Do Leos come back?

If you make a Leo mad at you, and they stop talking to you, will they eventually forgive you? Or is it the end?

Yes, Leos almost always come back.

Leos tend to be quite forgiving. We're optimistic and sunny-people and it's not hard to for us to find that thin ray of sunshine in an otherwise dark and cloudy sky. If you have made this Leo mad at you a bunch of times, one can only be so forgiving. It depends on a lot, really. Your question is too general.

I know for me that I'm pretty forgiving but you should stop asking for forgiveness. I know that I hold off on talking to people if they keep harassing me to patch things up. You should just chill out for a little bit and make this Leo wonder what's going on with you.

Well, in short, I've kinda been seeing this leo for a couple weeks. They said that they like me, but that is about the extent of the attention they've been paying me. Doesn't say much at all, really, but they have been hanging out with some other person quite a lot. Well anyways, I've been kind of jealous and been questioning them about all this time they are spending with this other person, and while they say nothing is going on blah blah blah (and I believe that to be the truth), it's been kind of hard because I've not recieved nearly as much attention. So, I've been questioning their intentions with me and questioning whether they actually like me or not, up until the point where I guess I finally drove them of and they said that they gave me a chance but I blew it, then proceeded to block me in all forms.

So I shouldn't keep seeking forgiveness? Or should I just let it go? Or, tell me how many days I should wait until I say I'm sorry again lol.

I'm a virgo 😕

a virgo leo pair usually means hell personally i hate virgos more than any sign i say you should leave him in peace go find a cap or taurus .


Meh, we actually get along quite well when we're together. I guess I sort of left out that there is a distance between us, like a 4 hour drive, so it would make it hard to see each other. I think that is part of where the problem is. But I really like them, and at least they say they like me and wanted to see where this relationship would lead to, up until the point where I pissed them off.

CGInLust! Yeah, after I posted...I saw what you wrote and was like...wow, such an intuitive Cap and an experienced one with Leos! hahahaha!

JJJJJat...I would leave this Leo alone. You didn't do too much wrong. For now, just give this Leo space and either he/she will come back or he/she has called it and doesn't want much with you.

Leos almost always come back on their own or with some gentle prodding (as CGInLust suggested). If after some gentle prodding and no return, forget it.

Kris I think jjjat is using "they" because its neuter so we don;t know whether we a male or female is talking about males or females lol ...is that deliberate for privacy jjjat?


Well, no, it's not so much for the sake of privacy as it is to avoid flames :-P

I try real hard to forgive. One thing is for sure I never forget. But if I am in love, regardless of how mad I am, I always come back. So ditto 🙂

Ok, well thanks everyone. I guess I'll just play the waiting game then.

Oh, and I guess I'm leaving something out... Basically, the dialogue leading up to this was:

Me: You say this, but then you do this, and this, and this, and this, and this
Me: So if you don't like me just say so, it will be easier that way
Them: I don't have to explain myself to anyone, etc etc
Them: I'll make it easy for you, I gave you a chance and you blew it, Goodbye I don't need this -explitive-

Although this has been the first time they were overtly angry with me (I could tell b/c there was a tremendous difference in the way they was typing and in coherency), I have kind of been nagging about this probably a whole helluva lot more than I should have been for only seeing each other for 2 weeks or so...

But anyway, does that make a difference in the degree of anger they are feeling?

And is it normal for a Leo to be extremely, extremely cautious about getting involved? It would seem that is the only explanation I can come up with or gather from his responses to my endless questioning.

Leos usually aren't that cautious. If we like you, we'll go into it full-throttle w/out thinking twice. The only time we're cautious is when we're looking after our own interests, meaning that if we don't seem 100% into you...odds are that you're probably competing with another or others and we're not sure who to choose.

After only having seen eachother for 2 weeks, you probably did lay it on way too thick. Give him space. Let him breathe. He'll look for you later if he's into you. For now, you should do absolutely nothing.

Leos usually aren't that cautious. If we like you, we'll go into it full-throttle w/out thinking twice. The only time we're cautious is when we're looking after our own interests, meaning that if we don't seem 100% into you...odds are that you're probably competing with another or others and we're not sure who to choose.

After only having seen eachother for 2 weeks, you probably did lay it on way too thick. Give him space. Let him breathe. He'll look for you later if he's into you. For now, you should do absolutely nothing.


Okay, well, that is what I will do (although I have no real feeling of closure to the situation and it is consuming my every thought...). But really, he seems jaded. I'm almost certain he doesn't have anyone else in the wings... at least that is what he says (I made a point of mentioning that when I date someone, that is what I do, and that I'm highly against dating multiple people at one time). But yeah, I agree that I probably laid it on too thick. That was a thought in my mind long before you mentioned it. Is becoming that way too much for a Leo? I mean, how long should I wait before I know for certain he doesn't ever want to see me again?

On a positive note, I haven't really met many Leos to die. I think that honesty is a good trait but we do it to a fault. If he told you he wasn't dating anyone else, then he probably wasn't. We're open books, even if that means sometimes hurting someone else.

I think that you gave him too much power by laying it on thick. We love challenges and complications. I think you should disappear for a few weeks and then maybe send him an email or what not. I'm sure with a disappearing act, he will start wondering about you and either a) look for you or b) calm down and be more receptive when he hears from you later.

Oops, I meant to "lie." Whoa...imagine that, being immortal. 😉

On a positive note, I haven't really met many Leos to die. I think that honesty is a good trait but we do it to a fault. If he told you he wasn't dating anyone else, then he probably wasn't. We're open books, even if that means sometimes hurting someone else.

I think that you gave him too much power by laying it on thick. We love challenges and complications. I think you should disappear for a few weeks and then maybe send him an email or what not. I'm sure with a disappearing act, he will start wondering about you and either a) look for you or b) calm down and be more receptive when he hears from you later.

Well, yeah... I mean, I trust -almost- everythign he says... I asked him if he was seeing anyone else, he said no... I asked him if he was going to be sexually active with anyone else, he said no... I asked him if he was truly interested in me, and then the less than obvious answers come along. I trust him for what he says, but the most I can get out of him, as far as I am concerned, is that he -might- be somewhat interested in me. I'd almost guarentee, from what I read, it isn't someone else who is holding him back...

He's been hurt a lot, though... Yet, so have I. And I would think that I, as a Virgo, would be more jaded than a Loe, or have a bigger perpensity to become that way. Although, admittedly, he has been hurt more than I have, as his first didnt' come to a natural end, but rather was put to an end by a drunk driver... But how do you sympathize with this? He is so distant, but he says he's interested. It's very hard for me, as a Virgo, to deal with inconsistincies, and it is all he seems to be made of! Yet, I like him a lot, he is very differenft from other's I've met (as well am I), and this thing is truly something I wish would result in a life-long relationship... But how can we deal with each other?

Like someone said... Virgo's and Leo's are certainly not a match made in heaven... But it can work, with a little work, right?

It can but you seriously got to back off this guy. If you should ever get things rolling again, you got to let the whole thing progress slowly. Once Leos are in love, they put their all into it. Given the story of a previous relationship that you described, I could understand now why you said he might be cautious. Either way, you made things waaaaaaaaaaay too intense too soon. You got to let your Leo see the fun and bright-side of you (is there one since you're a Virgo?? -- Just kidding) and he'll be inclined to hang out with you. You just started a courtship! Relax! :-)

In general, if you're too interested too quickly, a Leo male will be distant. Unlike other signs, Leo men are easy to get back (and no, this isn't a criticism of the Leo male...Kris!! haha). Again...just relax.

hey jjjjjat...Rumor has it that Virgo's and Leo's are a poor match, but I was in an extremely lovely, positive relationship w/ a Virgo for 2 years, and we still talk to this day! So...screw the rumors.

As far as your dilemma...you are feeding into this waaaaaayyyy to much (typical Virgo). Let it go, sweetheart. As someone mentioned before, he might come back around if he notices that you haven't paid him much attention, lately. And the saying goes "if they leave and come back, they're yours forever!" If he doesn't come back, he's not interested.

As far as his issues...you have to remember that they are his issues, not yours. If he is difficult because of his issues, than let him be difficult...but don't let his problems affect you and don't take his crap too personally. Leo's are fixed...we need time to chill, time to think, time to make a decision, time alone...TIME period. We don't like to be rushed and we don't like to be pressured. I can't stress enough how important it is for you to simply chill out, especially if you really want to be with him.

Wow...I am having the opposite probelm...my LEO is coming on very strong...stronger than I am (Maybe thats why)...calling or TM everyday, wondering what I'm doing, where I am going, trying ot make plans for every night of the week with me. Maybe its because I do not call him and have played it cool, making myself very busy.

But I think you have to let the man take the lead and not be pushy so early in the dating game....take a step back...too demanding too early.

I think he likes you sophie

Hi perrrfect...I think its more the "infatuation, trying to get what is unreachable" stage. Its only been ONE date!

Although we've been chatting everyday since our date last Sunday, another date has not worked out because of /his schedule.... geesh...those LEOS DO love the Chase!

I menat to say because of my and his scheudule...

Hi sophie,

You know, LeoWithCapAndAnnoyed does really well on advising about Leo men. You should read some of her posts if you are looking for some general info about them. Some Leos can be pretty aggressive about going after what they want.

Something to enjoy, being chased, no?

Hey Purrr...yes, she (Leowithcap..) has given me some great insight....:-)

I'm a Leo and I have dated a Leo men twice , the first time it didn't work out because I trusted him and he cheated on me and lied to me and push me away. so after them months , he started talking to me again asking for forgiveness , and saying he sorry and saying he crying for me back and trying to make me his wife. So after he said all those things it was very hard to trust him again. I use to think that what if he lying again ? Is he gonna do me bad again ? Is he gonna cheat behind my back again. So I gave him hard days & I treated him badly , assuming stuff & fussing at him & not trusting him I took his niceness for granted . So a few days ago he stop talking to me, so I felt bad last night, and decided to ask forgiveness begging him. He didn't wanna except so he told me goodbye and blocked me. So I'm taking the blame , feeling sorry , saying everything is my fault , because I love him to death and I wanna make it up to him , I don't know how I can go on like this. It's not the same without him because everybody else treated me bad and didn't forgive me , he the only one who did . So I'm Trying to figure out , will he ever forgive me again ? What should I do to make it up to him ?

This thread must be ancient.

Update: NO, LEOs do NOT go back.

By and large, Leos are pretty forgiving.

We don't move backwards as a rule of thumb.

We can forgive, wouldn't bet on forgetting tho 😏

My Leo never came back to me. I always hoped he would.

he will be back if he likes you.

but everything will need to go by his pace..

I was in similar situation as you before, but I didn't start to be insecure and start questioning him that early..

but like yours, his action doesn't match his words..

once in awhile, I did question him and tell him those insecure words, but mine never block me or say goodbye to me.

I feel that mine is quite self centered as he cares more about himself more..

he will come back and see if you still around, but I learn to work on my insecurity , let go of expectations.

and I when i don't expect much.. he start putting in actions effort.. so now I'm happy with every effort he made..

I'm a Leo female. And no, I don't go back. I can't. If there was not a strong reason, I wouldn't have left; when there's a strong reason for leaving, why will I go back again? Nah! Life's too short to waste time and energy on those who don't value you!