Does my Leo ex hate me?

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Fly_Five
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So my Leo and I wanted to get married. I was just with him and his family 2 months ago and he said how he wanted to have our engagement party there. He was saving up for a ring too.

Well we had been fighting a lot and we finally a huge blow up. I called him out on some of his immature behavior and he just snapped. He angrily said he was tired of all the arguing and that I was going to miss out on the most loyal man who genuinely loved me.

Fast forward a few weeks ago he contacted me and we exchanged pleasantries. Then we start following each other again on social media. The very next day he sent me a funny video of this character that he knows that I love. I replied back pleasantly and said that it was hilarious. To which he replied, “yea I just got back in town and I was with my cousin and saw it.” I replied,

“Glad you made it back safe.

Tell your cousin I said hello.”

That was the end of that. He’s been viewing all of my posts too. So I figured, good, he’s at peace with everything after such an ugly breakup.

A few days ago I’ve saw that he had liked a handful of post that I’m 99% sure has to do with me/us. One had the quote, “there’s plenty of fish in the sea” then below the quote it said “me” with a person next to it holding an ak47 shooting into the water. I guess killing all the fish in the proverbial sea? Then the most obvious post said, “mood lately - 50% miss you, 50% fuck you”.

I don’t get it. I thought by him contacting me, sending me the funny video of our inside joke, him looking at my things he wanted to be cordial. But after seeing the 50% fuck you I guess he also hates me? If he has such much resentment towards me why even contact me? To be honest I thought he was completely over me and wanted nothing to do with me.

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B3ckyd33
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Posted by Fly_Five
Posted by Vicktoria

You can love-hate someone.

Pluto aspects in synastry, I think.

Yea, I know that you can but why even contact me? He broke up with me, and apparently he hates me too. So why even bother?
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He wants you back. He contacted you multiple times and even brought up something he knew you’d like, probably in hopes to make you reminisce about the good times.

You’re missing the fact that the post also said how he misses you. So let’s run with that for a sec. 1. He broke up with you while angry-people who really want to breakup up do it calmly as they’ve thought it threw, not in anger after just talking about an engagement party. 2. He blames you for the breakup based on his words so he probably feels it’s incumbent upon you to fix things. 3. You saying oh that’s funny...tell your fam I said hi is NOT the same thing as I miss you, let’s work it out, blah blah blah which I’m sure is what he was looking for from you.

When a Leo is done they’re not going to contact you weeks after breaking up with you just to be friends or like emotional posts. When they’re done, they’re done.

Your Leo wants you back, but he wants some groveling or some over the top mushy display of your love for him.
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B3ckyd33
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Posted by Fly_Five
Posted by Vicktoria

You can love-hate someone.

Pluto aspects in synastry, I think.

Yea, I know that you can but why even contact me? He broke up with me, and apparently he hates me too. So why even bother?

I contacted you because I love you, several minutes later remembers something you said or did, fvk you, well now I 50% hate you.
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He could’ve felt all those things w/o contacting OP. It’s more complex than I love but hate you. You don’t go from talking about engagement to eff this person because of arguing. You can do that if someone cheated, hit you, lied, something extreme, but not because of arguing.
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sweetpea2977
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Something is off here 🤔

You two argue a lot. That's exhausting. Any person in their right mind, would take a break, no matter WHO is at fault.

He saw a post that said "50% miss you. 50% fuck you." Are you kidding me? 🤦🤦🤦 #fuckyou 😬

Now, you're saying, "If he hates me.." blah blah blah.

You're dramatic. Allow the dude to exhale. He doesn't have to come crawling back 🙄 That statement on social media is enough to have turned anyone back off.