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To Maryjane: When I met my girlfriend I had a number of ladies on rotation. Each had something I liked and I would call whoever matched my mood. Ok, this sounds horrible but this is the secret life of men, not just Leo's. It's fine if you aren't looking for love and I wasn't but the challenge of a sexy, independent, intelligent woman (my girlfriend) who could see right through me and wouldn't stand for less than % 100 from me made me realize she was different from all the other's and I would be a fool to let her slip through my fingers. That got me interested. We dated and I began to fall in love. She was not always available to me which drove me crazy. I forgot about the other's even though they called, I could not imagine being with them instead of her. Who wants hamburger when you can have a nice, juicy steak? 😄 Ultimately, we Leo's want to be in love, everything else is just for fun but not important.
If a girl doesn't know to hold off a guy early on when he tries to take her to bed, then we just take advantage of it. A woman who insists on me being up to par for what SHE needs, then I'll work at proving myself to her. I'll take sex when it's offered but anything offered too easily is not valued. I can see where that is hard for the girl as she may not be thinking that but from a guy's perspective, we just see how easy we got it. We do expect to work to get a girl's love.
Maryjane, my girl laid it out for me on the get go. What she wanted, what she expected and I slipped up doing some of the things your guy did. She left me. Cold. A lot of begging and talking but more importantly, changing my act is what made us work. It looks like you've already talked but he's not taking you seriously and I can see why. You are still there for him. Cut him off completely. Look, you need a drastic change, right? So take drastic actions. My lady was willing to let me go to get what she wanted and I respect that because I feel the same way. I want someone to love me as much as I love them and if they can't, goodbye. Leo's get that. Yeah, some keep coming around to sweet-talk but that's usually because they hate 'losing' and it's more about their ego. Learn to see the difference. The real one will change and love you the way you deserve not just calling or texting once in a while hoping you forgot the bs they put you through.
If a girl doesn't know to hold off a guy early on when he tries to take her to bed, then we just take advantage of it. A woman who insists on me being up to par for what SHE needs, then I'll work at proving myself to her. I'll take sex when it's offered but anything offered too easily is not valued. I can see where that is hard for the girl as she may not be thinking that but from a guy's perspective, we just see how easy we got it. We do expect to work to get a girl's love.
Maryjane, my girl laid it out for me on the get go. What she wanted, what she expected and I slipped up doing some of the things your guy did. She left me. Cold. A lot of begging and talking but more importantly, changing my act is what made us work. It looks like you've already talked but he's not taking you seriously and I can see why. You are still there for him. Cut him off completely. Look, you need a drastic change, right? So take drastic actions. My lady was willing to let me go to get what she wanted and I respect that because I feel the same way. I want someone to love me as much as I love them and if they can't, goodbye. Leo's get that. Yeah, some keep coming around to sweet-talk but that's usually because they hate 'losing' and it's more about their ego. Learn to see the difference. The real one will change and love you the way you deserve not just calling or texting once in a while hoping you forgot the bs they put you through.
Sweetlibra: I think Libra's can be very good mates for a Leo. I've dated a few and liked them very much. One thing you should know is that Leo's test potential mates. We want to know if they will match our intensity in love. I want someone who knows I am the one for them and won't settle for less or let me get away with playing games. We get very possessive with our mates and want to make sure they will be okay with it. Maryjane is giving a Leo who hasn't made up his mind about her too much. If he was there for her % 100, then what she is doing is fine but he isn't.
When you first meet a Leo and we find you attractive, we will come on strong. It's up to you to slow us down. Make us get to know you. Challenge us mentally. Don't mistake our need to take you to bed right away as more than just physical attraction even though some say they love you within the first few weeks of knowing you. I've done that but it was just passion not love. Be sweet & smart but keep us at bay and let us chase you. If he sticks around, he's interested, if he doesn't, then you know he wasn't serious.
When you first meet a Leo and we find you attractive, we will come on strong. It's up to you to slow us down. Make us get to know you. Challenge us mentally. Don't mistake our need to take you to bed right away as more than just physical attraction even though some say they love you within the first few weeks of knowing you. I've done that but it was just passion not love. Be sweet & smart but keep us at bay and let us chase you. If he sticks around, he's interested, if he doesn't, then you know he wasn't serious.
Wow Jonleo, how refreshingly honest of you. You deserve respect and quite clearly are not afraid to give it. Power to you !!!
I have a question their is this leo that likes me as more than friends but i don't his real intentions whether or not he is a good guy. I don't what to think I 've told him that i am not emotionally ready for any type of commitment and oh yeah did i mention i got out of a 2 year relationship for sure.
Hi Leoman,
I need your advice in understanding whether this leo guy is interested in me or not.We are working together and have become friends too but I find him looking at me when I am not noticing in the office quite a lot. When he is with a group he treats me no differently other then that he tries to stands close to me, he invites me to spend lone time with him, on one such occasion he even kissed me, I kissed him back but stopped him for anything further.So next time when we were alone he didn't tried to kiss me but spent time with me, I was confused.
When he is out travelling,he calls from there only if for few minutes and texts.I don't know what to make out of it as he is not doing this with other female friend of his that I know of.
I need your advice in understanding whether this leo guy is interested in me or not.We are working together and have become friends too but I find him looking at me when I am not noticing in the office quite a lot. When he is with a group he treats me no differently other then that he tries to stands close to me, he invites me to spend lone time with him, on one such occasion he even kissed me, I kissed him back but stopped him for anything further.So next time when we were alone he didn't tried to kiss me but spent time with me, I was confused.
When he is out travelling,he calls from there only if for few minutes and texts.I don't know what to make out of it as he is not doing this with other female friend of his that I know of.
HELP LEOMAN!! or JONLEO!
So I met this leo last summer on holidays, only one evening, then the night and never saw him again, but only had a few days left and received messaged, I was very pushy then to see him. In the last message he said he'd probably see me later that year since he was coming to the country I live in. I forgot.
Then at the end of last year I received his message informing me that he was there. I was detached then but still remembered how much I had felt for him then. Then we only managed to meet a few weeks after taht first contact since i left the country several times in that period, and while i was there, he left for a couple of days. Then we met one evening and here the feeling was again, so close. We had a drink and then I brought him home since he'd missed the last train to his 'staying place'. That place he'd already told me about in his first messages and before we even met, he didn't get along very well with the person he was staying with.
After that first encounter some discreet text messages - he was always outside his 'staying place', fleeing from it. I fist suggested to join him wherever he was, then invited him over to my place several times, where we talked. About all kinds of things. I laughed so much, learned a lot and enjoyed. Then it was always time for him to take the last train 'out of respect' to his 'staying place'. Yes, there were physical encounters, not always, but always out of the world good ones, often coming after long hours of talking, a small gesture from his side, not going any further before I would respond.
We then saw each other two, three times a week, anyplace.
I learned in the meantime that he had come to the country to stay with a woman, but she turned out to be quite different from the one he'd met and he was basically coping with being called names and being a housekeeper. I asked him why he'd put up with that and he reponded that he hadn't made sure before coming to have an alternative if things went wrong, so he actively was looking for a job and hoped to get out of that flat.
My feelings for him grew. Communication was easy and flowing. One morning he sent a mail saying 'she' wanted him to come with him to get a feel of an area where she wanted to buy a flat (she'd already visited on the previous day, but at a different hour), he didn't want to, but said it would be correct. We spend the day together, then met again in the evening and when coming in bluntly asked if if I wanted
So I met this leo last summer on holidays, only one evening, then the night and never saw him again, but only had a few days left and received messaged, I was very pushy then to see him. In the last message he said he'd probably see me later that year since he was coming to the country I live in. I forgot.
Then at the end of last year I received his message informing me that he was there. I was detached then but still remembered how much I had felt for him then. Then we only managed to meet a few weeks after taht first contact since i left the country several times in that period, and while i was there, he left for a couple of days. Then we met one evening and here the feeling was again, so close. We had a drink and then I brought him home since he'd missed the last train to his 'staying place'. That place he'd already told me about in his first messages and before we even met, he didn't get along very well with the person he was staying with.
After that first encounter some discreet text messages - he was always outside his 'staying place', fleeing from it. I fist suggested to join him wherever he was, then invited him over to my place several times, where we talked. About all kinds of things. I laughed so much, learned a lot and enjoyed. Then it was always time for him to take the last train 'out of respect' to his 'staying place'. Yes, there were physical encounters, not always, but always out of the world good ones, often coming after long hours of talking, a small gesture from his side, not going any further before I would respond.
We then saw each other two, three times a week, anyplace.
I learned in the meantime that he had come to the country to stay with a woman, but she turned out to be quite different from the one he'd met and he was basically coping with being called names and being a housekeeper. I asked him why he'd put up with that and he reponded that he hadn't made sure before coming to have an alternative if things went wrong, so he actively was looking for a job and hoped to get out of that flat.
My feelings for him grew. Communication was easy and flowing. One morning he sent a mail saying 'she' wanted him to come with him to get a feel of an area where she wanted to buy a flat (she'd already visited on the previous day, but at a different hour), he didn't want to, but said it would be correct. We spend the day together, then met again in the evening and when coming in bluntly asked if if I wanted
to come with - instinctiveley I said yes.(god only knows why, maybe even he doesn't). We still had some time before and we talked, well I did. Asked him what exactly the relation with that 'her' was, I thought it was sort of an exchange of flats but he told me it was more, only that things were basically dead, but that he had come to the country for her and actually had a relationship with her before things went south. He thought ii had understood that much, thn he asked me if I still wanted to come. Yes.
So we met with her, I nearly died seeing him quickly kiss her and then all happy three of us went to the area of the potential flat. Suggested we had a drink somewhere around to get a better feel of the area. In the end we did and he sat across from the both of us. Asked me what I'd do if I were in his place about his 'staying place' situation when she went to the bathroom. I told him to get a job quickly to move out. Then I said goodbye and had to watch them leave together to 'his staying place'= her place. I realize now that he must have had a great deal of trust in me to ask me along.
The next morning I saw a text saying that he'd told her everything he'd been unhappy about the past month, that it was over and that he'd leave the country in two days. I was very alarmed and contacted him, he told me he was packing and call me later. As the day passed, I grew more and more tense. He saw me late in the evening, I realized he hadn't eaten, but talked with her all day. We fixed some food together and he told me what came out when she finally opened up, explained her behaviour etc....and that basically she was a quite lonely person with nearly no friends and that he now felt sorry for her. He'd leave at the end of a week, hoped badly to find a job till then. I offered that he stay at my place but he said it wouldn't be 'correct'. As far as I gathered from leo characteristics, it seems hard for him to make an easy transit to a new relationship because of some deep sense of loyalty. He left and even walked home, a long walk. I didn't insist he'd stay and guessed he needed 'air'. That evening he was upset and exhausted, he wanted to talk to me about what they had talked about all day, about what he felt, but I had trouble listening, being so very tense because of his departure, seeing no way out of this.
So the next day I apologized for not having been there fully, that I still had listed and did he want to come over to relax? Just a text very late in
So we met with her, I nearly died seeing him quickly kiss her and then all happy three of us went to the area of the potential flat. Suggested we had a drink somewhere around to get a better feel of the area. In the end we did and he sat across from the both of us. Asked me what I'd do if I were in his place about his 'staying place' situation when she went to the bathroom. I told him to get a job quickly to move out. Then I said goodbye and had to watch them leave together to 'his staying place'= her place. I realize now that he must have had a great deal of trust in me to ask me along.
The next morning I saw a text saying that he'd told her everything he'd been unhappy about the past month, that it was over and that he'd leave the country in two days. I was very alarmed and contacted him, he told me he was packing and call me later. As the day passed, I grew more and more tense. He saw me late in the evening, I realized he hadn't eaten, but talked with her all day. We fixed some food together and he told me what came out when she finally opened up, explained her behaviour etc....and that basically she was a quite lonely person with nearly no friends and that he now felt sorry for her. He'd leave at the end of a week, hoped badly to find a job till then. I offered that he stay at my place but he said it wouldn't be 'correct'. As far as I gathered from leo characteristics, it seems hard for him to make an easy transit to a new relationship because of some deep sense of loyalty. He left and even walked home, a long walk. I didn't insist he'd stay and guessed he needed 'air'. That evening he was upset and exhausted, he wanted to talk to me about what they had talked about all day, about what he felt, but I had trouble listening, being so very tense because of his departure, seeing no way out of this.
So the next day I apologized for not having been there fully, that I still had listed and did he want to come over to relax? Just a text very late in
the evening. He had been seeing a friend, Same next day, I asked him to meet, he'd seen another friend. The day after he said he'd some things to do but would try to see me later, but i told him i wasn't free. The following day a long text saying he felt more relaxed, had seen some friends and really missed me. I told him to meet on the weekend to fix some thing at my place and he came. I just said a quick hello, but he kissed me and hugged for quite some time. Then he fixed the thing and I invited him to dinner. After that we went back to my place and talked. I asked him if he was still sleeping with her? Yes, it had happened since both of us met last time. I told him that I liked him a lot but wouldn't be second. He told me there was no first and second for him. That he had trouble dividing himself between us. Then at some point stopped talking. I felt a big wave of emotion coming over him and we hugged. He said that he had started to develop feelings for me. We hugged a long time. I then was all over him to have sex with me, to prove that he still wanted me, I'd never before done that and hell, it was probably some big insecurity that made me do that stupid thing. I should have let that moment be and just continue to hug. He did it I guess to please me but said he would really want to do it when he could relax with me, stay over, wake up with me.
Then it was time and he left.
The next evening he texted that now things would even be harder for him since she was suspicious and he had to lie and hated that. I asked him what I could do and he told me to just be cool for the time being. No news at all the next day. The day after just a short remark about his jobsearch, to which I only replied one day later (today). nothing since this afternoon. I guess I should just let things simmer for a while -
Sooooo, the way I feel the thing is that he needs space and not being pushed right now, but I also have to make my limits clear.
Iam afraid Iam never going to see him again.
Iam also hoping for another big fight with her that makes him realize things and push things over the top.
Iam pisces, but still have some stronger other signs in my chart, can't remember which. He always appreciated me for being sensitive but also cool and collected.
God ,I miss him, hardly sleep anymore and have to hold back not to call him and beg for him to come to me. What should I do? What do you think?
If you need more details, just ask!
PLEASE HEEEEEEEELP!
Then it was time and he left.
The next evening he texted that now things would even be harder for him since she was suspicious and he had to lie and hated that. I asked him what I could do and he told me to just be cool for the time being. No news at all the next day. The day after just a short remark about his jobsearch, to which I only replied one day later (today). nothing since this afternoon. I guess I should just let things simmer for a while -
Sooooo, the way I feel the thing is that he needs space and not being pushed right now, but I also have to make my limits clear.
Iam afraid Iam never going to see him again.
Iam also hoping for another big fight with her that makes him realize things and push things over the top.
Iam pisces, but still have some stronger other signs in my chart, can't remember which. He always appreciated me for being sensitive but also cool and collected.
God ,I miss him, hardly sleep anymore and have to hold back not to call him and beg for him to come to me. What should I do? What do you think?
If you need more details, just ask!
PLEASE HEEEEEEEELP!
Are fiery women really the kind that turn you on?
Haven't seen him now for four days, should I:
- let it just simmer for a while and wait for him to contact me
- let him know Iam hurt
- tell him I would not go for less than 100% and that it seems he has made his choice, so, all the best!
- just send him a short light message about something going on in my life?
- let it just simmer for a while and wait for him to contact me
- let him know Iam hurt
- tell him I would not go for less than 100% and that it seems he has made his choice, so, all the best!
- just send him a short light message about something going on in my life?
Met this leo man online back in July...we kind of stopped talking i found out that he sent me his number and i never called him so he was a bit upset...out of the blue i get an email from him on Jan 8, 2010 email read i am still wanting you to be my wife! Now that through me for a loop although i knew he always said i was going to marry him i did not take him seriously...i responded by saying hey how are you? where have you been i missed talking to you call me...sent my number..he called told me he was at the hospital with his son that had been shot 9 times..okay its gets deeper...while we are on the phone son passes....i was there over the phone but i did not attend any services wasnt comfortable with that...a week later he comes to visit me for the first time we really hit it off he was jovial and real direct in his approach to wanting to be with me...we kissed it was the ultimate kiss and i knew i was not going to be a lady that night...he stayed there although we had already agreed he would but nothing would happen..he traveled from another state which is 2hrs away to see me. we had the most exciting and intense lovemaking session...after it was over on my way the next day he asked so where are we at this point i responded together. all of our conversations were i want you to be my wife after 2wks of this i said okay!! on 1/28 we married and now things are going or have gone down hill for the simple fact i find him to be secretive i mean i have never met anyone in his family or even spoke to anyone long story short because it is so much drama our last blowout was on Valentines Day he claims he could not get a train to see me until 8:30 or 10:00pm at night!! that was the last straw...i feel like you are married to your mistress (ME) so finally i text him this morning asking if he would agree to divorce and we both go our seperate ways he agreed...now i text him the evening because i really feel like talking just to tell him how sorry i am things did not work out but i DO want to end this asap he has not responded..My question is will this leo divorce me or continue to ignore me!
Hi Leo Man! I am a Gemini female and pretty verbose so, I will try to keep it short. Had a fling years ago with a LEO when we were going off to college. Liked him, but wasn't serious. Think I made him mad hurt his pride when he kissed me in public and I didn't respond. (Had my reasons, but regretted it immediately). He contacted me a few times and I ignored him-was with someone else) then contacted me after 8 years and I have been flirting with him over email. He started the whole thing by bringing up our steamy past and then I responded in kind. I told him I wanted to come see him and he acted very excited, but then I couldn't come. He seemed mad and then he disappeared. Found out he has a GF. He Came back and flirted heavily. Disappeared AGAIN. I went to visit him a few wks ago and he was so sweet, told me stories, asked about me, made jokes, but seemed nervous. I asked him what happened and he said he got "freaked out". We had a great and friendly talk. I left and nothing happened between us. Sent him a sweet message just to say it was nice to see him. He has not replied. Think I am going to just let it be, but just WONDERING if you think the fact that when I ignore him he starts all the flirting again does this mean I am just an ego boost to him?? Why does he come on to me strong and then act like he never did— He drives me crazy. Thanks!
I'm a Gem and have a question about my Leo friend. She runs a home business, and asked me if I wanted to do some work for her after her 1 employee (her neighbor and friend) got a different job. I accepted, and worked for her whenever she called needing me. The job was presented as sporadic work, but never presented as temporary work. The calls stopped abruptly one day, and I found out her old employee had come back. When the employee moved, Leo started calling again and I helped her out. Then, she had an old friend come to stay at her house. She stopped calling me and let him work for her until he left. I then worked for her until another friend came to live with her. I haven't heard from her since, even though I'm willing and able to work, so I'm assuming the friend is her new employee.
I really like this woman- she is fun, big-hearted, generous, and we get along well. Several times we have gone dancing together, and when she gets a few drinks in her she'll tell anyone who'll listen that I'm the best employee she's ever had. I've noticed that I treat her as an equal, whereas the people I've mentioned above treat her as a higher-up. I know she's their employer, but they treat her like that even as their friend. Okay- they treat her like the sun shines out her butt- there, I said it!
Is she (1)keeping people around her who recognize her queenly status, (2)trying to help out people who need the work (I have other jobs),(3)both, or (4)lying and I suck at my job?
I really like this woman- she is fun, big-hearted, generous, and we get along well. Several times we have gone dancing together, and when she gets a few drinks in her she'll tell anyone who'll listen that I'm the best employee she's ever had. I've noticed that I treat her as an equal, whereas the people I've mentioned above treat her as a higher-up. I know she's their employer, but they treat her like that even as their friend. Okay- they treat her like the sun shines out her butt- there, I said it!
Is she (1)keeping people around her who recognize her queenly status, (2)trying to help out people who need the work (I have other jobs),(3)both, or (4)lying and I suck at my job?
Thanks, Lovebucket!
i have a question for ya lol
my ex is a leo we was together 2 years its 3 years down the line me and him are still sleeping together (not seeing anyone else) yet he does'nt want anything serious and i dont get it cuz if i say ive found some one else my ex leo wont leave me alone so i don't go with the other man cuz mr leos all on me but as soon as i tell him i dont want anyone but him he goes cold on me what is his game does he love me or is he playin me like a fool?
my ex is a leo we was together 2 years its 3 years down the line me and him are still sleeping together (not seeing anyone else) yet he does'nt want anything serious and i dont get it cuz if i say ive found some one else my ex leo wont leave me alone so i don't go with the other man cuz mr leos all on me but as soon as i tell him i dont want anyone but him he goes cold on me what is his game does he love me or is he playin me like a fool?
I have another one. I had a very good male Leo friend. He came over every day (STRICTLY platonic) for over a year and even had a key. He helped me out a lot, but he was careful to do 1 favor for 1 favor and always remembered who owed who.
He asked to store "a couple of things" in my guest room. I said yes, and came home to find the entire room jammed with stuff. I let it go because I wanted to help out a friend.
I found a new house rental through him (his friends were moving out), and, as I was packing to move, discovered that he had been storing illegal things in my guest room and using it as a base for selling them. Obviously a breach of trust for which I could have ended up in major trouble.
I asked him to move all of his things by the date I was required to vacate. He procrastinated until the date had passed, so I put his things on the porch for him because I was late for work. He was angry it did that, because he said it could have rained, but he got over it.
When I had first decided to rent the new house, I had asked him if he wanted to be my roommate there and he had said no. But after the move, he showed up with his stuff, expecting to store it in my house. I said no. I didn't think it was fair that he wouldn't split rent, but would use my house for storage. He went away and literally never spoke to me again. It's been YEARS, and we live in the same town. How did I turn into the bad guy here? There is no more to the story than what I've just written- it's very simple. Did I commit some sort of Leo sin?
He asked to store "a couple of things" in my guest room. I said yes, and came home to find the entire room jammed with stuff. I let it go because I wanted to help out a friend.
I found a new house rental through him (his friends were moving out), and, as I was packing to move, discovered that he had been storing illegal things in my guest room and using it as a base for selling them. Obviously a breach of trust for which I could have ended up in major trouble.
I asked him to move all of his things by the date I was required to vacate. He procrastinated until the date had passed, so I put his things on the porch for him because I was late for work. He was angry it did that, because he said it could have rained, but he got over it.
When I had first decided to rent the new house, I had asked him if he wanted to be my roommate there and he had said no. But after the move, he showed up with his stuff, expecting to store it in my house. I said no. I didn't think it was fair that he wouldn't split rent, but would use my house for storage. He went away and literally never spoke to me again. It's been YEARS, and we live in the same town. How did I turn into the bad guy here? There is no more to the story than what I've just written- it's very simple. Did I commit some sort of Leo sin?
can you answer my topic titled "I TURNED MY LEO DOWN...(IS IT OVER? OR STARTING)"
Ohmygoodness. I can not believe all these stories and comments about Leo Men. Bottom line in the end they are really selfish. My brother, my Moms ex-beau and yes my ex-husband.
Leo men do have a way with words. A lot of vocabulary. A lot of verbal promises. If you take their words and actions and put them in two jars; the of words would be full...now look at the actions— Is it as full?
Women respond well when you SHOW her you love her. You do it well in random acts, but is it consistent? Nope! They do enough to reel you back into a comfort level and then become their real $ selves $ again. Its all about their own personal gain. You giving And giving and their giving out of convenience or when it makes them look good in the public's eye.
Its sad but true...
Leo men do have a way with words. A lot of vocabulary. A lot of verbal promises. If you take their words and actions and put them in two jars; the of words would be full...now look at the actions— Is it as full?
Women respond well when you SHOW her you love her. You do it well in random acts, but is it consistent? Nope! They do enough to reel you back into a comfort level and then become their real $ selves $ again. Its all about their own personal gain. You giving And giving and their giving out of convenience or when it makes them look good in the public's eye.
Its sad but true...
Ohmygoodness. I can not believe all these stories and comments about Leo Men. Bottom line in the end they are really selfish. My brother, my Moms ex-beau and yes my ex-husband.
Leo men do have a way with words. A lot of vocabulary. A lot of verbal promises. If you take their words and actions and put them in two jars; the of words would be full...now look at the actions— Is it as full?
Women respond well when you SHOW her you love her. You do it well in random acts, but is it consistent? Nope! They do enough to reel you back into a comfort level and then become their real $ selves $ again. Its all about their own personal gain. You giving And giving and their giving out of convenience or when it makes them look good in the public's eye.
Its sad but true...
Leo men do have a way with words. A lot of vocabulary. A lot of verbal promises. If you take their words and actions and put them in two jars; the of words would be full...now look at the actions— Is it as full?
Women respond well when you SHOW her you love her. You do it well in random acts, but is it consistent? Nope! They do enough to reel you back into a comfort level and then become their real $ selves $ again. Its all about their own personal gain. You giving And giving and their giving out of convenience or when it makes them look good in the public's eye.
Its sad but true...
Don't know why it posted twice LMAO!
Leo man,
I have a dilemma:
I am a leo woman, he is a leo man.
three months ago he and i started this friends with benifits thing. Neither of us wanted a relationship. (i have known him for 2 and a half years)
Well, at first it was just sex. then, we started cuddleing, holding hands. Now we're at the point where we call each other baby, "I miss you" and that sort of thing. Everyday we get closer to each other. He is such a sweet heart.
He told me that in order for him to be in a realtionship he has to see this girl as wife material. Also, a few weeks ago he said that he feels that we're close to being in a relationship and he really likes me. We have been hanging out for the past three days and cant seem to stay away from each other but when he's not around i tend to get confused. My family loves him, and he treats all of us very good. He's respectful, kind, generous, cocky, confident and irrestible. we have all of this in common.
Here's my questions:
Can a leo man and a leo woman work out?
Do you think he wants to be in a relationship with me?
How long does it take for a leo man to be sure if he wants to be in a relationship or not?
How does a leo man normally ask you out?
Are there any signs that would tell me if he wants to be with me?
I have a dilemma:
I am a leo woman, he is a leo man.
three months ago he and i started this friends with benifits thing. Neither of us wanted a relationship. (i have known him for 2 and a half years)
Well, at first it was just sex. then, we started cuddleing, holding hands. Now we're at the point where we call each other baby, "I miss you" and that sort of thing. Everyday we get closer to each other. He is such a sweet heart.
He told me that in order for him to be in a realtionship he has to see this girl as wife material. Also, a few weeks ago he said that he feels that we're close to being in a relationship and he really likes me. We have been hanging out for the past three days and cant seem to stay away from each other but when he's not around i tend to get confused. My family loves him, and he treats all of us very good. He's respectful, kind, generous, cocky, confident and irrestible. we have all of this in common.
Here's my questions:
Can a leo man and a leo woman work out?
Do you think he wants to be in a relationship with me?
How long does it take for a leo man to be sure if he wants to be in a relationship or not?
How does a leo man normally ask you out?
Are there any signs that would tell me if he wants to be with me?
He is also always telling me, he can't get enough of me and last night he said: "if you ever get married, whether it's to me or somebody else, i'll be the one at the alter saying no! don't marry him" then he just smiled and looked at me.
i'm missing more those leo peeps that i was involved with for a short period of time than my sag ex-husband which i've spent seven years of my life with. 😢
Zharia... thats because Leo's make very loyal friends. We nurture and love the people in our lives with ferocity. Some of us can be a bit hard to take, especially in our younger years, but we have big warm hearts and deep down we mean well in most every situation. Chances are you are missing out on the warmth you felt in these relationships?
Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
Zharia... thats because Leo's make very loyal friends. We nurture and love the people in our lives with ferocity. Some of us can be a bit hard to take, especially in our younger years, but we have big warm hearts and deep down we mean well in most every situation. Chances are you are missing out on the warmth you felt in these relationships?
yeah, true! the first leo man, well, i'm missing him some times. some times i wish i did not push him away. the reason why we got separated is that he lied to me about some thing. he tried to come back to me and he told me that he was sorry and that he really likes me. i felt that he was genuinely sorry about what had happened but my mind is telling me that i should not trust him anymore. sometimes wishing that he will come to invite me on-line for a chat. it would really make me happy.
and the second leo man, the first time that we have met, i already felt comfortable with him. i even told him some of my secrets. i even told him about my problem with my sag ex-husband. he's funny and he makes sure that he makes me laugh. we separated ways because i've discovered that he has a gf. he's a two-timer.
well, check my posts earlier about these two leo men on this forum.
though these two relationships were short-lived, still it is memorable.
ezharia... if a Leo man apologized... chances are he definitely meant it! Pride and ego reign his world, humbling himself to apologize and admit his fault/wrong isnt something they take lightly. At least in my experience with the men. I too am that way, however I am a woman so sometimes things such as pride are easier as a female to swallow. But thats my two cents!
Not sure if this is typical Leo behavior.Here's my story.I'm a July/Cancer, he's an Aug/Leo. we are both in our late 30's We dated online for 3 months. Both of our lives are complicated, to be fair.He completely sweep me off my feet & I fell hard. We would talk daily off an on all day. I followed his lead as far as letting things progress. within 2 wks of talking he asked about us being exclusive.I was happy about that.Told me he loved me often. Included my daughter in things as much as one could online. Talked about us getting a place together when I moved. even though I told him it would be a few years before I could afford to.He would talk with me about his problems and listen to mine. As stress increased in his life I could tell he was pulling away some. He became more affectionate less sexual. I'd had asked him sometimes if he wanted space. he had said yes but would still text,call me daily.over the last few weeks before he broke up with me I noticed an irratation in his voice. He said he had a lot going. it wasn't me. The day he broke up with me he called me at his lunch to see how I was. After asking me about my day he told me he wasn't sure if I should come to visit. With all he had going on he was getting to where he didn't want to talk to anyone. he wasn't sure if he could work things out for my visit. He had fam. issues as well as getting his life back in order after moving back to his home state.It was hard but I asked him if he wanted to keep the Us going with everything he had going on. He said yes. I trusted that. That night after work. he texted me. told me he had gotten more bad news. he couldn't cope with everything and needed to be alone. he couldn't date anyone right now till he got his life back in order. He wanted to be fair to me. yes he loved me but needed to do this. etc,etc. I was devastated & very disappointed in how I reacted. I sent him 2 messages that week.he wouldn't talk to me about 'us' after that. I stopped contacting. He send me a message a few weeks later when he saw on my FB my dog had died. He got assaulted about week later. he replied to my message asking if he was ok. Other than that we stopped talking. About a month later I sent him a message asking him about him rtning a few things. I wished him well,hoped we could be friends.no response.I found out bad things. He didn't tell his friends about me?! his X had been talking to him?
today he called me.he thought I had called him by mistake. we talked about 20 mins.is
today he called me.he thought I had called him by mistake. we talked about 20 mins.is
WHAT I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW I HAVE BEEN WITH THIS LEO FOR 4 MONTHS NOW.. WE HAD CAME ACROSS SOMETHING WHERE WE DIDN'T TRUST EACH OTHER .. LATER I FOUND OUT HES BEEN TALKING TO DIFFERENT WOMAN ON A WEBSITE HE SAID HE NEVER MET UP WITH NONE OF THEM ... HARD TO BELIEVE BUT I WANT TO WORK THINGS OUT.. BUT HE SAID THE ONLY REASON HE CONTINUED USING THE WEBSITE IS BECAUSE HE DIDN'T KNOW WHERE WE WAS HEADED SO HE WANTED TO KEEP HIS OPTIONS OPEN... WHICH HURT ME BECAUSE I DIDN'T DO THAT BUT AT LEAST HES HONEST WE BOTH AGREED THAT ITS GOING TO BE HARD .. AND WERE NOT TOGETHER .. BUT LIKE HE SAYS HE IS SORRY HE CANT SAY NOTHING THAT WILL CHANGE THAT ... SO WHAT DO I DO . WE BOTH SOUND LIKE WERE NOT SURE SHOULD I JUST CONTINUE BEING SINGLE AND IF HE TRULY WANTS TO WORK ON IT ,,IT WILL FALL IN PLACE... IF NOT WE JUST GOING TO STOP TEXTING AND CALLING .. I WAS JUST ON THE PHONE FOR 3 HOURS AND HE WOULDN'T WANT ME TO GET ON THE PHONE WITH HIM HE SAID JUST TALK TO ME ABOUT ANYTHING THEN HE GOES TO SLEEP ... I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO THINK PLEASE HELP IF YOU WANT THE FOOL STORY ASK FOR IT
Hello, Leo Man ..I have a situation similar to the prior post by sweetlibra. I have grown an attachment towards a Leo man, given that we have been talking for now a little over a year. He also was in a committed relationship for six years and has been separated for now three years.I know he still hurt from the past which is why I understand his actions with me. He is a text freak, its like we have a serious relationship through texting. I usually get inpatient and walk away from this type of communication,but somehow the conversations are lively! We do have mutual friends, so we do hang out from time to time. The problem is that I don't want to force anything between us because I have this sincere care for him - and I feel he's in tune with me too. I'm afraid because my feelings are only building up and I WANT to slowly back away, since I don't want to ruin our friendship. By the way,he does know what I feel for him because I have shown it, he said he just wants to be friends. But then I don't understand why he still sweet talks me! Whats my best bet? If I back away I don't wanna seem mad, but if hes not ready to call me on the phone then he's not ready for anything..I would really appreciate your intake on this... sincerely LOST
I've known this Leo man for a long time..since we were kids and he is going through a hard time.
we hadn't seen each other for a long time (about 4 years) and so I'm 20 now.
Anyway he saw i moved back home (on the net) so he came around to celebrate with me...
I was so attracted to him. We got on the drink and he was after me...we'd flirt and
the whole thing was rather romantic actually but i didn't give in, I'm not easy and
i wanted him to know it. Days passed (he just stayed here at my place and relaxed with me)
he says "you can lay on my arm if you want" but i sort of shy'd away from that...point is he
wasn't abrupt with his approach but very gentle. He was very sweet. I didn't do anything
because he talked of a girl, asked me what he should do? he didn't take my advise though.
I felt so comfortable. He was helpful and made me feel like he wanted to take care of me
(not that i need taking care of!). He wanted to go help his parents on their property
and told me he will be leaving in an hour, that they will come pick him up...we just talked
and then we stopped and had that staring thing going on...i didn't know how to take it
because well our families are close. I know he wanted to kiss me though. i saw 'the fire
in his eyes' lol.
a week passes and i finally tell him 'I've been thinking of you' but he replies with
'true, well how it was is how it is..we're just friends' and it cut but i accepted it.
i find out he started to sleep with a chick at that time (a chick who really doesn't like
me btw) but he stayed at my sisters place...this girl said nasty things about me and he
defended me. anyway i got angry....every time i saw this girl she'd talk about him to
try make me jealous but I'm not so much like that..she started to cause trouble and i
took it out on him. he says to my sister 'i will forgive anything she says to me, no
matter how bad it is' and he kept defending me. he ignores me though.
this girl decides she wants to move here too so he leaves to help her.... coincidentally
my brother happens to live there...instead of staying with this girl, he is staying with
brother...and still continues to ignore me. The more he ignores me the more i think of
certain things. it's starting to drive me crazy...
anyway i am going there to visit my brother and friends and celebrate my 21st birthday but
i am lil nervous that i will see him. and i don't know what i should do. My appearance isn't
a problem I already he's attracted
we hadn't seen each other for a long time (about 4 years) and so I'm 20 now.
Anyway he saw i moved back home (on the net) so he came around to celebrate with me...
I was so attracted to him. We got on the drink and he was after me...we'd flirt and
the whole thing was rather romantic actually but i didn't give in, I'm not easy and
i wanted him to know it. Days passed (he just stayed here at my place and relaxed with me)
he says "you can lay on my arm if you want" but i sort of shy'd away from that...point is he
wasn't abrupt with his approach but very gentle. He was very sweet. I didn't do anything
because he talked of a girl, asked me what he should do? he didn't take my advise though.
I felt so comfortable. He was helpful and made me feel like he wanted to take care of me
(not that i need taking care of!). He wanted to go help his parents on their property
and told me he will be leaving in an hour, that they will come pick him up...we just talked
and then we stopped and had that staring thing going on...i didn't know how to take it
because well our families are close. I know he wanted to kiss me though. i saw 'the fire
in his eyes' lol.
a week passes and i finally tell him 'I've been thinking of you' but he replies with
'true, well how it was is how it is..we're just friends' and it cut but i accepted it.
i find out he started to sleep with a chick at that time (a chick who really doesn't like
me btw) but he stayed at my sisters place...this girl said nasty things about me and he
defended me. anyway i got angry....every time i saw this girl she'd talk about him to
try make me jealous but I'm not so much like that..she started to cause trouble and i
took it out on him. he says to my sister 'i will forgive anything she says to me, no
matter how bad it is' and he kept defending me. he ignores me though.
this girl decides she wants to move here too so he leaves to help her.... coincidentally
my brother happens to live there...instead of staying with this girl, he is staying with
brother...and still continues to ignore me. The more he ignores me the more i think of
certain things. it's starting to drive me crazy...
anyway i am going there to visit my brother and friends and celebrate my 21st birthday but
i am lil nervous that i will see him. and i don't know what i should do. My appearance isn't
a problem I already he's attracted
contd......already know he's attracted...what my problem is, I don;t know what he wants because
surely he'd avoid my family too if he wasn't interested in me, i don't believe he'd
defend my so passionately either so i must of done something wrong....what do i do
do when i see him—
surely he'd avoid my family too if he wasn't interested in me, i don't believe he'd
defend my so passionately either so i must of done something wrong....what do i do
do when i see him—
Hello, Leo Man ..I have a situation similar to the prior post by sweetlibra. I have grown an attachment towards a Leo man, given that we have been talking for now a little over a year. He also was in a committed relationship for six years and has been separated for now three years.I know he still hurt from the past which is why I understand his actions with me. He is a text freak, its like we have a serious relationship through texting. I usually get inpatient and walk away from this type of communication,but somehow the conversations are lively! We do have mutual friends, so we do hang out from time to time. The problem is that I don't want to force anything between us because I have this sincere care for him - and I feel he's in tune with me too. I'm afraid because my feelings are only building up and I WANT to slowly back away, since I don't want to ruin our friendship. By the way,he does know what I feel for him because I have shown it, he said he just wants to be friends. But then I don't understand why he still sweet talks me! Whats my best bet? If I back away I don't wanna seem mad, but if hes not ready to call me on the phone then he's not ready for anything..I would really appreciate your intake on this... sincerely LOST
First of all I would like to say thank you for sharing your experiences. I am new to this site and came across it at the precise time in my life. I have been seeing a male Leo for the last three years on and off. We have known each other for 22 years and were not in contact. In hindsight, that was a good thing. In my opinion Scorpios and Leos are like bleach and ammonia, quite caustic. However, the one thing we shared in common was a strong sexual bond, unsurpassed. The chemistry was quite like none other. Personality wise, it could get no worse, two headstrong individuals, myself caring, him uncaring. He had zero credibility, would say one thing and do another. I learned to have no expectations and that became my coping skills. My friends became tired of our on/off situation. They could not fathom how someone intelligent, attractive, and independent would even entertain someone of this type. I realized that as a strong woman it was very much possible to get hooked on a not so desirable type. Anyway, thanks to what I have read, I finally had the courage to end it today. I finally chose me!!! I know that I am worth so much more than an excellent lay and am deserving of a quality man who treats his woman with the utmost respect.
Posted by theleoman
Im here to help those who have questions about Leo's! Ask away!
I'm not sure if you can help me. I'm going to have to be honest here. I made the mistake of befriending a Leo male last summer. It's someone I knew in school but not close with until last summer. Now he's got a girlfriend and I think being friends with me is actually too much for him. He 'unfriended' me on facebook tonight. I haven't been forceful. I haven't been bothering him - not in my view anyway, just messages on facebook; but he didn't say to me - stop contacting me or anything like that - at first everything was fine with our communications (mostly through facebook). And then the new girlfriend tried to 'friend' me on facebook. I accepted the friendship. I was nice about it. Last weekend I was unfriended by the new girlfriend and then tonight unfriended by the Leo male. I feel like I caused some trouble without knowing what I have done.
I believe he's an un-evolved Leo male. After awhile he wasn't replying back to me so I assumed to put some space and cool it. I did do that. I think was a bit too late. I'm not sure if I should write a message. He said absolutely nothing when he unfriended me tonight. NOTHING.
One more thing I'm a Sagittarius female and the new girlfriend is a Leo female.
Posted by caz1992Posted by theleoman
Im here to help those who have questions about Leo's! Ask away!
I'm not sure if you can help me. I'm going to have to be honest here. I made the mistake of befriending a Leo male last summer. It's someone I knew in school but not close with until last summer. Now he's got a girlfriend and I think being friends with me is actually too much for him. He 'unfriended' me on facebook tonight. I haven't been forceful. I haven't been bothering him - not in my view anyway, just messages on facebook; but he didn't say to me - stop contacting me or anything like that - at first everything was fine with our communications (mostly through facebook). And then the new girlfriend tried to 'friend' me on facebook. I accepted the friendship. I was nice about it. Last weekend I was unfriended by the new girlfriend and then tonight unfriended by the Leo male. I feel like I caused some trouble without knowing what I have done.
I believe he's an un-evolved Leo male. After awhile he wasn't replying back to me so I assumed to put some space and cool it. I did do that. I think was a bit too late. I'm not sure if I should write a message. He said absolutely nothing when he unfriended me tonight. NOTHING.click to expand
One more thing I'm a Sagittarius female and the new girlfriend is a Leo female.
@Thelovedone: He has a girlfriend. What about that you don't understand? Sheesh, you girls are shameless!
@splitnconfused: I hear ya and agree but see above. There are too many willing women for a weak man.
@caz1992: Haha, running theme here... Why should you really care? You weren't friends for that long and yeah, we are possessive and know 'friends' of the opposite sex only cause trouble.
@splitnconfused: I hear ya and agree but see above. There are too many willing women for a weak man.
@caz1992: Haha, running theme here... Why should you really care? You weren't friends for that long and yeah, we are possessive and know 'friends' of the opposite sex only cause trouble.
i'm done and thru with leo men. no more leo men for me. 😛
Hi theleoman! I have read your blog posts and replies for some time now, and I think they're great! I'm in need of some advice myself. I have recently started dating a Leo man who's about 4-5 years older (I'm in my mid 20s). Whenever we meet, we have an enjoyable time and (so far) all our dates have been fun and romantic. There is a snag though. We never, ever, ever talk on the phone! All the dates have been spur-of-the-moment decisions, usually when we find each other online. The last time around we 'planned' a bit in advance, and I didn't find him as excited or happy as other times. I find this perplexing!
Another snag. Soon after we went to second base, I didn't hear from him for weeks. I was upset and disappointed, as I thought things were going so great so far. But he resumed contact and we started dating again. I was more careful about being on guard this time (trying not to get too attached too soon). We've had a couple of awesome dates since that horrendous time, and he's been attentive and affectionate. But I just can't figure out what he wants. I make it a point to go out with friends, and post pictures of me having fun (I'm quite an extrovert for a Virgo) with my gal-pals. So I don't mope around and wait for him to contact me for my quota of fun.
But I just can't figure out how he feels about me. I don't want to come across as a push-over who's ready to drop everything and go out with him whenever he wants. At the same time, I appreciate his efforts and the good time we have when we're together (I hear Leo men like this). What do you this this is? Am I a girlfriend, or am I non-sex equivalent of a booty-call when he has nothing better to do? What would you want a girl like me to do, if you were him? I don't want to start calling him and appear needy.
Another snag. Soon after we went to second base, I didn't hear from him for weeks. I was upset and disappointed, as I thought things were going so great so far. But he resumed contact and we started dating again. I was more careful about being on guard this time (trying not to get too attached too soon). We've had a couple of awesome dates since that horrendous time, and he's been attentive and affectionate. But I just can't figure out what he wants. I make it a point to go out with friends, and post pictures of me having fun (I'm quite an extrovert for a Virgo) with my gal-pals. So I don't mope around and wait for him to contact me for my quota of fun.
But I just can't figure out how he feels about me. I don't want to come across as a push-over who's ready to drop everything and go out with him whenever he wants. At the same time, I appreciate his efforts and the good time we have when we're together (I hear Leo men like this). What do you this this is? Am I a girlfriend, or am I non-sex equivalent of a booty-call when he has nothing better to do? What would you want a girl like me to do, if you were him? I don't want to start calling him and appear needy.
Hey people dont know if any one remembers me but had a thing going on with a leo short while back, i stopped contact, nows hes back with a vengence. Hes proffessing undying love and is serious and wants to marry me, what do you make of this?
What would make a Leo become revengeful?
first i want to say how do you reply like that in the blue box....
ok but this message goes to TRIFLES LIGHT AS AIR * ME AND MY LEO ARE BROKEN UP FOR 3 DAYS NOW .. I WOULD ARGUE WITH HIM BECAUSE IF HE DIDNT TLAK TO ME I FELT LIKE IT WAS ME PLUS I WAS WITH HIM ALL THE TIME OR IF HE DONT SAY THANK YOU WHEN I DO THINGS FOR HIM PRETTY MUCH I ANALYZE THING SO ... HE LEFT ME WE ARE STILL FRIENDS BUT IN 3 DAYS WE DIDNT SAY NOTHING ... TONIGHT I WROTE HIM A EMIAL SAYING I UNDERSTAND THE BREAK UP AND I KNOW HE NEEDS HIS SPACE.. I AM SORRY FOR THE THINGS I DONE AND I M NOT WRITING HIM TO TELL HIM ALL THE THINGS HE DONE BUT THAT I MISS HIM WHOLE LOT ... THEN I TEXT HIM SAYING I MISS YOU .. HE REPLYS BACK SAYING :-) I SAID WHAT DOES THIS MEAN HE SAYS I MISS YOU TO .. I SAID YEAH ?? HE SAID YEAH .. I SAID WHY HAVE YOU NOT CONTACTED ME THEN HE SAID WHEN I SAID WHEN YOU MISSED ME HE SAID (i dont know ) he says alot of idk SO I JUST SAID OK .. I SAID WERE THE THOUGHTS BAD OR GOOD HE SAID BOTH I SAID WHICH THOUGHT YOU HAD MORE HE SAID GOOD SO I SAID WELL CAN I HEAR SOME HE SAID NO (IDK WHY HE WOULDNT TELL ME )SO I SAID ONE DAY HE SAID MAYBE>>>> NOW I WOULD REALLY LIKE TO GIVE ANOTHER TRY BUT WHEN IS THE RIGHT TIME ... AND HOW DO I SAY IT
ok but this message goes to TRIFLES LIGHT AS AIR * ME AND MY LEO ARE BROKEN UP FOR 3 DAYS NOW .. I WOULD ARGUE WITH HIM BECAUSE IF HE DIDNT TLAK TO ME I FELT LIKE IT WAS ME PLUS I WAS WITH HIM ALL THE TIME OR IF HE DONT SAY THANK YOU WHEN I DO THINGS FOR HIM PRETTY MUCH I ANALYZE THING SO ... HE LEFT ME WE ARE STILL FRIENDS BUT IN 3 DAYS WE DIDNT SAY NOTHING ... TONIGHT I WROTE HIM A EMIAL SAYING I UNDERSTAND THE BREAK UP AND I KNOW HE NEEDS HIS SPACE.. I AM SORRY FOR THE THINGS I DONE AND I M NOT WRITING HIM TO TELL HIM ALL THE THINGS HE DONE BUT THAT I MISS HIM WHOLE LOT ... THEN I TEXT HIM SAYING I MISS YOU .. HE REPLYS BACK SAYING :-) I SAID WHAT DOES THIS MEAN HE SAYS I MISS YOU TO .. I SAID YEAH ?? HE SAID YEAH .. I SAID WHY HAVE YOU NOT CONTACTED ME THEN HE SAID WHEN I SAID WHEN YOU MISSED ME HE SAID (i dont know ) he says alot of idk SO I JUST SAID OK .. I SAID WERE THE THOUGHTS BAD OR GOOD HE SAID BOTH I SAID WHICH THOUGHT YOU HAD MORE HE SAID GOOD SO I SAID WELL CAN I HEAR SOME HE SAID NO (IDK WHY HE WOULDNT TELL ME )SO I SAID ONE DAY HE SAID MAYBE>>>> NOW I WOULD REALLY LIKE TO GIVE ANOTHER TRY BUT WHEN IS THE RIGHT TIME ... AND HOW DO I SAY IT
HERE IS MY QUESTION CAN A LEO MAN BE LOYAL TO YOU BUT STILL NEED TO TEXT WOMAN AND FLIRT... DOES HE DO IT TO REASSURE THAT HE STILL GOT IT ..WHATS UP WITH THAT
Posted by SweetLibraPosted by maryjane
So we went back and forth with texts and I again ended up saying hat I couldn't go on like this much longer, that he never had time for me lately unless later at night and that it didn't make feel good so we should stop once for all. No answer for ours. Then I texted again saying that the fact he was ignoring something that was important to me and that was hurting me so much, was sayng a lot about the man he was. Then he said that he was not ignoring but that he didn't know what to do to change my opinion. To which I replied if he wanted he could change my opinion as I told him very directly before what I thought was wrong.
So he says nothing.
My guy did something similar to this early on in our relationship. We had been seeing each other pretty often, several times a week for a month and things were going good. So one night while we were texting each other, I let him know that I really liked him and asked him a question about our status via text and he never answered the question. Now this is a guy who takes seconds to reply back to 98% of my messages. The next day I sent him a message asking the question again and still no answer. Six hours after that (tired of his B.S.), I sent a message saying that "not answering my question was enough of an answer for me and for him to have a nice life". He called me right away and accussed me of overreacting and yada, yada and we made amends and things went back to "normal". He did try to dance around the topic, but I got him to admit that he liked me to and that he didn't want me to go. I decided not to worry about it and just go with the flow. I think they do not like to be backed into a corner. Some of them run when you do this. What confuses me is that if this is a sign of a Leo not really wanting to commit, then why would he have been out searching for a relationship in the first place. My Leo found me, I wasn't looking for him. Isn't that selfish to bring another person into your life when you have no intentions of being there in the long run and you know that? I thought Leo's were generous not selfish. I've never heard them described as selfish. Why would he do that "O Great Almighty LEOMAN? Please elaborate 🙂click to expand
This happened to me a few days ago! Crazy I'm Libra he's a Leo..
Posted by theleoman
Sex wakes a leo up call his bluff tell him "I know what this is all about,you just want by pussy well since i like you im telling you its all yours...anytime you want......this is if your trying to get back with him forget all the relationship talk right now keep it simple and fun and it may grow from there.
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HELP LEOMAN: Should we have sex with a Leo before commitment? How do we get exclusive if we give up the goods before hand?
Posted by theleomanPosted by maryjane
...Oh my goodness!!! What's wrong with Leo's?
Are any women out there who actually have a normal and sane relationship with a Leo man? Without having to go through all this mess?
How many girls are we now, all complaining about the same kind of behavior?
God! I really need to find a way to jump out of this 'relationship' with my Leo before I get seriously hurt.
Just seems I can't win...
1 - I can let things stay the same which means I will keep on seeing him average 3 times a week. Always at night, still spending weekends alone. Letting him have his freedom and not really caring where I am, with who, etc..;
2 - Wait a while, be there for him, swallow my pride, my loneliness and my tears sometimes; pretend all is well to see if he changes. But then...how much more can I wait? Isn't 6 months enough? Will he ever commit and open his heart? hummm..
3 - Give him an ultimatum and this time stick to it to see if he stops taking me for granted. But then, proud as leos are, this might as well be the end.
4 - Just really break it all off, cut all the ties and move on (God knows how).
So Leo man, it seems whatever I'll do, the outcome will not be a nice one for me.
well before i continue.. you said you "I can let things stay the same which means I will keep on seeing him average 3 times a week. Always at night, still spending weekends alone. Letting him have his freedom and not really caring where I am, with who, etc..;"
3 times a week thats a good thing and thats a lot , with weekends thats 4 days 5 max you have a good opportunity to build on that
if this is is what you meant, no offensive but i think you have to start looking at yourself at this point your complaining and at average see him 3 times a week ? hes giving you the time of day hereclick to expand
I think this perfectly explains the Leo man's perspective. Like it's the disappearances that are illuminated for us but for the Leo man it's the presence and actions with us that are highlighted. Amazing, this is extremely helpful.
Posted by Jonleo
Sweetlibra: I think Libra's can be very good mates for a Leo. I've dated a few and liked them very much. One thing you should know is that Leo's test potential mates. We want to know if they will match our intensity in love. I want someone who knows I am the one for them and won't settle for less or let me get away with playing games. We get very possessive with our mates and want to make sure they will be okay with it. Maryjane is giving a Leo who hasn't made up his mind about her too much. If he was there for her % 100, then what she is doing is fine but he isn't.
When you first meet a Leo and we find you attractive, we will come on strong. It's up to you to slow us down. Make us get to know you. Challenge us mentally. Don't mistake our need to take you to bed right away as more than just physical attraction even though some say they love you within the first few weeks of knowing you. I've done that but it was just passion not love. Be sweet & smart but keep us at bay and let us chase you. If he sticks around, he's interested, if he doesn't, then you know he wasn't serious.
The Leo TESTING PART is exactly what is difficult for Libra's. We just don't believe in behaving that way towards others. But Leo's are worth it if I can pass all these tests.. My goodness gracious.
Posted by theleomanPosted by PandorasBox
LEEEEEEEEEEEEEOOOO
I have a question for you!!
During sex what exactly crosses your mind? Please, feel free to provide a play by play (although Im sure I dont have to reassure you that we would all love to know the deets).
Does it feel like a show? Like you are the King? Di you just hear little bells in your ears? Or perhaps a squadron of half naked cheerleaders cheering and rooting you on? Tell us all my beloved kitty cat..
A leo may be quiet in bed , but they are saying the most vulgar things in their head some things may sound offensive in the moment which is why it may not be said. leos love sex and although we have vulgar thoughts it may not come arcoss like that while we are having sex.click to expand
My leo is very vocal during sex. I love it when the lion roars 😉
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