Crush on a Leo Man.....

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First...my screen name is CapyWife but no...I am not married.

Ok... There is this fine Leo man at my church. One of the finest men I have ever seen. We have spoken on occasion, no long conversations though. You can say we are acquainted with each other. Anywho... I have such a crush on him. He is always staring at me during service and our eyes catch then one of us looks away really quickly. Before we met each other we were doing this and then once we had a short introduction and did some ministry work together we continued catching eye contact and now after service he makes his way over to me to get a hug and to say hello. But that's it! Every time I look at him he is looking at me and then turns away. Are Leo Men hesitant? I just keep wondering if he is interested and just taking his time or maybe he isn't interested and just thinks I'm pretty. I am so cautious being a Capi but I'm not afraid to approach him...I just hate rejection like everyone else. I'm not sure what to do. Will this go on forever? Should I say something to him or just wait?
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Yes we have an update... He finally asked me for my phone number and we talked a few times this week plus I saw him in church yesterday. He told me that he loves my hugs cause I hug him so tight. I'm still wondering if he is interested though because I don't hear from him a whole lot. Like he didn't call the first night I gave him the # and that was on Monday. Then he called on Tuesday but he said he was going to call me back and never did. Then yesterday I saw him at church and he came over to me to get his hug and to chop up a few words and we spoke on the phone for a little while after church but again he said he was going to call me back and never did. We laugh and have good convo on the phone, but I think I'm a little nervous. I feel like this is a high school crush. I stumble over my words and want to do everything just right. I don't really want to be so direct and come out and say hey do you like me...cause i'm not really that straigh forward plus if he said no I'd hate the rejection. There is a different Leo man who is really into me and he calls all the time and is always very stright forward about wanting to get close to me and says exactly how he feels about me....The feeling isn't mutual on my end I'm not interested. I'm confused and maybe I should just ride it out and wait and see what happens. I just want to call him but I don't want to call to much because what if he isn't calling because he doesn't want to talk? Do they like you to call them or wait for them to call you? I know Leo's like to feel like they are desired and oh yes he is desired but I dont know when to much is too much...
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Thanks that really does help a lot. I noticed that when we did speak on the phone the second time. I made it clear that i was interested and he seemed to open up more and seemed a little more relaxed with saying things like how he likes my hugs and how he thinks I'm pretty. Maybe initially he didn't know if i wanted to just be friends or wanted more..I'd much rather see him face to face outside church..but i guess i'll wait for him to ask me on a date...