How would I approach a leo? "Hey!" ? I am wanting to see if the same leo (talkative then not) will budge if I initiate things. He is quite and reserved with those who are not his friends apparently. :/
rainfairy lioness took the words right out of my fingertips. it's fine to say hey once in a while, just as a way of being friendly and nice. i've said it like 1000 times here, but the #1 quote when dealing with a leo, "tread lightly towards love." if you want any type of romantic thing, you have to sneak up on us. it's the way of the universe.
Thanks RF, and wheelhomies 😄 You guys definately made me understand that logic haha. Its more simple then any other sign I've dealt with!
Well, I got caught up today so I couldnt do any sneaking hehe. I will try to go again maybeee friday. I havent seen him since like two weeks ago, when I DID go to his job as he asked, albeit a date later, but we didnt talk, and he passed by me twice without saying anything...so...that kind of sets me off. But I figure I will need to say something first, and it doesnt hurt to try 😄
hehe thats alot of guilt trips RF! You might get jet lagged.
"Allow him to think about you/miss you. If you keep giving him attention, he will ignore you. Hope that helps."
Its does...and it doesnt. The thing with this leo is that I met him on a friday at a ghetty, he had a couple drinks so I think he was more confident (I get like that sometimes) and w/e. He went to dance with me twice, but I declined, we went outside and I was sitting with my aqua friend and he came over and started small talk. The party moved, and we ended up a the same table aqua/aries/me/and leo. He talked to me the whole time, and asked me about I dont know how many times to go see him monday at his lifeguard job, blah blah. I didn't go monday, I went tuesday. But when I went, I didnt bother to talk to him and he didnt come and say anything. He just passed VERY closely to me twice, but both times I was in lala land till it happened. Soo..thats why I was confused. I went wednesday (a week later...sorta haha) but didnt go near the pool. I'll try and go tomorrow (friday). But I dont know if he just was all attention hungry on friday or I have no CLUE!! Ugh.Men.
I think he's sizing you up.. When I first met my leo it took him almost two months to ask me out, then we didn't officially get to go out until 5 months later. It's true, the more you ignore him, the better. For some reason it seems to work for those sexy cats. Believe me his knows you like him. Just keep it light and let him do all the initiating...
i want ppl to approach me... just do it casually is all. treat me like a fellow human being, and not as an object of ur desire, and talk to me like u would anyone else. just be real because most ppl are transparent to me and i can often see through the BS. being genuine, for me at least, will win me over big time. of course, there's a lot more to it, but, it's a great start, no?
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I am wanting to see if the same leo (talkative then not) will budge if I initiate things.
He is quite and reserved with those who are not his friends apparently. :/