How long will a Leo man generally wait to text you

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I've already posted about this Leo man last week. Anyway, his birthday was the eighth and he had a party on the night of the seventh. He would've invited me, only he thought I had prior plans. I was with my Gem friend, but we seriously had nothing to do that night. Was super lame lol I should've told him I was available. I just didn't want it to be so easy for him to see me. A man, and a Leo generally enjoy it when you're harder to get. The last time we texted was Saturday. My rammy impatience is rearing its ugly head lol is this normal for two, almost three days to pass before a Leo says anything?
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I've already posted about this Leo man last week. Anyway, his birthday was the eighth and he had a party on the night of the seventh. He would've invited me, only he thought I had prior plans. I was with my Gem friend, but we seriously had nothing to do that night. Was super lame lol I should've told him I was available. I just didn't want it to be so easy for him to see me. A man, and a Leo generally enjoy it when you're harder to get. The last time we texted was Saturday. My rammy impatience is rearing its ugly head lol is this normal for two, almost three days to pass before a Leo says anything?
Not really..........I'm surprised he didn't invite ya. 😢
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He thought I was busy with my friends, and he said I wish I had told him because then he would've invited me.
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I've already posted about this Leo man last week. Anyway, his birthday was the eighth and he had a party on the night of the seventh. He would've invited me, only he thought I had prior plans. I was with my Gem friend, but we seriously had nothing to do that night. Was super lame lol I should've told him I was available. I just didn't want it to be so easy for him to see me. A man, and a Leo generally enjoy it when you're harder to get. The last time we texted was Saturday. My rammy impatience is rearing its ugly head lol is this normal for two, almost three days to pass before a Leo says anything?
Not really..........I'm surprised he didn't invite ya. 😢
He thought I was busy with my friends, and he said I wish I had told him because then he would've invited me.
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But you preferred to play the "I just didn't want it to be so easy for him to see me." game!!!!!!!!
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I've already posted about this Leo man last week. Anyway, his birthday was the eighth and he had a party on the night of the seventh. He would've invited me, only he thought I had prior plans. I was with my Gem friend, but we seriously had nothing to do that night. Was super lame lol I should've told him I was available. I just didn't want it to be so easy for him to see me. A man, and a Leo generally enjoy it when you're harder to get. The last time we texted was Saturday. My rammy impatience is rearing its ugly head lol is this normal for two, almost three days to pass before a Leo says anything?
Not really..........I'm surprised he didn't invite ya. 😢
He thought I was busy with my friends, and he said I wish I had told him because then he would've invited me.
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But you preferred to play the "I just didn't want it to be so easy for him to see me." game!!!!!!!!
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I've already posted about this Leo man last week. Anyway, his birthday was the eighth and he had a party on the night of the seventh. He would've invited me, only he thought I had prior plans. I was with my Gem friend, but we seriously had nothing to do that night. Was super lame lol I should've told him I was available. I just didn't want it to be so easy for him to see me. A man, and a Leo generally enjoy it when you're harder to get. The last time we texted was Saturday. My rammy impatience is rearing its ugly head lol is this normal for two, almost three days to pass before a Leo says anything?
Not really..........I'm surprised he didn't invite ya. 😢
He thought I was busy with my friends, and he said I wish I had told him because then he would've invited me.
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But you preferred to play the "I just didn't want it to be so easy for him to see me." game!!!!!!!!
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I've already posted about this Leo man last week. Anyway, his birthday was the eighth and he had a party on the night of the seventh. He would've invited me, only he thought I had prior plans. I was with my Gem friend, but we seriously had nothing to do that night. Was super lame lol I should've told him I was available. I just didn't want it to be so easy for him to see me. A man, and a Leo generally enjoy it when you're harder to get. The last time we texted was Saturday. My rammy impatience is rearing its ugly head lol is this normal for two, almost three days to pass before a Leo says anything?
Not really..........I'm surprised he didn't invite ya. 😢
He thought I was busy with my friends, and he said I wish I had told him because then he would've invited me.
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erm.... I dont like this passive attitude ... sounds like an excuse to me ... not like my leo bf didnt say something similar before ... (example.. me: why didnt u ask me if i were free? him: oh i didnt want to get an answer that would disappoint me").. is that normal for leos.. i dont think so
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I should've told him I was available. I just didn't want it to be so easy for him to see me. A man, and a Leo generally enjoy it when you're harder to get.
You tried to manipulate the situation and it bit you in the ass. I can't believe you would put more faith in astrology than in this (or any) guy. Leo men don't necesserily enjoy to chase, not more than any other male, what Leo men "enjoy" is a woman who knows what she wants.. and not moldable, indecisive little projects. Ultimately we wan't an equal, a Queen.

Whether you make yourself available, suggest a date or even go to bed with him, does not mean you're fallen prey. There's a difference between acting hard to get, and just doing what you feel like doing. The latter person will never be a prey. The first will, eventually. Therein lies the difference between fast food and prime ribs. Leo men fall for strong women, simple as that.


"Leo men like to chase" , why? Because we're lions? It's 2015 and pop astrology still has a hard time seperating stargazing from actual jungle life.. lol



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I should've told him I was available. I just didn't want it to be so easy for him to see me. A man, and a Leo generally enjoy it when you're harder to get.
You tried to manipulate the situation and it bit you in the ass. I can't believe you would put more faith in astrology than in this (or any) guy. Leo men don't necesserily enjoy to chase, not more than any other male, what Leo men "enjoy" is a woman who knows what she wants.. and not moldable, indecisive little projects. Ultimately we wan't an equal, a Queen.

Whether you make yourself available, suggest a date or even go to bed with him, does not mean you're fallen prey. There's a difference between acting hard to get, and just doing what you feel like doing. The latter person will never be a prey. The first will, eventually. Therein lies the difference between fast food and prime ribs. Leo men fall for strong women, simple as that.


"Leo men like to chase" , why? Because we're lions? It's 2015 and pop astrology still has a hard time seperating stargazing from actual jungle life.. lol



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She must have thought astrology gives magic.

I'd link you to her first thread, but I'm too lazy. There, you'd see how sure she was that just by being Aries the Leo was hers.
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I should've told him I was available. I just didn't want it to be so easy for him to see me. A man, and a Leo generally enjoy it when you're harder to get.
You tried to manipulate the situation and it bit you in the ass. I can't believe you would put more faith in astrology than in this (or any) guy. Leo men don't necesserily enjoy to chase, not more than any other male, what Leo men "enjoy" is a woman who knows what she wants.. and not moldable, indecisive little projects. Ultimately we wan't an equal, a Queen.

Whether you make yourself available, suggest a date or even go to bed with him, does not mean you're fallen prey. There's a difference between acting hard to get, and just doing what you feel like doing. The latter person will never be a prey. The first will, eventually. Therein lies the difference between fast food and prime ribs. Leo men fall for strong women, simple as that.


"Leo men like to chase" , why? Because we're lions? It's 2015 and pop astrology still has a hard time seperating stargazing from actual jungle life.. lol



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I wouldn't have even been able to go that night, I was stuck in another city. I had even suggested to my Gem friend that I was with that we head over there. Because her boyfriend is the roommate of this particular Leo. I wish we had gone, so I perhaps it did 'bite me in the ass', as you say. Or it could've just been life's realities. I was faced with not being able to join the party, so I continued to let him assume I was still with friends. Which I in fact, was. So it wasn't even a lie.
I've been receiving conflicting advice from countless people. It's hard sometimes to know whether or not you should strictly go off of astrological placements or just let things flow your way. Before I gained an avid interest in astrology, I did the latter. And I'm wondering if that would serve me now. I'm frustrated, however I do believe that I can rectify this situation. I may be sensitive and unsure at times, but I am an Aries, or rather a strong woman after and I generally go for what I want.
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I've already posted about this Leo man last week. Anyway, his birthday was the eighth and he had a party on the night of the seventh. He would've invited me, only he thought I had prior plans. I was with my Gem friend, but we seriously had nothing to do that night. Was super lame lol I should've told him I was available. I just didn't want it to be so easy for him to see me. A man, and a Leo generally enjoy it when you're harder to get. The last time we texted was Saturday. My rammy impatience is rearing its ugly head lol is this normal for two, almost three days to pass before a Leo says anything?
The early part of any relationship is a process. It's important to combine common sense (don't give too much too early on) with being yourself. If you told someone without any common sense to be themselves, they'll continue with their nonsense and be very natural about it. So awareness – of self and others – is just as important as being true to your nature and who you are.

More than anything, it's this circumstance that calls for balance. Be very present and in the moment, with all that you are, but don't get too attached to outcomes. if you're a Formula 1 racer and all you can think about is crossing the finish line, then you'll mess up your turns, because you have to be very present and give each turn its due attention.

At some point, though, you'll need to understand that no matter what your plans or what you've projected for the relationship into there future, it's most important to be clear about where things are. Delicious mystery is best served in bite sizes, and it can never be the main course. So you have to be open to making a move and taking action based on the result.

Text him hello, relax, and go on with your day. Based on his response (or lack thereof), you'll get a better idea of what's next.
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And thank you, Seraph. As usual, for your sound and dignified advice. I greatly appreciate and respect your opinion. And your ability to see the human in people before anything. Clarity is most certainly key in this case. And I need to not hold back nearly as much as I am now. It wouldn't hurt me to allow myself to be a little more vulnerable.
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I love when Aries come in to say they know what leo is doing more than the Leos know themselves.


😆 😆 😆 😆 😆
Not more than other signs coming to Aries board and doing the same thing 😉

But I PMed you. I wish what you're saying was true, TBH.
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Huh?

I saw, but don't understand.

I've said a lot here so you need to be specific.
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I've already posted about this Leo man last week. Anyway, his birthday was the eighth and he had a party on the night of the seventh. He would've invited me, only he thought I had prior plans. I was with my Gem friend, but we seriously had nothing to do that night. Was super lame lol I should've told him I was available. I just didn't want it to be so easy for him to see me. A man, and a Leo generally enjoy it when you're harder to get. The last time we texted was Saturday. My rammy impatience is rearing its ugly head lol is this normal for two, almost three days to pass before a Leo says anything?
Not really..........I'm surprised he didn't invite ya. 😢
He thought I was busy with my friends, and he said I wish I had told him because then he would've invited me.
I meant I'm surprised he didn't persuade you to come to his party and ditch your friends!
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I was thinking the same... I've had ZERO Leo friends who took an initial no as final answer, especially if they feel it's something u can blow off! Doesn't matter if I'm doing my hair, cooking, combining dangerous elements--when a Leo calls they're like, "eff your activity, I want to go to the movies NOW so u can do that later" lol
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I've already posted about this Leo man last week. Anyway, his birthday was the eighth and he had a party on the night of the seventh. He would've invited me, only he thought I had prior plans. I was with my Gem friend, but we seriously had nothing to do that night. Was super lame lol I should've told him I was available. I just didn't want it to be so easy for him to see me. A man, and a Leo generally enjoy it when you're harder to get. The last time we texted was Saturday. My rammy impatience is rearing its ugly head lol is this normal for two, almost three days to pass before a Leo says anything?
Not really..........I'm surprised he didn't invite ya. 😢
He thought I was busy with my friends, and he said I wish I had told him because then he would've invited me.
I meant I'm surprised he didn't persuade you to come to his party and ditch your friends!
I was thinking the same... I've had ZERO Leo friends who took an initial no as final answer, especially if they feel it's something u can blow off! Doesn't matter if I'm doing my hair, cooking, combining dangerous elements--when a Leo calls they're like, "eff your activity, I want to go to the movies NOW so u can do that later" lol
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I'm sure that's true, however you guys are forgetting that he and I just began chatting. We're not super close friends like that, or dating yet. He can't exactly demand me to do drop what I'm doing just yet lol
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People with strong Leo placements move quick when they're suoer interested. This is my onservation, in Aries minds EVERYTHING needs to scream, "I definitely want to be with you", or you guys won't engage or participate in the courting process. With some people, a little interested grows into something more stable. So, a guy is kind of intetested...go with it if you're interested as well or leave it alone. Aries energy is kind of lazy IMO when it comes to relationship starts. They want everything super passionate/right now, when that does NOTHING to sustain in the long run. What's wrong with just hanging out or calling/texting while still maintaining your independent interests? Even if a person has you wide open with the thought of a potential relationship, you should still be able yo maintain and do you without the threat of, "OMG...I'm going to see other people or try to find someone new or not make myself available", etc. That's just doing too much IMO.