I need this off my mind

Soo! Leo and I hung out and we had fun. Leo and I made out and he wanted me, but because of how I am, I didn't give in. We cuddled and we both needed to go. I saw he was stuck in a parking lot and I helped him and he asked me for another kiss. What baffles me, is that I had friends tell me he's not interested, but why in the world would he asked for another kiss in the first place? After I helped him, I walked away and he had to chase me to ask for another one. ANYWAYS! This guy is confusing because he didn't text anything after that and treat it as if nothing happens. Currently 6 months later, we're not talking. I'm not happy with it. I was wondering if you Leos could help me approach him in a non-creepish way to bond with him again. I'm over my interest in him, it's more I want to be friends with him again. We've known each other for 1 year and a half. His birthday is August 7. Leo with Cancer moon and Venus(R) Mercury and Mars in Virgo. I was thinking of going over to his place, but your advice is welcome.

What he did what? And You rejected him or gave in? And then distance started happening?

So you waited 6 months for a sign of interested but he didn't do anything in that 6 months to show you anything of interests really.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
So you waited 6 months for a sign of interested but he didn't do anything in that 6 months to show you anything of interests really.

Not necessarily. I talked to him afterwards. He just didn't mention the hangout. I didn't mentioned it because I didn't want it to be awkward. He sent me a gif from Reddit and I forgot about responding. I tried to talk to him and he didn't respond and so here's the reason for not talking for 5-6 months. I didn't give in to have sex because I just don't do it unless both sides are committed. We both have pride issues and that's known. Which is why I came here for advice about how to approach this Leo. As I stated, I've lost interest, but want to be friends with him again.

Posted by KittyKnitter
maybe he likes his privacy. he likes you yes but he doesn't want to be teased about it by anyone or pressured by expectations.or perhaps he is embarrassed that he likes you too much and has pulled himself back so he doesn't look like he is chasing you. that is about saving face maybe. or maybe he is not interested but doesn't know how to get back to the ftiendship. or he is simply unclear as to what you want. or leaving what happens between you up to you. so many things could be going on in his head.

so best thing to do is talk straight about what you want. from him so he knows. you are adults, aren't you? you say you are over your interest but maybe he is not over his interest in you, or maybe he is, who knows. but if you want his friendship then you will have to clarify things and show him how to get back to being friends. he might be feeling awkward and need some reassurance that you care enough to have him in your life at all. i think a visit is a good idea.just to clear the air. he'll probably relax when he knows where he stands with you.

It's confusing. I'm an Aries and we want what we want, but I heard some Leos can be sensitive so I backed off a little. A visit on or after his birthday will be arranged, I would text, but I feel it's indirect. It shows more when you actually visit to fix the situation, really.

Posted by KittyKnitter
maybe he likes his privacy. he likes you yes but he doesn't want to be teased about it by anyone or pressured by expectations.or perhaps he is embarrassed that he likes you too much and has pulled himself back so he doesn't look like he is chasing you. that is about saving face maybe. or maybe he is not interested but doesn't know how to get back to the ftiendship. or he is simply unclear as to what you want. or leaving what happens between you up to you. so many things could be going on in his head.

so best thing to do is talk straight about what you want. from him so he knows. you are adults, aren't you? you say you are over your interest but maybe he is not over his interest in you, or maybe he is, who knows. but if you want his friendship then you will have to clarify things and show him how to get back to being friends. he might be feeling awkward and need some reassurance that you care enough to have him in your life at all. i think a visit is a good idea.just to clear the air. he'll probably relax when he knows where he stands with you.

I forgot to mention I already reached out to him and no response. I don't recall doing anything ill towards him. In society standards, you don't want to seem desperate, but really I just want things cleared/closure. If it doesn't work out, at least I tried, right? 🙂