Got more understanding from that Leo this week.

If you remember last year at this time, and my sad ass posting about the Leo up and leaving me- stating "work" obligations. It was sudden and sporadic and I knew I wasn't getting the whole story.

Well during Venus Retro he reached out-- Saying he was thinking of me and wanted to see me when he was home for Thanksgiving. We met up Friday. It was like no time had passed. We went to my house, he put on some love songs and was slow dancing with me in my kitchen. He's always very romantic.

Then he just blurts out... "Do you want to know why I left last year?".... Duh. "That last night we hung out, you got drunk and told me you loved me...it freaked me out. I got scared and I ran."....... I reply while laughing hysterically "Are you serious? We drank tequila for 4 hours and you drove my car home. You believed I was in love with you for real?! I am the "i love you" drunk"...... I can assure all of you I did not love him.

This is why drinking is bad! haha. But sometimes you get loose. Especially in the crowd we roll in. All night I busted his balls about it, if he got me a glass of wine i was like "Thank you! I just need to tell you....I LOVE YOU." We laughed about it.

I asked him why he wouldn't have just addressed it and he said "I'm not good with expressing my emotions.". I get that, but you basically ghost me for a drunk comment and refuse to address when I asked? lame

He kind of has a lil ego. I got to thinking, and every woman he's told me about he said was "in love with him." Calm down Don Juan!

Anywayyyssss..... we had an awesome night. I made sure I was up first and in the shower quick the next morning, gave him a quick hug when he got up said "it was good to see you", walked him quickly to my door. I kind of rushed him out. We haven't spoken, but last night he went through all my IG photos liking them. I have no intention of rekindling. But damn are Leos loving and romantic in the moment!!! It was good to see him. I did really like him when we dated, it sucks things played out that way.

Posted by rejuvenatedheart

What's his Moon?

Taurus if he was born before 11am (he thinks early morning like 3am), Gemini if after. I go with Taurus.

He has Venus in Virgo.....Mars and Merc in Leo.

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Glad you had a good time reconnecting. That time with leo is seriously special. Be careful, though. Keep your emotions in check because you'll be thinking about this awesome night and he will be in contact. If he up and left you over that... there will very likely be other things.

Not saying you dont keep your emotions in alignment, you seem level headed.. but there is nothing like that leo/libra connection when it's on. It's easy to get swept up if they keep wanting to hang out. They always make a good and strong comeback and you're just fanning your damn self over it for days.

It's always so passionate and loving... Like we're old time lovers. BUT IM STAYING FIRM in not allowing myself to go there. It was so weird though. Just by chance it was exactly a year since we first hooked up, and I broke my 2018 abstinence with the same one i started it with. hahaha

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Glad you had a good time reconnecting. That time with leo is seriously special. Be careful, though. Keep your emotions in check because you'll be thinking about this awesome night and he will be in contact. If he up and left you over that... there will very likely be other things.

Not saying you dont keep your emotions in alignment, you seem level headed.. but there is nothing like that leo/libra connection when it's on. It's easy to get swept up if they keep wanting to hang out. They always make a good and strong comeback and you're just fanning your damn self over it for days.

It's always so passionate and loving... Like we're old time lovers. BUT IM STAYING FIRM in not allowing myself to go there.

Isn't it so good? Lol. My ex is triple leo and the guy I had been talking to for a bit recently is also triple leo but more loud and lively than the ex. The conversation, the FUN, the physical, my god... time of my life. Still think about him. Still want to reply to his texts but he no good for me. No, no, no. Also, universe, if you could stop sending Leos this way, it would be nice. I've deleted the dating apps but it just seems like theres too many of them on there lol. Too many at work. Too many.

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The Libra/Leo pull is strong. And i'm not saying this in any conceited way, but ive never interacted with a Leo man that didnt end up pursuing me. Usually for extended periods of time. The Art Professor Leo stated that he has only EVER dated Libra women, that its become an on going joke when he likes someone, he said "I get afraid to ask their Bday, cause it freaks me out!"

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What's his Moon?

Taurus if he was born before 11am (he thinks early morning like 3am), Gemini if after. I go with Taurus.

He has Venus in Virgo.....Mars and Merc in Leo.

I blame the flakiness on his Venus. Venus in Virgo people are really afraid to fall for people especially if they're told the three magic words way too quickly. We're not the type to say "I love you" unless we're really feeling it strongly enough to actually say it out loud. We're mostly the demonstrative types. We'll fix things for you (that's like... Our motto), we'll pick on you, we'll help you pick out stuff, we'll do your laundry for you, we'll cook for you, etc. We show it and like when our partners do the same. Hearing our partners say "I love you" out loud is scary for us and we automatically start to overthink. "Do they really mean it?" "It's too soon to say this; I don't trust my partner now." "How could anyone ever love me?" etc. So I'm betting that your Leo was probably just taken aback at the fact that you said this (even though you were drunk). I think we tend to take everything literally and at face value. Venus in Virgo people also overanalyze a LOT when it comes to what other people do or say.

But I'm really glad this Leo reached out to you and explained himself. Men often don't man up and own up to their shit.

But, also be careful- if he's a late Leo, he'll have Sun square Moon which is a really hard aspect to handle. The ego conflicting with the desires = he doesn't know what he wants.

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I'm a VIV too! We are a mess, I know!!!! haha

Guys are weird... they don't realize what would happen if they just used their words to clarify/communicate.



But I'm glad you finally got an explanation. 🙂

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Guys are weird... they don't realize what would happen if they just used their words to clarify/communicate.



But I'm glad you finally got an explanation. 🙂

Me too! It was just so silly. I think he felt a little ridiculous after the conversation. I get it though!

I was CLEAR with him. Actually more so than I have been with anyone else in years! This was a year ago...it's all good now.

Ha, he has my venus, mars and merc.

Yeah I can see why he had that knee jerk reaction to you saying “I love you.” I’ve reacted the same way but never bothered reaching out to the person to explain the ghosting, it just .. brings about a deep fight or flight fear. It sucks he didn’t catch the drift that you were joking but atleast he reached out!

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Posted by stillstillwater

Guys are weird... they don't realize what would happen if they just used their words to clarify/communicate.



But I'm glad you finally got an explanation. 🙂

like the op is clear in her communication?

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i meant the guy in her post did not communicate his thoughts.

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Posted by stillstillwater

Guys are weird... they don't realize what would happen if they just used their words to clarify/communicate.



But I'm glad you finally got an explanation. 🙂

Me too! It was just so silly. I think he felt a little ridiculous after the conversation. I get it though!

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lol good he felt ridiculous.

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Ha, he has my venus, mars and merc.

Yeah I can see why he had that knee jerk reaction to you saying “I love you.” I’ve reacted the same way but never bothered reaching out to the person to explain the ghosting, it just .. brings about a deep fight or flight fear. It sucks he didn’t catch the drift that you were joking but atleast he reached out!

I totally get it! I've got the same venus and a very fickle moon. But dude! We legit turned brunch into a damn tequila fest for 4 hours!!!! Bad decisions. I'm just glad he was honest. For months he would send me songs and BS after, but refused to be upfront. I dont like that! Undeniable connection, but purely light hearted.

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Guys are weird... they don't realize what would happen if they just used their words to clarify/communicate.



But I'm glad you finally got an explanation. 🙂

like the op is clear in her communication?

i meant the guy in her post did not communicate his thoughts.

the op is not clear at all ...she is entertaining his whims at best.

according to the OP slow dancing and letting him stay over night to reconnect and "talk" things out is how you find closure.

where do women hang their intelligence these days on the clothes rack?

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well may be it wasn't her intention to get closure and that was just a byproduct... may be she just wanted to reconnect. I don't know, i'm guessing.

I mean life is fluid and you should let some moments happen if they feel right to you.

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Guys are weird... they don't realize what would happen if they just used their words to clarify/communicate.



But I'm glad you finally got an explanation. 🙂

like the op is clear in her communication?

i meant the guy in her post did not communicate his thoughts.

the op is not clear at all ...she is entertaining his whims at best.

according to the OP slow dancing and letting him stay over night to reconnect and "talk" things out is how you find closure.

where do women hang their intelligence these days on the clothes rack?

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Blech. I dont agree with your train of thought. Too old fashion for me. We were reconnecting as in "how ya been?" NOT to get closure... shits been closed. We met through music, we dance every time we hang, and go back and forth with music. I am not at anyone's whims... Believe that. Sex was good! It had been a year! Ya girl needed a familiar body. hahaha

@heliumfiasco Glad you discovered the truth. Ghosting is the most cowardly thing a person can do nowadays, so that lets you know this Leo's emotional maturity isn't where it needs to be (seriously he took a whole year to relay this information). He wasted an opportunity, which lets you know that this guy is a flight risk in emotional situations. Who wants to date a person like that?

I do wonder if he's telling the truth. Leo's love to save face. I wonder if that's simply the best excuse he could muster because the actual reason is even more nonsensical. It's not like you remember saying, "I love you" to him. He could just be saying that because it's the "best reason" he could give you.

My guess is, long term commitment scared him in a moment when his money wasn't right. So he got cold feet and ran. That's more difficult to explain in the moment, so he may have made up an excuse. You're wise not to chase this one. If he really wants to fix this, he will.

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@heliumfiasco Glad you discovered the truth. Ghosting is the most cowardly thing a person can do nowadays, so that lets you know this Leo's emotional maturity isn't where it needs to be (seriously he took a whole year to relay this information). He wasted an opportunity, which lets you know that this guy is a flight risk in emotional situations. Who wants to date a person like that?

I do wonder if he's telling the truth. Leo's love to save face. I wonder if that's simply the best excuse he could muster because the actual reason is even more nonsensical. It's not like you remember saying, "I love you" to him. He could just be saying that because it's the "best reason" he could give you.

My guess is, long term commitment scared him in a moment when his money wasn't right. So he got cold feet and ran. That's more difficult to explain in the moment, so he may have made up an excuse. You're wise not to chase this one. If he really wants to fix this, he will.

I totally agree! I dont think it'll be the last I hear from him. At what capacity? Who knows. I'm not bothered anymore.

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So Leo suns with Taurus moons sleep around?

Maybe?! haha. It just happened for me because it was familiar and been TOO LONG!

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To be honest I'm not a huge fan of Leo's anymore

One rejected me

The other hits me up at 9pm on a weekend night

Like I'm some booty call

I really wanted to befriend him. He cooks great Indian food. I was hoping to learn. Also is a project manager

But he only hits me up when he's out and about or bored

And at night

Its very weird and unprofessional

That is weird! I think Leo's can be very flirtatious and live for the attention. I wouldnt have thought this from dealing with other Fire signs, they move quick and have no patience. However, I think you have to be slow with a Leo. Like when you meet a cat.... But maybe that's his moon and venus? I think they like to bid for your attention, and like applause... but they dont like you "demanding it", and each one has a different criteria for what "demanding it" looks like.

I don't currently have any desire for a relationship with him. I allowed myself to get WAY into my feelings last year. I will say that ive gone on so many dates over the last 3 years. The Leo and I click so well. He isnt my normal type physically, he is only 29, he is a bit closed minded in certain areas, not the most intellectual. But it just doesnt matter. We will 100% have a good ass time with lots of chemistry when we get together.