Hurt from this leo!!!

Hey all..

I came with a very complicated story with my "ex" ..he is a leo and I am an aquarius!.. we have known each other for more than a year and a half ..and we met online over 3d chat based software.. we had somewhat a good friendship...we had our conflicts in opinions..but we always managed to get through it.. with time I really had a crush on him...his personality was WOW to me..and attracted me alot.. he didnt really see me more than a friend that time.. but then time passed..and me and him got closer together..and on feb 2013 we start seeing each other.. we had the best of our time..he was surprised that he never tried with me before..after knowing me deeply. with time..he mentioned that he started falling in love with me.. and i believed him because he is the kind of person who means his words in everything he does..our relationship was mostly on skype and cam..then we met in real life..he came all the way driving to visit me in another country.. the first time i refused to meet him.. he was so hurt and crushed ..and he didnt want to talk to me anymore..i know i was wrong to do so..but i dont know why i felt scared to meet him..specially that it is the first time for me to meet someone from the internet.

after that incident ..i tried to fix things..and he opened his heart again for me.. one day i was so sick..and he was planning to come over to visit without telling.. he knew i was sick..and been on and off to the hospital during that week.. he told me he is coming over.. at first i told him that i am sick..but then i was afraid to tell him no cause i didnt want to hurt him...so he came and we met..had the most amazing moment..we cuddled..kissed..talked for a while...the next day we planned to have breakfast together...but when i woke up...i was feeling really sick...and i couldnt go to our date... he was sooooooo upset..and said to me the most hurtfull things i could ever imagine..and left the country...

I had a friend..she was my best friend...she is a friend of him as well..and i told her about what happened to seek for her advise..and i mentioned to her to not tell him that i told her..she promised me to not to.

suddenly he was asking...did u tell my friend what happened...i was surprised..so i asked my friend if she told him..she swore that she never did... my ex was extremly mad at me..and kept being mad and mad..i didnt realize why is he getting more mad...2 months passed..and he tells me that he will go visit "my friend"s country..i was so surprised.. i was hurt actually...to figure out that my best friend told him about everything..and she even tried to make things worse..cause she was secrelty liking him..... so she ruined things between me and him...

days were passing.. and me and him had our ups and downs... whenever we used to talk or fight..he always reminded me of our memories and how much he loved me..and how hard from him to let go of what we had...he always told me that he is trying to cut me off his life..but he just couldnt do it... that "friend" of mine was somehow between us...he made her as a big deal..and he started to have good friendship with her...when i always asked him if they are in a relationship ..he said no..and that he doesnt see anything great about her..

however he always treated her good infront of me...i donno if it was just to hurt me..or piss me off..i always got mad and hurt..and he always said to me that she is his friend..and he should treat her good...

days passed..and me and him got in a HUGE fight...we both ssaid the most horrible stuff to each other...HORRIBLE STUFF.. he was sooo mad of what i said...and threat me that he will show how he is going to hurt me back.. i was wrong when i hurt him...but i only did when i was hurt as well...why is it ok for him to hurt me with words..and not ok for me to hurt him... so we stopped talking for a month ...and then i see that HE and my shitty friend are in a relationship... and that he proposed to her..He proposed to her...i couldnt believe it... i cried and i cried...I called him asking whyyyy

he was like..she appreciates me..and love me..and I wanted to let u know how i treat people when they are good to me..and that he will never forget what i said to him ... on the other hand he was like,,, i really wished u treated me like she does....

I kept fighting with me..and i was so wrong to do that...i should have walked away..but i couldnt understand how he could just go and marry someone so fast.. one day he put us all 3 in one chat and both were attacking me and hurt me with their words when i accused HER of ruining things between us..and he was defending her..and he deined that he ever loved me or care about me...and he said that he wanted me only to have sex with me..and that i am not a marriage material...he denied our relationship infront of her.. while she knows so clearly that me and him were so in love...

he deleted everything related to me...even the old memories of our friendship... but yet he still checks my profile..and what i write in my statuses...and when i check his...i always see him replying to every and each status in a hurtful way.. he keeps posting lots of pictures with her..like DAILY..which he never done with me before.. i feel it is just to hurt me...both of them...also his fiance is posting all types of pictures saying now he is finally mine..and he is my best friend and my lover...all type of these things... Im so hurt

my question is... is she just a rebound.. why did he rush and got married to her.. and if he is over me why does he still check on me...and why does he still try to hurt me... why did he denied ever loving me... he denied all of his words and feelings...

I cant move on...

i need hhelp from leos here to understand wht happened.. cause I thought leos mean their words and they never lie...but now i donno..

and sorry for the long topic 😢

Why would you love someone like this? This man deserves to get his ass whooped at the very least. If I met this man that's exactly what would happen. Seriously, move on from him. He's complete garbage.

Thank you for your replies... I loved him so deeply..and shared with him alot.. I don't want him back..and I know he is not good for me ... but in the mean time my pride hurts.. and I cant believe that this "friend" of mine stabbed me that way...and I dont want her to win him..i donno.. im so hurt from all of this

Posted by mariahangel
Thank you for your replies... I loved him so deeply..and shared with him alot.. I don't want him back..and I know he is not good for me ... but in the mean time my pride hurts.. and I cant believe that this "friend" of mine stabbed me that way...and I dont want her to win him..i donno.. im so hurt from all of this

What are you talking about? They're perfect for each other... a match made in a pile of pigshit. This friend isn't a friend at all, in fact she quite literally is your enemy. Like no joke, that's how she's treated you.

Woooow that leo is a jerk! Leo's can be super nasty and uncaring when you hurt them. You hurt him in the beginning and that's all that matters in his head. He's very immature still. This "friend" is not a friend! And I'm sure she deff is a rebound. He's going to feel bad about it in a few months. In the mean time forget about them, I know you're hurt but let karma deal with them. Don't give this leo the time of day because he will throw their relationship in your face even more. Ignore him and go ghost. Act like u could give two fucks about him. He will wonder why you don't care anymore and he will feel bad because he is acting like a child. You don't deserve that, move on.

Posted by MoonshineLeo
Woooow that leo is a jerk! Leo's can be super nasty and uncaring when you hurt them. You hurt him in the beginning and that's all that matters in his head. He's very immature still. This "friend" is not a friend! And I'm sure she deff is a rebound. He's going to feel bad about it in a few months. In the mean time forget about them, I know you're hurt but let karma deal with them. Don't give this leo the time of day because he will throw their relationship in your face even more. Ignore him and go ghost. Act like u could give two fucks about him. He will wonder why you don't care anymore and he will feel bad because he is acting like a child. You don't deserve that, move on.

Yes I admit that hurt him ..but I did because he hurt me..and no matter how much i tried to explain it to him..his stupid ignorant mind wouldnt get it... i was surprised how immature he is..cause when i met him he was completely the opposite...plus he is 35 ..so :\ ...

see..one day i wake up feeling all fine and totally over what happened..and the next day I would wake up feeling so horrible ... I want to move on..and trying so hard.. but I loved him so deeply..and till now I cant imagine that he changed to this horrible monster.

Posted by mariahangel
he was like..she appreciates me..and love me..and I wanted to let u know how i treat people when they are good to me..and that he will never forget what i said to him ... on the other hand he was like,,, i really wished u treated me like she does....

I kept fighting with me..and i was so wrong to do that...i should have walked away..but i couldnt understand how he could just go and marry someone so fast.. one day he put us all 3 in one chat and both were attacking me and hurt me with their words when i accused HER of ruining things between us..and he was defending her..and he deined that he ever loved me or care about me...and he said that he wanted me only to have sex with me..and that i am not a marriage material...he denied our relationship infront of her.. while she knows so clearly that me and him were so in love...

he deleted everything related to me...even the old memories of our friendship... but yet he still checks my profile..and what i write in my statuses...and when i check his...i always see him replying to every and each status in a hurtful way.. he keeps posting lots of pictures with her..like DAILY..which he never done with me before.. i feel it is just to hurt me...both of them...also his fiance is posting all types of pictures saying now he is finally mine..and he is my best friend and my lover...all type of these things... Im so hurt

my question is... is she just a rebound.. why did he rush and got married to her.. and if he is over me why does he still check on me...and why does he still try to hurt me... why did he denied ever loving me... he denied all of his words and feelings...

I cant move on...

i need hhelp from leos here to understand wht happened.. cause I thought leos mean their words and they never lie...but now i donno..

and sorry for the long topic 😢

The one thing they have in common is you.


Block their asses, immediately, and take away whatever

perverse joy they're getting from this-- they probably

have nothing else in common, besides being rotten people.


Let them discover that ASAP.

You don't have to put up with it.

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by mariahangel
he was like..she appreciates me..and love me..and I wanted to let u know how i treat people when they are good to me..and that he will never forget what i said to him ... on the other hand he was like,,, i really wished u treated me like she does....

I kept fighting with me..and i was so wrong to do that...i should have walked away..but i couldnt understand how he could just go and marry someone so fast.. one day he put us all 3 in one chat and both were attacking me and hurt me with their words when i accused HER of ruining things between us..and he was defending her..and he deined that he ever loved me or care about me...and he said that he wanted me only to have sex with me..and that i am not a marriage material...he denied our relationship infront of her.. while she knows so clearly that me and him were so in love...

he deleted everything related to me...even the old memories of our friendship... but yet he still checks my profile..and what i write in my statuses...and when i check his...i always see him replying to every and each status in a hurtful way.. he keeps posting lots of pictures with her..like DAILY..which he never done with me before.. i feel it is just to hurt me...both of them...also his fiance is posting all types of pictures saying now he is finally mine..and he is my best friend and my lover...all type of these things... Im so hurt

my question is... is she just a rebound.. why did he rush and got married to her.. and if he is over me why does he still check on me...and why does he still try to hurt me... why did he denied ever loving me... he denied all of his words and feelings...

I cant move on...

i need hhelp from leos here to understand wht happened.. cause I thought leos mean their words and they never lie...but now i donno..

and sorry for the long topic 😢

The one thing they have in common is you.


Block their asses, immediately, and take away whatever

perverse joy they're getting from this-- they probably

have nothing else in common, besides being rotten people.


Let them discover that ASAP.

You don't have to put up with it.

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That's true..

PS: we started dating by Feb 2014 not 2013

Posted by Libralula
Honestly, i know a close aqua to me just got screwed over by a leo male
he was seriously doped out of his freaking gourd...

I noticed this, also with my exp with leo males...they dont understand what fwb means...
they treat their fwbs like their girlfriends and its like.. whoa wtf are we doing again?
and then they are like but...but...I thought we were.... No.
then they say....ph yeah I know what we are.. but they dont! they want to own you and keep you for themselves.. always pushing the boundaries when it comes to relationships
and in some cases like my friends, say one thing do another. always mixed signals with these guys
wishy washy.
no thanks.

and I dont expect to make too much sense, but rather vent so carry on...

so from what i understood from ur comment is that I might have been only a FWB to him and he was thinking he is in love with me ...but then when he got with the new one...he realized it... well somehow it feels like what u said was totally right.. but then if he is marrying her.. it means that he really loves her and think she is the one...sigh its just so sad

Yes,,everyone thought that we were together..actually he was treating me like a queen when things were alright with us.. i never ever thought that I might be only a FWB to him...but now when he said that he didnt love me and he used me for sex and cyber it kinda makes sence now...and its making me so sad...

and during the fights he goes like..i still appreciate our friendship we had..what a fucking idiot..he used me

Thank you libralula..somehow the picture is getting so clear in my mind

wat a weird pairing.

Posted by JustALeo
Mariahangel-

I'm sorry that happened to you and I believe this is a case of feelings masking what was really there. You had/have so much feelings for him that you keep wanting him back or keep going after him when all the signs of him being a dirt bag were probably there. He used you, no doubt about that and that "friend"...wait let me go back don't even call them that word because they don't deserve your friendship and really they're just 2 peas in a very rotten pod. Anyways, that bitch and that asshole were more than likely talking on the side the whole time and Leos don't like confrontation much so he was trying to push you away so he could get with her. She went along with it and did whatever she could to help speed up the breaking process probably, when he said she doesn't see anything great about her he more than likely didn't want you to find out yet because he wasn't ready. So that led to him arguing and putting you down over and over because he couldn't just be a man and let you know the truth. All I can say is don't poison your body with those 2 toxins anymore and be glad that you're moving on. It's ok to be hurt, it's ok to be sad, etc. but know time will heal your wounds and you'll laugh about it one day and say that bitch did you a favor, that asshole never deserved you. They deserve each other for both being deceitful people, karma will come back on them but for now just do you and recover and grow from this.

you know it confused me..cause he was honest with everyone..he would say things right in ur face..and doesnt sugar coat shit ... but u are right.. he is a dirt bag.. such a dirt bag...and his bitch is even dirtier ... she was the one I used to turn for her when i have issues with him..and asking her for advice..and look wht she have done

Now they are planning to go to the Maldives at their honeymoon...it was what me and him used to discuss and wanted to go there together...why is he doing everything that me and him ever wanted to do....whhhhyyyyyy!!! he could choose another distination.. and no need to post about it...

I swear...I think he is treating me as an enemy...and he still hold a grudge on the hurtful words i said and he just want to make my life bad..cause he knows that I am sensitve and get hurt easily

He sounds like a sick fuck..best thing you can do for yourself is go on and live a very happy life 🙂

so an update of what happened... it looks like they got married... but i was surprised when i checked my facebook is that he unblocked me the night before his wedding... cause he also changed his status to married... however..i really dont understand why does he still checking on what i do...and why he kept like an open communication .. is he waiting for me to contact him!!!!

well no way i wont... i actually blocked him..

but i mean if you are marrying tomorrow..why would u go and unblock an ex of urs the night before ur wedding..and never blocked me back...

why would a LEO do that?

Posted by mariahangel
so an update of what happened... it looks like they got married... but i was surprised when i checked my facebook is that he unblocked me the night before his wedding... cause he also changed his status to married... however..i really dont understand why does he still checking on what i do...and why he kept like an open communication .. is he waiting for me to contact him!!!!

well no way i wont... i actually blocked him..

but i mean if you are marrying tomorrow..why would u go and unblock an ex of urs the night before ur wedding..and never blocked me back...

why would a LEO do that?

to make you jealous because he knows it will drive you crazy. Once a leo is over you they will go out of their way (sometimes) just to hurt you in small ways like that. I know we are mean blah blah. The point is you hurt him and he has moved on and he wants to make that very clear to you. This leo is very mean and sounds immature still, and you sound too sensitive for someone like him. Do yourself a favor and move on. You dont want him anyways.

Hi.
I'm a Gemini. But I couldn't help reading.
I'm so sorry. And secondly I can understand. I love a Leo man too and stuff is sort if complicated and all. If you want to know you can see my story.
I would just say that he did it all in feeling of hurt. He married her cause he wanted to show you. Leos can get angry like fire and once they do it's impossible to calm them. First people get hurt and then they get angry. He's very hurt. That's all. I personally don't feel he loves her at all. It's just a potra . I think you should dissapear for a while. He'll soon realize when you're not there and hence his mistake.

Posted by MoonshineLeo

Posted by mariahangel
so an update of what happened... it looks like they got married... but i was surprised when i checked my facebook is that he unblocked me the night before his wedding... cause he also changed his status to married... however..i really dont understand why does he still checking on what i do...and why he kept like an open communication .. is he waiting for me to contact him!!!!

well no way i wont... i actually blocked him..

but i mean if you are marrying tomorrow..why would u go and unblock an ex of urs the night before ur wedding..and never blocked me back...

why would a LEO do that?

to make you jealous because he knows it will drive you crazy. Once a leo is over you they will go out of their way (sometimes) just to hurt you in small ways like that. I know we are mean blah blah. The point is you hurt him and he has moved on and he wants to make that very clear to you. This leo is very mean and sounds immature still, and you sound too sensitive for someone like him. Do yourself a favor and move on. You dont want him anyways.

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it's quite funny..i see that he moved on...i dont think it needs any more to clear this to me... plus...i swear the day of their wedding.. i didnt even bother or care...i barely shed a tear even..

but still.. I am confused..he still wants to hurt me ..i mean why.. if i were him i would be busy with my new wife... he is stupid..

also one of my friends mentioned to me that the next day of his wedding...he posted a VERY VERY sad song...talking about a love who left him..and no longer with him...and it is an old one too... i mean isnt a newly married guy would be in a better mood..and does he really have the time to repost music on sound cloud...i think its quite werid

Posted by Confused28
Hi.
I'm a Gemini. But I couldn't help reading.
I'm so sorry. And secondly I can understand. I love a Leo man too and stuff is sort if complicated and all. If you want to know you can see my story.
I would just say that he did it all in feeling of hurt. He married her cause he wanted to show you. Leos can get angry like fire and once they do it's impossible to calm them. First people get hurt and then they get angry. He's very hurt. That's all. I personally don't feel he loves her at all. It's just a potra . I think you should dissapear for a while. He'll soon realize when you're not there and hence his mistake.

you know...lots of mutual friend of us said that what he did was crazy and stupid...and that he kinda looks miserable.. he was texting his friends on whatsapp just a day after his wedding...going into social media...even logging in to that website i met him in... i mean within 3 days of his wedding..arent they supposed to be on their honeymoon!!

well somehow I am over him really..specially after him getting married...even if things went around and he tried coming back to me... i would never accept it ..i would NEVER allow it .. so lets see what is gonna happen