Am i just a friend to you?

Ask him out and see. Leos respond to a more direct approach. Also we tend not to be great texters since texting is more of a nuisance to us (or a weak form of communication). Leos will typically text to invite you out though.

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Ask him out and see. Leos respond to a more direct approach. Also we tend not to be great texters since texting is more of a nuisance to us (or a weak form of communication). Leos will typically text to invite you out though.

I wanna ask him out but fear of rejection. But i always drop him a hint as how much i like him. Not sure if he can get that. Hmm

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No risk, no reward. Leos usually aren't creatures of subtlety. Even if we do get the hint, we may not always act on it because we respond to strength. Hence why the direct approach is best. Leos (especially the men) will snap to attention when faced with a woman who has no fear telling us what she wants (in a not-bossy way). A woman who feels she warrants our attention will usually receive it.

I do understand that this strategy would be uncomfortable for you, so try being less subtle in your "hints". Assume you'll need to be rather blunt with him really. I once had a woman hint 3-4 times that she wanted me to text her less and call her more. Each "hint" became more obvious to the point she was practically telling me to call her. Somewhere in the back of my mind I wanted to be sure she was interested. This Leo may be pacing himself as well so that HE doesn't get rejected by you.

Also having dated a Scorpio, I can tell you that this could drag on for months, which isn't a bad thing if you're focused on getting to know him. Just know that those "hints" may be going over his head.

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Ask him out and see. Leos respond to a more direct approach. Also we tend not to be great texters since texting is more of a nuisance to us (or a weak form of communication). Leos will typically text to invite you out though.

I wanna ask him out but fear of rejection. But i always drop him a hint as how much i like him. Not sure if he can get that. Hmm

No risk, no reward. Leos usually aren't creatures of subtlety. Even if we do get the hint, we may not always act on it because we respond to strength. Hence why the direct approach is best. Leos (especially the men) will snap to attention when faced with a woman who has no fear telling us what she wants (in a not-bossy way). A woman who feels she warrants our attention will usually receive it.

I do understand that this strategy would be uncomfortable for you, so try being less subtle in your "hints". Assume you'll need to be rather blunt with him really. I once had a woman hint 3-4 times that she wanted me to text her less and call her more. Each "hint" became more obvious to the point she was practically telling me to call her. Somewhere in the back of my mind I wanted to be sure she was interested. This Leo may be pacing himself as well so that HE doesn't get rejected by you.

Also having dated a Scorpio, I can tell you that this could drag on for months, which isn't a bad thing if you're focused on getting to know him. Just know that those "hints" may be going over his head.

Just recently, i always say something to make it more obvious about how i really feel but he is so emotionless to the point i wanna give up already. He just get so excited when he wanna meet me, after we both reaching home, he wont send me any texts at all. When he is about to sleep, he will send me goodnight text. Thats why i have no confidence for direct approach. Just once, he said he wont forget me. When i said i already back home before him, he seemed like not happy (from my view at least). Up until now, im still curious to know for what reason he approached me as im not really that pretty lol. Btw thanks for your advice 🙂))

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Sounds like some of your concerns are based in your own self esteem. Stop wondering why this guy is interested in you. As I mentioned, Leos aren't big texters. That's not to say that we won't do it, but we're not big on it. Tell him to call you sometimes (you may have to say this a few times just so that he knows you're serious) or even better, just call him.

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Ask him out and see. Leos respond to a more direct approach. Also we tend not to be great texters since texting is more of a nuisance to us (or a weak form of communication). Leos will typically text to invite you out though.

I wanna ask him out but fear of rejection. But i always drop him a hint as how much i like him. Not sure if he can get that. Hmm

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Ok. From the height of my age NOW I see how wrong we all are thinking of dates!

Treat it as a friendly going out in order to get a new friend. Not BF! Just friend. Inhale and tell yourself - I like him. Why not to become friends? And believe in it!

So when you ask him - he doesn't feel 'dating vibes'.

My daughter is getting ready for a date as we speak. I told her if you like him - be a lady. If you like him as a friend - burp!

She laughed.

Take it easy. And keeping fingers crossed for you. ?

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Ask him out and see. Leos respond to a more direct approach. Also we tend not to be great texters since texting is more of a nuisance to us (or a weak form of communication). Leos will typically text to invite you out though.

I wanna ask him out but fear of rejection. But i always drop him a hint as how much i like him. Not sure if he can get that. Hmm

Ok. From the height of my age NOW I see how wrong we all are thinking of dates!

Treat it as a friendly going out in order to get a new friend. Not BF! Just friend. Inhale and tell yourself - I like him. Why not to become friends? And believe in it!

So when you ask him - he doesn't feel 'dating vibes'.

My daughter is getting ready for a date as we speak. I told her if you like him - be a lady. If you like him as a friend - burp!

She laughed.

Take it easy. And keeping fingers crossed for you. ?

Lol this is my first time since im not really good at communicating with guys, i easily get shy and akward. When this happened out of sudden, i lose my sense ?

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Ok. Let's make a thread about it.

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