Fellow Leo Females that have dated a Pisces male?

Hi, I am dating a pisces off and on for a year now. I am going on vacation with him this weekend with his family. The problem is that even though things are getting better between us... I still don't have the "title" of a girlfriend. He tells me all the time how much he cares, but I just want the committed relationship alreadly. He has only had one gf that lasted like 2 years and he tells me he isn't like other guys and that he takes things slow. I know he isn't like any other guy I have dated. He is all I ever wanted in a guy, yet all that I don't want because he can be distance and needs a lot of space it seems. and He doesnt smother me like my past guys have, so i have never dated a pisces nor a guy like him ever. So, I am lost in this situation. I've always had past bf's wanting to committ to me right away and like since he isn't ready it makes me question his sincerity. I am trying to be patient, but lately I just don't know if it's a pisces thing or if he is feeding me lines.

I know this is both pisces/ dating advice that I need. I'll appreciate any feedback. Also, as a girl I know we usually aren't suspose to bring up the committment topic etc... Does anyone have any suggestions on the best way I can bring it up to him that will allow him to listen without coming off like an ultimatum? I know ultimately I have to do what is best for me, but I just don't know how long to wait or sit back is right?

Extra info on us:

Me: Sun in Leo/ Moon in scorpio/ venus in cancer
Him: Sun in pisces/ moon in libra/ venus in aquarius

* yes I know our signs clash! That's why this relationship has been soo challenging for me.

Thanks everyone! 🙂

I dated a pisces man a long time ago, before I was really into astrology so I don't know the rest of his chart. It was an on-again, off-again relationship for 3 years. We cared about each other, a lot, but we had a lot of difficulty understanding each other. We tried to communicate but somehow never got the messages across very well. In the end I needed someone more concrete and grounded in reality than he was. I have experienced similar patterns with pisces friends, both male and female. I enjoy their company at first, but after a while they tend to get on my nerves and it's better if I have some distance in the friendship. Not sure if this will be helpful in your situation - but in my experience a Pisces-Leo pairing is a real challenge. I wish you the best of luck! 🙂

Yeah but your sun and his moon, and vice-versa, are very much compatible. Also, his sun and your venus (and vice-versa as well!) are good to go!

You should just look up the descriptions in your synastry and see what comes up. Another site I like is this: http://www.skyviewzone.com/lovematch/sunsynastryaspects.htm<BR>
You can use your synastry chart to look up a bunch of aspects.

It doesn't sound like it's a Pisces thing at all. There are some that are more upfront and quicker at wanting to be in the bf/gf thing. Then again, they could have just been needy and this guy doesn't sound like he is. Maybe look at this Venus.

Well, I was with a pieces boy very briefly - and that was during my chilled out, don't care a damn about the world phase and that is precisely what he liked about me - we got along very well - we used to have lots of fun together.

Pieces don't like confrontations much I think. Atleast whenever he and I fought, he would just leave the fight like that without bothering to clarify and go hang and party with his friends. Leaving me feeling like he doesn't a give a damn (he was my flatmate at university), and we wouldn't speak for two days avoiding each other in the same house, but then he'd do some GRAND romantic gesture and I'd just melt. That happened like four times in eight months. We never broke up, i just moved out after college ended, and we're still excellent friends.

Pieces and leo are very very different when it comes to solid relationships. And we only lasted because we were both not very serious. Besides i knew the moment i fall for him, it would be a mess, because as awesome as he was, i didn't/don't agree with his life style and his chaotic methods of doing things in life. And, I know he HATES nagging, being reminded what the right thing to do is. And we Leo woman all love consistently advising/lecturing the boy about how he can improve his life (at least I do). Secondly, pieces methods frustrate leos, which in turn frustrate pieces, so no good comes out.

About his taking time, truth is, only a pieces knows what's really going inside their head (and most times even they don't know what's going on inside their head). So, we can all try and figure out things together, but he'll surprise you tomm with something you never expected. Maybe, just step back, get your emotions in order, and impatience too, give him his time, if it happens great, but if it doesn't then be prepared for it, don't keep hanging on his words for him to take a decision. I know its easier said than done, but you should not give him TOO much important and let things take their own course. Just handle the whole thing gracefully 🙂