My Leo boyfriend and I been together about 4 years .. Throughout our relationship it was a passionate one . We love hard and care about each other but we bump heads and argue as well .. We broke up like 4 times due to dumb arguments but than get back with each other a couple days later . The longest we went without talking to each other was 1 week . But now this time I think it's different but I always have hope for us because I love him very much . A couple months again my boyfriend caught me texting my ex. And when he asked me about it id lied to him . I lied to him because I didn't want to hurt him and prior to him asking me about it I had cut the texting off . It was nothing . I didn't meet up with my ex or did anything. It was just texting . So than my boyfriend didn't break up with me but asked what I wanted to do . Whether I wanted to leave him or stay and I said I want to work on us and I'm deeply sorry . So about 2 months went by and a couple days ago we got into an argument and he broke up with me and said he can't do it Anymore that finding out i text my ex was the straw that broke the camels back and this time there's not trying to make it work for him anymore . I say he loves me and he cares about me and I know it but he just can't . Does it mean I don't have an chances of getting him back ?! I love him and i know what I did was wrong and I'll do anything to get him back ! Please help me with advice
Do I have a chance at getting my Leo back !! Help me please !
Honestly I think this is done! You could try and apologies and I mean a heartfelt apology and be creative with it!
I mean you lied! You bruised his ego!!! Even if he takes you back he will most likely resent you for what you did!
I mean you lied! You bruised his ego!!! Even if he takes you back he will most likely resent you for what you did!

Literally same post I just saw about a Leo.... I swear there would be more Aries post like this if we didn't make you hate are guts first before we disappear. lol

Why were you texting your ex? I'd be suspicious of you too. Trust broken.
"Lied". I used to forgive someone for much more horrible things but lying was the end. He lied to me on my face and there, at that very moment, he'd realised what was gonna happen.
How can one love someone and also lie to them is something I don't understand. Whoa! Texting or anything (even sleeping with someone else) won't bother me much, but hiding the truth from.me and lying is unacceptable.
I guess he meant what he said about the last straw and can't deal with this anymore. Sorry. I'm just saying what I'd do (I'm a Leo, too).
Try apologising. In my case, if I accept you, you'll be accepted as a friend but you'll always feel a gap and I'd be very strong to make sure that you don't come anywhere close to me either physically or emotionally. I can't love after a lie. How can I be sure they won't continue to lie all their life?
How can one love someone and also lie to them is something I don't understand. Whoa! Texting or anything (even sleeping with someone else) won't bother me much, but hiding the truth from.me and lying is unacceptable.
I guess he meant what he said about the last straw and can't deal with this anymore. Sorry. I'm just saying what I'd do (I'm a Leo, too).
Try apologising. In my case, if I accept you, you'll be accepted as a friend but you'll always feel a gap and I'd be very strong to make sure that you don't come anywhere close to me either physically or emotionally. I can't love after a lie. How can I be sure they won't continue to lie all their life?

Trust and loyalty are the most important characteristics to a Leo. For some of us the mere idea of being cheated on is enough to send us running to the hills. Our biggest issue is if you lied to us once about something that could hurt us, you could do it again. We would rather be told the truth and get into an argument than have our feelings "spared". We would still respect the strength of your honesty.
It's no secret though that women don't like to hurt men's feelings, especially when they care about those men. My question is did you initiate the text with your ex, or did your ex initiate it? If you started texting your ex and lied about it to your Leo, that looks REALLY bad. If your ex started texting you and you shut it down, that's understandable and unfortunate.
You also said you cut off the texting before your boyfriend found out right? How did your Leo find out about the texting then? If he discovered the texts on his own only to have you lie to him, he's going to see that as disrespectful to the relationship. When he asked you, "What do you want to do?" that was essentially him putting himself on guard and you on notice (basically give you an ultimatum).
I don't want to sugarcoat it, it's REALLY hard to regain a Leo's trust once it's broken. We may eventually go back to being cordial toward you, but it's never the same.
It's no secret though that women don't like to hurt men's feelings, especially when they care about those men. My question is did you initiate the text with your ex, or did your ex initiate it? If you started texting your ex and lied about it to your Leo, that looks REALLY bad. If your ex started texting you and you shut it down, that's understandable and unfortunate.
You also said you cut off the texting before your boyfriend found out right? How did your Leo find out about the texting then? If he discovered the texts on his own only to have you lie to him, he's going to see that as disrespectful to the relationship. When he asked you, "What do you want to do?" that was essentially him putting himself on guard and you on notice (basically give you an ultimatum).
I don't want to sugarcoat it, it's REALLY hard to regain a Leo's trust once it's broken. We may eventually go back to being cordial toward you, but it's never the same.
I think you still have a chance IF you show this Leo that life for you does NOT continue without him. He has to know that you even thinking about leaving him was a huge mistake. Plead insanity if you must, you just gotta build that ego back up even more than before. But I feel you have to ask yourself do you really want to continue a relationship with him, because when the going got tough you where looking for love elsewhere. I feel you must truly asses where your heart truly is. Is it with your ex? Because it seems that way to your Leo. He feels he cannot provide you with 150% of happiness, this has pushed him away. You either have to admit he can't fully make you happy, or make him believe he truly is your 150% .
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