Confused

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Milkyway37
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5 Years

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I have a question. I was dating this leo guy and it was all good we started hanging outm we communicated about alot of things and both of us had a bad last relationship well he had actually seperated from his wife after only like 3 months of being married. Then our convo got shorter. We work together and he was telling me it aint me he think he aint go be good enough for me. Me personally I really felt like he was confused and really needed a friend at that time of his life so i agreed to just be friends with him but everytime he got around he wanted to kiss on me and etc.. And that was confusing me becaise he said one thing but his action saying something different.. I really dont knw what i need to do
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Nameless Nemean
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Posted by Milkyway37

I have a question. I was dating this leo guy and it was all good we started hanging outm we communicated about alot of things and both of us had a bad last relationship well he had actually seperated from his wife after only like 3 months of being married. Then our convo got shorter. We work together and he was telling me it aint me he think he aint go be good enough for me. Me personally I really felt like he was confused and really needed a friend at that time of his life so i agreed to just be friends with him but everytime he got around he wanted to kiss on me and etc.. And that was confusing me becaise he said one thing but his action saying something different.. I really dont knw what i need to do


There are red flags all over the place. Simply put, he doesn't know what he wants. If he just recently separated from his ex-wife, that's it. He's simply is not in the emotional position to be in a relationship. If they have been broken up for a while, he may still be harboring feelings. Also there is a red flag when a marriage only lasts 3 months. Do you know why the marriage was so short? Bottom line is, you can't fix him. If you can actually handle being just his friend,that is your choice, but don't expect anything romantic to come from this.
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Mango11
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He's probably afraid to be hurt again and fears that he's just rebounding, he doesn't want to put himself in a position where if he one day doesn't have feelings for you then he'll hurt you. But being a Leo myself it's our instinct to take things quickly, parts of it are impatience parts of it is wanting to claim someone or something before anyone else gets to. Just be patient with him and take it slow cause he's likely unsure of what he wants to do and is still hurting over his ex-wife. Proceed with caution
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Mango11
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Posted by Milkyway37

I have a question. I was dating this leo guy and it was all good we started hanging outm we communicated about alot of things and both of us had a bad last relationship well he had actually seperated from his wife after only like 3 months of being married. Then our convo got shorter. We work together and he was telling me it aint me he think he aint go be good enough for me. Me personally I really felt like he was confused and really needed a friend at that time of his life so i agreed to just be friends with him but everytime he got around he wanted to kiss on me and etc.. And that was confusing me becaise he said one thing but his action saying something different.. I really dont knw what i need to do

Any updates on how it's going?