Any Leo sun Capricorn Sun relationships and how'd that go how's that working

Any Leo sun Capricorn Sun relationships and how'd that go how's that working

Posted by aquarius_beauty
The Leo in my life (previous) had a Capricorn girlfriend and she cheated on him. Treated him like sh#t and broke his heart + humiliated him.

My niece is talking to a Leo but she can be really cruel to him. She likes to play emotional games with the Leo.



I think if its Leo woman and Capricorn man it can work better. I just see Leo men walking away with a broken heart because even though they have huge egos, they also have huge hearts. Capricorn women are manipulative and vicious to a Leo. Thing is Leos have a tendency to go for people who treat them wrong so he'll probably stick around until he can't no longer.

don't know what's in those capricorn women charts, but my kids dad is a Leo and I have 2 by him. the only issues we had was he cheated on me , so that is why I asked about the relationships anyones had with this combo. I was faithful to a tee. Even had that son of a bitch bath water waiting for him when he got home and dinner was waiting. would massage his back and any other area he needed.

New guy is a Leo and I'm scared he's gonna be like that as well .

Posted by agarcia06
I did go out with a Cap male and he was great. At first it was a little weird for me because he would be really dry on the phone, through text messages and he really wouldn't warm up to me. After a month or so we were like best friends, we started going out more, I made him laugh which is one of my greatest accomplishments lol !!! Then the flirting started, then he became protective over me, and he was the first to say I love you.. he asked me out.

We were both very ambitious.. funny thing is I met him in debate club. We had the best conversation. OH MY LORD HE WAS SO SMART. Intelligence = Sexinessss !! He was a perfect gentleman and I loved it. He didn't really compliment me but I didn't mind because he would make it up by hugs and the way he looked at me. I'm a Leo but I don't party much so we always stayed at home and watched movies or worked on school stuff.

One thing I loved about him was that he was very active, knew how to deal with my anger, was protective, made me more focused on my work...

now things that I didn't like was that he was always quiet around my family.. I wish he interacted more with them... he was very lazy sometimes, he would get depressed and then take his anger out on me.. That's the reason why we broke up.. he wasn't doing so well at school so he got depressed and every time I would try to help he would tell me to fuck off and that it wasn't my job to make him happy. I told him that I understood how he felt and that I was there for him.. and then he said that I'm too hard working for him and he couldn't be with me LOLOL. so basically he dumped because I had better grades than him.

Yes he sounds like a real asshole. I think we can get really depressed and moody which I have learned better with age on how to cope with it in order to attratct the right guys. I interact with the new Leo's family very often and really talk alot with his sister. The kids father wouldn't evven put forth the effort to make sure I knew them before having my kids and I really am very shy around new people as well because I have to feel them out and get to know them

maybe all the fire in my chart makes me very different from the typical capricorn. Cause the new Leo has my heart and I really actually think I am falling in LOVE with him because he really makes me feel so special. I know he really likes me but I don't know if he is trying to have a long term relationship with me just yet, because he keeps saying he has to get himslf together but he has sad he loves me and that it's just gonna take some time, but that I am very special and he thinks I am beautiful we spend hours video chatting even falling asleep on it , so in between working and sleep he's always making sure we see each other even though we arent around each other

Barack (Leo male) and Michelle (Capricorn female) are the only examples I can think of really.

I personally had one experience with a Capricorn woman when I was younger and yeah I don't think I'd go for another Capricorn. We bonded at work and she fell for me pretty hard. She originally came on to me, but she definitely had an agenda. Pretty sure she used me as a rebound. She'd bounce between being hot and cold. She also became very selfish and would often talk about herself. I wound up telling her how I felt and walking away.

From my experience, Capricorn women have only been interested in me when I could further their careers. My Mars is in Capricorn, so I get it, but I wouldn't want to be in a romantic relationship that hinged on material success.

i would imagine it being a very cold day...

A Leo female here. I know only two Capricorn men. One's the typical gentlemanly Capricorn - I don't think anybody can hate him - introverted, dignified, work conscious, loyal, well mannered, down to earth, realistic and sweet. But he's too introverted and also kind of shy for me to see him as anything more than a good friend.The other fellow was a narcissistic, cold, passive aggressive, absolutely nasty, also cowardly, cunning cheat. How his wife is still with him is something that surprises me. I've seen both extremes, so I suggest that you don't go by just the sign thing, understand what they really are and then decide.

Posted by InLoveWithLife
A Leo female here. I know only two Capricorn men. One's the typical gentlemanly Capricorn - I don't think anybody can hate him - introverted, dignified, work conscious, loyal, well mannered, down to earth, realistic and sweet. But he's too introverted and also kind of shy for me to see him as anything more than a good friend.The other fellow was a narcissistic, cold, passive aggressive, absolutely nasty, also cowardly, cunning cheat. How his wife is still with him is something that surprises me. I've seen both extremes, so I suggest that you don't go by just the sign thing, understand what they really are and then decide.

you are absolutely right that one cant just go based off of the sun sign itself, because I have this creepy old man around thestreet who is married and he is a LEO , he claims he loves this woman but he is always coming on to me even tried to payme for sex and I told him its against my morales to even go there sorry wrong female. The guy Ihadmy children by is one and I always was faithful but he was the one being disloyal.Now The new guy ve been dealing with I noticed my venus is his moon sign and his venus(virgo) is my moon sign our charts say thatwe'll have an emotional bondand a physical bond that would be hard to break, but in all my dealings with just their sun sign I'm scared of this honestly

Posted by Chuckcem
Barack (Leo male) and Michelle (Capricorn female) are the only examples I can think of really.

I personally had one experience with a Capricorn woman when I was younger and yeah I don't think I'd go for another Capricorn. We bonded at work and she fell for me pretty hard. She originally came on to me, but she definitely had an agenda. Pretty sure she used me as a rebound. She'd bounce between being hot and cold. She also became very selfish and would often talk about herself. I wound up telling her how I felt and walking away.

From my experience, Capricorn women have only been interested in me when I could further their careers. My Mars is in Capricorn, so I get it, but I wouldn't want to be in a romantic relationship that hinged on material success.

I didn't even realize that was what their zodiac signs were which goes to show that with the right maturity level it can definitely work out without it being any problems

After hearing about how you all who say the capricorn women were users and did the men wrong, I wonder if you guys actually knew both sides because in all of my experience I have never been one to use anybody, when I met the leo I have kids by I had thousands inmy account and wasn't even worried bout a dude, he finally convinced me to give him a chance which in my own opinion god used him to give me my offsprings but he had nothing for me to use him for I'm nowhere near cold hearted as what I've been hearing about these other capricorn women maybe they had other placements that caused them to be those type of individuals and also their upbringing. I actually felt as though I was the one being used there is 2 sides of every story and the fact of the matter is yall were only looking in from the outside if it wasn't your own personal experience please don't even mention it up here because yall dont know what that man could have done to that women for her to even turn cold like that because capricorns only turn cold when they are hurt so if you know that much about leos then you know they aren't faithful majority of the time then we find out and its over from there then they feed this old sob story to others to get some kind of attention

Posted by Chuckcem
Barack (Leo male) and Michelle (Capricorn female) are the only examples I can think of really.

I personally had one experience with a Capricorn woman when I was younger and yeah I don't think I'd go for another Capricorn. We bonded at work and she fell for me pretty hard. She originally came on to me, but she definitely had an agenda. Pretty sure she used me as a rebound. She'd bounce between being hot and cold. She also became very selfish and would often talk about herself. I wound up telling her how I felt and walking away.

From my experience, Capricorn women have only been interested in me when I could further their careers. My Mars is in Capricorn, so I get it, but I wouldn't want to be in a romantic relationship that hinged on material success.

yeah she got very lucky!!! with that leo type of man.

he's so different than leo Bill Clinton.

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Posted by agarcia06
I can relate to this... obviously I'm a Leo but I was friends with a Capricorn female for about three years and we were great friends. I brought the goofy side in her and she helped me be consistent. Everything was fine until one of my other friends said that the Cap female hated me and was only my friends because I always bought her stuff. That stung !! Turned out she was using me, didn't really like me, thought I was too blunt and yada yada... so yeaaah....

one thing I noticed about earth signs like Taurus and Capricorn is that they're really materialistic (don't know much about Virgo females). They will do what they can to use people to get to where they want to go, especially Capricorn females, based on my observations, but like in every sign there is good and bad. There are the Capri who are independent and they get their sh#t done with no one else's help, then there are the bad who will use and manipulate a poor sap into doing their dirty bidding. Usually it's the depressed Capricorns who have made poor choices in life and haven't gotten very far in their careers (as their career oriented) who will manipulate to get what they want without working hard themselves. Because the majority of Capricorn females are beautiful, physically, with beautiful bodies they will use this as a weapon against men and most signs will fall for it more since they go based more on aesthetics than inner beauty.

Aries men- will fall in love with this beauty but then pull back and run away when he realizes the type of person she is. Despite Aries being self-centered and selfish they are very intelligent and will walk away when he doesn't find anything else underneath that mask.

Taurus men - she will play him but he will make her pay, quite literally. Don't mess with Taurus people money or assets. They will seek out a lawyer if needed be to make you pay every last penny you took from them.

Gemini men - will give but will expect you to give in return. If she doesn't then so will he.

Cancer men - penny pinchers in my experience so she'll have a hard time manipulating him. he won't hesitate to sleep with her though.

Leo men - probably at the top in the poor sap category. She will play him well, worst yet she will be in command. There just a way about her that puts the Leo in a docile position. He will most likely end up with a broken heart

Sagittarius men - will give and give and give up until they get tired of her bullcrap and walk away for good. He mostly stays because he's so mesmerized by her beauty.

Aquarius men - good luck trying to manipulate this guy. I think he and Scorpio men are the least of the zodiac who you won't be able to manipulate. As these two seek mental and emotional compatibility first and foremost. They can tell a woman's intention very quickly and will probably play along to see how far she's willing to go. Aquarius men will walk away once he gets what he wants>playing with her head and finally saying to her 'sorry'. Scorpio men will whip out the stinger and seek vengeance.

Pisces men - easily manipulated as well. I would say second in line to Leo men in this dep.

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good description of shadow side cap sexy ladies. lol

lol@ poor saps with pisces and leo. smh. If they have scorpio and Capricorn, aquarius, even Taurus, they may know how to handle these ladies.

you forgot Virgo men, theyre usually mesmerized by Capricorn, generally speaking.

and libra and another Capricorn.

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Posted by lisabethur8
good description of shadow side cap sexy ladies. lol

lol@ poor saps with pisces and leo. smh. If they have scorpio and Capricorn, aquarius, even Taurus, they may know how to handle these ladies.

you forgot Virgo men, theyre usually mesmerized by Capricorn, generally speaking.

and libra and another Capricorn.

I know it's just that I don't know much about Virgo/Capricorn or Libra/Capricorn relationships. I haven't come across one to base it on observations and I don't like to go based solely on books because they can be very black and white and leave everything else in between.

But based on how Virgo is, they probably will fall for the Capri but won't invest too much money on her. I'd say he'd invest more time, emotion, and devotion more so than money. I could be wrong though.

Libra is very giving and loving but they also like to be given. They're not stupid enough to fall for longterm for a Capricorn. Once that infatuation wears off then they bounce. But, if he sees right through her mask, he won't even entertain her, he'd probably give her a sermon though on what's righteous and right.

Capricorn and Capricorn are both penny pinchers and don't spend easily. The women are more inclined to spend on a man than the Capricorn male on a female. Initially the male will give but will stop all together once he's with her. This I base on my nieces relationship with her Capricorn boyfriend (she's a Capri too).

Capricorn ladies are for the most part very beautiful and sexy later in life. They have voluptuous bodies and are physically beautiful. I tend to be attracted to their beauty but I'm usually put off by their mentality. They can be know it all's and very in your face about what they 'know'. When they are proven wrong though, that makes me laugh. The majority though, are usually very manipulative regardless and will use emotional or physical/sexual manipulation to get what they want from a male. I've seen this time and time again and they can be quite psychotic when in love with their partner. It's off putting.

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I think you got it right. lol

Capricorn can be really big time penny pinchers. but then all the earth signs are to an extent.

Taurus can be more extravangant in that they want QUALITY stuff, so they are prepared to spend more, for something really good than poor quality. (it's a Venusian trait) lol

Virgo is more low key penny pincher but they are very excellent with money.

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Posted by venusSag30


don't know what's in those capricorn women charts, but my kids dad is a Leo and I have 2 by him. the only issues we had was he cheated on me , so that is why I asked about the relationships anyones had with this combo. I was faithful to a tee. Even had that son of a bitch bath water waiting for him when he got home and dinner was waiting. would massage his back and any other area he needed.

New guy is a Leo and I'm scared he's gonna be like that as well .

Don't judge the this Leo just yet, take things slow and let his actions prove himself to you.

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Thankks for that advice and thats exactly what I've been doing and he has been very sweet and thoughful since even before I started being involved with him. His actions really does show he is into me alot and he's even told me I am very special but he'd like to get his self all the way together before we could get serious, although we have still been getting serious. He also said he could see hisself with me and he couldn't imagine how any guy would cheat oon me because he thinks I'm perfect. I told him I thought he was just flattering me but he falls asleep on the video chat with me everyday, for the past month we've been doing it.

the question I have now is if he says 2I love you and is giving me soo much attention when he isn't working we're video chatting should I believe that this could actually be real

Posted by aquarius_beauty
Thing is Leos have a tendency to go for people who treat them wrong so he'll probably stick around until he can't no longer.

Thats not true . I dont think leos will agree with that .

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Posted by aquarius_beauty
The Leo in my life (previous) had a Capricorn girlfriend and she cheated on him. Treated him like sh#t and broke his heart + humiliated him.

My niece is talking to a Leo but she can be really cruel to him. She likes to play emotional games with the Leo.



I think if its Leo woman and Capricorn man it can work better. I just see Leo men walking away with a broken heart because even though they have huge egos, they also have huge hearts. Capricorn women are manipulative and vicious to a Leo. Thing is Leos have a tendency to go for people who treat them wrong so he'll probably stick around until he can't no longer.

don't know what's in those capricorn women charts, but my kids dad is a Leo and I have 2 by him. the only issues we had was he cheated on me , so that is why I asked about the relationships anyones had with this combo. I was faithful to a tee. Even had that son of a bitch bath water waiting for him when he got home and dinner was waiting. would massage his back and any other area he needed.

New guy is a Leo and I'm scared he's gonna be like that as well .

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I am capricorn sun married to leo sun man. We are good but yes we have issues . Honestly i see issues among every couple around so i dont know if mine and his are major one. Cheating is not an issue and if it ever happens then ofcourse its going to be over . I dont think all leos are the type to cheat so dont think even the new leo will be the kinds to cheat. I have been a leo magnet even before i married one (may be sag moon and asc attracts them). And most of the leos i know are loyal .

Posted by venusSag30
After hearing about how you all who say the capricorn women were users and did the men wrong, I wonder if you guys actually knew both sides because in all of my experience I have never been one to use anybody, when I met the leo I have kids by I had thousands inmy account and wasn't even worried bout a dude, he finally convinced me to give him a chance which in my own opinion god used him to give me my offsprings but he had nothing for me to use him for I'm nowhere near cold hearted as what I've been hearing about these other capricorn women maybe they had other placements that caused them to be those type of individuals and also their upbringing. I actually felt as though I was the one being used there is 2 sides of every story and the fact of the matter is yall were only looking in from the outside if it wasn't your own personal experience please don't even mention it up here because yall dont know what that man could have done to that women for her to even turn cold like that because capricorns only turn cold when they are hurt so if you know that much about leos then you know they aren't faithful majority of the time then we find out and its over from there then they feed this old sob story to others to get some kind of attention

I tell you what . It is very easy to assume that capricorn women have used the other . When it comes between leo and capricorns , outsiders will only know what they can see. And leos can definitely give a better image with out even trying ,whereelse caps cannot .

I changed my entire life plans because i fell for my the leo( now husband ). I compromised on my career when i had to move location to be with him . Till today i have not been able to adjust with this place and it depresses me but when i look at him i feel it was all worth . Did i use him ? I had many choices .

No body will say i am manipulative but then people say i am head strong. And i am sure some even gossip behind my back that how i am stern about a few things. No body will know the entire truth .

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Posted by Chuckcem
Barack (Leo male) and Michelle (Capricorn female) are the only examples I can think of really.

I personally had one experience with a Capricorn woman when I was younger and yeah I don't think I'd go for another Capricorn. We bonded at work and she fell for me pretty hard. She originally came on to me, but she definitely had an agenda. Pretty sure she used me as a rebound. She'd bounce between being hot and cold. She also became very selfish and would often talk about herself. I wound up telling her how I felt and walking away.

From my experience, Capricorn women have only been interested in me when I could further their careers. My Mars is in Capricorn, so I get it, but I wouldn't want to be in a romantic relationship that hinged on material success.

yeah she got very lucky!!! with that leo type of man.

he's so different than leo Bill Clinton.

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So true ...its about the right man too.

Why does it sometimes seem Cap women are examined so closely?

Anyway, I guess its good to know some Cap ladies have "gifts" when it comes to physical appearance atleast.

From my view, I have yet to see a Cap woman that has ran over a man. It seems to me, Cap ladies are usually the victims in relationships and give way more than they get in return.

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Posted by aquarius_beauty
Thing is Leos have a tendency to go for people who treat them wrong so he'll probably stick around until he can't no longer.

Thats not true . I dont think leos will agree with that .

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It depends. We tend to like dynamic personalities. Since we're risk takers, we like that trait in others. We respect bravery and strength (internal and/or external). We also can be drawn to those who seemingly risk their own necks for us. Problem is, we can put too much attention on that ONE trait and fail to focus on any red flags. We're fixed sign and proud, so we can be too loyal/stubborn to leave a bad situation if we're emotionally immature. This isn't always the case though. Leos just needs to be more aware of what's most important to us when we're looking for the right person. Since Leos tend to live in the moment, we can sometimes leap before we look.

Posted by lnana04
Why does it sometimes seem Cap women are examined so closely?

Anyway, I guess its good to know some Cap ladies have "gifts" when it comes to physical appearance atleast.

From my view, I have yet to see a Cap woman that has ran over a man. It seems to me, Cap ladies are usually the victims in relationships and give way more than they get in return.

I totally agree with you. Most of the times its actually other women talking about cap women.

I have also not seen a bitch cap woman around. And i know many .

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Posted by aquarius_beauty
Thing is Leos have a tendency to go for people who treat them wrong so he'll probably stick around until he can't no longer.

Thats not true . I dont think leos will agree with that .

It depends. We tend to like dynamic personalities. Since we're risk takers, we like that trait in others. We respect bravery and strength (internal and/or external). We also can be drawn to those who seemingly risk their own necks for us. Problem is, we can put too much attention on that ONE trait and fail to focus on any red flags. We're fixed sign and proud, so we can be too loyal/stubborn to leave a bad situation if we're emotionally immature. This isn't always the case though. Leos just needs to be more aware of what's most important to us when we're looking for the right person. Since Leos tend to live in the moment, we can sometimes leap before we look.

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What you saying makes sense but the leo in my life is too proud and he doesnt let any one treat him bad. Although some times i feel that many people take advantage of him but yes he fails to see that .

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Posted by aquarius_beauty
Thing is Leos have a tendency to go for people who treat them wrong so he'll probably stick around until he can't no longer.

Thats not true . I dont think leos will agree with that .

Of course they won't admit to it, their ego won't allow that. I know a few Leos in my life who have admitted to going for people who don't deserve them and sticking around longer than they should.

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That is very much possible for leos to say that.

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Posted by lisabethur8
good description of shadow side cap sexy ladies. lol

lol@ poor saps with pisces and leo. smh. If they have scorpio and Capricorn, aquarius, even Taurus, they may know how to handle these ladies.

you forgot Virgo men, theyre usually mesmerized by Capricorn, generally speaking.

and libra and another Capricorn.

I know it's just that I don't know much about Virgo/Capricorn or Libra/Capricorn relationships. I haven't come across one to base it on observations and I don't like to go based solely on books because they can be very black and white and leave everything else in between.

But based on how Virgo is, they probably will fall for the Capri but won't invest too much money on her. I'd say he'd invest more time, emotion, and devotion more so than money. I could be wrong though.

Libra is very giving and loving but they also like to be given. They're not stupid enough to fall for longterm for a Capricorn. Once that infatuation wears off then they bounce. But, if he sees right through her mask, he won't even entertain her, he'd probably give her a sermon though on what's righteous and right.

Capricorn and Capricorn are both penny pinchers and don't spend easily. The women are more inclined to spend on a man than the Capricorn male on a female. Initially the male will give but will stop all together once he's with her. This I base on my nieces relationship with her Capricorn boyfriend (she's a Capri too).

Capricorn ladies are for the most part very beautiful and sexy later in life. They have voluptuous bodies and are physically beautiful. I tend to be attracted to their beauty but I'm usually put off by their mentality. They can be know it all's and very in your face about what they 'know'. When they are proven wrong though, that makes me laugh. The majority though, are usually very manipulative regardless and will use emotional or physical/sexual manipulation to get what they want from a male. I've seen this time and time again and they can be quite psychotic when in love with their partner. It's off putting.

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I just ran across an old clip of L&hh Atlanta, and here the Cap is dating a Leo, who buys her a fake Rolex(so much for them being saps) and her ex(Scorpio) shows up to be competitive and give her keys to a BMW he bought her...with strings attached of course. Her Cappie best friend is instigating the whole scene lol.. Its a clip of comedy. I guess it speaks of the materialism, but she's actually not a materialistic figure on the show.

I think guys view us this way, more than it really being the case, especially fixed sign guys.

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Posted by venusSag30
After hearing about how you all who say the capricorn women were users and did the men wrong, I wonder if you guys actually knew both sides because in all of my experience I have never been one to use anybody, when I met the leo I have kids by I had thousands inmy account and wasn't even worried bout a dude, he finally convinced me to give him a chance which in my own opinion god used him to give me my offsprings but he had nothing for me to use him for I'm nowhere near cold hearted as what I've been hearing about these other capricorn women maybe they had other placements that caused them to be those type of individuals and also their upbringing. I actually felt as though I was the one being used there is 2 sides of every story and the fact of the matter is yall were only looking in from the outside if it wasn't your own personal experience please don't even mention it up here because yall dont know what that man could have done to that women for her to even turn cold like that because capricorns only turn cold when they are hurt so if you know that much about leos then you know they aren't faithful majority of the time then we find out and its over from there then they feed this old sob story to others to get some kind of attention

I tell you what . It is very easy to assume that capricorn women have used the other . When it comes between leo and capricorns , outsiders will only know what they can see. And leos can definitely give a better image with out even trying ,whereelse caps cannot .

I changed my entire life plans because i fell for my the leo( now husband ). I compromised on my career when i had to move location to be with him . Till today i have not been able to adjust with this place and it depresses me but when i look at him i feel it was all worth . Did i use him ? I had many choices .

No body will say i am manipulative but then people say i am head strong. And i am sure some even gossip behind my back that how i am stern about a few things. No body will know the entire truth .

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I just loved reading your posts because I compromised with the leo I had kids by but I was younger and very hormonal because i had just had thebabies and i was not how I was before we had kids, which he was compromising at all, plus I had no reason whatso ever to use him which is why i know you see I skipped all over everybody elses negative statements cause capricorn women are all different just like any other sign it is all in how we're raised and I don't know too many who are the way they have described but I have met leo men who are willing to ocheat on their women or even leave em for me and I tell them quick that goes against everything I stand for.... wanna talk about using someone for something, if I wanted this one dudes whole paycheck, a car and whatever else I could have it I am not materalistic at all so why do we get stereotyped

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Posted by lisabethur8
good description of shadow side cap sexy ladies. lol

lol@ poor saps with pisces and leo. smh. If they have scorpio and Capricorn, aquarius, even Taurus, they may know how to handle these ladies.

you forgot Virgo men, theyre usually mesmerized by Capricorn, generally speaking.

and libra and another Capricorn.

I know it's just that I don't know much about Virgo/Capricorn or Libra/Capricorn relationships. I haven't come across one to base it on observations and I don't like to go based solely on books because they can be very black and white and leave everything else in between.

But based on how Virgo is, they probably will fall for the Capri but won't invest too much money on her. I'd say he'd invest more time, emotion, and devotion more so than money. I could be wrong though.

Libra is very giving and loving but they also like to be given. They're not stupid enough to fall for longterm for a Capricorn. Once that infatuation wears off then they bounce. But, if he sees right through her mask, he won't even entertain her, he'd probably give her a sermon though on what's righteous and right.

Capricorn and Capricorn are both penny pinchers and don't spend easily. The women are more inclined to spend on a man than the Capricorn male on a female. Initially the male will give but will stop all together once he's with her. This I base on my nieces relationship with her Capricorn boyfriend (she's a Capri too).

Capricorn ladies are for the most part very beautiful and sexy later in life. They have voluptuous bodies and are physically beautiful. I tend to be attracted to their beauty but I'm usually put off by their mentality. They can be know it all's and very in your face about what they 'know'. When they are proven wrong though, that makes me laugh. The majority though, are usually very manipulative regardless and will use emotional or physical/sexual manipulation to get what they want from a male. I've seen this time and time again and they can be quite psychotic when in love with their partner. It's off putting.

I just ran across an old clip of L&hh Atlanta, and here the Cap is dating a Leo, who buys her a fake Rolex(so much for them being saps) and her ex(Scorpio) shows up to be competitive and give her keys to a BMW he bought her...with strings attached of course. Her Cappie best friend is instigating the whole scene lol.. Its a clip of comedy. I guess it speaks of the materialism, but she's actually not a materialistic figure on the show.

I think guys view us this way, more than it really being the case, especially fixed sign guys.

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lol indeed they do and it's sooo wong for us to have tem make a mackery of us like such

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After hearing about how you all who say the capricorn women were users and did the men wrong, I wonder if you guys actually knew both sides because in all of my experience I have never been one to use anybody, when I met the leo I have kids by I had thousands inmy account and wasn't even worried bout a dude, he finally convinced me to give him a chance which in my own opinion god used him to give me my offsprings but he had nothing for me to use him for I'm nowhere near cold hearted as what I've been hearing about these other capricorn women maybe they had other placements that caused them to be those type of individuals and also their upbringing. I actually felt as though I was the one being used there is 2 sides of every story and the fact of the matter is yall were only looking in from the outside if it wasn't your own personal experience please don't even mention it up here because yall dont know what that man could have done to that women for her to even turn cold like that because capricorns only turn cold when they are hurt so if you know that much about leos then you know they aren't faithful majority of the time then we find out and its over from there then they feed this old sob story to others to get some kind of attention

I tell you what . It is very easy to assume that capricorn women have used the other . When it comes between leo and capricorns , outsiders will only know what they can see. And leos can definitely give a better image with out even trying ,whereelse caps cannot .

I changed my entire life plans because i fell for my the leo( now husband ). I compromised on my career when i had to move location to be with him . Till today i have not been able to adjust with this place and it depresses me but when i look at him i feel it was all worth . Did i use him ? I had many choices .

No body will say i am manipulative but then people say i am head strong. And i am sure some even gossip behind my back that how i am stern about a few things. No body will know the entire truth .

I just loved reading your posts because I compromised with the leo I had kids by but I was younger and very hormonal because i had just had thebabies and i was not how I was before we had kids, which he was compromising at all, plus I had no reason whatso ever to use him which is why i know you see I skipped all over everybody elses negative statements cause capricorn women are all different just like any other sign it is all in how we're raised and I don't know too many who are the way they have described but I have met leo men who are willing to ocheat on their women or even leave em for me and I tell them quick that goes against everything I stand for.... wanna talk about using someone for something, if I wanted this one dudes whole paycheck, a car and whatever else I could have it I am not materalistic at all so why do we get stereotyped

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You saying all capricorn women are different . Yes thats true and like you said true for every sign. But as a whole i have not seen or found capricorn women to be users . I am not saying this because i am a capricorn but i am saying this , seeing other capricorn women around me .

Never worry about what people say because people will say something or the other no matter what. I know it is easy to say and dealing with many accuses gets to us .

Why people accuse us ,because we are not the best with them. Every body with have an opinion based on how they feel with you and to some extent what they hear about you . We do not prioritize the world ..we only prioritize very few people .

And to speak about being materialistic . I openly say that i am . But i never use people for money, i never use people to get favors , i never take others money but yes i do not like to waste my money on anyone . I do not like when my husband waste his money on others . He some times understand that others are using him for money but other times he calls me selfish because i am telling him to not waste money on others . My motive is something else .

Cap sibling is batshit crazy. We get along great most of the time and has that sibling protector trait. However, not a fan of a lot of my sibling's traits. When we fight is like WW3.

I really have been trying very hard to not ruin this relation ship

I dont want his money I just enjoy his company and he keeps on claiming he cant be in a damn relationship because he cant give a 100% to anybody, hell I even paid his phone bill ast month so Idk wtf anybody else goes thru with these relationships but all I wanna know straight no chaser does this man seem to just be leading me on ? if he doesn't want me then why the hell is he fwm? and I am needing answers nobody on here even noticing so I just been letting it play out, he acts like he's mine but he has a virgo venus so I think that since it trines my moon perhaps thats the case and he gave me the crap about the time he's invested in me cause I told him I was just leaving it alone because Im getting fustrated with not gettting enough time anymore at first I ws fine with the space but there's no balance which seems like he's lost interest or maybe we're both getting bored and I had a dream about him in this reoccurent dream where I found a secret passage and even in the dream when he kissed me I felt it, so I really love him so fuz all the negative other people experience cause thats not mines I am a capricorn trying to see if this is worth it cause I hate wasting my time and I dont even know how to pick myself up after this

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I really have been trying very hard to not ruin this relation ship

I dont want his money I just enjoy his company and he keeps on claiming he cant be in a damn relationship because he cant give a 100% to anybody, hell I even paid his phone bill ast month so Idk wtf anybody else goes thru with these relationships but all I wanna know straight no chaser does this man seem to just be leading me on ? if he doesn't want me then why the hell is he fwm? and I am needing answers nobody on here even noticing so I just been letting it play out, he acts like he's mine but he has a virgo venus so I think that since it trines my moon perhaps thats the case and he gave me the crap about the time he's invested in me cause I told him I was just leaving it alone because Im getting fustrated with not gettting enough time anymore at first I ws fine with the space but there's no balance which seems like he's lost interest or maybe we're both getting bored and I had a dream about him in this reoccurent dream where I found a secret passage and even in the dream when he kissed me I felt it, so I really love him so fuz all the negative other people experience cause thats not mines I am a capricorn trying to see if this is worth it cause I hate wasting my time and I dont even know how to pick myself up after this

Sounds like he told you how he really feels already. If a guy says that he can't be in a relationship, believe him. At this point he's not leading you on because he isn't lying or hiding his true intentions from you. So unless you are cool with being his friend or a friend with benefits, you should leave him alone and pursue other interests.

I'll also say, don't pay this man's bills any longer. You're basically opening yourself to being used by him. Let this man go.

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I really have been trying very hard to not ruin this relation ship

I dont want his money I just enjoy his company and he keeps on claiming he cant be in a damn relationship because he cant give a 100% to anybody, hell I even paid his phone bill ast month so Idk wtf anybody else goes thru with these relationships but all I wanna know straight no chaser does this man seem to just be leading me on ? if he doesn't want me then why the hell is he fwm? and I am needing answers nobody on here even noticing so I just been letting it play out, he acts like he's mine but he has a virgo venus so I think that since it trines my moon perhaps thats the case and he gave me the crap about the time he's invested in me cause I told him I was just leaving it alone because Im getting fustrated with not gettting enough time anymore at first I ws fine with the space but there's no balance which seems like he's lost interest or maybe we're both getting bored and I had a dream about him in this reoccurent dream where I found a secret passage and even in the dream when he kissed me I felt it, so I really love him so fuz all the negative other people experience cause thats not mines I am a capricorn trying to see if this is worth it cause I hate wasting my time and I dont even know how to pick myself up after this

Sounds like he told you how he really feels already. If a guy says that he can't be in a relationship, believe him. At this point he's not leading you on because he isn't lying or hiding his true intentions from you. So unless you are cool with being his friend or a friend with benefits, you should leave him alone and pursue other interests.

I'll also say, don't pay this man's bills any longer. You're basically opening yourself to being used by him. Let this man go.

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YOUR rightthe truth has already been spoken to me about where we stand and the only reason I spoke of paying his bill was because everybody on here commenting are speaking on how CAPRICORN women use the LEO guy and break their hearts in the END. He has done a lot for me NOT to mention , as well as had told me to be patient with him while he is getting it together because he can see me being his wife in the future but right now he's going thru basically some issues with the separation he had from his kids mom. He had been really going thru it and he says im special to him, but I need to just back up and call it dead even on the things we've both done for one another and just leave it alone since I'm not cool with a fwb situation is what your saying? And if he's saying be patient and I could see myself making you my wife then what should I just leave that where it's at too?

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I really have been trying very hard to not ruin this relation ship

I dont want his money I just enjoy his company and he keeps on claiming he cant be in a damn relationship because he cant give a 100% to anybody, hell I even paid his phone bill ast month so Idk wtf anybody else goes thru with these relationships but all I wanna know straight no chaser does this man seem to just be leading me on ? if he doesn't want me then why the hell is he fwm? and I am needing answers nobody on here even noticing so I just been letting it play out, he acts like he's mine but he has a virgo venus so I think that since it trines my moon perhaps thats the case and he gave me the crap about the time he's invested in me cause I told him I was just leaving it alone because Im getting fustrated with not gettting enough time anymore at first I ws fine with the space but there's no balance which seems like he's lost interest or maybe we're both getting bored and I had a dream about him in this reoccurent dream where I found a secret passage and even in the dream when he kissed me I felt it, so I really love him so fuz all the negative other people experience cause thats not mines I am a capricorn trying to see if this is worth it cause I hate wasting my time and I dont even know how to pick myself up after this

Sounds like he told you how he really feels already. If a guy says that he can't be in a relationship, believe him. At this point he's not leading you on because he isn't lying or hiding his true intentions from you. So unless you are cool with being his friend or a friend with benefits, you should leave him alone and pursue other interests.

I'll also say, don't pay this man's bills any longer. You're basically opening yourself to being used by him. Let this man go.

YOUR rightthe truth has already been spoken to me about where we stand and the only reason I spoke of paying his bill was because everybody on here commenting are speaking on how CAPRICORN women use the LEO guy and break their hearts in the END. He has done a lot for me NOT to mention , as well as had told me to be patient with him while he is getting it together because he can see me being his wife in the future but right now he's going thru basically some issues with the separation he had from his kids mom. He had been really going thru it and he says im special to him, but I need to just back up and call it dead even on the things we've both done for one another and just leave it alone since I'm not cool with a fwb situation is what your saying? And if he's saying be patient and I could see myself making you my wife then what should I just leave that where it's at too?

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Sounds like he has you on the back burner. It's possible he's just trying to "sort through things," but even still, there's nothing you can really do with that information. It's like being put in timeout indefinitely. Talking about marriage is just keeping you on the hook it sounds like. Unfortunately without knowing this man, no one can tell you what his true intentions are.

HOWEVER, words come easy, just remember that. If this guy was really serious about marrying you, he wouldn't keep you on the hook. He'd want you to know that he was being 100% with you. Since this situation appears to be a bit murky, I would advise backing off until he can take things with you more seriously. If you don't want to be just friends, or friends with benefits, then your only option is to look for love elsewhere.

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I really have been trying very hard to not ruin this relation ship

I dont want his money I just enjoy his company and he keeps on claiming he cant be in a damn relationship because he cant give a 100% to anybody, hell I even paid his phone bill ast month so Idk wtf anybody else goes thru with these relationships but all I wanna know straight no chaser does this man seem to just be leading me on ? if he doesn't want me then why the hell is he fwm? and I am needing answers nobody on here even noticing so I just been letting it play out, he acts like he's mine but he has a virgo venus so I think that since it trines my moon perhaps thats the case and he gave me the crap about the time he's invested in me cause I told him I was just leaving it alone because Im getting fustrated with not gettting enough time anymore at first I ws fine with the space but there's no balance which seems like he's lost interest or maybe we're both getting bored and I had a dream about him in this reoccurent dream where I found a secret passage and even in the dream when he kissed me I felt it, so I really love him so fuz all the negative other people experience cause thats not mines I am a capricorn trying to see if this is worth it cause I hate wasting my time and I dont even know how to pick myself up after this

Sounds like he told you how he really feels already. If a guy says that he can't be in a relationship, believe him. At this point he's not leading you on because he isn't lying or hiding his true intentions from you. So unless you are cool with being his friend or a friend with benefits, you should leave him alone and pursue other interests.

I'll also say, don't pay this man's bills any longer. You're basically opening yourself to being used by him. Let this man go.

YOUR rightthe truth has already been spoken to me about where we stand and the only reason I spoke of paying his bill was because everybody on here commenting are speaking on how CAPRICORN women use the LEO guy and break their hearts in the END. He has done a lot for me NOT to mention , as well as had told me to be patient with him while he is getting it together because he can see me being his wife in the future but right now he's going thru basically some issues with the separation he had from his kids mom. He had been really going thru it and he says im special to him, but I need to just back up and call it dead even on the things we've both done for one another and just leave it alone since I'm not cool with a fwb situation is what your saying? And if he's saying be patient and I could see myself making you my wife then what should I just leave that where it's at too?

Sounds like he has you on the back burner. It's possible he's just trying to "sort through things," but even still, there's nothing you can really do with that information. It's like being put in timeout indefinitely. Talking about marriage is just keeping you on the hook it sounds like. Unfortunately without knowing this man, no one can tell you what his true intentions are.

HOWEVER, words come easy, just remember that. If this guy was really serious about marrying you, he wouldn't keep you on the hook. He'd want you to know that he was being 100% with you. Since this situation appears to be a bit murky, I would advise backing off until he can take things with you more seriously. If you don't want to be just friends, or friends with benefits, then your only option is to look for love elsewhere.

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Love your response because you went straight to what is going on in my situation instead of dogging every female capricorn like we are users and golddiggers. I truly believe the same things you spoke that I'm being hooked along just another fish on his line, but then when I tried to leave him alone he asked me but what about the time spent, does that mean nothing to you, which made me feel like he was adding injury to insult. then he seemed really bothered by me backing off, so I didn't let him go right then. I've known him for a few years and have known of his for years since we're both in the same profession I knew we were bound to eventually meet. He has spent much time facetiming going to sleep on there and more but he has said he knows he can't give that which I deserve because he basically just went thru a divorce and it was really ugly, so I tried to be understanding to the facts cause I too had been going thru the struggle, but thanks for the confirmation, I will back off

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I really have been trying very hard to not ruin this relation ship

I dont want his money I just enjoy his company and he keeps on claiming he cant be in a damn relationship because he cant give a 100% to anybody, hell I even paid his phone bill ast month so Idk wtf anybody else goes thru with these relationships but all I wanna know straight no chaser does this man seem to just be leading me on ? if he doesn't want me then why the hell is he fwm? and I am needing answers nobody on here even noticing so I just been letting it play out, he acts like he's mine but he has a virgo venus so I think that since it trines my moon perhaps thats the case and he gave me the crap about the time he's invested in me cause I told him I was just leaving it alone because Im getting fustrated with not gettting enough time anymore at first I ws fine with the space but there's no balance which seems like he's lost interest or maybe we're both getting bored and I had a dream about him in this reoccurent dream where I found a secret passage and even in the dream when he kissed me I felt it, so I really love him so fuz all the negative other people experience cause thats not mines I am a capricorn trying to see if this is worth it cause I hate wasting my time and I dont even know how to pick myself up after this

Sounds like he told you how he really feels already. If a guy says that he can't be in a relationship, believe him. At this point he's not leading you on because he isn't lying or hiding his true intentions from you. So unless you are cool with being his friend or a friend with benefits, you should leave him alone and pursue other interests.

I'll also say, don't pay this man's bills any longer. You're basically opening yourself to being used by him. Let this man go.

YOUR rightthe truth has already been spoken to me about where we stand and the only reason I spoke of paying his bill was because everybody on here commenting are speaking on how CAPRICORN women use the LEO guy and break their hearts in the END. He has done a lot for me NOT to mention , as well as had told me to be patient with him while he is getting it together because he can see me being his wife in the future but right now he's going thru basically some issues with the separation he had from his kids mom. He had been really going thru it and he says im special to him, but I need to just back up and call it dead even on the things we've both done for one another and just leave it alone since I'm not cool with a fwb situation is what your saying? And if he's saying be patient and I could see myself making you my wife then what should I just leave that where it's at too?

Sounds like he has you on the back burner. It's possible he's just trying to "sort through things," but even still, there's nothing you can really do with that information. It's like being put in timeout indefinitely. Talking about marriage is just keeping you on the hook it sounds like. Unfortunately without knowing this man, no one can tell you what his true intentions are.

HOWEVER, words come easy, just remember that. If this guy was really serious about marrying you, he wouldn't keep you on the hook. He'd want you to know that he was being 100% with you. Since this situation appears to be a bit murky, I would advise backing off until he can take things with you more seriously. If you don't want to be just friends, or friends with benefits, then your only option is to look for love elsewhere.

Love your response because you went straight to what is going on in my situation instead of dogging every female capricorn like we are users and golddiggers. I truly believe the same things you spoke that I'm being hooked along just another fish on his line, but then when I tried to leave him alone he asked me but what about the time spent, does that mean nothing to you, which made me feel like he was adding injury to insult. then he seemed really bothered by me backing off, so I didn't let him go right then. I've known him for a few years and have known of his for years since we're both in the same profession I knew we were bound to eventually meet. He has spent much time facetiming going to sleep on there and more but he has said he knows he can't give that which I deserve because he basically just went thru a divorce and it was really ugly, so I tried to be understanding to the facts cause I too had been going thru the struggle, but thanks for the confirmation, I will back off

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Right, it's understandably a tough situation. One thing to know is that NO ONE likes losing another persons' attention, especially not a Leo. The easiest way to gain someone's attention is to remove your own. That's what you're seeing when he notices you pulling away.

Basically by backing away you're giving the Leo a chance to sort through his issues. Feel free to even tell him this. Let him know that you're not looking to be put on the back burner and to contact you when he figures out his situation. Likewise this will give you space to see your current scenario more objectively. It sounds like

You're currently too close to this emotionally. By taking a step back you can determine whether or not waiting for this man even makes sense. Let him know that he can take all of the time he needs, but you can't wait on him indefinitely. Let him know you want to be with him, but understand if he can't take that step at this time. Let him know to contact you when he's read to be serious with you. Once you've stated your truth, back off and keep yourself open to other possibilities.

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I really have been trying very hard to not ruin this relation ship

I dont want his money I just enjoy his company and he keeps on claiming he cant be in a damn relationship because he cant give a 100% to anybody, hell I even paid his phone bill ast month so Idk wtf anybody else goes thru with these relationships but all I wanna know straight no chaser does this man seem to just be leading me on ? if he doesn't want me then why the hell is he fwm? and I am needing answers nobody on here even noticing so I just been letting it play out, he acts like he's mine but he has a virgo venus so I think that since it trines my moon perhaps thats the case and he gave me the crap about the time he's invested in me cause I told him I was just leaving it alone because Im getting fustrated with not gettting enough time anymore at first I ws fine with the space but there's no balance which seems like he's lost interest or maybe we're both getting bored and I had a dream about him in this reoccurent dream where I found a secret passage and even in the dream when he kissed me I felt it, so I really love him so fuz all the negative other people experience cause thats not mines I am a capricorn trying to see if this is worth it cause I hate wasting my time and I dont even know how to pick myself up after this

Sounds like he told you how he really feels already. If a guy says that he can't be in a relationship, believe him. At this point he's not leading you on because he isn't lying or hiding his true intentions from you. So unless you are cool with being his friend or a friend with benefits, you should leave him alone and pursue other interests.

I'll also say, don't pay this man's bills any longer. You're basically opening yourself to being used by him. Let this man go.

YOUR rightthe truth has already been spoken to me about where we stand and the only reason I spoke of paying his bill was because everybody on here commenting are speaking on how CAPRICORN women use the LEO guy and break their hearts in the END. He has done a lot for me NOT to mention , as well as had told me to be patient with him while he is getting it together because he can see me being his wife in the future but right now he's going thru basically some issues with the separation he had from his kids mom. He had been really going thru it and he says im special to him, but I need to just back up and call it dead even on the things we've both done for one another and just leave it alone since I'm not cool with a fwb situation is what your saying? And if he's saying be patient and I could see myself making you my wife then what should I just leave that where it's at too?

Sounds like he has you on the back burner. It's possible he's just trying to "sort through things," but even still, there's nothing you can really do with that information. It's like being put in timeout indefinitely. Talking about marriage is just keeping you on the hook it sounds like. Unfortunately without knowing this man, no one can tell you what his true intentions are.

HOWEVER, words come easy, just remember that. If this guy was really serious about marrying you, he wouldn't keep you on the hook. He'd want you to know that he was being 100% with you. Since this situation appears to be a bit murky, I would advise backing off until he can take things with you more seriously. If you don't want to be just friends, or friends with benefits, then your only option is to look for love elsewhere.

Love your response because you went straight to what is going on in my situation instead of dogging every female capricorn like we are users and golddiggers. I truly believe the same things you spoke that I'm being hooked along just another fish on his line, but then when I tried to leave him alone he asked me but what about the time spent, does that mean nothing to you, which made me feel like he was adding injury to insult. then he seemed really bothered by me backing off, so I didn't let him go right then. I've known him for a few years and have known of his for years since we're both in the same profession I knew we were bound to eventually meet. He has spent much time facetiming going to sleep on there and more but he has said he knows he can't give that which I deserve because he basically just went thru a divorce and it was really ugly, so I tried to be understanding to the facts cause I too had been going thru the struggle, but thanks for the confirmation, I will back off

Right, it's understandably a tough situation. One thing to know is that NO ONE likes losing another persons' attention, especially not a Leo. The easiest way to gain someone's attention is to remove your own. That's what you're seeing when he notices you pulling away.

Basically by backing away you're giving the Leo a chance to sort through his issues. Feel free to even tell him this. Let him know that you're not looking to be put on the back burner and to contact you when he figures out his situation. Likewise this will give you space to see your current scenario more objectively. It sounds like

You're currently too close to this emotionally. By taking a step back you can determine whether or not waiting for this man even makes sense. Let him know that he can take all of the time he needs, but you can't wait on him indefinitely. Let him know you want to be with him, but understand if he can't take that step at this time. Let him know to contact you when he's read to be serious with you. Once you've stated your truth, back off and keep yourself open to other possibilities.

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Love your advice, and it does make alot of sense, and we think on the same level because I did that before I came back and seen your responded to me. I said I am Not giving up I am just gonna be patient and give it time but Im not gonna wait indefitely for this to happen the way we say it'll be. I'll just test the typical capricorn loner time out to finish old jobs on a high note, then when I finsh these things I will be able to see what road I should take. I do have other suitors but I don't want to explore them during this time and my geniality is being misakened for flirtatiousness... But I tried to be polite to all because of my business .

I dont know but i know a leo sun and cap sun with a virgo sun

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I dont know but i know a leo sun and cap sun with a virgo sun

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I really have been trying very hard to not ruin this relation ship

I dont want his money I just enjoy his company and he keeps on claiming he cant be in a damn relationship because he cant give a 100% to anybody, hell I even paid his phone bill ast month so Idk wtf anybody else goes thru with these relationships but all I wanna know straight no chaser does this man seem to just be leading me on ? if he doesn't want me then why the hell is he fwm? and I am needing answers nobody on here even noticing so I just been letting it play out, he acts like he's mine but he has a virgo venus so I think that since it trines my moon perhaps thats the case and he gave me the crap about the time he's invested in me cause I told him I was just leaving it alone because Im getting fustrated with not gettting enough time anymore at first I ws fine with the space but there's no balance which seems like he's lost interest or maybe we're both getting bored and I had a dream about him in this reoccurent dream where I found a secret passage and even in the dream when he kissed me I felt it, so I really love him so fuz all the negative other people experience cause thats not mines I am a capricorn trying to see if this is worth it cause I hate wasting my time and I dont even know how to pick myself up after this

Sounds like he told you how he really feels already. If a guy says that he can't be in a relationship, believe him. At this point he's not leading you on because he isn't lying or hiding his true intentions from you. So unless you are cool with being his friend or a friend with benefits, you should leave him alone and pursue other interests.

I'll also say, don't pay this man's bills any longer. You're basically opening yourself to being used by him. Let this man go.

YOUR rightthe truth has already been spoken to me about where we stand and the only reason I spoke of paying his bill was because everybody on here commenting are speaking on how CAPRICORN women use the LEO guy and break their hearts in the END. He has done a lot for me NOT to mention , as well as had told me to be patient with him while he is getting it together because he can see me being his wife in the future but right now he's going thru basically some issues with the separation he had from his kids mom. He had been really going thru it and he says im special to him, but I need to just back up and call it dead even on the things we've both done for one another and just leave it alone since I'm not cool with a fwb situation is what your saying? And if he's saying be patient and I could see myself making you my wife then what should I just leave that where it's at too?

Sounds like he has you on the back burner. It's possible he's just trying to "sort through things," but even still, there's nothing you can really do with that information. It's like being put in timeout indefinitely. Talking about marriage is just keeping you on the hook it sounds like. Unfortunately without knowing this man, no one can tell you what his true intentions are.

HOWEVER, words come easy, just remember that. If this guy was really serious about marrying you, he wouldn't keep you on the hook. He'd want you to know that he was being 100% with you. Since this situation appears to be a bit murky, I would advise backing off until he can take things with you more seriously. If you don't want to be just friends, or friends with benefits, then your only option is to look for love elsewhere.

Love your response because you went straight to what is going on in my situation instead of dogging every female capricorn like we are users and golddiggers. I truly believe the same things you spoke that I'm being hooked along just another fish on his line, but then when I tried to leave him alone he asked me but what about the time spent, does that mean nothing to you, which made me feel like he was adding injury to insult. then he seemed really bothered by me backing off, so I didn't let him go right then. I've known him for a few years and have known of his for years since we're both in the same profession I knew we were bound to eventually meet. He has spent much time facetiming going to sleep on there and more but he has said he knows he can't give that which I deserve because he basically just went thru a divorce and it was really ugly, so I tried to be understanding to the facts cause I too had been going thru the struggle, but thanks for the confirmation, I will back off

Right, it's understandably a tough situation. One thing to know is that NO ONE likes losing another persons' attention, especially not a Leo. The easiest way to gain someone's attention is to remove your own. That's what you're seeing when he notices you pulling away.

Basically by backing away you're giving the Leo a chance to sort through his issues. Feel free to even tell him this. Let him know that you're not looking to be put on the back burner and to contact you when he figures out his situation. Likewise this will give you space to see your current scenario more objectively. It sounds like

You're currently too close to this emotionally. By taking a step back you can determine whether or not waiting for this man even makes sense. Let him know that he can take all of the time he needs, but you can't wait on him indefinitely. Let him know you want to be with him, but understand if he can't take that step at this time. Let him know to contact you when he's read to be serious with you. Once you've stated your truth, back off and keep yourself open to other possibilities.

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update about how thatwhole conversation went, I messaged him that I was taking steps back and etc,he replies Im about to call you, then he did, and he does that everytime I say that I am not gonna sit around waiting and he said he soesn't wanna lose me andhow much I mean to him and he'd like for me to just be patient with him and good things come to those who wait patients is a virtue, which I heard that from my mom and best friend as well as my astrology tarot card, so I see that taking my attention from him only makes him come on even stronger than before... He also said he was gonna come spend the night with me and he just had his kid with him so soon as she leaves he's gonna come spend time with me and my 2 kids. I know our charts have aspects made that says we'll have an emotional attachment because his venus is in virgo and my moon is in virgo and his moon is in Sagittarius and my Venus is in sag so maybe its my mars in aries that doesn't wanna hear that slow pacing but my suns in capricorn so im posed to be so patient lol but im kindof impulsive

David Bowie and Iman were a Cap/Leo pairing

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I really have been trying very hard to not ruin this relation ship

I dont want his money I just enjoy his company and he keeps on claiming he cant be in a damn relationship because he cant give a 100% to anybody, hell I even paid his phone bill ast month so Idk wtf anybody else goes thru with these relationships but all I wanna know straight no chaser does this man seem to just be leading me on ? if he doesn't want me then why the hell is he fwm? and I am needing answers nobody on here even noticing so I just been letting it play out, he acts like he's mine but he has a virgo venus so I think that since it trines my moon perhaps thats the case and he gave me the crap about the time he's invested in me cause I told him I was just leaving it alone because Im getting fustrated with not gettting enough time anymore at first I ws fine with the space but there's no balance which seems like he's lost interest or maybe we're both getting bored and I had a dream about him in this reoccurent dream where I found a secret passage and even in the dream when he kissed me I felt it, so I really love him so fuz all the negative other people experience cause thats not mines I am a capricorn trying to see if this is worth it cause I hate wasting my time and I dont even know how to pick myself up after this

Sounds like he told you how he really feels already. If a guy says that he can't be in a relationship, believe him. At this point he's not leading you on because he isn't lying or hiding his true intentions from you. So unless you are cool with being his friend or a friend with benefits, you should leave him alone and pursue other interests.

I'll also say, don't pay this man's bills any longer. You're basically opening yourself to being used by him. Let this man go.

YOUR rightthe truth has already been spoken to me about where we stand and the only reason I spoke of paying his bill was because everybody on here commenting are speaking on how CAPRICORN women use the LEO guy and break their hearts in the END. He has done a lot for me NOT to mention , as well as had told me to be patient with him while he is getting it together because he can see me being his wife in the future but right now he's going thru basically some issues with the separation he had from his kids mom. He had been really going thru it and he says im special to him, but I need to just back up and call it dead even on the things we've both done for one another and just leave it alone since I'm not cool with a fwb situation is what your saying? And if he's saying be patient and I could see myself making you my wife then what should I just leave that where it's at too?

Sounds like he has you on the back burner. It's possible he's just trying to "sort through things," but even still, there's nothing you can really do with that information. It's like being put in timeout indefinitely. Talking about marriage is just keeping you on the hook it sounds like. Unfortunately without knowing this man, no one can tell you what his true intentions are.

HOWEVER, words come easy, just remember that. If this guy was really serious about marrying you, he wouldn't keep you on the hook. He'd want you to know that he was being 100% with you. Since this situation appears to be a bit murky, I would advise backing off until he can take things with you more seriously. If you don't want to be just friends, or friends with benefits, then your only option is to look for love elsewhere.

Love your response because you went straight to what is going on in my situation instead of dogging every female capricorn like we are users and golddiggers. I truly believe the same things you spoke that I'm being hooked along just another fish on his line, but then when I tried to leave him alone he asked me but what about the time spent, does that mean nothing to you, which made me feel like he was adding injury to insult. then he seemed really bothered by me backing off, so I didn't let him go right then. I've known him for a few years and have known of his for years since we're both in the same profession I knew we were bound to eventually meet. He has spent much time facetiming going to sleep on there and more but he has said he knows he can't give that which I deserve because he basically just went thru a divorce and it was really ugly, so I tried to be understanding to the facts cause I too had been going thru the struggle, but thanks for the confirmation, I will back off

Right, it's understandably a tough situation. One thing to know is that NO ONE likes losing another persons' attention, especially not a Leo. The easiest way to gain someone's attention is to remove your own. That's what you're seeing when he notices you pulling away.

Basically by backing away you're giving the Leo a chance to sort through his issues. Feel free to even tell him this. Let him know that you're not looking to be put on the back burner and to contact you when he figures out his situation. Likewise this will give you space to see your current scenario more objectively. It sounds like

You're currently too close to this emotionally. By taking a step back you can determine whether or not waiting for this man even makes sense. Let him know that he can take all of the time he needs, but you can't wait on him indefinitely. Let him know you want to be with him, but understand if he can't take that step at this time. Let him know to contact you when he's read to be serious with you. Once you've stated your truth, back off and keep yourself open to other possibilities.

update about how thatwhole conversation went, I messaged him that I was taking steps back and etc,he replies Im about to call you, then he did, and he does that everytime I say that I am not gonna sit around waiting and he said he soesn't wanna lose me andhow much I mean to him and he'd like for me to just be patient with him and good things come to those who wait patients is a virtue, which I heard that from my mom and best friend as well as my astrology tarot card, so I see that taking my attention from him only makes him come on even stronger than before... He also said he was gonna come spend the night with me and he just had his kid with him so soon as she leaves he's gonna come spend time with me and my 2 kids. I know our charts have aspects made that says we'll have an emotional attachment because his venus is in virgo and my moon is in virgo and his moon is in Sagittarius and my Venus is in sag so maybe its my mars in aries that doesn't wanna hear that slow pacing but my suns in capricorn so im posed to be so patient lol but im kindof impulsive

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So yeah it's really up to you. If you want to be friends with benefits, then nothing needs to change. Just know that the terms of your "relationship" may not improve any time soon. "Friends with benefits" is basically the guy version (generally speaking) of the "friend zone". It's a guy's way of reaping the physical benefits of a relationship without the responsibility of the emotional cost. So know that him coming over won't change anything unless you talk to him about what you want.

Devil's Advocate:

It's unfortunate because a divorce can be pretty messy. Likewise being with a guy so soon after a separation guarantee that he'll still have raw feelings about his breakup. So it's understandable that he wants to take some time before getting into something serious again. It also seems that he's also been very honest and open with you about his situation, so I can understand where he is coming from too.

I personally believe in giving the people the freedom to choose you, as opposed to forcing the into things. If this guy isn't spreading himself thin and is giving you his attention, you don't really NEED the label. As long as he's cool with being exclusively intimate with you, that gives you more cause to be patient.

I also believe that it's completely within the woman's domain to want to bond and ask for a relationship too. If the man is unable to provide this, then the woman should consider possible other suitors. That doesn't mean you would need to drop this guy though, just start casually dating again.