Do Leos Males like to BE Chased

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I'm not sure where it was that I had read this, but I'm left with the impression that Leo men like to be chased and pursued, that they enjoy a little more attention than men of other signs...

I've been dating this amazing Leo for a little over a month now. I adore the guy and everything about this relationship is pretty great! But I do wonder if we took the serious title too soon. The number one thing I miss about the single life is the attention and extra effort I see from men (even when I know it wont be going anywhere) so I wonder if by becoming each others took away that desire to impress and pursue and put in extra effort into dates but then I wonder if he even enjoys doing a little chase or if he's happier with how comfortable things have gotten... then I wonder if he enjoys it even more if he's being pursued.
I'll tell him when I miss him and try to show how much I appreciate the little things he does for me. He'll do the same to some extent but I can't tell if he's just bad at expressing feelings like that or if he just enjoys hearing it more than saying it.

And I don't mean to say I feel unappreciated but I am curious more about my Leo.

I took a glance at his chart.
His moon is Cancer and his venus and mars are both Libra.
Not sure which other planer here would be relevant...
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Posted by leow31
Yes but to do the chasing also.

Leo woman here but:

Make sure whatever you're saying to him or doing for him is real and you believe it.


Give me too much of that and I'll be bored. Give me time to miss you and realize how fun and lucky I am to have you around.

Early on he would give me all his attention which was nice..it's always nice to feel wanted but it was constant ( calls/text...even email once I stopped responding cause I needed a little space ) It was too much, I didn't even have time to miss him cause there he was calling or downright showing up at my usual hangouts. It was too much too soon too fast. I got bored and I got very annoyed. I would roll my eyes towards the end, time to go.
That doesn't sound like aqua to me (nit that I think it's nit true). Unless all he wanted was to get you into bed.

Mine is so NOT clingy that he makes me feel like a needy bitch just by wanting to snuggle watching TV. Granted I think I got a damaged one, but still...that amount of clinginess from an Aqua? No thanks. I'm with you.
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I can only go off of what I know from my leo who also has a cancer moon.

He likely wouldn't mind being chased. He was practically forced into a relationship with his ex leo. I think a give and take would be ideal, though. As for how long that lasts, my leo wanted to make things official fairly quickly. I made him wait a few months, though. So, for him, it wasn't the courting part he enjoyed. He knew he was interested in me and so he wanted to go right into it.

He's really appreciative of me verbalizing my affections and, while he says he's bad at expressing himself, he still does so frequently. Like, multiple times a day. You're only a month in, though, so I would try working on opening up communication so that both of you have a solid platform available for understanding each other. He may come to express himself more, or he may just be the type that doesn't like to do that often.
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I'm a Leo with cancer moon, female tho...
From my perspective an early relationship is like playing tennis with your best friend. I'll hit the ball back every time and I like you hitting it straight back too...
But really, do you have his Venus, Mars or even his Mercury? Coz that'll probably tell you more about his love style, communication preferences etc... And you can tailor things that way. But yeah it's only been a month, don't get too preoccupied with figuring out what makes him tick just yet. It goes both ways 🙂
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I like all this feedback! Thank you guys!!

And yep, keep it light and trying not to over analyze.
Honestly, he's so wonderful, I wonder if it's too perfect to last sometimes!

Even though it's only been a month, we're super comfortable with one another already and have a pretty open communication. He told me he felt comfortable with me right away from the moment we met one another, which was at a mutual friends party. I sat next to him while we played Cards Against Humanity. Before this I was pretty much flirting with another guy and had no intentions with my Leo even when I sat next to him. It was all fun and games but all the playful teasing and bugging, the tension was too much to ignore!
Turns out I'm his first girlfriend since he was in high school. He's almost two years younger than me and even with the complete different backgrounds we come from, we share similar perspectives in life and philosophy in general. He "playfully" called himself a looser when he talks about his social life but he's far from! Nerdy, yes, with all the dorky friends to go with. But he's so smart AND fit! Oh, and so sweet and kind and thoughtful and loving...

Yes, it's only been a month and yes, we did move too fast in a few areas. I wanted to wait but I also wanted to claim him... so I took his virginity!
We were both so nervous that night that!!! And I have never in my life met a guy as selfless and caring as this one! I've told him pretty much my life story and a chunk of that is about past sexual abuse and negative experiences and all he could do was ask me if I'm sure and if I'm ready. And other guy would have been balls deep in seconds!

The one and only problem I have with this relationship (and I'm hoping it'll fade away) is this feeling that things are going to only get boring since we're already so comfortable. I thought maybe if Leos like to be chased then I can take that as a challenge and something exciting for myself. But I also like being chased and feel wanted. I love extra attention sometimes! Like I'm the center of the world to someone!
Serious relationships are new to me but I always thought that that's how it should be in the beginning of new ones.
I usually love my space but right now I want that space invaded!!... *sigh* But we both have lives, too. I don't even know how to ask for this.
Even if I told him this, he'll ask what he should do (because he's sweet enough to want to try anything for me) but I wouldn't even know how or what he should do...
He already calls me almost every single night (since we've met!), we see each other about once or twice a week (which is a healthy amount for under two months I guess, especially with the distance)...