@imnotvirgo
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How to comfort my leo and make him understand he's too clingy and I need A FRIGIN SPACE
How to Help Your Leo Feel Secure and Respect Your Space
To comfort your Leo, acknowledge his need for attention while setting clear boundaries. Offer quality time when possible and reassure him with words. Explaining your need for personal space calmly can help him understand. Balance your independence with appreciation to strengthen your relationship without hurting his feelings.
You might not like what you get if you push him away. Leo are kind of extremists lol. Either too attached or when leo pride is hurt, completely detached. Leo don't really do in the middle so well. Maybe encourage him to go out with his friends or do something with his time. Or take up your own thing. Like gym or arts or something that gives you some alone time.
You might not like what you get if you push him away. Leo are kind of extremists lol. Either too attached or when leo pride is hurt, completely detached. Leo don't really do in the middle so well. Maybe encourage him to go out with his friends or do something with his time. Or take up your own thing. Like gym or arts or something that gives you some alone time.
Okay, I told him several times - "go out, check your friends, have some fun", and he's like "But we never have enough time together, I wanna be with you", and thats that. I understand he wants together time and attention, but the more someone craves my attention-the less I want to give it..
Sounds annoying
Probably I'm the annoying one, cuz he's literally perfect in any other way..
You might not like what you get if you push him away. Leo are kind of extremists lol. Either too attached or when leo pride is hurt, completely detached. Leo don't really do in the middle so well. Maybe encourage him to go out with his friends or do something with his time. Or take up your own thing. Like gym or arts or something that gives you some alone time.
Okay, I told him several times - "go out, check your friends, have some fun", and he's like "But we never have enough time together, I wanna be with you", and thats that. I understand he wants together time and attention, but the more someone craves my attention-the less I want to give it..
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Sounds like he's kinda whipped. Is your relationship new or have you just recently moved in together... or has this been going on for a long time?
Sounds annoying
Probably I'm the annoying one, cuz he's literally perfect in any other way..
You need to discuss this with him
Cap moons need their space
Its going to cause all types of problems if you're NOT up front
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I share almost immediately how I feel.. so I guess that's good
You might not like what you get if you push him away. Leo are kind of extremists lol. Either too attached or when leo pride is hurt, completely detached. Leo don't really do in the middle so well. Maybe encourage him to go out with his friends or do something with his time. Or take up your own thing. Like gym or arts or something that gives you some alone time.
Okay, I told him several times - "go out, check your friends, have some fun", and he's like "But we never have enough time together, I wanna be with you", and thats that. I understand he wants together time and attention, but the more someone craves my attention-the less I want to give it..
Sounds like he's kinda whipped. Is your relationship new or have you just recently moved in together... or has this been going on for a long time?
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4 months of being together and living together 😄 What do you mean whipped?
Sounds annoying
Probably I'm the annoying one, cuz he's literally perfect in any other way..
He giv u dat gud chok?
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yas he did 💁♀️
You moved in together pretty soon. Does he not play computer games? So he doesn’t understand you want to play them and focus on them (I used to play overwatch, you kinda need to focus when playing that game). What hobbies did he have before you got together? Tell him you don’t want him to give them up, and you want him to have his friends. If he still doesn’t get it, you will have to tell him gently, he doesn’t sound like a guy who picks up on hints.
You moved in together pretty soon. Does he not play computer games? So he doesn’t understand you want to play them and focus on them (I used to play overwatch, you kinda need to focus when playing that game). What hobbies did he have before you got together? Tell him you don’t want him to give them up, and you want him to have his friends. If he still doesn’t get it, you will have to tell him gently, he doesn’t sound like a guy who picks up on hints.
He was playing a lot of basketball, but right when we started dating he kinda fcked up his leg, now he's playing 1-max 2 times a week. Nice advices you gave me, thank you ❤️
You might not like what you get if you push him away. Leo are kind of extremists lol. Either too attached or when leo pride is hurt, completely detached. Leo don't really do in the middle so well. Maybe encourage him to go out with his friends or do something with his time. Or take up your own thing. Like gym or arts or something that gives you some alone time.
Okay, I told him several times - "go out, check your friends, have some fun", and he's like "But we never have enough time together, I wanna be with you", and thats that. I understand he wants together time and attention, but the more someone craves my attention-the less I want to give it..
Sounds like he's kinda whipped. Is your relationship new or have you just recently moved in together... or has this been going on for a long time?
4 months of being together and living together 😄 What do you mean whipped?
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It means he's crazy about you. Maybe its too much for you. Most people complain about the opposite. He might relax after a while but it seems like he's happy to have you.
virgo sun with cap moon,
WITH A LEO ? 😂
burnout incoming
WHYWHYWHY? 😄
virgo sun with cap moon,
WITH A LEO ? 😂
burnout incoming
WHYWHYWHY? 😄
most of the virgos i know are addicted to naps or doing nothing in front of a screen.
but a leo will call you sms you, while u just want to do nothing
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"do nothing in front of a screen" - ma laif ❤️
You might not like what you get if you push him away. Leo are kind of extremists lol. Either too attached or when leo pride is hurt, completely detached. Leo don't really do in the middle so well. Maybe encourage him to go out with his friends or do something with his time. Or take up your own thing. Like gym or arts or something that gives you some alone time.
Okay, I told him several times - "go out, check your friends, have some fun", and he's like "But we never have enough time together, I wanna be with you", and thats that. I understand he wants together time and attention, but the more someone craves my attention-the less I want to give it..
Sounds like he's kinda whipped. Is your relationship new or have you just recently moved in together... or has this been going on for a long time?
4 months of being together and living together 😄 What do you mean whipped?
It means he's crazy about you. Maybe its too much for you. Most people complain about the opposite. He might relax after a while but it seems like he's happy to have you.
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That’s what i was thinking, he’s going to relax after sometime the relationship is still very new
Leo men are such bebes. Makes me want to take care of them forever
virgo bish complaining
The dude I'm dating is a Leo, we live together. I dont know if it's a virgo thing, but I love some "me-time" and it's so hard to get it atm, my lil leo is following me everywhere and he wants us to do everything together.
I feel bad for coming home from work and wanting to play fckn overwatch for an hour or two, while he's lying in bed next to me, looking like a little angry baby lion, which is not getting enough attention 🐈
He's Leo Sun, Moon and Merc, Aqua Asc, Gem Mars, Libra Venus.
What can I do to make this situation better? Am I the one being wrong or are we kinda opposite? I also got this Cap moon and I need some space and I have some hard time showing warm emotions.
You need time alone to chill and he needs to understand and respect that. Have you gently told him upfront about this need? If you have and he hasn't gotten the message, you should start putting less cushion in the way you tell him and he'll probably get the memo.
My Leo and I have this same issue. He also has Capricorn Moon and loves his alone time to chill after work and I am just like your Leo, sitting next to him and pouting for attention lmao. Your man needs to find shit to do while you recharge.
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True!! And how do yall handle this situation? You also do something by yourself in the meantime? And when and how did you realise he is like that and needs his time, and how did you react? A lotta questions, I know
Leo men are such bebes. Makes me want to take care of them forever
Aww, it's trueee 🐈🐈🐈
Do you spend quality time together?
Like doing things where your full attention is on each other...and not chores or things around the house.
Awww lion wants to be constantly pet hahah
Do you spend quality time together?
Like doing things where your full attention is on each other...and not chores or things around the house.
Rarely..
Do you spend quality time together?
Like doing things where your full attention is on each other...and not chores or things around the house.
Rarely..
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Sometimes moving in together feels like you’re together all the time but its not quality time. So even though you need me-time because you aleays have someone around, hes not getting quality time that fills him up.
So youre getting bit depleted but hes not getting filled up from it either.
One way is to dedicate quality time a bit every day like dinner with no distractions and an activity after like having tea/wine together and talking.
Or dedicate a full day on the weekend.
Do you spend quality time together?
Like doing things where your full attention is on each other...and not chores or things around the house.
Rarely..
Sometimes moving in together feels like you’re together all the time but its not quality time. So even though you need me-time because you aleays have someone around, hes not getting quality time that fills him up.
So youre getting bit depleted but hes not getting filled up from it either.
One way is to dedicate quality time a bit every day like dinner with no distractions and an activity after like having tea/wine together and talking.
Or dedicate a full day on the weekend.
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Incredible sum up and advice, I'm gonna follow it in an hour, when I'm back from work, I'll update how it went. Thank you!
Do you spend quality time together?
Like doing things where your full attention is on each other...and not chores or things around the house.
Rarely..
Sometimes moving in together feels like you’re together all the time but its not quality time. So even though you need me-time because you aleays have someone around, hes not getting quality time that fills him up.
So youre getting bit depleted but hes not getting filled up from it either.
One way is to dedicate quality time a bit every day like dinner with no distractions and an activity after like having tea/wine together and talking.
Or dedicate a full day on the weekend.
Incredible sum up and advice, I'm gonna follow it in an hour, when I'm back from work, I'll update how it went. Thank you!
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Awww im glad that helped. Very rarely advice makes a difference haha esp dxp.
Yeah keep us updated. And maybe even a step further tell him you want to spend quality time together and what does that look like for him so you can ser what his version of “quality time” is.
Do you spend quality time together?
Like doing things where your full attention is on each other...and not chores or things around the house.
Rarely..
Sometimes moving in together feels like you’re together all the time but its not quality time. So even though you need me-time because you aleays have someone around, hes not getting quality time that fills him up.
So youre getting bit depleted but hes not getting filled up from it either.
One way is to dedicate quality time a bit every day like dinner with no distractions and an activity after like having tea/wine together and talking.
Or dedicate a full day on the weekend.
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^This.
Do you spend quality time together?
Like doing things where your full attention is on each other...and not chores or things around the house.
Rarely..
Sometimes moving in together feels like you’re together all the time but its not quality time. So even though you need me-time because you aleays have someone around, hes not getting quality time that fills him up.
So youre getting bit depleted but hes not getting filled up from it either.
One way is to dedicate quality time a bit every day like dinner with no distractions and an activity after like having tea/wine together and talking.
Or dedicate a full day on the weekend.
Incredible sum up and advice, I'm gonna follow it in an hour, when I'm back from work, I'll update how it went. Thank you!
Awww im glad that helped. Very rarely advice makes a difference haha esp dxp.
Yeah keep us updated. And maybe even a step further tell him you want to spend quality time together and what does that look like for him so you can ser what his version of “quality time” is.
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We talked, you were 100 % , right about quality time and that it wasnt enough for him and now it's chill and all good, we've been hangin around at home, he actually bought a decent laptop today, so we can play together 😄 Let's pray it's all good
You might not like what you get if you push him away. Leo are kind of extremists lol. Either too attached or when leo pride is hurt, completely detached. Leo don't really do in the middle so well. Maybe encourage him to go out with his friends or do something with his time. Or take up your own thing. Like gym or arts or something that gives you some alone time.
He probably will join same gym and offer to hold brushes while she is painting...he must have some Gem in him...A LOT! Lmao
Do you spend quality time together?
Like doing things where your full attention is on each other...and not chores or things around the house.
Rarely..
Sometimes moving in together feels like you’re together all the time but its not quality time. So even though you need me-time because you aleays have someone around, hes not getting quality time that fills him up.
So youre getting bit depleted but hes not getting filled up from it either.
One way is to dedicate quality time a bit every day like dinner with no distractions and an activity after like having tea/wine together and talking.
Or dedicate a full day on the weekend.
Incredible sum up and advice, I'm gonna follow it in an hour, when I'm back from work, I'll update how it went. Thank you!
Awww im glad that helped. Very rarely advice makes a difference haha esp dxp.
Yeah keep us updated. And maybe even a step further tell him you want to spend quality time together and what does that look like for him so you can ser what his version of “quality time” is.
We talked, you were 100 % , right about quality time and that it wasnt enough for him and now it's chill and all good, we've been hangin around at home, he actually bought a decent laptop today, so we can play together 😄 Let's pray it's all good
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Awesome sauce!
ugh he reminds me of myself, my boyfriend is a virgo sun cap moon but scorpio venus cancer mars so i get him space but we like to constantly be near each other too. sometimes i catch myself complaining when he's playin games on his phone too much loll but i enjoy just been near him. whipped i kno
I wish I was as lucky as your bf. I don't get any me-time from my libra wife. Anyways, just tell him directly that he's being clingy and it will hurt his ego so much he won't talk to you for days. You're welcome.
virgo sun with cap moon,
WITH A LEO ? 😂
burnout incoming
Your Cap Moon is biting you in the a**.
Does your Leo have a lot of water placements?
I wish I was as lucky as your bf. I don't get any me-time from my libra wife. Anyways, just tell him directly that he's being clingy and it will hurt his ego so much he won't talk to you for days. You're welcome.
😄 Are you a leo? You sound tortured
virgo sun with cap moon,
WITH A LEO ? 😂
burnout incoming
Your Cap Moon is biting you in the a**.
Does your Leo have a lot of water placements?
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He has ZERO. Leo sun, moon and merc, aqua asc, libra venus, gem mars? What is this
Awww 4 months and you don’t have quality time? That is all he needs. A bit of it will make him happy, then he will be able to relax and do his own thing.
If he feels that you don’t care or have time for him he will be clingy until he gets it. If he doesn’t eventually he will detach and leave.
Be glad that you get someone like him while most women here complained about how the men they were dating suddenly went cold turkey on them. 😉
Yes! I am glad as hell, for some time now I'm slowly realizing what a treasure I've found.
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virgo bish complaining
The dude I'm dating is a Leo, we live together. I dont know if it's a virgo thing, but I love some "me-time" and it's so hard to get it atm, my lil leo is following me everywhere and he wants us to do everything together.
I feel bad for coming home from work and wanting to play fckn overwatch for an hour or two, while he's lying in bed next to me, looking like a little angry baby lion, which is not getting enough attention 🐈
He's Leo Sun, Moon and Merc, Aqua Asc, Gem Mars, Libra Venus.
What can I do to make this situation better? Am I the one being wrong or are we kinda opposite? I also got this Cap moon and I need some space and I have some hard time showing warm emotions.