I am a Leo Man ask me anything! (Page 7)

Ok so from everything stated on here - there is nothing more than a close friendship with me --- I will let him keep spends loads of money on me - contacting me more than 3 times a day everyday - I will stand by his side with pride since he is requesting I continuously attend events with him - in addition he writes letters to me all the time but as u said - even if he wants or needs me it's not enough for there to be something - he has to deem me worthy to be his woman and with all my tribulations I don't think I measure up - thank u for ur candid response it has helped me a lot - so for as much as I wanted him to be close to me as a couple in love and love each other - it's never going to happen.

Leo men whom ever replies on these blogs (read all mine plse RITA170570 - I value ur expert opinion)

I await ur reply

I can't say it enough ladies - if he wants u - he will make it happen - leos r never short of admirers nor company ---- that's been my experience with males within my family

Think about u - don't chase him..

Leo males where r u with ur advice - I'm still waiting for ur reply - I have posted a lot !

OMG!! I am new to this forum, I'm a Leo woman, Leo Sun, Venus, Mercury, South Node & PLuto and I just had a pleasure explosion when I saw there are 25 pages to this topic on LEOs! AWWLL RIGHT! PURRRRRRRRR

Of course, that's the way life should always be........

25 Pages on just Leo Men?!?!... most desired or what ?

I am a female Leo should I give my Leo male space were hanging out this weekend but I want to see him so bad and its showing bad. Do I need to step back and give space or tell him hey I want to see you today.

Some background info:
He is a Leo with a girl friend and I am a married Aries woman with children.

I am very established in our workplace and he is in an entry level position trying to work his way up the corporate ladder.

The situation:
A few months ago I was out with my neighbor and met someone who was friends with a man that has been working in my office for the past 3 years. I didn't recognize the co worker's name but when his Facebook picture was shown to me I recognized him as the shy younger (he's 25, I'm 28) guy who would smile and check me out in passing. I ended up adding him on Facebook that night.

The next day I said Hello to him in the break room, called him by his first and last name, and told him all about his friend I met. I felt like there was a mutual intense attraction between us (that was making everyone else in the room uncomfortable) at that moment.

By the time I went back to my desk I had received an IM from him which was the start of a conversation that took me away from my work for the remaining hours of the day. We instantly connected on a very deep emotional/spiritual level. He told me his life story, informed me of his medical history, his dreams/aspirations, his family troubles and his relationship troubles. He told me how much he trusted and admired me, and he even told me about the first time he saw me at work (almost 3 years ago). He asked about my husband and family situation, company work and educational history, and what my future goals are, etc.

We ended up going to lunch a few times in one week, I bought him an $ 800 dollar plane without hesitation so take care of a family emergency, and we talked for many hours everyday via Facebook/text/calls/work IMs every day for about two months.

The last Friday in June a bunch of work friends went out for happy hour. He and I ended up staying out until 2am with two other work friends. His GF was pissed he didn't come home cuz she had just returned from being out of town for a week. I told him to invite her but he didn't want to see her, said she was fat, a bad GF, was only staying with her cuz he needed her financially and that they haven't had sex in almost a year, because he didn't want to have sex with her..

I thought we had a great time but I guess I was wrong because the next day I hadn't heard from him. I finally reached out to his GF to make sure he made it home safe. She ignored me but he texted me back saying he was alive and his GF was extremel

thought we had a great time but I guess I was wrong because the next day I hadn't heard from him. I finally reached out to his GF to make sure he made it home safe. She ignored me but he texted me back saying he was alive and his GF was extremely mad at him. The next day he friend dumped me. He told me he wasn't interested in me, was happy with his GF, and that I needed to back off. He posted two Facebook statuses about me then he blocked me on Facebook and Instagram.

Being the Aries I am, I got drunk and sent him a few vicious text messages, then I sent him a heart filled apology. He IMed me at work letting me know he received my apology and appreciated it a lot, that he was sorry for the confusions and hoped we could leave our personal life out of work. I said it was fine and we chatted lightly for the rest of day.

It's been a week since the apology stated above and he has been extremely short and awkward with me at work. I sent him two texts which he ignored (one telling him how being blocked upset me, and the other was a status update regarding my daughters health - she just finished her final round of chemotherapy) and I'm still blocked on social media.

Someone please help me understand what I did wrong and/or why he is suddenly shutting me out...Yes we had some romantic chemistry between us but it never would have went anywhere considering we're both taken.. And I never suggested we should be romantically involved, just that he should take action in his unhappy relationship (which he complained about daily 10xs a day).
I normally am quick to lose any dead weight but I feel like I've lost my best friend and it's really bumming me out. Being friends with him reinstalled my fiery passion for life and made me feel all emotions to the Nth power. Life is sucking without him 😢. Any and all advice will be greatly appreciated.

Hi, I just want to know when leo say I just think 'we cannot go far anymore.' is it mean that I have no chance to get back with him no matter how I please?

Gemini..Ex Bf leo now boo... always busy!!
Hi guys just joined need advice on my ex bf who is now my boo..
The deal is we known each other for over 10 yrs..met when I was 18 him 19...I moved to atl and he is in NYC...1 day I go on other msgs on fb a month ago and I had msgs from him..stating he been looking for me..he still loves me should've treated me better but now he knows how..I dipped to atl n broke up with him yrsss ago cuz I had to stop loving him for reasons I cannot divulge..soo when we met started chatting again I told him y I had to leave so abruptly..he says he forgave n still loves n needs me..now its been a month since reconnecting..n its all lovey dovey but he never calls me for sum odd reason prob talk to him maybe 5 times on phone since relinking....says he's busy or phone was dead sooo is this dude lieing? And if so y hmu with I love u 20 times a day thru fb?..y not call?.keep in mind I'm 32..n haven't seen him n person since 18!!..any adice greatly appreciated!!.

Posted by theleoman
Im here to help those who have questions about Leo's! Ask away!

hey could take a look at my dilemma for me..
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How much of your dark side do you hide vrs what you show? How good are you at keeping images up?

Posted by Libragirl92

Posted by Libragirl92
Need help desperately. ...I was seeing a leo man not for a long amount of time. .about a month and a half. ..he had awesome times together. ...even a weekend camping trip which was just 2 weeks ago. ...now I know he has a full plate with raising a teenager daughter. ..going through a divorce and financial issues. .all of which I understand and support. Just last Friday he was talking about future plans for us and with friends. ..then within 24 hours he does a 360....he says he needs to take a step back. ...it's just not the right time for him. ...I'm at a total loss because I care for this man. I have given him his space and not contacted him....but I really want to. ..but I don't want to be pushy or overwhelm him. ....should I just let him be or make contact. .?

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Let him go.

Okay...so this is a very complicated relationship. I knew him all my life. We were a group of friends. I never noticed him and he never acknowledged me. I liked it that way. I never thought that anything would happen. He disappeared for sometime and for an knknown reason and he came back like puberty hit him all over again. His entire style changed. Clothes and personality. He changed everything in his life. His car, his apartment, and even his friends. His best friend was my all time enemy (long story).

So...we kind of became friends after that. We'd watch movies, go out for dinners and such. I'd go to his football (soccer) matches and he'd come see me in my plays and theatre performances. I had fun with him. He was a popular guy and it made me feel nice. That he chose me out of all people to share secrets with and spend his nights with. It was just friendship. I didn't have feeling for him and neither did he.
But slow long everything started to change. He's cancel last minute on a planned movie and or any outing for that matter. He'd call up and spit out s stupid excuse. and whenever we'd do something together he would get controlling. Picking everything out, and I let him for most part. I wasn't allowed to even comment on what he said of he would just get mad and shut off for the rest of the night. He started getting a bit more offensive mad hurtful with his talks. We would sit with out friends and he would comment on my clothes or my hair saying how bad it looked or why would I ever wear this. He would even talk shit about my make up or other sensitive insecurities any girl would have. He would just brush it off with a 'I was just kidding' or 'my god, chill will ya, I was just joking with you'. And it would seriously piss me off or make me shut down for the rest of the night. And whenever I get mad at him or I'd ignore him, he would just tel me how stupid I'm being and hoe sensitive I'm becoming. Well...excuse me for having insecurities and not wanting one of my friends pointing them out as a daily thing!
He would try to get me to talk back to him. But he never apologises. He would never admit being wrong or admit that he did the wrong thing. And I know it's in him as a Leo and as a guy.
His ego is way too big. It's always about him and what he did or what he wants. It's always about hoe good he looks or about how good he did or something. I'd try to flatter his ego with so complements. But sometimes it gets too much.

In the present day. We don't talk much. I try to avoid him as much as possible. The less we talk the better. He'd try to approach me and open up any conversation hoping I'd forget that what he would say the night before about me. I don't know what all of this means. I don't know what to do or what all of this means. Why does he do this?? I don't know if he's trying to hurt me or something. I just don't understand his behavior.do you care to help please..?

Need HELP getting LEO MAN BACK ---

I have been going out with a Leo man for about 8 months.. He is 39 and I am 43. after a series of him not staying in great contact over a last month or so I felt neglected (actually felt very neglected a lot of time before) I spoke up about what I was feeling. The distant contact was because we were both out of town on and off over the course of the month . I was out of town 2 weeks, he was out of town one weekend and the other two weekends I had a festival .

Anyway, I got back into town (Sunday) and I told him how I felt and said it isn't a relationship if I keep feeling this way. I broached the subject a few times over the month and he seem to explain what was going in his head (miscommunication, etc) and he seemed to understand, I thought we were moving along and figuring stuff out. I told him I want to feel secure and comfortable Even just a week ago, after not being about seeing me before I left town (he just got back into town wasn't aware of the schedule) He asked to see me before I go, what time, ect... willing to drop everything to do so... Unfortunately, It was too late and he was disappointed - said "damn that is a shame "



While I was out of town for 6 days I didn't receive another text nor did he text me. On this Sunday meeting I told him I actually got into town Thursday but knew I had a work party I had to go on on Sat

Plus,I wasn't looking forward to dealing with any Mother's day drama he may have with Janie, so I said I have to be honest with you, I arrived home on Thurs but things have not been great and I wasn't up for any drama.. Not like he really cares or was looking for me before I called on Sunday



I am wanting him to be more attentive and attached to me. He works a lot, and money is super super tight. He is working on several things to make the money situation better and is always telling me what is going on and how it will be better by explaining all he is doing – and it is legit. When he has his baby he stays over and we spend time together with her. (Friday and sometimes Sat) He loves my place and I have plenty of space. We spend another night during the weekday together. Because he has a dog and lives on the other side of town he has to get up and let the dog out so I never spend more than 12 hours with him before he has to leave. I have tried to stay at his place but I am allergic to dogs. Because of this we werent moving more forward at a pace I would like. I see him every week but I would like more. Earlier in the relationship ,We have spoke of him moving to a space I have in my house to contain his dog and he would rent out his place but we both have a lot of work to do to make that happen and we didnt seem to be talking about it.

When we met (Sunday) I explained how this series of things were not right -- me not being a priority and decent girlfriend wouldn't put up with this. And, I also brought up the boundary issues with his ex and the baby. side note --Numerous times before He said in no way would he ever get back with her and I Still do believe that, based on his overall actions with her, things he said, etc.

Also, on this night it came up was that when had to go back to his parents house for the 4th with the baby and everyone is afraid if the ex (Janie ) doesn't come, the baby wont either. This made me uncomfortable and upset. Also, his parents asked him to make sure Jamie (the ex) comes because they had not told the grandparents they broke up over a year ago.

This night I told him he has to step up and lawyer up so they can get clear custody, He shouldn't have to worry about taking his baby to see family and dragging her there so the baby comes. He said he was trying to avoid it getting ugly but understood and he was going have a talk to his Dad tomorrow and possibly talk about borrowing money for a lawyer.

I said if things aren't outlined there is never gonna be an easy future for him with anyone and his child. I brought up how much I am missing out on creating memories with him due to all these situations. I put myself in the role of girlfriend/partner very concretely many times in this conversation. I was never "Mad" or "ugly" Just matter of fact.

We both agreed this has been a horrible month. But before I said that - he said . "All the time we have been together before the last month up, he thought things were going well! I definitely agreed! We basically had no fights or disagreements. Just hurt feelings when he wouldn't stay in good touch. (contacting generally once a day every 1-3 days) He even mentioned the "plan" we have with him moving to an apt on my property - reminding me That that was phase 2. He had been so busy with the house that he bought to rent out for income - "Phase 1" - and now "Phase 1" was nearly done.

Things ended really well --- Another side note When this whole conversation started he actually told me he went into detail with Janie (the ex) about me when she pressed for info on who he is seeing that day when he dropped off the baby. This is really the first time he has mentioned my name. He has always avoided details and my name since she is a complete psycho. They broke up when the baby was 6 months old and stopped having sex years ago. In fact, all thru her pregnancy he didn't think the child was his . she is a manipulating person who he has been trying to get rid of forever. He said he knows he is being too protective of our relationship because she is the absolute worst and will ruin it all when she finds out. I thought this was really a good step for us. He did say she got mad, but he said "whatever!" to her.

After all this, I sorta had a sense of relief I had gotten a lot of my frustrations expressed in detail . He didn't get defensive. He seem to understand and get it. He is not one to "go along" with stuff to make the conversation "easy" . I Didn't hear from him the next day, (no biggie, we didn't have plans and both busy with work)



The Following evening he broke up with me via text ----------



" I have been thinking a lot about this and I think it's best for both of us to take a break and not see each other romantically. I just seem to be disappointing & hurting you the more serious it tries to get, I'm commitment phobic it's making me resent the whole thing and also kinda sad. I'm just holding you back from being happy and that's not fair to you. But I also don't want to get back with Janie. I'm not stupid I've been down that road too many times. I seem to be the most content just floating It's not fair to make you wait indefinitely. I know I'll regret it later but right now is most important. It's eating me up to tell you or not tell you. I don't know what else to do. I don't know how else to get my feelings out but write you and not wait a second more. I can't string you along"

. ------------- I DID NOT answer with anything. No one word. A day and a half later I responded

"Wish you the best. It's been fun. Take care"

No response from him.

He was obviously never "all -in" and he was distant for the reason he didn't want to truly commit --- but he was constantly selling me on what a great guy he was becoming.. And he did lots of things to put that in place! Every time he is with his daughter (1 year old) they come over to my house and stay all night. He goes on and on about how much she loves it at my house. What gives? What changed? What can I do? I know the best thing is to move on (and I will) "move on , good riddance" I get that. And I will. I want to see if anything will make him think about this decision. Just want to get some insight on your thoughts in general and what I can do , and if you think he would ever change his feelings if I stay absolutely no contact.

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I desperately want him back!!!!

Hello my ex Leo boyfriend just broke up with me last Sunday. He stated to me that he wants to do him and live his wild oats. He stated that half of him wants to be with me , but the other half he wants to do him. He said that I am a good woman and treat him good. But he feels we argue a lot. I'm a Virgo so I care a lot and just want what's best for him. I feel at times he does not care about how I feel and he could be selfish so I guess because I call him out on it he does not like that. He stated to me that he knows he's stubborn be does not care. This is my 4 time catching him flirting with other females just because we have a disagreement. Another isssue is he worries about money to much. I guess because how he was raised. But he stated to me he still wants to be friends, give me money if I need it and call and Check up on me. And not to mention he told me a while back he wanted to live his wild oats and that if he did he would want to be with me after all is done. I'm asking you as another Leo male why do you'll make it hard to date. He got mad because I told him we do not go out anymore. He works 6 days a week morning to night and I work 5 days a week over night. His off day is Sunday and mines is Tuesday and Wednesday. We use to go out all the time but after my grandfather died tings changed because he use to watch my daughter. Help please confused. Should I be friends with him or make him miss me to see what he had was good

Posted by Tyiesha28
Hello my ex Leo boyfriend just broke up with me last Sunday. He stated to me that he wants to do him and live his wild oats. He stated that half of him wants to be with me , but the other half he wants to do him. He said that I am a good woman and treat him good. But he feels we argue a lot. I'm a Virgo so I care a lot and just want what's best for him. I feel at times he does not care about how I feel and he could be selfish so I guess because I call him out on it he does not like that. He stated to me that he knows he's stubborn be does not care. This is my 4 time catching him flirting with other females just because we have a disagreement. Another isssue is he worries about money to much. I guess because how he was raised. But he stated to me he still wants to be friends, give me money if I need it and call and Check up on me. And not to mention he told me a while back he wanted to live his wild oats and that if he did he would want to be with me after all is done. I'm asking you as another Leo male why do you'll make it hard to date. He got mad because I told him we do not go out anymore. He works 6 days a week morning to night and I work 5 days a week over night. His off day is Sunday and mines is Tuesday and Wednesday. We use to go out all the time but after my grandfather died tings changed because he use to watch my daughter. Help please confused. Should I be friends with him or make him miss me to see what he had was good

Do us a favor and start a new topic with this question. This particular topic is several years old.

Posted by HearbrokenOverLeo
Need HELP getting LEO MAN BACK ---

I have been going out with a Leo man for about 8 months.. He is 39 and I am 43. after a series of him not staying in great contact over a last month or so I felt neglected (actually felt very neglected a lot of time before) I spoke up about what I was feeling. The distant contact was because we were both out of town on and off over the course of the month . I was out of town 2 weeks, he was out of town one weekend and the other two weekends I had a festival...

Do us a favor and start a new topic with this question. This particular topic is several years old.

Hi am sag and my man's a leo. We been dating for 3 years now. He was very romantic at first but gradually lost interest in loving me like he did. He is a heavy drinker and stays out all night long every other day. He says we argue and never accepts his mistakes and never says sorry. I always beg him back because I love him and cry to him but he has never made an intention to ring me first and come back after a bad argument.. anyway, it's been 4 months now and we have broken up, I have realised he has alot of ego and pride ..and he never sits to talk to me about things to sort anything out as he expects me to beg him. I made no contact this time round for 4 months and was wondering what actually goes on in a Leo man's head!! Am so confused and want to know if he ever would come back to me or has he chosen his alcohol over me? We used to argue all the time for his alcohol nonsense .. is he waiting for me to contact him? Should I move on? Should I wait.. am so sorry but am very confused!!!

My Leo man left me because he said he wanted to be on his own and he feels better on his own.

We had a 3 year relationship good days but bad downs as always fighting because he does not want to settle down and drinks alcohol nearly every other night and stays out all night till 5am!

We have had no contact for 4 months and normally when we argue I always beg him back and call him or make some sort of contact.. think he is waiting for that .. he never says sorry even if it's him in the wrong. Does not care about my tears or feelings?? What's should I do? I want to know what goes thru his head as a Leo man? Should ubwant will he come back? Or should I not bother and move on? Am so sorry am so confused

Kitty69 that's my exact story!! Unbelievable

I could use your insight on a dating issue. I'm a Virgo woman, he's a leo man

Hi i am a cancer woman and leo was my first love,5 years ago we were teens and it was really special. but he started acting out of the blue, insulting, he made me go through a really hard time. We broke up and since he just keeps on trying to get me back for 5 years!

Its like he doesn’t care if i am in a relationship, even if he is in a relationship.

We met 2 or 3 times had a coffee and I tried to make him understand that it’s all in the past( even that secretly I still kinda have feelings).

We both did things that hurt each other a lot.

Why can't my leo, who obviously cares about me just admit it? Like why does he have to act so cold all of a sudden?

Posted by ananthema9018
Why can't my leo, who obviously cares about me just admit it? Like why does he have to act so cold all of a sudden?

If you know he cares about you why do you need it acknowledged? Live and let live

My Leo wants to take it slow. I thought they never wanted to do that?

Posted by oxSunQueenxo
You guys should really look at your individual Leos' charts before asking some of these questions. Yes, some of us fall under some of the Leo Sun stereotypes, but if you're wondering why some Leo's don't, chances are that other chart placements would give you your answers. If you have the charts but aren't sure how to analyze/interpret them, then you can post them in this thread and have someone like @Chuckcem help you out with that.

Chuck is a life saver!

He's already helped me immensely. I was just asking out of curiosity!

My leo has Taurus Moon, Virgo Venus, Leo Merc and Leo Mars

WoW.....seven years ago revived!!! 😱

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Wrong thread, lol.

Posted by ananthema9018
Why can't my leo, who obviously cares about me just admit it? Like why does he have to act so cold all of a sudden?

Just for future notice. Go ahead and ask your question here: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/ask-a-leo-7783794/?checkpg=1

This is a year old thread and one I don't often check because most of the users who started it are gone. I think we've all been trying to let it die, but it keeps popping back up. Also the other thread is more open as it's designed to be about all Leos, not just Leo men.

Posted by heliumfiasco
My Leo wants to take it slow. I thought they never wanted to do that?

Of course we do, but only up until a point. Trying to shift everyone back here though (https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/ask-a-leo-7783794/?checkpg=1), so we can let this thread die.

Posted by oxSunQueenxo
You guys should really look at your individual Leos' charts before asking some of these questions. Yes, some of us fall under some of the Leo Sun stereotypes, but if you're wondering why some Leo's don't, chances are that other chart placements would give you your answers. If you have the charts but aren't sure how to analyze/interpret them, then you can post them in this thread and have someone like @Chuckcem help you out with that.

Edit: I realize that I'm not a Leo man, but I do have quite a bit of experience with them. Also, the men and women aren't that different, imo.

I try to the best of my ability. Yeah this "Leo man" thread seems to be a bit limiting.

do leos feel guilt?

my kids father is a leo and he and i hadnt been together since 2011 right after our son was born. on our daughter bday last month he asked if he could come back because he needed somewhere to stay, but i felt like that was his pride cause he has family he couldve went to but he chose to say it to me so i would feel bad for him

I'm an Aries woman and Leo men get under my skin and it's so annoy

So recently during the christmas holiday I met this Leo guy we got talking and it really seemed like he was into me, he was so loving we even shared a heart baring kiss before he traveled but for two days now we haven't spoken...he hasn't called just texted me when arrived his destination and I don't like to wait, I thought I met my Prince charming cause he seemed to be the man of my dreams..I don't know what to do..our time zones are 6hrs apart and I don't want to seem too needy he told me he trust me so I don't even feel comfortable calling up my old friends to hang out cause from our conversations he wouldn't want that...what do I do cause if this doesn't work out I think I'm done with Leo men for life😣

I'm a Leo and hope you don't mind me answering.

As from what you wrote,we leos can be charming and lazy.the reason why he hasn't called yet is because he's too tired too,plus you mentioned time difference ..well that has a huge effect too,long distance.

Maybe you should try calling him,he might have out of laziness forgotten to call you,

tell me why we are discussing a thread that is 9 years old ? anyone ? I didn't think so