I have a crush on Leo Mechanic Shop Owner

So my car is broken and finally my dealership sends me to the transmission shop where I got it fixed in November. I keep calling and talking to this guy who has a strong NY /NJ accent. Confession I adore east coast guys. So I go to pick up my car and there he is this handsome tall, italian dark guy who reminds me of Dewayne Johnson. I started talking to him and said " Are you from NYC or Jersey?" He says he is from Brooklyn. I tell him Brooklyn is one of my favorite burroughs. We than talk about NYC because I love NY. He walks me to my car and starts it up. We say good-bye. Well I drive 40 miles and all the lights came back on. I call him and leave a message and we talk he says bring it in on Monday. I am not going to lie I was actually kind of glad to go back. So he runs the test and delivers the bad news my transmission is going out. Well even more bad news I just ended my warranty. So he says I am not going to make any promises but I have an idea. He calls the owner of the dealer and goes in every morning to talk to them about my car. In the mean time him and I are having these daily calls. So I say why don't you let me talk to them. I call and talk to the owner and manager and there was no argument they tell me take it back to Mike and we'll take care of it under original warranty. That Friday morning after I talked to them he calls me later that morning to tell me how amazing I was and couldn't believe they approved the repair. He tells me "You have great energy that is why this is coming back to you." He says "You may think i am crazy or weird but it is about the energy you put out there." I tell him " i am massage therapist i get the whole energy thing."a week goes by and we had been talking about updates. This morning on a Saturday morning he calls me (the shop is closed) and he tells me I have been thinking about you and gave me an update about another part needed on the transmission that would cost $ 1400 more and he was waiting for their approval. So it would be another week. I say no problem. I am flying out on Wednesday for vacation and I will be back following Tuesday. He said he was going on road trip with his family and he would call me with updates.

So he has gone above and beyond. I wonder if he is this way with all his customers or is he crushing on me as well. I now think he is married. I know sad day. I would never cross the business boundary while my car is being fixed.

Now I think he may be married the boundary line has been drawn deeper. Not going to lie I get a bit giddy when I talk to him. I really love his energy. He is a great guy.

Posted by tiziani
lol upholding the "Pisces women break up marriages" stereotype I see

No home wrecker here. Having innocent flirting and a crush are very different than actually breaking up a marriage with an affair. He did not have a ring on. I don't do the married thing. I am just very attracted to him and I think he is attracted to me. He also sounds like a family man and I respect that. Just because I am attracted to him does not mean I will have sex with him.

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Posted by tiziani
lol upholding the "Pisces women break up marriages" stereotype I see

Yep.

Even if this guy was not married, I have to ask why in the hell she would piss her time away with a leo male.

Oh well. Some people just have to learn things the hard way.

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Ugh oh what happened to you and a leo male?

How do you know he is a LEO?

Posted by Montgomery
How do you know he is a LEO?

I am resourceful 😉

Was he born in August or July?

No.

Not if he's married.

Even flirting is wrong.

Montgomery - I am not that resourceful..lol

I found an online profile that stated Leo...no specifics.

I guess when I talk to him next I can say how is that valve thing going and btw..give me your bday low down. lol

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Posted by tiziani
lol upholding the "Pisces women break up marriages" stereotype I see

Yep.

Even if this guy was not married, I have to ask why in the hell she would piss her time away with a leo male.

Oh well. Some people just have to learn things the hard way.

Ugh oh what happened to you and a leo male?

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'NAM happened.

*slowly shakes head*

Tis a damn shame

Posted by KaptainKhaos
No.

Not if he's married.

Even flirting is wrong.

I am guessing he is married.

1) He has no ring
2) He said going on Vaca road trip with the fam...did not say anything about a wife. I just assumed. No pics of wife on FB
3) I own my own business as well. I never mix business with pleasure
4) I don't do the whole married thing. I like my life uncomplicated.

It really is just a crush ....I am just noticing he has gone above and beyond to help me. Either he has a crush as well or he is just a good business man. He is going to call me on his vacation. He is calling me on a Saturday when his shop is closed. Who does that?

Having a family doesn't necessarily mean he is married.

In any case, just make sure the moment he starts crossing the line, to differentiate between friendship and any other thing.

It seems this online profile you saw was on a dating site? Then, the likelihood he is married diminishes even more

Do be warned though, we can apparently, though not aware of this, turn the sun on and off in people's lives.

I just got accused of this.

It sounds ridiculous, but it is apparently something to watch out for.

No ...did not find him on dating site. High school profile. We talked about where he went to school. Google is amazing what you can find. lol I will tell you ...not much on this one.

Posted by 037
Do be warned though, we can apparently, though not aware of this, turn the sun on and off in people's lives.

I just got accused of this.

It sounds ridiculous, but it is apparently something to watch out for.

Great advice! Thank you!!

I have only dated one leo in my life and I can see this. So strange but I had not seen old leo in years since 2003 and thought of him. That leo was a fantastic lover. He was kind of an unstable mess when we were together.

This leo is very solid and put together at least that's my impression....at least on paper. Same career track for years.
He probably is married for that reason...lol

Seriously though let's not get our panties in a bunch everyone, it really is a harmless crush. I am flattered and grateful for his willingness to help me with my car.

Posted by tiziani
lol upholding the "Pisces women break up marriages" stereotype I see

LMAO!!!!!

Gotta love them Pisces I tell ya

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Posted by tiziani
lol upholding the "Pisces women break up marriages" stereotype I see

Yep.

Even if this guy was not married, I have to ask why in the hell she would piss her time away with a leo male.

Oh well. Some people just have to learn things the hard way.

Ugh oh what happened to you and a leo male?

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Just typical dxp water people.... Hate fire signs but want our placements.

Leo called me from his vacation. He mentioned he was heading to his sister-in-law in LA. He is married....rats!! :- Okay so I just now need to get my car back and carry on. Still can't believe this guy is calling me while on vacation on the status of my car. That is some service!! :-)

Ah well....I wasn't looking to meet someone when he popped up. Back to my activities and goals. :-)

lol @ Seraph

I guess I should explain there is an added $ 1400 part that needs approval that is why the update from his vacation. This leo must be a control freak not sure why he didnt let his assistant handle it. That is why he is calling me with status. I will defiantly do something nice for his staff because I could be spending over $ 3k for this repair. A little anxious because I want my car back but patience is paying off literally.

Posted by bella_fish
Montgomery - I am not that resourceful..lol

I found an online profile that stated Leo...no specifics.

I guess when I talk to him next I can say how is that valve thing going and btw..give me your bday low down. lol

"Hey, baby... what's yer sign?"

😄

Yeah, I was hoping that didn't happen.


Isn't it mandatory to do the whole wife and kids thing on those profiles?

Whether you have them or not?


It should be.

-.-

Montgomery I agree.....Leo the charmer of disappointment.

I will tell you this much.....Leo's must do real well in sales. He is phenomenal in relations. The guys at the dealership love him. He won my trust. Seriously I should be annoyed, pissed, and instead I trust him. It has been two weeks going on three with my car. He could be selling me snake oil and I would be happy. lol

Leo the diplomat. Do most of you Leo's do well in customer relations?