get jealous super easily. For example, if my s/o were to mention that he's working on something with a female coworker for his job, I'd probably feel annoyed and jealous, but only for a bit.
I also don't like talking about my past because I'm afraid of my s/o getting jealous as well.


Posted by ScorpicoLol! This is pretty much spot on. I'm glad it's not just me. My moon is in Scorpio so I agree with you lol.
LOL my leo boyfriend is like this. I'm a scorpio so I wanted to know EVERYTHING, just out of curiosity and maybe to learn something interesting about him. He shared things with me, on his own and when I asked, and it didn't bother me it was interesting. But he NEVER asked me anything. And I noticed every time I mentioned things about my sexual past and he got full-on butt hurt. He took it as if it were a personal blow to his ego, as if I had done it while I was with him. He actually asked me if I had ever performed…*ahem* a certain sexual act and I said yes and he got upset and judged me! Even tho he asked me! But yea…must be a leo thing. They have too much pride to think that they're significant others have ever been intimate with anyone besides them. Lol smh leos

Posted by ExplicitFair enough but that's not how I am at all.
Why on earth does it matter so much? It's the past.
My Pisces cousin is a psycho. He married an Aries girl and whenever things come up about her past he throws bitch fits, but he already knew most of the stuff. He just doesn't like to be reminded of them. Like get over it. The past is the past.

Posted by SensitiveBluesSome are but I'm not. I love her unconditionally and I wouldn't ever judge her. I wouldn't do anything to make her feel
You're a scorpio moon. Scorpio moons are extremely judgmental. i wouldn't tell you if i was her. You guys use any data to attack your mates. Also you're mistrustful of people. Nobody wants that.
i learned that the hard way....

Posted by SensitiveBluesDon't think you read my question properly sensetive Blues.Posted by PancakeFaceexactly you want to create problems in your relationship and passive aggressively deflect your insecurities on her.Posted by ScorpicoLol! This is pretty much spot on. I'm glad it's not just me. My moon is in Scorpio so I agree with you lol.
LOL my leo boyfriend is like this. I'm a scorpio so I wanted to know EVERYTHING, just out of curiosity and maybe to learn something interesting about him. He shared things with me, on his own and when I asked, and it didn't bother me it was interesting. But he NEVER asked me anything. And I noticed every time I mentioned things about my sexual past and he got full-on butt hurt. He took it as if it were a personal blow to his ego, as if I had done it while I was with him. He actually asked me if I had ever performed…*ahem* a certain sexual act and I said yes and he got upset and judged me! Even tho he asked me! But yea…must be a leo thing. They have too much pride to think that they're significant others have ever been intimate with anyone besides them. Lol smh leos
But same! It's more I wanna to figure some
Things out. Like what kinda person they are. How
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Posted by SensitiveBluesTaurus
What's her moon anyways?

Posted by lovinglioness1115I would have preferred that reaction to the one I got :-/Posted by ScorpicoI wouldn't empathize with this Leo on being full-on butthurt- I would just get maybe a tad annoyed and jealous for a few minutes at most, but then I would just let it go since I know it's such a small thing to get worked up about. I also wouldn't judge as he did... so I disagree with your last sentence.
LOL my leo boyfriend is like this. I'm a scorpio so I wanted to know EVERYTHING, just out of curiosity and maybe to learn something interesting about him. He shared things with me, on his own and when I asked, and it didn't bother me it was interesting. But he NEVER asked me anything. And I noticed every time I mentioned things about my sexual past and he got full-on butt hurt. He took it as if it were a personal blow to his ego, as if I had done it while I was with him. He actually asked me if I had ever performed…*ahem* a certain sexual act and I said yes and he got upset and judged me! Even tho he asked me! But yea…must be a leo thing. They have too much pride to think that they're significant others have ever been intimate with anyone besides them. Lol smh leosclick to expand
Posted by PancakeFaceSounds controlling and judgmental.
Also I would just like to add. I think my problem is I hold her in such high regard. I think the world of her. I know we all have a past. Some things happened in hers when she wasn't very confident and I understand that. It's not so much I'm judging her. It's just I see her as such a wonderful person and it makes me mad she would let some truly worthless people do things to her in the past. Eh. Call me crazy but I wouldn't care if it was someone she was in a loving relationship with. It just frustrates me. And I frustrate myself because I have no right to judge her.

Posted by ScorpicoWell what moons and be usedPosted by lovinglioness1115I would have preferred that reaction to the one I got :-/Posted by ScorpicoI wouldn't empathize with this Leo on being full-on butthurt- I would just get maybe a tad annoyed and jealous for a few minutes at most, but then I would just let it go since I know it's such a small thing to get worked up about. I also wouldn't judge as he did... so I disagree with your last sentence.
LOL my leo boyfriend is like this. I'm a scorpio so I wanted to know EVERYTHING, just out of curiosity and maybe to learn something interesting about him. He shared things with me, on his own and when I asked, and it didn't bother me it was interesting. But he NEVER asked me anything. And I noticed every time I mentioned things about my sexual past and he got full-on butt hurt. He took it as if it were a personal blow to his ego, as if I had done it while I was with him. He actually asked me if I had ever performed…*ahem* a certain sexual act and I said yes and he got upset and judged me! Even tho he asked me! But yea…must be a leo thing. They have too much pride to think that they're significant others have ever been intimate with anyone besides them. Lol smh leosclick to expand

Posted by bkbella86Lol been waiting for someone to say that. What's your placentas?Posted by PancakeFaceSounds controlling and judgmental.
Also I would just like to add. I think my problem is I hold her in such high regard. I think the world of her. I know we all have a past. Some things happened in hers when she wasn't very confident and I understand that. It's not so much I'm judging her. It's just I see her as such a wonderful person and it makes me mad she would let some truly worthless people do things to her in the past. Eh. Call me crazy but I wouldn't care if it was someone she was in a loving relationship with. It just frustrates me. And I frustrate myself because I have no right to judge her.click to expand
Posted by SensitiveBluesThat was my first thought. He wants ammo to use against her in the future. I don't see why he needs to know about her past at all, if it doesn't effect him.
You're a scorpio moon. Scorpio moons are extremely judgmental. i wouldn't tell you if i was her. You guys use any data to attack your mates. Also you're mistrustful of people. Nobody wants that.
i learned that the hard way....

Posted by PancakeFacePlacements not placenta LMAOPosted by bkbella86Lol been waiting for someone to say that. What's your placentas?Posted by PancakeFaceSounds controlling and judgmental.
Also I would just like to add. I think my problem is I hold her in such high regard. I think the world of her. I know we all have a past. Some things happened in hers when she wasn't very confident and I understand that. It's not so much I'm judging her. It's just I see her as such a wonderful person and it makes me mad she would let some truly worthless people do things to her in the past. Eh. Call me crazy but I wouldn't care if it was someone she was in a loving relationship with. It just frustrates me. And I frustrate myself because I have no right to judge her.click to expand
Posted by PancakeFaceLol!!Posted by PancakeFacePlacements not placenta LMAOPosted by bkbella86Lol been waiting for someone to say that. What's your placentas?Posted by PancakeFaceSounds controlling and judgmental.
Also I would just like to add. I think my problem is I hold her in such high regard. I think the world of her. I know we all have a past. Some things happened in hers when she wasn't very confident and I understand that. It's not so much I'm judging her. It's just I see her as such a wonderful person and it makes me mad she would let some truly worthless people do things to her in the past. Eh. Call me crazy but I wouldn't care if it was someone she was in a loving relationship with. It just frustrates me. And I frustrate myself because I have no right to judge her.
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Posted by SensitiveBluesThat type of shit makes me nervous as hell lol.Posted by bkbella86scorpio moons want to know everything and divulge nothing.Posted by SensitiveBluesThat was my first thought. He wants ammo to use against her in the future. I don't see why he needs to know about her past at all, if it doesn't effect him.
You're a scorpio moon. Scorpio moons are extremely judgmental. i wouldn't tell you if i was her. You guys use any data to attack your mates. Also you're mistrustful of people. Nobody wants that.
i learned that the hard way....
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Posted by bkbella86Placements lol? Damn. You sound like a Scorpio yourself lol. Or a Taurus.Posted by SensitiveBluesThat type of shit makes me nervous as hell lol.Posted by bkbella86scorpio moons want to know everything and divulge nothing.Posted by SensitiveBluesThat was my first thought. He wants ammo to use against her in the future. I don't see why he needs to know about her past at all, if it doesn't effect him.
You're a scorpio moon. Scorpio moons are extremely judgmental. i wouldn't tell you if i was her. You guys use any data to attack your mates. Also you're mistrustful of people. Nobody wants that.
i learned that the hard way....
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Posted by PancakeFaceAries sun Pisces moon Pisces Merc Venus in Taurus and cap Mars. Those are the major ones.Posted by ScorpicoWell what moons and be usedPosted by lovinglioness1115I would have preferred that reaction to the one I got :-/Posted by ScorpicoI wouldn't empathize with this Leo on being full-on butthurt- I would just get maybe a tad annoyed and jealous for a few minutes at most, but then I would just let it go since I know it's such a small thing to get worked up about. I also wouldn't judge as he did... so I disagree with your last sentence.
LOL my leo boyfriend is like this. I'm a scorpio so I wanted to know EVERYTHING, just out of curiosity and maybe to learn something interesting about him. He shared things with me, on his own and when I asked, and it didn't bother me it was interesting. But he NEVER asked me anything. And I noticed every time I mentioned things about my sexual past and he got full-on butt hurt. He took it as if it were a personal blow to his ego, as if I had done it while I was with him. He actually asked me if I had ever performed…*ahem* a certain sexual act and I said yes and he got upset and judged me! Even tho he asked me! But yea…must be a leo thing. They have too much pride to think that they're significant others have ever been intimate with anyone besides them. Lol smh leos
Are we talking about?click to expand

Posted by PancakeFaceMy moon is ScorpioPosted by ScorpicoWell what moons and be usedPosted by lovinglioness1115I would have preferred that reaction to the one I got :-/Posted by ScorpicoI wouldn't empathize with this Leo on being full-on butthurt- I would just get maybe a tad annoyed and jealous for a few minutes at most, but then I would just let it go since I know it's such a small thing to get worked up about. I also wouldn't judge as he did... so I disagree with your last sentence.
LOL my leo boyfriend is like this. I'm a scorpio so I wanted to know EVERYTHING, just out of curiosity and maybe to learn something interesting about him. He shared things with me, on his own and when I asked, and it didn't bother me it was interesting. But he NEVER asked me anything. And I noticed every time I mentioned things about my sexual past and he got full-on butt hurt. He took it as if it were a personal blow to his ego, as if I had done it while I was with him. He actually asked me if I had ever performed…*ahem* a certain sexual act and I said yes and he got upset and judged me! Even tho he asked me! But yea…must be a leo thing. They have too much pride to think that they're significant others have ever been intimate with anyone besides them. Lol smh leos
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Posted by SensitiveBluesTwo of my really good girlfriends have their moons in Scorpio. One Leo one Virgo.Posted by bkbella86it should, im wary of that moon placementPosted by SensitiveBluesThat type of shit makes me nervous as hell lol.Posted by bkbella86scorpio moons want to know everything and divulge nothing.Posted by SensitiveBluesThat was my first thought. He wants ammo to use against her in the future. I don't see why he needs to know about her past at all, if it doesn't effect him.
You're a scorpio moon. Scorpio moons are extremely judgmental. i wouldn't tell you if i was her. You guys use any data to attack your mates. Also you're mistrustful of people. Nobody wants that.
i learned that the hard way....
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Posted by SensitiveBluesWell thats good, cuz she's not…bitch.Posted by Scorpicohe probably just doesn't want to know his girl was a ho.Posted by PancakeFaceMy moon is ScorpioPosted by ScorpicoWell what moons and be usedPosted by lovinglioness1115I would have preferred that reaction to the one I got :-/Posted by ScorpicoI wouldn't empathize with this Leo on being full-on butthurt- I would just get maybe a tad annoyed and jealous for a few minutes at most, but then I would just let it go since I know it's such a small thing to get worked up about. I also wouldn't judge as he did... so I disagree with your last sentence.
LOL my leo boyfriend is like this. I'm a scorpio so I wanted to know EVERYTHING, just out of curiosity and maybe to learn something interesting about him. He shared things with me, on his own and when I asked, and it didn't bother me it was interesting. But he NEVER asked me anything. And I noticed every time I mentioned things about my sexual past and he got full-on butt hurt. He took it as if it were a personal blow to his ego, as if I had done it while I was with him. He actually asked me if I had ever performed…*ahem* a certain sexual act and I said yes and he got upset and judged me! Even tho he asked me! But yea…must be a leo thing. They have too much pride to think that they're significant others have ever been intimate with anyone besides them. Lol smh leos
Are we talking about?
His moon is Virgoclick to expand

Posted by SensitiveBluesGuess you got burnt by one
scorpio moons=used goods

Posted by SensitiveBluesyea, he knows already. and having experiences before dating a leo doesn't correlate to being used goods. lol smh thats just being too sensitivePosted by Scorpicogood then tell himPosted by SensitiveBluesWell thats good, cuz she's not…bitch.Posted by Scorpicohe probably just doesn't want to know his girl was a ho.Posted by PancakeFaceMy moon is ScorpioPosted by ScorpicoWell what moons and be usedPosted by lovinglioness1115I would have preferred that reaction to the one I got :-/Posted by ScorpicoI wouldn't empathize with this Leo on being full-on butthurt- I would just get maybe a tad annoyed and jealous for a few minutes at most, but then I would just let it go since I know it's such a small thing to get worked up about. I also wouldn't judge as he did... so I disagree with your last sentence.
LOL my leo boyfriend is like this. I'm a scorpio so I wanted to know EVERYTHING, just out of curiosity and maybe to learn something interesting about him. He shared things with me, on his own and when I asked, and it didn't bother me it was interesting. But he NEVER asked me anything. And I noticed every time I mentioned things about my sexual past and he got full-on butt hurt. He took it as if it were a personal blow to his ego, as if I had done it while I was with him. He actually asked me if I had ever performed…*ahem* a certain sexual act and I said yes and he got upset and judged me! Even tho he asked me! But yea…must be a leo thing. They have too much pride to think that they're significant others have ever been intimate with anyone besides them. Lol smh leos
Are we talking about?
His moon is Virgo
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Posted by badgalbeeWhat are you even talking about? I went by what she personally told me. And she's not a whore, everyone has a sexual past.
Hes all she did things in her padt because of a lack of confidence lol a captain with no cape?
Wheres captain-save-a-hoe im waiting.

Posted by seraphThanks for being constructive with your opinion. I like your input on this a lot. This is what I'm tryna learn.Posted by PancakeFaceUnless there's a criminal record involved, or something that could seriously mess with my material well-being, or there's an STD issue, it's none of my business, it isn't relevant, and it only distracts from the present. One will find out anyway, if one's the least bit alert.
Yeah I'm nosy I always wanna know. But I wanna know at the start of a relationship.
If she casually mentions something months in it feels like taking a bullet.
How do you feel about this kinda thing leos? Do you rather not mention your past. Does it bother you if your partner just brings something up?
I've dated two leos and neither of them wanted to know about my past. It didn't bother them at all. And call me
Judgmental if you like but that makes me worry. Like what the hell did they do? If they aren't checking their previous partners history's they could be doing anyone with anything.
If they had 2 partners or 200. Whatever. What will happen will happen anyway. I don't care about anyone's past or personal life story. Yesterday is done. I'm not interested in being anyone's parent or judge and jury. What needs to be known will come to light anyway.
When we spend time digging for problems, guess what we'll always find: problems and things to moan about.
With all the good food waiting to be eaten, all the fun waiting to be had, and one's own personal efforts toward freedom... there's no time to waste on other-centric bullshit.click to expand

Posted by ScorpicoMy ex and I had that combination. We were an amazing teamPosted by PancakeFaceMy moon is ScorpioPosted by ScorpicoWell what moons and be usedPosted by lovinglioness1115I would have preferred that reaction to the one I got :-/Posted by ScorpicoI wouldn't empathize with this Leo on being full-on butthurt- I would just get maybe a tad annoyed and jealous for a few minutes at most, but then I would just let it go since I know it's such a small thing to get worked up about. I also wouldn't judge as he did... so I disagree with your last sentence.
LOL my leo boyfriend is like this. I'm a scorpio so I wanted to know EVERYTHING, just out of curiosity and maybe to learn something interesting about him. He shared things with me, on his own and when I asked, and it didn't bother me it was interesting. But he NEVER asked me anything. And I noticed every time I mentioned things about my sexual past and he got full-on butt hurt. He took it as if it were a personal blow to his ego, as if I had done it while I was with him. He actually asked me if I had ever performed…*ahem* a certain sexual act and I said yes and he got upset and judged me! Even tho he asked me! But yea…must be a leo thing. They have too much pride to think that they're significant others have ever been intimate with anyone besides them. Lol smh leos
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If she casually mentions something months in it feels like taking a bullet.
How do you feel about this kinda thing leos? Do you rather not mention your past. Does it bother you if your partner just brings something up?
I've dated two leos and neither of them wanted to know about my past. It didn't bother them at all. And call me
Judgmental if you like but that makes me worry. Like what the hell did they do? If they aren't checking their previous partners history's they could be doing anyone with anything.