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Posted by firstlove26
umm, you didn't answer all ;-P
i have to take some more time with yours but i will give it a shot
Cheers, Mr Leoman, all very valid points. Must be something in the water, seems as if a lot of leo men have gone mia, in the last couple of weeks. My friend, stopped calling for a week, when we were getting very close. He then messaged me , but I havent responded, its been a week. Truth be told Leo man, Im even more stubborn than a leo, and i refuse to be treated, with out repect.So it would seem, that this is were it ends, and your right, I do believe, I may be just that, a challenge for him, because, I never chase call, text, him first, and Im not backing down now, if hes serious, I guess ill hear from him, if not, I have my answer right there. Would you give up on me at this point, Mr leo, being in the too hard basket, or would you respect me, for not being a pushover —?Thanx for your time.
Posted by theleomanPosted by ezahria
hey, theleoman! where r u? we're not done yet. lol! you have lots of inquiries here not only from me...lol. you disappeared all of a sudden, lol. you're really a typical leo. lol..same like what my august born leo ex-bf, most of the time when we are chatting on-line, he will just do that disappearing act. then the next morning, he will send me a message telling me that he fell asleep while we were chatting. my gawd, i felt like i make him bored. lolz....
ahh stop it i dont live online lol and i have answer most if not all by now stop seducing me by trying to make me feel bad lol
he probably did go to sleep we loving communicatingclick to expand
ahh stop it i dont live online lol and i have answer most if not all by now stop seducing me by trying to make me feel bad lol
am i? lolz...bwahahaha! it was unconsciously...lol
Do simple things , tell him lets go out for a coffee. As much as leos like to go out and party with their girl they like to do small stuff to build up to that
how will i do it? after what i have done, the "come and get me if u can..." though we are still friends on the IMVU, i don't have that much courage to invite him over. shall i start with "hi! how r u" thing?
how will i do it? after what i have done, the "come and get me if u can..." though we are still friends on the IMVU, i don't have that much courage to invite him over. shall i start with "hi! how r u" thing?
omg help leoman hes texting me to c what im doing tonite... first time ive heard from him in almost two weeks.... my blood is pumping ,pressures rising and i want to keep this cool.... what now—??if i answer too soon i come off as needy if i wait too long he might think im not interested after all hes texting me... truthfully id love to tell him off but truthfully i still love him like crazy ....i feel like ima glutton for punishment i gotta be my own worst enemy
hellOOOOOOOOOOOO looooooo Looooooooooooo loooooooooooooo >>>> LEOMAN where for art thou— once again we are in need of your most gracious time kind sir....did we mention u r lookin dapper today with that sunshine beaming from your statueseque presence...
Posted by rocktressa
omg help leoman hes texting me to c what im doing tonite... first time ive heard from him in almost two weeks.... my blood is pumping ,pressures rising and i want to keep this cool.... what now—??if i answer too soon i come off as needy if i wait too long he might think im not interested after all hes texting me... truthfully id love to tell him off but truthfully i still love him like crazy ....i feel like ima glutton for punishment i gotta be my own worst enemy
awww go for it, he wont think your needy, plus deep down he wants you to need him but if hes texting you, hes doing it for a reason yeah he wants to hang out but hes also checking up on you and if he asks you what you been up too, dont tell him your life been a mess without him i know we may think thats what people want to hear but what really makes people tick is the fear of missing out.
if you tell him you been a mess or not really doing anything he will think ahh boring i knew i wasnt missing anything
the funny thing " in general' it when a person figure out the patterns of your life thats when they slack off but if you keep them guessing thats what makes them curious. Its like when you are first getting to know someone your excited to know so much half of it is all built around on what they think they would be doing when you find out its not what you fantasied about thats when is goes all goes down hill. its sad but true IMO. I think its why people are so drawn to celebrities , because we think that they are doing all this amazing stuff and that they are not the average person. I think in relationships that what some are searching for , but we forget we have to make ourselfs happy first.
Okay off track a bit, but what im getting at is if he asks you" what you been up to", dont make it sound boring juice it up a bit, trust me hes contacting you because hes curious,at this time hes probably like wait shes just might be having the time of her life he wants to see if you been sulking or not , so be confident when you say let him know you want to seem him just say "tonight im free"" yeah lets hang out "
its okay to let him know you missed him but dont make that the focus ...
Posted by LoveBucket
Hi Leoman -- I am a Cancer-Leo cusp (7/23) and I have a question for a Leo male. 🙂
I think it would be interesting, as a Leo woman, to have a relationship with a Leo male. From what I know, to be with those guys you HAVE to dress, period.
My thing is because I feel fabulously wonderful on the inside and I love myself, I do not feel that thing that others feel where I need to dress to the nines, or even the eights in order to look good. Us Leos do like adornments, therefore I do go for the nice outter pieces but when it comes to clothes, I love my old clothes, I do not sew, I do not iron, and I put them together nicely so that what I wear compliments me and, so that I make what I wear look good. If you tell me I don't look good I will look at you like you're nuts, and that's basically because despite how I dress, because I feel good, I feel like I look good!! lol
What my question is is do you think with me being attractive and shapely, but dressed like a perfect candidate for that program "What Not To Wear", do you think I could attract the attention of a Leo male. I do not think so -- what I'm thinking is he'd snub his nose and look the other way.
Also, I DO like to dress up when I go out but this is something he'd never get to know b/c of that FIRST IMPRESSION of what in the devil is she wearing?!
well i think so too, we love ourselfs dont we, but they say sharing the spotlight may be where problems arise
the good parts, both will be driven to succeed,likes to dress well, love to party
bad parts to me, sharing the spotlight, both want to be the center of attention which im sure will lead to jealousy,sex both want to be dominate
Now if know your the perfect candidate for that program "What Not To Wear" why would you want to stay that way? your asking for a snub, if you do attract one hes gonna tell you to change that look really fast
Posted by SweetLibra
Hello Leoman. I was wondering if a Leo would be open to hearing from an old friend? It's been many moons (2 weeks) since we last spoke. If he's not calling me, I figure it's either his pride, hurt ego, or he has just moved on. We had not yet reached the point of Love, but definitely strong like. I feel pretty certain that I had made an impression on him. I could feel it in his touch and tell just by the way he looked at me. But he was having issues and because he downplayed them, I maybe wasn't as supportive as I should have been. I admit I should have been more patient. I tried to play it cool and roll with his antics but my pride and ego took a few hits in the process and out of frustration of him shutting me out and not communicating, I broke it off. He maybe wanted me to do that to keep himself from having to do it. So now if I reach out to him will he be able to put his pride aside and accept my call? Would he be open to giving me another shot? Or did I commit the ultimate no no with a Leo by breaking up with a Leo?
he wants to hear from you, plus leos love when people call them they will even tell you that so take those as hints, and use those hints during times like this.
Leos take a while to move on , we leave a window open and we will wait to see if you come back and we hope you do of course it depends on what you did but leos are extremely forgiving which give you a good chance just make sure you explain to him that you know you were wrong
Now you must tell me what his antics were? and how you broke it off? you wernt dating? let me know so i can respond further...
Posted by kitty69
Cheers, Mr Leoman, all very valid points. Must be something in the water, seems as if a lot of leo men have gone mia, in the last couple of weeks. My friend, stopped calling for a week, when we were getting very close. He then messaged me , but I havent responded, its been a week. Truth be told Leo man, Im even more stubborn than a leo, and i refuse to be treated, with out repect.So it would seem, that this is were it ends, and your right, I do believe, I may be just that, a challenge for him, because, I never chase call, text, him first, and Im not backing down now, if hes serious, I guess ill hear from him, if not, I have my answer right there. Would you give up on me at this point, Mr leo, being in the too hard basket, or would you respect me, for not being a pushover —?Thanx for your time.
when it comes to leos we do respect people who arent push overs, for example you stood up for yourself at work,you demanded a refund, you sent back a bad plate of food to the restaurant you didnt let someone rip you off.
But in a relationship its about emotions, leos want a girly girl and one who is soft in a relationship and tough in the outside world. So if you want him back in the situation be girly.
ahh its probably because of the ney year is approaching hes probably figuring out what the hell is going be up with 2011 and how he can make it better.
text him and say "i cant believe its decemeber already, what have you been up to?" I then tell him you been busy planning out some things you want to accomplish for next year , we do the same thing around our birthdays
but my fair lady this is up to you....
Posted by QuietSt0rmPosted by theleomanPosted by QuietSt0rm
lol
so leo-like
if thats you , your cute i mean sexy lol
thank you sweet cheeksclick to expand
lol
Posted by firstlove26
Leo Man, I would really respect your opinion into my situation. The sooner you help me the sooner you could possibly keep me from making grave mistakes
with the King of my dreams, and I would never forget you!
Hmm well he has alot on his plate and while us leos love a friendly talk abou t how you can help, we also know it takes action and it takes us to make it happen. The best thing you can do is cheer him on.
Now with that said it doesn't mean he cant carry on a relationship at the same time, because a relationship to a leo is like an escape from the stresses of the world and it doesnt mean hes running from the world it simply means he has a safe place to hide out for awhile so dont make the relationship stressful and if its a relationship and he wants it he will try and find way to make it a non stressful one. He wont mind hearing about your stresses of the work but we hate when stress is directly linked to the actual relationship ( just a few pointers)
He loves you im sure of this and he has held you in his heart for this long ( we are capable of doing that as we tend to fogive , be we dont forget)the thing is, its gonna be tough getting him back. Leos usually dont go back at least i havent , because we tend to think, if we broke up before it can happen again.. we may fantasize in our heads or with our ex that we loved about getting back and it may even happen for a sexual encouter allowing us to relive the moment that we once shared but to make it official you going to have to convince the hell out of him that he wont be making a mistake and your going to have to prove it too him . He will never forgive himself if he gets his heart broken or it doesnt work we like to be right about our decisions and if we not convinced it will go in our favor we wont attempt it.
Leos hate being wrong, and will even stay in bad relationship to prove that we were right that it will work out. You know I never been the one to brake up with a girl just for that reason i made the decision to be with then its apart of the reasons why we go in for the long haul and will do everything to keep it alive until we are content that we have done everything under the sun to make it work even then we are willing to try to put it back together if giving the chance.
All my ex girls want me back they realized they made a mistake ( and im not lying) but i cant
Hey, Mr Leo, bet your sorry now, for offering assistance, to all those of us, currently affected by you kitty cats eh? Its like central station here, hehehe. So what your effectively suggesting, in my case is, I have to make amends, with my Leo friend first, otherwise, poof, he shall vanish without a trace, yeah? Hope things are well with you...
Posted by kitty69
Hey, Mr Leo, bet your sorry now, for offering assistance, to all those of us, currently affected by you kitty cats eh? Its like central station here, hehehe. So what your effectively suggesting, in my case is, I have to make amends, with my Leo friend first, otherwise, poof, he shall vanish without a trace, yeah? Hope things are well with you...
At the end of the day we all should swallow or pride and not allow it to get it in the way of what we really want.I think deep down you know what you want to do and i will say do whats in your heart therefore no regrets
leos crave attention if you feed him the attention he will be there and come back for more and yes if you dont he will go looking somewhere else for it
You are a beautiful man, your honesty is purely heartfelt. My heart sank as i was reading your reply, knowing word for word, what you would say.
It's just sad to know, that no one ever knows the depth of our love for them, and more often than not, as in this case, some one shinier and new comes along, and gives you the attention, that you so crave. I'm not that girl, however, i will love you more than any one else can, will be loyal to the end, and love for always.
I guess, i don't and, will never comprehend, how, and if you love some one, this can be extinguished by another, in a heartbeat. Sincerely, thank you for saying it out loud, and re iterating what I was thinking.
Thank you, so very much....me
It's just sad to know, that no one ever knows the depth of our love for them, and more often than not, as in this case, some one shinier and new comes along, and gives you the attention, that you so crave. I'm not that girl, however, i will love you more than any one else can, will be loyal to the end, and love for always.
I guess, i don't and, will never comprehend, how, and if you love some one, this can be extinguished by another, in a heartbeat. Sincerely, thank you for saying it out loud, and re iterating what I was thinking.
Thank you, so very much....me
How do Leo guys feel about Gemini girls?
Posted by kitty69
You are a beautiful man, your honesty is purely heartfelt. My heart sank as i was reading your reply, knowing word for word, what you would say.
It's just sad to know, that no one ever knows the depth of our love for them, and more often than not, as in this case, some one shinier and new comes along, and gives you the attention, that you so crave. I'm not that girl, however, i will love you more than any one else can, will be loyal to the end, and love for always.
I guess, i don't and, will never comprehend, how, and if you love some one, this can be extinguished by another, in a heartbeat. Sincerely, thank you for saying it out loud, and re iterating what I was thinking.
Thank you, so very much....me
we leos like action and you must prove the love though action ...its no all about words. and when i mean prove i mean do the simple things like call, check up on him believe it or not people think thats a small thing but its a big thing for leos
you do the small things and the returns are big.
Posted by SweetLibraPosted by theleomanPosted by SweetLibra
Hello Leoman. I was wondering if a Leo would be open to hearing from an old friend? It's been many moons (2 weeks) since we last spoke. If he's not calling me, I figure it's either his pride, hurt ego, or he has just moved on. We had not yet reached the point of Love, but definitely strong like. I feel pretty certain that I had made an impression on him. I could feel it in his touch and tell just by the way he looked at me. But he was having issues and because he downplayed them, I maybe wasn't as supportive as I should have been. I admit I should have been more patient. I tried to play it cool and roll with his antics but my pride and ego took a few hits in the process and out of frustration of him shutting me out and not communicating, I broke it off. He maybe wanted me to do that to keep himself from having to do it. So now if I reach out to him will he be able to put his pride aside and accept my call? Would he be open to giving me another shot? Or did I commit the ultimate no no with a Leo by breaking up with a Leo?
he wants to hear from you, plus leos love when people call them they will even tell you that so take those as hints, and use those hints during times like this.
Leos take a while to move on , we leave a window open and we will wait to see if you come back and we hope you do of course it depends on what you did but leos are extremely forgiving which give you a good chance just make sure you explain to him that you know you were wrong
Now you must tell me what his antics were? and how you broke it off? you wernt dating? let me know so i can respond further...
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By antics I'm referring to his "now u see me, now u don't" magician act. And a few other personality traits that we have been discussing here in this forum. Maybe it was an insecurity on my part, but I like to know my guy is all in (I attribute that to my Venus being in Scorpio), and in return I am as loyal as they come. But his disappearing acts started to shake my confidence in him and I overreacted out of fear of being hurt. I think things between us progressed really fast right away. While our union was a brief one (a few months) I was really into him and could see myse
Posted by SweetLibra
Now you must tell me what his antics were? and how you broke it off? you wernt dating? let me know so i can respond further...
Sorry got cut off -
By antics I'm referring to his "now u see me, now u don't" magician act. And a few other personality traits that we have been discussing here in this forum. Maybe it was an insecurity on my part, but I like to know my guy is all in (I attribute that to my Venus being in Scorpio), and in return I am as loyal as they come. But his disappearing acts started to shake my confidence in him and I overreacted out of fear of being hurt. I think things between us progressed really fast right away. While our union was a brief one (a few months) I was really into him and could see myself falling fast. I guess I got scared and bailed because even though I felt that he was falling for me, I could not get a verbal conformation from him. And that frightened me. I have never had that problem before. And I needed to hear him say it in order to balance out the confusion I was experiencing from his behavior (which through this forum and your help Mr. Leoman, I now see is a pretty common thing with Leo's). Long story short, I can't get him off my mind. I miss him terribly. I'm just trying to determine through this forum if what I felt from him was real or if it was just a Leo spreading some of his sunshine around? If you as a Leo man tell someone you are glad you found them, should she take that with a grain of salt or is a Leo's word his bond? And Mr. Leoman, I too agree that it is so very kind of you to take time out of your day to help us out. What a man, What a man you must be 😉
a leo word is his bond, he wont say anything he doesnt mean , we operate on emotion in realtionships so if we say something like that its because thats how we feel
Posted by firstlove26
Thank you Leo Man for your response and pointers..I studied them and took them to heart and am implementing
them into my behavior towards my king.
He texted me since I first posted here and told me he loved me and called me sweetheart..I don't doubt he does.
We still haven't seen each other in 26 yrs...in person. I feel he is holding off, but I don't know why. I want to be
with him on New Years and my birthday is soon after.
How can I let him know this without being pushy and insensitive to his time with his daughter..both days are
on the weekend and I am beginning to feel real resentful and left out. It sounds horrible and selfish, I know
and I keep beating myself up about it, but I want something with him that's mine and mine alone and not shared
with anyone or anything..I thought at least my birthday could be that. I am afraid to approach it, and I am afraid
to let it happen because it might not happen. I am just learning him, again. 26 years ago it seems that he was at
my beck and call and spoiled me rotten...now...it's his sick daughter that has the majority of him.
Does he think I am made out of steel and am not hurting? He doesn't have a clue what I am talking about when I say
I am hurting?
I think he is getting his attention from his daughter being sick and handling her illness in such a strong way (she really is)
he posts pics of her updates in chemo and his time with her as much as he does his favorite hobby, fishing...showing off his fish
on fb, but barely any pics of himself.
last weird thing is, he is letting his mom believe he is still married and doesn't want me to tell her, he says it will break her heart
because she took his first divorce so hard. I went to see his mom recently (we are all close, still) and that was his direction to me.
what is the deal, he is hiding me. so is that because of what you said, he wants to be sure we are going to make it before he goes
sharing the news about us to keep disappointments down and to not be embarrassed? If so, I can understand and handle that, just as
long as he is not ashamed of me..I couldn't bear that.
Just as I said he is hiding the fact of the divorce from is mom and not only because she took it hard he is also embarrassed to make the same mistake twice a third time is gonna be tough to swallow as well.
But he trust me he loves you or he
Posted by firstlove26
Thank you Leo Man for your response and pointers..I studied them and took them to heart and am implementing
them into my behavior towards my king.
He texted me since I first posted here and told me he loved me and called me sweetheart..I don't doubt he does.
Just as I said he is hiding the fact of the divorce from is mom and not only because she took it hard he is also embarrassed to make the same mistake twice a third time is gonna be tough to swallow as well.
But he trust me he loves you or he would have never told you. leos know when something is good he has no need to lie to you , if he says you he loves you he really does. Leos dont throw thats word around easy , some people are shocked and may not know why a leo loves them but it could be the smallest thing that you do that could a big thing for a leo.
you want to get to his heart? show him you care about what hes going through, tell him "you know so much people would have gave up , but you remain so strong,"then slip in " thats why i love you so much" it will make your leo man pur like a kitty lol
if you want him to spend new years with you , you may have to offer to all spend it together with his daughter im sure hes not leaving her alone for new years
as for your birthday, remind him that its coming up, and you will like to spend it with him. slip in some ego rub by telling him that there is no one else that you rather be with and that it will mean allot to yo, tell him that you even pay for the dinner
trust me he will pay , but it will be nice to hear how bad you want him to be there
Posted by rocktressa
hellOOOOOOOOOOOO looooooo Looooooooooooo loooooooooooooo >>>> LEOMAN where for art thou— once again we are in need of your most gracious time kind sir....did we mention u r lookin dapper today with that sunshine beaming from your statueseque presence...
YOUR COMPLIMENTS ROCK MY BOAT LOL
Posted by SweetLibra
he wants to hear from you, plus leos love when people call them they will even tell you that so take those as hints, and use those hints during times like this.
Leos take a while to move on , we leave a window open and we will wait to see if you come back and we hope you do of course it depends on what you did but leos are extremely forgiving which give you a good chance just make sure you explain to him that you know you were wrong
Now you must tell me what his antics were? and how you broke it off? you wernt dating? let me know so i can respond further...
Forgot to tell you how the breakup happened -
I knew he was dealing with some personal stuff and that had him preoccupied. He had been running kind of hot and cold periodically. Maybe because of the personal stuff maybe not. I made myself available to him whenever he needed me, but I was starting to feel that he wasn't doing the same for me by disappearing when he wanted to. Anyway, he messages me one night wanting to see me and I said no (because I wanted to let him know that I needed more of him in order to stay in the relationship). He immediately called me to find out what was wrong and I was so frustrated with him, I told him I no longer wanted to be in a one sided relationship and that if he didn't want me than what was the point. I wasn't looking for a fling with him. I thought he was going to be the main character in my love story and that I finally found my happy ending. I didn't say it exactly like that, but I made sure he understood that I was too old for games if that was what he was doing. He still would not say the words I wanted to hear, but he did try to convince me that I was overreacting and to come over to his place to talk. Well it was around 2 in the a.m., so I know he didn't want to "talk". I declined and said that I was done. We hung up and haven't spoken since. That was our break up. He hasn't called me. Does he even care, did he even care? Or is it up to me to reach out to him since technically I broke up with him? Help Mr. Leoman! This guy is under my skin!
of course its up to you, he reached out several times and now dont you wish you had sex with him that night , we all allow our emotions to block what we really want at the time and with a clear head im sure you wish you had different choice but its okay , you need to
Posted by SweetLibra
he wants to hear from you, plus leos love when people call them they will even tell you that so take those as hints, and use those hints during times like this.
I knew he was dealing with some personal stuff and that had him preoccupied. He had been running kind of hot and cold periodically. Maybe because of the personal stuff maybe not. I made myself available to him whenever he needed me, but I was starting to feel that he wasn't doing the same for me by disappearing when he wanted to. Anyway, he messages me one !
of course its up to you, he reached out several times and now dont you wish you had sex with him that night , we all allow our emotions to block what we really want at the time and with a clear head im sure you wish you had different choice but its okay , you need to let him know you dont know what you were thinking that night and you made a big mistake , tell him you need his love his hugs and his warmth it will never happen again ( leos are really forgiving they can forgive you for the worst things on earth) we know people make mistakes just own up to it
don't bother trying to explain or point out his faults right now,you do that and in his mind he will be like well why are you trying to get back to me if you dont like me you want him to change when he does a call tell him you love hearing that phone ring and its him on the other end, just be sure to compliment when he does something you like, he will do it more and more
Posted by theleomanPosted by rocktressa
hellOOOOOOOOOOOO looooooo Looooooooooooo loooooooooooooo >>>> LEOMAN where for art thou— once again we are in need of your most gracious time kind sir....did we mention u r lookin dapper today with that sunshine beaming from your statueseque presence...
YOUR COMPLIMENTS ROCK MY BOAT LOLclick to expand
OH LEOMAN ........I must say that I relish in your most adequit answers in your replys to these finnicky KATS ... anways to follow up on my leo love soap opera...after he texted me the other night (after not hearing from him for two weeks)...he texted saying he saw me bartending that night through the window after driving down my street ..he said he was gonna stop by but traffic was really bad down in the quarter and no place to park.... so then he texted again asking what I was doing that night I texted back saying I was at home chilin and I had made 130 in tips (I know he likes to hear of me making good money so thats y I threw that in there).After hearing your advise on not telling him boring stuff I wish Id of thought to tell him I was out doing something fun that night when he asked (But leoman I am nothing but real and can only be honest so I told him I was home chilin).So probably (he thought that was boring) I waited about two more hours to reply to invite him to go have a drink...... SIGH!!!!!! he text back an hour later saying "yeah maybe"....after that no further reply .... so I reffered back to your spot on advice and texted him saying that Id love to see him and that we could just meet up and catch up on how we been doing....... FRUSTRATION MOUNTING DEEPLY!!!! NO REPLY .... I am getting pissed which is a hard feat coming from me because unlike leos I am very slow to anger, but he is testing me to my limits now . I am a bartender down in the fench quarter and I get hit on all the time but, I find myself constantly declining guys... I swear I cant seem to shake this leo heartbreaker from under my skin ... why did he text me out of the blue to just shake me up again to ignore me— I just dont get it and wish I knew what to do to snap his neck back in my direction and to have him all up in my koolaid again.Im pretty sure that if we got into bed together again I would be full of such frustration and unadultrated passion for him that he would think he la
blaaaa got cut of ..as I was saying that if and when we landed in bed together again ,I am full of such frustration and unadulterated passion for him that he would think he landed in the depths of a volcano from the fire and earth hot lava eruption we create... As a taurus when I so desire something I will simply wait and wait and wait with love and persistence till he is mine ... in the meantime I think ill go visit Marie Laveaus tombstone (using my third eye) with an offering and seek guidance on this most pressing issue. If that didnt throw you off then of course I am still waiting patiently (NOT) for your most diplomatic answers to my most problematic questions . Thanks be to you LEOMAN for you are the star of this show
Posted by SweetLibraPosted by rocktressa
hellOOOOOOOOOOOO looooooo Looooooooooooo loooooooooooooo >>>> LEOMAN where for art thou— once again we are in need of your most gracious time kind sir....did we mention u r lookin dapper today with that sunshine beaming from your statueseque presence...
LOL. That beaming sunshine and their statuesque presence is exactly why I can't shake this Leo from my mind or my heart. Loved that comment RT 🙂click to expand
yes yes I feel your pain girl a good pain though I suspect lol
...Oh my goodness!!! What's wrong with Leo's?
Are any women out there who actually have a normal and sane relationship with a Leo man? Without having to go through all this mess?
How many girls are we now, all complaining about the same kind of behavior?
God! I really need to find a way to jump out of this 'relationship' with my Leo before I get seriously hurt.
Just seems I can't win...
1 - I can let things stay the same which means I will keep on seeing him average 3 times a week. Always at night, still spending weekends alone. Letting him have his freedom and not really caring where I am, with who, etc..;
2 - Wait a while, be there for him, swallow my pride, my loneliness and my tears sometimes; pretend all is well to see if he changes. But then...how much more can I wait? Isn't 6 months enough? Will he ever commit and open his heart? hummm..
3 - Give him an ultimatum and this time stick to it to see if he stops taking me for granted. But then, proud as leos are, this might as well be the end.
4 - Just really break it all off, cut all the ties and move on (God knows how).
So Leo man, it seems whatever I'll do, the outcome will not be a nice one for me.
Are any women out there who actually have a normal and sane relationship with a Leo man? Without having to go through all this mess?
How many girls are we now, all complaining about the same kind of behavior?
God! I really need to find a way to jump out of this 'relationship' with my Leo before I get seriously hurt.
Just seems I can't win...
1 - I can let things stay the same which means I will keep on seeing him average 3 times a week. Always at night, still spending weekends alone. Letting him have his freedom and not really caring where I am, with who, etc..;
2 - Wait a while, be there for him, swallow my pride, my loneliness and my tears sometimes; pretend all is well to see if he changes. But then...how much more can I wait? Isn't 6 months enough? Will he ever commit and open his heart? hummm..
3 - Give him an ultimatum and this time stick to it to see if he stops taking me for granted. But then, proud as leos are, this might as well be the end.
4 - Just really break it all off, cut all the ties and move on (God knows how).
So Leo man, it seems whatever I'll do, the outcome will not be a nice one for me.
Posted by maryjane
...Oh my goodness!!! What's wrong with Leo's?
Are any women out there who actually have a normal and sane relationship with a Leo man? Without having to go through all this mess?
How many girls are we now, all complaining about the same kind of behavior?
God! I really need to find a way to jump out of this 'relationship' with my Leo before I get seriously hurt.
Just seems I can't win...
1 - I can let things stay the same which means I will keep on seeing him average 3 times a week. Always at night, still spending weekends alone. Letting him have his freedom and not really caring where I am, with who, etc..;
2 - Wait a while, be there for him, swallow my pride, my loneliness and my tears sometimes; pretend all is well to see if he changes. But then...how much more can I wait? Isn't 6 months enough? Will he ever commit and open his heart? hummm..
3 - Give him an ultimatum and this time stick to it to see if he stops taking me for granted. But then, proud as leos are, this might as well be the end.
4 - Just really break it all off, cut all the ties and move on (God knows how).
So Leo man, it seems whatever I'll do, the outcome will not be a nice one for me.
well before i continue.. you said you "I can let things stay the same which means I will keep on seeing him average 3 times a week. Always at night, still spending weekends alone. Letting him have his freedom and not really caring where I am, with who, etc..;"
3 times a week thats a good thing and thats a lot , with weekends thats 4 days 5 max you have a good opportunity to build on that
if this is is what you meant, no offensive but i think you have to start looking at yourself at this point your complaining and at average see him 3 times a week ? hes giving you the time of day here
Posted by theleomanPosted by maryjane
...Oh my goodness!!! What's wrong with Leo's?
Are any women out there who actually have a normal and sane relationship with a Leo man? Without having to go through all this mess?
How many girls are we now, all complaining about the same kind of behavior?
God! I really need to find a way to jump out of this 'relationship' with my Leo before I get seriously hurt.
Just seems I can't win...
1 - I can let things stay the same which means I will keep on seeing him average 3 times a week. Always at night, still spending weekends alone. Letting him have his freedom and not really caring where I am, with who, etc..;
2 - Wait a while, be there for him, swallow my pride, my loneliness and my tears sometimes; pretend all is well to see if he changes. But then...how much more can I wait? Isn't 6 months enough? Will he ever commit and open his heart? hummm..
3 - Give him an ultimatum and this time stick to it to see if he stops taking me for granted. But then, proud as leos are, this might as well be the end.
4 - Just really break it all off, cut all the ties and move on (God knows how).
So Leo man, it seems whatever I'll do, the outcome will not be a nice one for me.
well before i continue.. you said you "I can let things stay the same which means I will keep on seeing him average 3 times a week. Always at night, still spending weekends alone. Letting him have his freedom and not really caring where I am, with who, etc..;"
3 times a week thats a good thing and thats a lot , with weekends thats 4 days 5 max you have a good opportunity to build on that
if this is is what you meant, no offensive but i think you have to start looking at yourself at this point your complaining and at average see him 3 times a week ? hes giving you the time of day hereclick to expand
Hi Leoman,
Yes, that's correct. 3 times a week, sometimes more, sometimes less. It depends, but usually 3 days don't pass without us seeing each other. But bear in mind that:
- he doesn't consider me his girlfriend;
- the 'being together' means me going to his place and sleep there. It doesn't mean going out and do things the 2 of us. That he leaves to his friends.
It just feels all he wants is some occasionally company and sex.
Correct me if I am wrong, but if I don't do anything, why w
Correct me if I am wrong, but if I don't do anything, why would he ever change, if this way he can be with me when he wants, have great sex and then feel completely free to ignore me when he feels like?
It's not even the ignoring, it is more treating me in a cold way, not being romantic and caring..
It's not even the ignoring, it is more treating me in a cold way, not being romantic and caring..
hey, theleoman! thanks for sharing your thoughts about ur sun sign. now, i've got an idea about you, guys. 🙂 next time, that i will encounter another leo, then i know what i will or must do. have a nice day. *hugs*
Leo Man ...
I hope you didn't forget about me and my advice. I would love to know what you think.
I hope you didn't forget about me and my advice. I would love to know what you think.
Girls, you are half of the equation in the 'problem'. You forgive a cheater, you ignore that he's not that into you by not responding/distancing himself & yet this isn't enough for you to see where you stand? Do you think there is a magical solution here? It's not Leos, he's a guy and he'll take what you offer.
Look after your own heart and do what is right for you. Don't put it all on him. He's not responsible for your happiness.
Whatever happened to dating? Taking things slowly, not jumping into bed so soon? I think this is the problem. You had sex so now you expect girlfriend status. He doesn't owe you anything. You are adults so take responsibility for your actions & your happiness. If he's not emotionally invested in you & never promised anything then how can you believe you can get some advice that will turn him into your Prince Charming?
Leos in love are not like this and this is not typical of a normal, healthy relationship between two well-adjusted adults.
Look after your own heart and do what is right for you. Don't put it all on him. He's not responsible for your happiness.
Whatever happened to dating? Taking things slowly, not jumping into bed so soon? I think this is the problem. You had sex so now you expect girlfriend status. He doesn't owe you anything. You are adults so take responsibility for your actions & your happiness. If he's not emotionally invested in you & never promised anything then how can you believe you can get some advice that will turn him into your Prince Charming?
Leos in love are not like this and this is not typical of a normal, healthy relationship between two well-adjusted adults.
Posted by Mistery
Girls, you are half of the equation in the 'problem'. You forgive a cheater, you ignore that he's not that into you by not responding/distancing himself & yet this isn't enough for you to see where you stand? Do you think there is a magical solution here? It's not Leos, he's a guy and he'll take what you offer.
Look after your own heart and do what is right for you. Don't put it all on him. He's not responsible for your happiness.
Whatever happened to dating? Taking things slowly, not jumping into bed so soon? I think this is the problem. You had sex so now you expect girlfriend status. He doesn't owe you anything. You are adults so take responsibility for your actions & your happiness. If he's not emotionally invested in you & never promised anything then how can you believe you can get some advice that will turn him into your Prince Charming?
Leos in love are not like this and this is not typical of a normal, healthy relationship between two well-adjusted adults.
Mistery you are right and i think everyone knows this deep down and maybe even on the surface,however im only offering my leo traits personally for those who still know this but want to see if they can get their leo that they may be attached to emotionally to respond, or the least to get a better understanding. Sometimes understanding traits can also help with closure
which is not given sometimes in situations like this.
Posted by firstlove26
Leo Man,
I have a question that may help me to understand my king's thinking a little more.
I just transferred schools without being accepted first and my king was very
antsy about it. He said he is "afraid" for me. I asked what he was scared of
and he blurted that he was not scared of anything. (confusing) I told him not
to worry, everything will work out. He consistently, days later, asks me about
the school, the process, yada, yada..what if it doesn't work out...making me
nervous! So, he tells me about his son that didn't get into the school and he
was broken up about it and he doesn't want me to be too disappointed.
He tells me to focus because he "needs" me to go to med school (which is
my dream way before he came into my life again, and I am almost there)
I could not comfort him. Well, today I got accepted and I was so excited to tell
him, thinking he would congratulate me, or say baby I am so proud of you! Instead
he said, "yeah! Now that's a load off my shoulders!" What was that!
To me it is an inappropriate response, but I am sure there is a reason behind it that you
are aware of. Because I ended up thanking him for carrying such a load..huh?
Thanks again..anything you have to say is always welcomed and appreciated.
His response may have sound weird and i usually dont respond to situations like that in that way but i do no where it came from. Leos take on people situations emotionally, if your going through something we can feel it and we dont want to you to get hurt, we hate when people feel sad so he had that on his mind, we can take on this like if its our own problem do deal with , especially for those we care about
Posted by firstlove26
dang it! So now I am an extra burden to him..what the heck, I can't win here. I am slowly giving up..
I appreciate your quick response..but, I am sad now..
its not that your a burden, its just that us leos always feel for the people we care about when they are going through things, trust me if he didnt care about you he wouldnt even be concerned
Posted by firstlove26
oh, Leo Man, thanks for being there..I had no where else to turn,
I have to understand, or we won't make it. I am just like that.
I have to have clarity..not always, but at least a jist of what
I am dealing with or I will bail to protect myself. When we marry,
I will send you an honorary e-vite, if I don't screw it up first 😢
Thanks for being so sensitive, also.
dont worry its my pleasure..
Posted by theleomanPosted by Mistery
Mistery you are right and i think everyone knows this deep down and maybe even on the surface,however im only offering my leo traits personally for those who still know this but want to see if they can get their leo that they may be attached to emotionally to respond, or the least to get a better understanding. Sometimes understanding traits can also help with closure
which is not given sometimes in situations like this.click to expand
I don't mean to step on your toes, leoman, you are doing a great job. It's just I feel bad that you are being inundated with complicated situations expecting detailed answers that should be fairly obvious. Your insight is very much appreciated. 🙂
Correct, if it quacks like a duck, waddles like a duck, chances are, it IS, a duck.......
Hey Leo fans and Royal subjects ..........Merry christmas.... My christmas wish is to have a inner peace in knowing that I am loved unconditionally ......
As a leo, all i can say is just ask him out for drinks and stuff and dun mention abt relationship stuffs. if he he close enough with u, he will jus spill everything on u. u just need to be there to listen. dun probe anything or u will hurt his pride. Just be there to listen
SHOW ME...... DONT TELL ME
rocktressa, thanks for the show. Nice avatar 😉
Leoman (or any other leoman around):
I have a quick question.
To make a long story short: I've met my leo almost 7 months ago. All good in the beginning, then he became distant, although we kept seeing each other very often; still he doesn't want assume a relationship; acts cold; he's not caring; doesn't answer my phone; we only spk / meet when he wants, etc etc Sometimes he makes an effort, some other times just acts like a d*** with me; even when I very directly say I am sad or feel lonely he never checks on me; it is always about him, ec etc We just basically hang out at is place.
Even on sunday I asked him for us to go to he movies to hear him say he doesn't pay for things he can download. I offered to pay and still he does nothing to make me happy. But then he goes out with friends..
Right, so I tried to break up with him 3 or 4 times already. He always returns very nicely saying he likes me, he just wants to take things slowly, etc...so i ended up giving in, ignoring my feelings and trying again to have an emotional connection with this man.
Unfortunately, I'm reaching my limit. I feel sad, frustrated, sometimes lonely and I don't have a partner..not a bf. A lot of times I cry alone at home because I don't know what else to do. I assume I have been weak to cut all ties with him and I am going nuts here.
I know he doesn't see other girls, but he doesn't open up to me or make me feel much wanted. We look like a couple that has been married for 40 years.
So my question is: we had this conversation that if one day, any of us wanted to see other people, we would talk with each other and play it clean. I'm thinking: even though it is not true, if I tell him I met someone else and I want to give that person a try, he would be hurt to the point he would stop seeking me? Would this hurt him enough for him to stop insisting?
Since it has been very hard to break up with him because he always insists a lot (but then nothing changes), would the thought of me being with another man would actually make him stop insisting?
I just can't be with him...he says he likes me and he never shows. I'm really sad about the way I feel ignored.
Could this work??
maryjane: In a nutshell, it won't work, he'll just try harder. I can feel your sadness and it's such a downer! 😄
No, seriously, I hate to see a woman hurt like this and I don't mean to tread on Leoman's thread but as a Leo I could not help but respond. The women we love, we treat like Queens. Nothing is too good for you. I do not understand this guy. Maybe he just likes to keep you around while he does.....? Anyway, my girlfriend (an Aries) taught me to be a better man so I have to give it to you straight. Find the strength to say no. Change your number, whatever you have to do. Think of yourself and put your happiness first & ignore his begging as you now know where it gets you. Keep that strong in your mind. What YOU want is more important, OK? I wish you all the best.
No, seriously, I hate to see a woman hurt like this and I don't mean to tread on Leoman's thread but as a Leo I could not help but respond. The women we love, we treat like Queens. Nothing is too good for you. I do not understand this guy. Maybe he just likes to keep you around while he does.....? Anyway, my girlfriend (an Aries) taught me to be a better man so I have to give it to you straight. Find the strength to say no. Change your number, whatever you have to do. Think of yourself and put your happiness first & ignore his begging as you now know where it gets you. Keep that strong in your mind. What YOU want is more important, OK? I wish you all the best.
Hey Jon, thanks! I'm mentally hugging you for that 🙂
I need to hear those things to be stronger.
Truth is, no one understands why this man acts like this with me. I'm clueless, my friends are clueless..
Anyway, I'm feeling stronger today. I wasn't online for almost all day, just signed in a few mnts before leaving work so he came and speak to me and I just answered his questions politely, but kind of ignoring him. Then I left and if soon I receive a text asking if I want to watch a movie or have dinner at his place, I will answer I'm out. (like he does to me when I initiate contact).
Btw, you say your girlfriend made you a better man. What happened there? (if you don't mind sharing, of course)
Hi theleoman, want to ask why this one leo on this site keep blaming everything i posted on here keep being a ahole about it? And i ignored him because i didn't have time for that anymore because all the things that happened to me wasn't my fault at all.
hi there,
I have this leo girl, we had a photoshoot last week, then sex after.
i didn't contented with only single round, so though she is refusing, i still kept asked her if we can do it for the second time. I succeeded we had twice. The problem now is that she got sicked and started blaming me. she got fever due to over fatigue according to the doctor. She is a student and have been absent since then. 😢
I'm still courting her and now it seems she wants to end everyting. I kept on texting her but got no reply, only when i told her that i already emailed her first pic and it she was so beautiful on that pic.
I just got this reply:
"Thank you. Just email all the pictures. No, i'm still sick. ".
Since then, she didn't text me anymore although ive texted her several times but to no avail.
I want her back. What should i do? Pls. help. 😢
thank you
I have this leo girl, we had a photoshoot last week, then sex after.
i didn't contented with only single round, so though she is refusing, i still kept asked her if we can do it for the second time. I succeeded we had twice. The problem now is that she got sicked and started blaming me. she got fever due to over fatigue according to the doctor. She is a student and have been absent since then. 😢
I'm still courting her and now it seems she wants to end everyting. I kept on texting her but got no reply, only when i told her that i already emailed her first pic and it she was so beautiful on that pic.
I just got this reply:
"Thank you. Just email all the pictures. No, i'm still sick. ".
Since then, she didn't text me anymore although ive texted her several times but to no avail.
I want her back. What should i do? Pls. help. 😢
thank you
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