
Mishmorecookie
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Posted by kreolhahahaha. I apologise for who I am. I guess?
I pray he doesn't find out about this thread

Posted by FyzaGemsUmm. His name rhymes with... okay never mind. Doo doo doooooooo
OP,
Lol!!! What's with his smile? Is there something wrong with his teeth or wut?

Posted by kreolI think you're right. But I like him a lot. It's the weirdest feeling.
I think you've subconsciously friendzoned this dude occupying your time. True test of your relationship will be how you react when a real looker gives you attention

Posted by kreolAgain I think you're right but I hope you're wrong. Here's a good man who's good for me and here I am wishing he was Liam Hemsworth. I'm no Miley Cyrus myself.
I think you said it yourself, you enjoy the attention more than the person. Maybe

Posted by kreolhahahahaha that's terrible! he's not ugly for sure, just not my usual cup of tea. But I think I'm already halfway there (on spending my remaining days trolling DXP)Posted by FyzaGems"hey bae you're amazing and all but you ugly, like U-G-L-Y you ain't got no alibi you FUGLY. I really appreciate everything you do for me but you have a face only a mother could love, i could never breed with you. sry"Posted by kreolLol! Shut up.
I pray he doesn't find out about this thread
I'm really laughing reading this! Hahaaaa
Women can be so cruel I swear
If my lady said this to me I'd spend my remaining days trolling DXPclick to expand

Posted by FyzaGemsare you saying i should tell him he's ugly? hahahahahahahaPosted by kreolHey come on, atleast we are being honest about it.Posted by FyzaGems"hey bae you're amazing and all but you ugly, like U-G-L-Y you ain't got no alibi you FUGLY. I really appreciate everything you do for me but you have a face only a mother could love, i could never breed with you. sry"Posted by kreolLol! Shut up.
I pray he doesn't find out about this thread
I'm really laughing reading this! Hahaaaa
Women can be so cruel I swear
If my lady said this to me I'd spend my remaining days trolling DXP
It's better than having someone who keeps on complimenting u for something that u knew all along wasn't true. It's like living in delusion.
I will go with honesty. 😄click to expand

Posted by PV&JellayI'm really hoping this might go somewhere but you're right. Should probably cut him loosePosted by MishmorecookiePosted by kreolAgain I think you're right but I hope you're wrong. Here's a good man who's good for me and here I am wishing he was Liam Hemsworth. I'm no Miley Cyrus myself.
I think you said it yourself, you enjoy the attention more than the person. Maybe
Physical attraction shallow or not, is a factor. If you're not physically attracted, and that's honestly an issue for you, don't waste your time or his. He will end up really invested in the relationship with you, while you are continuously wondering whether you can "do better". Just be friends, so you don't end up hurting a nice guy.
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Posted by truecaphahahahaha haven't seen it!
If he has a big d*ck.....would that make a difference?
😛

Posted by babygurl
well post the photo then..

Posted by Arielle83I bet he's good at cunnilingus
I bet he's a giver.

Posted by Arielle83hahahaha from making out i think he might just be. Which essentially makes him the perfect man. But..... sigh.
I bet he's a giver.


Posted by enfant_terrible
I bet he'll take you to see La boheme
Posted by truecapi can see and agree with you on all points,
Some thoughts to ponder:
If it's his teeth, he can get that fixed.
If he has money, well, money can make an ugly man attractive? Yeah, you see it all the time.....Trump gets beautiful women. 😉
If it's his lack of hair, tell him he looks good in a hat.
If it's his body, he can go to the gym and eat healthier.
Ugly men don't have women throwing themselves at them, so you don't have to worry about skanky ho's.
Ugly men are more appreciative and treat you better.
Ugly people tend to be more faithful.
Remember, looks fade with age and we're left with personality and character which is soooooo important for the long term.
But if the idea of sex with him has you wanting to put a bag over his head....well, there ya go. I reckon it'd definitely be a no go.
Posted by Arielle83whoa.
I remember I met this nerd at the gym back in the day. He was shy and awkward and insecure. Cute but not overly what I would be into. His nervousness around me turned me on.
One of the best cuninglingus experiences I've had. It was like he was shocked when I came onto him.
You might be surprised. I mean one of the things that turns me on is when they are turned in by me. That's what I felt back then.
Maybe you can think in terms of that way, but you're already attracted to his mind, so to me that would be the main thing and the rest will fall into place.
Posted by Arielle83😆Posted by lisabethur8I am turned on by shyness, but I'm shy too until I meet someone shyer and then I'm dropping pants.Posted by Arielle83whoa.
I remember I met this nerd at the gym back in the day. He was shy and awkward and insecure. Cute but not overly what I would be into. His nervousness around me turned me on.
One of the best cuninglingus experiences I've had. It was like he was shocked when I came onto him.
You might be surprised. I mean one of the things that turns me on is when they are turned in by me. That's what I felt back then.
Maybe you can think in terms of that way, but you're already attracted to his mind, so to me that would be the main thing and the rest will fall into place.
sounds like he was turned on by your aggressive/assertiveness and you turned on by his shyness,nervousness.click to expand

Posted by Arielle83hahahaha you're killing mePosted by lisabethur8I am turned on by shyness, but I'm shy too until I meet someone shyer and then I'm dropping pants.Posted by Arielle83whoa.
I remember I met this nerd at the gym back in the day. He was shy and awkward and insecure. Cute but not overly what I would be into. His nervousness around me turned me on.
One of the best cuninglingus experiences I've had. It was like he was shocked when I came onto him.
You might be surprised. I mean one of the things that turns me on is when they are turned in by me. That's what I felt back then.
Maybe you can think in terms of that way, but you're already attracted to his mind, so to me that would be the main thing and the rest will fall into place.
sounds like he was turned on by your aggressive/assertiveness and you turned on by his shyness,nervousness.click to expand

Posted by MishmorecookieOP, what is so very wrong with his looks that you find him repulsive to gaze upon? 😐
So I met an amazing Aries man who makes me laugh. The chemistry is insane and we can talk about anything and everything. He likes me a lot, treats me like a queen, gives me his time and energy, makes a lot of effort, and of course, I absolutely love the attention.
Now here's the thing. He's not a looker. Yes, I am a shallow biatch and if you want to, go ahead and judge me haha. Can't help who you are, hey?
I like him a lot but get so turned off every time he sends a photo of himself. Or when we hang out and he smiles, I immediately feel like we have no future. I'd like to know if any other Leo has gone through this before and if there's a way for me to move past this silly phase and allow myself to fall for him.

Posted by TheLadyScorpioHe doesn't have straight teeth, kinda balding, slightly pudgy. Umm yeah that's itPosted by MishmorecookieOP, what is so very wrong with his looks that you find him repulsive to gaze upon? 😐
So I met an amazing Aries man who makes me laugh. The chemistry is insane and we can talk about anything and everything. He likes me a lot, treats me like a queen, gives me his time and energy, makes a lot of effort, and of course, I absolutely love the attention.
Now here's the thing. He's not a looker. Yes, I am a shallow biatch and if you want to, go ahead and judge me haha. Can't help who you are, hey?
I like him a lot but get so turned off every time he sends a photo of himself. Or when we hang out and he smiles, I immediately feel like we have no future. I'd like to know if any other Leo has gone through this before and if there's a way for me to move past this silly phase and allow myself to fall for him.
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Posted by lisabethur8Yeah, I know. It's an old stereotype. I meant it in an encouraging way.Posted by truecapi can see and agree with you on all points,
Some thoughts to ponder:
If it's his teeth, he can get that fixed.
If he has money, well, money can make an ugly man attractive? Yeah, you see it all the time.....Trump gets beautiful women. 😉
If it's his lack of hair, tell him he looks good in a hat.
If it's his body, he can go to the gym and eat healthier.
Ugly men don't have women throwing themselves at them, so you don't have to worry about skanky ho's.
Ugly men are more appreciative and treat you better.
Ugly people tend to be more faithful.
Remember, looks fade with age and we're left with personality and character which is soooooo important for the long term.
But if the idea of sex with him has you wanting to put a bag over his head....well, there ya go. I reckon it'd definitely be a no go.
however i've seen films and heard /read that even ugly people can be unfaithful. ( i remember the real life news story of the President of France, Francois Hollande, who is ugly, but he still cheated on his wife)
http://www.nydailynews.com/news/politics/nicolas-sarkozy-mocks-president-ridiculous-article-1.1581934
but i get your assessment. If they are ugly they are very very appreciative of the person they have, or who wants them.
also ugly men can also be unappreitive of you and treat you like shit as well.
also, there are some hick backwoods guys who are gross and treat women like shit too.
there's really no formula. everythng depends.
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Posted by MishmorecookieSounds like almost every man in my age bracket. 🙂Posted by TheLadyScorpioHe doesn't have straight teeth, kinda balding, slightly pudgy. Umm yeah that's itPosted by MishmorecookieOP, what is so very wrong with his looks that you find him repulsive to gaze upon? 😐
So I met an amazing Aries man who makes me laugh. The chemistry is insane and we can talk about anything and everything. He likes me a lot, treats me like a queen, gives me his time and energy, makes a lot of effort, and of course, I absolutely love the attention.
Now here's the thing. He's not a looker. Yes, I am a shallow biatch and if you want to, go ahead and judge me haha. Can't help who you are, hey?
I like him a lot but get so turned off every time he sends a photo of himself. Or when we hang out and he smiles, I immediately feel like we have no future. I'd like to know if any other Leo has gone through this before and if there's a way for me to move past this silly phase and allow myself to fall for him.
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Posted by truecapNot Alex and he's 39! Coincidentally the other guy I'm seeing who's not as awesome as this Aries guy actually looks like thisPosted by MishmorecookieSounds like almost every man in my age bracket. 🙂Posted by TheLadyScorpioHe doesn't have straight teeth, kinda balding, slightly pudgy. Umm yeah that's itPosted by MishmorecookieOP, what is so very wrong with his looks that you find him repulsive to gaze upon? 😐
So I met an amazing Aries man who makes me laugh. The chemistry is insane and we can talk about anything and everything. He likes me a lot, treats me like a queen, gives me his time and energy, makes a lot of effort, and of course, I absolutely love the attention.
Now here's the thing. He's not a looker. Yes, I am a shallow biatch and if you want to, go ahead and judge me haha. Can't help who you are, hey?
I like him a lot but get so turned off every time he sends a photo of himself. Or when we hang out and he smiles, I immediately feel like we have no future. I'd like to know if any other Leo has gone through this before and if there's a way for me to move past this silly phase and allow myself to fall for him.
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Posted by TachibanaSanhehehe yeah you're right. my bigger problem really is that im seeing another guy as well and he's incredibly tall and hot. He's not as available as Aries man (for obvious reasons) so yeah, a little predicament. Can't help but compare
is there something you can do?
make him over or something...
subtle, small changes make
a lot of difference.
if you dont like his smile,
you can tell to him that
he looks sexy when he
glares.
if hair is bad, get haircut.
eyebrows, let me arch for
you. ugly can be changed.



Posted by truecapsigh. too big of an ego. sad but true.
Leo's and their trophies! lol!!!
-just poking fun...😛


Posted by truecapHaha you've nailed it. That's exactly it. One of my girlfriends' saw his photo and was like "Oh okay he's not good looking" And that was it. I'm cursed for being a Leo.
Do you think people will look down upon you if you're with an unattractive man?
If you're not attracted to him physically, then it's not going to work out in the long term. However, if you're okay with his looks and think he's not good enough from other people's perception, then that's putting too much emphasis on what other people think. I'm just asking if it's you that finds him that unattractive or if you're worried that other people will look down upon you for being with an unattractive man. Like, if you want an attractive man for yourself or if you want it so other people will think more of you.
Just suggesting you look into yourself to see what your motivations are. That might help.
Most Leo's I know what other people "to eat their heart out" because they nailed the best looking mate.
In reality, the character and personality carries way more weight than looks in the long run - but, ehhhh, I'm a cappy and I'm more about character than looks.

Posted by LuckyLibra979Pretty sure I don't deserve that. But everybody's entitled to their own opinion. Librans are just as shallow, no? Don't you guys like aesthetically beautiful people, things and surroundings? And no, I'm not sleeping with both guys. Just dating.
That's just sad and pathetic yet you'll sit there like the arrogant bitch you are and let him feed that fragile broken ego that a "handsome"man wouldn't waste more than 3 months with. Why don't u just tell him you're not feeling him because of how he looks? Glad you're proud of being vain and shallow, you'll find someone equally shallow let's see how that holds up in your golden years.
Females like you, we used to rag on in the locker room. Once we've found out you've had sex with 3 dudes that year, we divide and conquer. Just another cum guzzling fluzzy in need of attention til her 20th boyfriend comes around.
This is why men throw bitch, hoe, slut, skeezer around so easily cuz some women won't even be into a man but will lead him on and even seek his attention til her snatch has been filled by her white knight.
This thread is why I don't save hoes

Posted by LuckyLibra979My best friend, brother and two of my closest co workers are Librans. All four have repeatedly admitted to being shallow. In fact one of the co workers I mentioned never wanted to speak to me till I fixed my teeth. We laugh about it now but back then he wouldn't even look at me. Now we're friends. Oh and the other guy I'm seeing is also a Libra. I like you lot a whole lot.
No, I'm not shallow. To like beautiful things is one thing, to make beauty a prerequisite is totally different. I don't know the whole story and don't want to this was in response to what I read as the opening comment.
You find beauty in what the eyes can see, I find beauty in what the heart feels don't ever compare em again

Posted by KinglyCrablol your gif is cracking me up. We're not in a relationship. Sorry I neglected to mention, we're both dating other people too. But I like this guy the most because of how attentive he is. Hoping to find a way to get past the fact that I'm not physically attracted to him.
I wish to say what if you were in his shoes would you appreciate if he did the same thing to you? You are not entitled to keep this guy around just because you feel the need for attention, if physical chemistry look like it's not going to happen in the future, stop wasting this poor guys time. Problems with physical chemistry create problems in other areas, though understand this is not the best version of him he has about 15 years until maintaining any sort of attractiveness becomes hard for him. He'll have wrinkles all over and probably dentures and such. Still understand how important is sex for you if it isn't that much try it for another 2 weeks but afterwards don't make him stay with you as you clearly can't give him the love he deserves. Don't do it women. This stuff just makes me not wanna date ever, it's completely discouraging. But then I remember that for women like you there are the opposite of you. Don't be an entitled princess the world doesn't owe you or me anything.(i.e.- the world is not gonna give you this
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Just because you want him. Or for example, the world doesn't owe me this
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Just because I exist.)

Posted by juliettehear hear. i think i'll try and see where this goes. he's a real sweetheart and who knows, may end up like your leo friend hey?
imo you are not shallow. anything can be a deal breaker. from physical appearance to character traits. if you ask me it's all the same. and what people do, either they stop seeing that person or try to get to know them better. to see if they can past through certain things or not. that's not leading someone on.
and lol at the men whining at the smallest sign of maybe objectifying men.



Posted by MishmorecookieMy question is; is this a new relationship friend or otherwise? If so, it may pass. Meaning the better he treats you he'll become more physically attractive to you.
So I met an amazing Aries man who makes me laugh. The chemistry is insane and we can talk about anything and everything. He likes me a lot, treats me like a queen, gives me his time and energy, makes a lot of effort, and of course, I absolutely love the attention.
Now here's the thing. He's not a looker. Yes, I am a shallow biatch and if you want to, go ahead and judge me haha. Can't help who you are, hey?
I like him a lot but get so turned off every time he sends a photo of himself. Or when we hang out and he smiles, I immediately feel like we have no future. I'd like to know if any other Leo has gone through this before and if there's a way for me to move past this silly phase and allow myself to fall for him.

Posted by MishmorecookieGod I fucking hate it when my best friend is extreamly disrespectful to the women I want to date and find attractive. He's a libra. But the best part is he'll hook up and sleep with the worse looking chicks from online dating then brag about how he sent them home and never messaged them back afterward. He'll tell me I have low standards, and that he wouldn't date below a 9 ( though I consider us both a 7 at our best) but the first 5 or 6 to look his way he's all over. Fucking double standard two faced bs.Posted by truecapHaha you've nailed it. That's exactly it. One of my girlfriends' saw his photo and was like "Oh okay he's not good looking" And that was it. I'm cursed for being a Leo.
Do you think people will look down upon you if you're with an unattractive man?
If you're not attracted to him physically, then it's not going to work out in the long term. However, if you're okay with his looks and think he's not good enough from other people's perception, then that's putting too much emphasis on what other people think. I'm just asking if it's you that finds him that unattractive or if you're worried that other people will look down upon you for being with an unattractive man. Like, if you want an attractive man for yourself or if you want it so other people will think more of you.
Just suggesting you look into yourself to see what your motivations are. That might help.
Most Leo's I know what other people "to eat their heart out" because they nailed the best looking mate.
In reality, the character and personality carries way more weight than looks in the long run - but, ehhhh, I'm a cappy and I'm more about character than looks.click to expand

Posted by Vixen2yeah for men with leo moon, they LOVE beautiful women. they are very into LOOKS.
Do you have chemistry—
"You can't change people but people can change themselves...."
The exact opposite happened in my case. Totally fell in love with someone who wasnt what I typically would find attractive (however, he was most def. not unattractive). I was already in love him because of his personality before I saw him in person. And when I did see him in person....the way he loved me and treated me and the chemistry made his appearance all the more attractive to me. I have cherished that encounter and know that a soul is dressed in flesh....and you dont get to pick out the clothes the soul has to wear in life. Some get the first dibs...the others get whats left at what seems the bottom of the bin. If this man will love you, cherish you, put your happiness before all others, makes you laugh, accepts you for who you are...then you hit the jackpot. But alas...you will do what you will. But you may regret it someday...
I always feel the moon sign is the true representation as to what is often described as textbook sun sign description.
I am a Leo moon...and
Yes, appearances are important to me, I like to look my best and put my best foot forward...but who doesnt?

Posted by MishmorecookieSome people capture your heart immediately with out you seeing it coming.
So I met an amazing Aries man who makes me laugh. The chemistry is insane and we can talk about anything and everything. He likes me a lot, treats me like a queen, gives me his time and energy, makes a lot of effort, and of course, I absolutely love the attention.
Now here's the thing. He's not a looker. Yes, I am a shallow biatch and if you want to, go ahead and judge me haha. Can't help who you are, hey?
I like him a lot but get so turned off every time he sends a photo of himself. Or when we hang out and he smiles, I immediately feel like we have no future. I'd like to know if any other Leo has gone through this before and if there's a way for me to move past this silly phase and allow myself to fall for him.
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Now here's the thing. He's not a looker. Yes, I am a shallow biatch and if you want to, go ahead and judge me haha. Can't help who you are, hey?
I like him a lot but get so turned off every time he sends a photo of himself. Or when we hang out and he smiles, I immediately feel like we have no future. I'd like to know if any other Leo has gone through this before and if there's a way for me to move past this silly phase and allow myself to fall for him.