scorpio_sun_gemini_rising
@scorpio_sun_gemini_rising
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I think my Leo and I are about to break up :(
Leo men! Please help me 😢
Some questions:
1) I know leo men get over things quickly but do they ever realize after what they may have done wrong and what they had? If they realize they lost something great what are the chances of them trying to fix it or coming back? He can be very stubborn.
2) is anyone else feeling really sad/weird/confused? I think it's the planets
3) if he doesn't / has never tried to make any compromises or bend over backwards for the relationship, should I be questioning how much he supposedly loves me? He got screwed over by his last ex so with me, I think he's a little more selfish with how he lives his life. With that being said however, he tells me all the time how much he appreciates me because I fully understand him (he's confusing af) but I get him 100% and am very patient and very very very accepting of him and loving (even tho most people would not be able to tolerate the way he lives his free spirited life)
Help 😢 any tips advice would be appreciated!!!
Some questions:
1) I know leo men get over things quickly but do they ever realize after what they may have done wrong and what they had? If they realize they lost something great what are the chances of them trying to fix it or coming back? He can be very stubborn.
2) is anyone else feeling really sad/weird/confused? I think it's the planets
3) if he doesn't / has never tried to make any compromises or bend over backwards for the relationship, should I be questioning how much he supposedly loves me? He got screwed over by his last ex so with me, I think he's a little more selfish with how he lives his life. With that being said however, he tells me all the time how much he appreciates me because I fully understand him (he's confusing af) but I get him 100% and am very patient and very very very accepting of him and loving (even tho most people would not be able to tolerate the way he lives his free spirited life)
Help 😢 any tips advice would be appreciated!!!
Him:
Rising: cancer
Sun: Leo
Moon: Pisces
Merc: Virgo
Mars: cancer
Venus: libra
Me:
Rising: Gemini
Sun: Scorpio
Moon: Capricorn
Merc: Scorpio
Mars: Gemini
Venus: libra
Rising: cancer
Sun: Leo
Moon: Pisces
Merc: Virgo
Mars: cancer
Venus: libra
Me:
Rising: Gemini
Sun: Scorpio
Moon: Capricorn
Merc: Scorpio
Mars: Gemini
Venus: libra
He's 23.
Tough love ie: I love you too much to let you
destroy yourself, and me in the process, will
do far better than all the pliant understanding
in the world.
Can you go home for a visit instead of
permanently moving back or is that not an
option?
Tough love ie: I love you too much to let you
destroy yourself, and me in the process, will
do far better than all the pliant understanding
in the world.
Can you go home for a visit instead of
permanently moving back or is that not an
option?
Well the original plan was I can get permenant residency in this country (my visa expires in 9-10
Months) through my work but it's a long process.. would take at least a year.. and I have to decide asap coz my work will sponsor me and even pay for me to study here.. but I don't even know if I want any of that. The only reason I was going to do it was to get my residency so I an stay here with Leo... we are both broke af. I think we might break up next week or this month and then I have to stay here an extra month anyway.. until end of September (when our lease ends)
I'm so confused so sad.. despite all the friends I have made here I've realized I'm not even that happy here unless I'm with him. So what's the point? I should start taking more care of me and my wants as well
Months) through my work but it's a long process.. would take at least a year.. and I have to decide asap coz my work will sponsor me and even pay for me to study here.. but I don't even know if I want any of that. The only reason I was going to do it was to get my residency so I an stay here with Leo... we are both broke af. I think we might break up next week or this month and then I have to stay here an extra month anyway.. until end of September (when our lease ends)
I'm so confused so sad.. despite all the friends I have made here I've realized I'm not even that happy here unless I'm with him. So what's the point? I should start taking more care of me and my wants as well
Posted by scorpio_sun_gemini_rising^
->I have made lots of sacrifices / compromised in this relationship to make it into what it is..
-> I think the main reason I am still in this country making it work is for him.. 😢
-> I get him 100% and am very patient and very very very accepting of him and loving (even tho most people would not be able to tolerate the way he lives his free spirited life)
This is something which would have been over sooner or later
When you feel you've compromised n made sacrifices for the person/feel you're tolerating someone/feel that you are the one to invest more into the relationship, break up is just bound to happen at some point coz you'll always hold the resentment somehow.
You might have done more of course..but isn't it because you wanted to?coz you love him? for the relationship?for everything to work? Did you feel like you were doing a favor? Do you regret doing all that? If you do, maybe you weren't into it. I mean I didn't know you keep count of "things" you do in love.
Not saying you shouldn't expect love from him. But maybe you were so lost in the whole "I'm giving more" thing that you forgot to actually love.
The thing I don't get though is, are you trying to break up with him or are you thinking that he's gonna break up with you? What's the reason for you to leave him if it's you doing that? Is it coz you think he's not reciprocating it or is it coz you can't handle him being depressed?
If you think he's giving up, why bother? Coz you said you weren't happy there anyway.
I'm gonna be honest with you, if you "let him go deal with it on his own" just be prepared to never get back with him again
The last thing people with depression need is to be left alone, you know Leo's pride, if he feels like you're not willing to fight for him, he won't look back
Also you need to understand that depression is a very serious illness, it's not "just in your head"
The last thing people with depression need is to be left alone, you know Leo's pride, if he feels like you're not willing to fight for him, he won't look back
Also you need to understand that depression is a very serious illness, it's not "just in your head"
Posted by TeenaPosted by scorpio_sun_gemini_rising^
->I have made lots of sacrifices / compromised in this relationship to make it into what it is..
-> I think the main reason I am still in this country making it work is for him.. 😢
-> I get him 100% and am very patient and very very very accepting of him and loving (even tho most people would not be able to tolerate the way he lives his free spirited life)
This is something which would have been over sooner or later
When you feel you've compromised n made sacrifices for the person/feel you're tolerating someone/feel that you are the one to invest more into the relationship, break up is just bound to happen at some point coz you'll always hold the resentment somehow.
You might have done more of course..but isn't it because you wanted to?coz you love him? for the relationship?for everything to work? Did you feel like you were doing a favor? Do you regret doing all that? If you do, maybe you weren't into it. I mean I didn't know you keep count of "things" you do in love.
Not saying you shouldn't expect love from him. But maybe you were so lost in the whole "I'm giving more" thing that you forgot to actually love.
The thing I don't get though is, are you trying to break up with him or are you thinking that he's gonna break up with you? What's the reason for you to leave him if it's you doing that? Is it coz you think he's not reciprocating it or is it coz you can't handle him being depressed?
If you think he's giving up, why bother? Coz you said you weren't happy there anyway.
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On point
Posted by TeenaPosted by scorpio_sun_gemini_rising^
->I have made lots of sacrifices / compromised in this relationship to make it into what it is..
-> I think the main reason I am still in this country making it work is for him.. 😢
-> I get him 100% and am very patient and very very very accepting of him and loving (even tho most people would not be able to tolerate the way he lives his free spirited life)
This is something which would have been over sooner or later
When you feel you've compromised n made sacrifices for the person/feel you're tolerating someone/feel that you are the one to invest more into the relationship, break up is just bound to happen at some point coz you'll always hold the resentment somehow.
You might have done more of course..but isn't it because you wanted to?coz you love him? for the relationship?for everything to work? Did you feel like you were doing a favor? Do you regret doing all that? If you do, maybe you weren't into it. I mean I didn't know you keep count of "things" you do in love.
Not saying you shouldn't expect love from him. But maybe you were so lost in the whole "I'm giving more" thing that you forgot to actually love.
The thing I don't get though is, are you trying to break up with him or are you thinking that he's gonna break up with you? What's the reason for you to leave him if it's you doing that? Is it coz you think he's not reciprocating it or is it coz you can't handle him being depressed?
If you think he's giving up, why bother? Coz you said you weren't happy there anyway.
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Yes I did everything because I wanted to for US... Basically what has happened is in short - he hates having commitments, he hates working. He used to live out of his car work here and there to be able to go on small skateboarding trips. He is now away, and is VERY stressed with money, so he messaged me saying he's over living together cause he doesn't like wasting money on rent. He said for me to find somewhere else to live for myself asap and that hes just going to leave the house..The thing is though, I know he CAN make rent this month, he just doesnt want to go to work. He would rather his money go elsewhere..so it upsets me that when something goes wrong for him and life is a little stressful, he just gives up? He wont compromise and go make rent money, its easier for him to just stop living together? which leaves me financially screwed. Not to mention, we only just moved in a few ago (living together has been amazing though, we became stronger then ever) so I would have to be moving AGAIN. thats my time, my money etc. I am just over it I dont feel like i'll be happy here without him.. everything is mediocre here for me... so why am i bothering when i could go pursue my own goals and do me for a bit?
He is away, but we spoke about it a bit last night and agreed to talk when he's back, so I think we are both aware that we may need to break up.
Posted by HopefullyIrememberthisoneI am not letting him go cause hes sad, I have made it clear I would be here for him in any way i can, but I believe there is just an expiry on this? I feel he thinks the same.. 😢
I'm gonna be honest with you, if you "let him go deal with it on his own" just be prepared to never get back with him again
The last thing people with depression need is to be left alone, you know Leo's pride, if he feels like you're not willing to fight for him, he won't look back
Also you need to understand that depression is a very serious illness, it's not "just in your head"
Posted by scorpio_sun_gemini_risingI am just over it I dont feel like i'll be happy here without him.. everything is mediocre here for me... so why am i bothering when i could go pursue my own goals and do me for a bit?Posted by TeenaPosted by scorpio_sun_gemini_rising^
->I have made lots of sacrifices / compromised in this relationship to make it into what it is..
-> I think the main reason I am still in this country making it work is for him.. 😢
-> I get him 100% and am very patient and very very very accepting of him and loving (even tho most people would not be able to tolerate the way he lives his free spirited life)
This is something which would have been over sooner or later
When you feel you've compromised n made sacrifices for the person/feel you're tolerating someone/feel that you are the one to invest more into the relationship, break up is just bound to happen at some point coz you'll always hold the resentment somehow.
You might have done more of course..but isn't it because you wanted to?coz you love him? for the relationship?for everything to work? Did you feel like you were doing a favor? Do you regret doing all that? If you do, maybe you weren't into it. I mean I didn't know you keep count of "things" you do in love.
Not saying you shouldn't expect love from him. But maybe you were so lost in the whole "I'm giving more" thing that you forgot to actually love.
The thing I don't get though is, are you trying to break up with him or are you thinking that he's gonna break up with you? What's the reason for you to leave him if it's you doing that? Is it coz you think he's not reciprocating it or is it coz you can't handle him being depressed?
If you think he's giving up, why bother? Coz you said you weren't happy there anyway.
Yes I did everything because I wanted to for US... Basically what has happened is in short - he hates having commitments, he hates working. He used to live out of his car work here and there to be able to go on small skateboarding trips. He is now away, and is VERY stressed with money, so he messaged me saying he's over living together cause he doesn't like wasting money on rent. He said for me to find somewhere else to live for myself asap and that hes just going to leave the house..The thing is though, I know he CAN make rent this month, he just doesnt want to go to work. He would rather his money go elsewhere..so it upsets me that when something goes wrong for him and life is a little stressful, he just gives up? He wont compromise and go make rent money, its easier for him to just stop living together? which leaves me financially screwed. Not to mention, we only just moved in a few ago (living together has been amazing though, we became stronger then ever) so I would have to be moving AGAIN. thats my time, my money etc. I am just over it I dont feel like i'll be happy here without him.. everything is mediocre here for me... so why am i bothering when i could go pursue my own goals and do me for a bit?
He is away, but we spoke about it a bit last night and agreed to talk when he's back, so I think we are both aware that we may need to break up.
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That's all. You know what to do. And it does seem like he needs to work on himself. Good that he knows that n actually discussed about that with you. But if you know you guys have to part, why this question? "I know leo men get over things quickly but do they ever realize after what they may have done wrong and what they had? If they realize they lost something great what are the chances of them trying to fix it or coming back?"
Do you want to see if he'd chase you once this is over? Do you want him to? Would that change something if he does?
Posted by TeenaPosted by scorpio_sun_gemini_risingI am just over it I dont feel like i'll be happy here without him.. everything is mediocre here for me... so why am i bothering when i could go pursue my own goals and do me for a bit?Posted by TeenaPosted by scorpio_sun_gemini_rising^
->I have made lots of sacrifices / compromised in this relationship to make it into what it is..
-> I think the main reason I am still in this country making it work is for him.. 😢
-> I get him 100% and am very patient and very very very accepting of him and loving (even tho most people would not be able to tolerate the way he lives his free spirited life)
This is something which would have been over sooner or later
When you feel you've compromised n made sacrifices for the person/feel you're tolerating someone/feel that you are the one to invest more into the relationship, break up is just bound to happen at some point coz you'll always hold the resentment somehow.
You might have done more of course..but isn't it because you wanted to?coz you love him? for the relationship?for everything to work? Did you feel like you were doing a favor? Do you regret doing all that? If you do, maybe you weren't into it. I mean I didn't know you keep count of "things" you do in love.
Not saying you shouldn't expect love from him. But maybe you were so lost in the whole "I'm giving more" thing that you forgot to actually love.
The thing I don't get though is, are you trying to break up with him or are you thinking that he's gonna break up with you? What's the reason for you to leave him if it's you doing that? Is it coz you think he's not reciprocating it or is it coz you can't handle him being depressed?
If you think he's giving up, why bother? Coz you said you weren't happy there anyway.
Yes I did everything because I wanted to for US... Basically what has happened is in short - he hates having commitments, he hates working. He used to live out of his car work here and there to be able to go on small skateboarding trips. He is now away, and is VERY stressed with money, so he messaged me saying he's over living together cause he doesn't like wasting money on rent. He said for me to find somewhere else to live for myself asap and that hes just going to leave the house..The thing is though, I know he CAN make rent this month, he just doesnt want to go to work. He would rather his money go elsewhere..so it upsets me that when something goes wrong for him and life is a little stressful, he just gives up? He wont compromise and go make rent money, its easier for him to just stop living together? which leaves me financially screwed. Not to mention, we only just moved in a few ago (living together has been amazing though, we became stronger then ever) so I would have to be moving AGAIN. thats my time, my money etc. I am just over it I dont feel like i'll be happy here without him.. everything is mediocre here for me... so why am i bothering when i could go pursue my own goals and do me for a bit?
He is away, but we spoke about it a bit last night and agreed to talk when he's back, so I think we are both aware that we may need to break up.
That's all. You know what to do. And it does seem like he needs to work on himself. Good that he knows that n actually discussed about that with you. But if you know you guys have to part, why this question? "I know leo men get over things quickly but do they ever realize after what they may have done wrong and what they had? If they realize they lost something great what are the chances of them trying to fix it or coming back?"
Do you want to see if he'd chase you once this is over? Do you want him to? Would that change something if he does?click to expand
Honestly, if he turned around and said I want to be with you I will do anything to make this work (like i have so far) then of course I would want to be with him thats why I ask that question... but right now, we seem to be on different pages regarding our lives.. 😢 so I am just wondering
Posted by scorpio_sun_gemini_risingBut you said his love isn't enough to make you stay, didn't you? Like he's only away for a week n you're contemplating break up coz you think all the other things are mediocre. Maybe all you're looking for is for him to reassure you? Make you feel like you're not one who is more invested in this? Or are not happy with the whole thing anyway n are just finding reasons still telling yourself otherwise? Umm..just a thought.Posted by TeenaPosted by scorpio_sun_gemini_risingI am just over it I dont feel like i'll be happy here without him.. everything is mediocre here for me... so why am i bothering when i could go pursue my own goals and do me for a bit?Posted by TeenaPosted by scorpio_sun_gemini_rising^
->I have made lots of sacrifices / compromised in this relationship to make it into what it is..
-> I think the main reason I am still in this country making it work is for him.. 😢
-> I get him 100% and am very patient and very very very accepting of him and loving (even tho most people would not be able to tolerate the way he lives his free spirited life)
This is something which would have been over sooner or later
When you feel you've compromised n made sacrifices for the person/feel you're tolerating someone/feel that you are the one to invest more into the relationship, break up is just bound to happen at some point coz you'll always hold the resentment somehow.
You might have done more of course..but isn't it because you wanted to?coz you love him? for the relationship?for everything to work? Did you feel like you were doing a favor? Do you regret doing all that? If you do, maybe you weren't into it. I mean I didn't know you keep count of "things" you do in love.
Not saying you shouldn't expect love from him. But maybe you were so lost in the whole "I'm giving more" thing that you forgot to actually love.
The thing I don't get though is, are you trying to break up with him or are you thinking that he's gonna break up with you? What's the reason for you to leave him if it's you doing that? Is it coz you think he's not reciprocating it or is it coz you can't handle him being depressed?
If you think he's giving up, why bother? Coz you said you weren't happy there anyway.
Yes I did everything because I wanted to for US... Basically what has happened is in short - he hates having commitments, he hates working. He used to live out of his car work here and there to be able to go on small skateboarding trips. He is now away, and is VERY stressed with money, so he messaged me saying he's over living together cause he doesn't like wasting money on rent. He said for me to find somewhere else to live for myself asap and that hes just going to leave the house..The thing is though, I know he CAN make rent this month, he just doesnt want to go to work. He would rather his money go elsewhere..so it upsets me that when something goes wrong for him and life is a little stressful, he just gives up? He wont compromise and go make rent money, its easier for him to just stop living together? which leaves me financially screwed. Not to mention, we only just moved in a few ago (living together has been amazing though, we became stronger then ever) so I would have to be moving AGAIN. thats my time, my money etc. I am just over it I dont feel like i'll be happy here without him.. everything is mediocre here for me... so why am i bothering when i could go pursue my own goals and do me for a bit?
He is away, but we spoke about it a bit last night and agreed to talk when he's back, so I think we are both aware that we may need to break up.
That's all. You know what to do. And it does seem like he needs to work on himself. Good that he knows that n actually discussed about that with you. But if you know you guys have to part, why this question? "I know leo men get over things quickly but do they ever realize after what they may have done wrong and what they had? If they realize they lost something great what are the chances of them trying to fix it or coming back?"
Do you want to see if he'd chase you once this is over? Do you want him to? Would that change something if he does?
Honestly, if he turned around and said I want to be with you I will do anything to make this work (like i have so far) then of course I would want to be with him thats why I ask that question... but right now, we seem to be on different pages regarding our lives.. 😢 so I am just wonderingclick to expand
Posted by TeenaPosted by scorpio_sun_gemini_risingBut you said his love isn't enough to make you stay, didn't you? Like he's only away for a week n you're contemplating break up coz you think all the other things are mediocre. Maybe all you're looking for is for him to reassure you? Make you feel like you're not one who is more invested in this? Or are not happy with the whole thing anyway n are just finding reasons still telling yourself otherwise? Umm..just a thought.Posted by TeenaPosted by scorpio_sun_gemini_risingI am just over it I dont feel like i'll be happy here without him.. everything is mediocre here for me... so why am i bothering when i could go pursue my own goals and do me for a bit?Posted by TeenaPosted by scorpio_sun_gemini_rising^
->I have made lots of sacrifices / compromised in this relationship to make it into what it is..
-> I think the main reason I am still in this country making it work is for him.. 😢
-> I get him 100% and am very patient and very very very accepting of him and loving (even tho most people would not be able to tolerate the way he lives his free spirited life)
This is something which would have been over sooner or later
When you feel you've compromised n made sacrifices for the person/feel you're tolerating someone/feel that you are the one to invest more into the relationship, break up is just bound to happen at some point coz you'll always hold the resentment somehow.
You might have done more of course..but isn't it because you wanted to?coz you love him? for the relationship?for everything to work? Did you feel like you were doing a favor? Do you regret doing all that? If you do, maybe you weren't into it. I mean I didn't know you keep count of "things" you do in love.
Not saying you shouldn't expect love from him. But maybe you were so lost in the whole "I'm giving more" thing that you forgot to actually love.
The thing I don't get though is, are you trying to break up with him or are you thinking that he's gonna break up with you? What's the reason for you to leave him if it's you doing that? Is it coz you think he's not reciprocating it or is it coz you can't handle him being depressed?
If you think he's giving up, why bother? Coz you said you weren't happy there anyway.
Yes I did everything because I wanted to for US... Basically what has happened is in short - he hates having commitments, he hates working. He used to live out of his car work here and there to be able to go on small skateboarding trips. He is now away, and is VERY stressed with money, so he messaged me saying he's over living together cause he doesn't like wasting money on rent. He said for me to find somewhere else to live for myself asap and that hes just going to leave the house..The thing is though, I know he CAN make rent this month, he just doesnt want to go to work. He would rather his money go elsewhere..so it upsets me that when something goes wrong for him and life is a little stressful, he just gives up? He wont compromise and go make rent money, its easier for him to just stop living together? which leaves me financially screwed. Not to mention, we only just moved in a few ago (living together has been amazing though, we became stronger then ever) so I would have to be moving AGAIN. thats my time, my money etc. I am just over it I dont feel like i'll be happy here without him.. everything is mediocre here for me... so why am i bothering when i could go pursue my own goals and do me for a bit?
He is away, but we spoke about it a bit last night and agreed to talk when he's back, so I think we are both aware that we may need to break up.
That's all. You know what to do. And it does seem like he needs to work on himself. Good that he knows that n actually discussed about that with you. But if you know you guys have to part, why this question? "I know leo men get over things quickly but do they ever realize after what they may have done wrong and what they had? If they realize they lost something great what are the chances of them trying to fix it or coming back?"
Do you want to see if he'd chase you once this is over? Do you want him to? Would that change something if he does?
Honestly, if he turned around and said I want to be with you I will do anything to make this work (like i have so far) then of course I would want to be with him thats why I ask that question... but right now, we seem to be on different pages regarding our lives.. 😢 so I am just wonderingclick to expand
No you have misunderstood me. Him being away has nothing to do with it, he had his own problems arise while hes away and told me while hes away that he wants to move out because of it (money issues) He is just giving up on everything because he doesnt want to compromise and work when he gets back cause it's easier not to so he's just leaving and telling me to look for a place on my own. it's all confusing and hard to explain over a forum 😢
"Yes I did everything because I wanted to for US... Basically what has happened is in short - he hates having commitments, he hates working. He used to live out of his car work here and there to be able to go on small skateboarding trips. He is now away, and is VERY stressed with money, so he messaged me saying he's over living together cause he doesn't like wasting money on rent. He said for me to find somewhere else to live for myself asap and that hes just going to leave the house..The thing is though, I know he CAN make rent this month, he just doesnt want to go to work. He would rather his money go elsewhere..so it upsets me that when something goes wrong for him and life is a little stressful, he just gives up? He wont compromise and go make rent money, its easier for him to just stop living together? which leaves me financially screwed. Not to mention, we only just moved in a few ago (living together has been amazing though, we became stronger then ever) so I would have to be moving AGAIN."
@scorpio_sun_gemini_rising, you need to leave this situation and he needs to seek professional help if he's actually depressed. In response to your questions, the thing to rememeber is that he's only 23 and probably isn't looking too far ahead into the future like you are at age 27. If I had to guess, he's not mature enough to handle a relationship like this and he feels trapped.
Here he is telling you what he wants. He's not happy with having a normal job and fiscal responsibility. He doesn't want to be tied down by commitments. He's basically telling you that he is stressed about "being an adult". He's basically telling you that he wants to go on skateboarding trips and lead a life where he feels free. It sounds like he's actively pushing you away. It also doesn't sound like your current cohabitation had made things between you two stronger than ever. If anything it might have made things worse.
"Well the original plan was I can get permenant residency in this country (my visa expires in 9-10
Months) through my work but it's a long process.. would take at least a year.. and I have to decide asap coz my work will sponsor me and even pay for me to study here.. but I don't even know if I want any of that. The only reason I was going to do it was to get my residency so I an stay here with Leo... we are both broke af. I think we might break up next week or this month and then I have to stay here an extra month anyway.. until end of September (when our lease ends)
I'm so confused so sad.. despite all the friends I have made here I've realized I'm not even that happy here unless I'm with him. So what's the point? I should start taking more care of me and my wants as well"click to expand
You need to do what's best for you at this point. If he is the ONLY reason you'd consider staying, then the answer is very clear. He's pushing you away and you're not interested in prolonging your stay without him.
Sounds like a very one sided relationship.
Posted by OneKnightSorry. I definitely worded it wrong. he isnt diagnosed with depression he is just very very sad right now.. he feels like his friends dont like him (which is not true, anyone that meets him loves him to bits)
People in love can't technically be in depression.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
"Here he is telling you what he wants. He's not happy with having a normal job and fiscal responsibility. He doesn't want to be tied down by commitments. He's basically telling you that he is stressed about "being an adult". He's basically telling you that he wants to go on skateboarding trips and lead a life where he feels free. It sounds like he's actively pushing you away. It also doesn't sound like your current cohabitation had made things between you two stronger than ever. If anything it might have made things worse.
That's the PISCES MOON....man it's the weakest moon on earth. This is at it's worst. Hopefully LEO sun kicks its butt into high gear
The thing is, I NEVER make him feel bad or guilty or trapped when he goes on skate trips.. and he appreciates me for it. when he goes away, i literally let him be i dont nag him or anything because i am confident enough with myself and do my own things and use the time to work on me. Maybe everyone is right - maybe he feels trapped? But he has told me countless times i am worth being with, I am 100% perfect to him and how i treat him.... when he is VERY low (PISCES MOON) he says things i think he may not mean? I am confused.....?
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeEXPLAAAAAAAIN? :OPosted by scorpio_sun_gemini_risingthat's an ESCAPIST moon. RUN while you can. He will never give you the foundation you desirePosted by CaramelizedCoffee
"Here he is telling you what he wants. He's not happy with having a normal job and fiscal responsibility. He doesn't want to be tied down by commitments. He's basically telling you that he is stressed about "being an adult". He's basically telling you that he wants to go on skateboarding trips and lead a life where he feels free. It sounds like he's actively pushing you away. It also doesn't sound like your current cohabitation had made things between you two stronger than ever. If anything it might have made things worse.
That's the PISCES MOON....man it's the weakest moon on earth. This is at it's worst. Hopefully LEO sun kicks its butt into high gear
The thing is, I NEVER make him feel bad or guilty or trapped when he goes on skate trips.. and he appreciates me for it. when he goes away, i literally let him be i dont nag him or anything because i am confident enough with myself and do my own things and use the time to work on me. Maybe everyone is right - maybe he feels trapped? But he has told me countless times i am worth being with, I am 100% perfect to him and how i treat him.... when he is VERY low (PISCES MOON) he says things i think he may not mean? I am confused.....?
scorpio wants a partner, not some little bytch they have to mommy for life
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffeePosted by scorpio_sun_gemini_risingyou're 27 years old, you're getting old, how long are you going to deal with a guy who doesn't have his sh1t together or care to have his stuff together. It's going to take him a long time to mature up!~Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeEXPLAAAAAAAIN? :OPosted by scorpio_sun_gemini_risingthat's an ESCAPIST moon. RUN while you can. He will never give you the foundation you desirePosted by CaramelizedCoffee
"Here he is telling you what he wants. He's not happy with having a normal job and fiscal responsibility. He doesn't want to be tied down by commitments. He's basically telling you that he is stressed about "being an adult". He's basically telling you that he wants to go on skateboarding trips and lead a life where he feels free. It sounds like he's actively pushing you away. It also doesn't sound like your current cohabitation had made things between you two stronger than ever. If anything it might have made things worse.
That's the PISCES MOON....man it's the weakest moon on earth. This is at it's worst. Hopefully LEO sun kicks its butt into high gear
The thing is, I NEVER make him feel bad or guilty or trapped when he goes on skate trips.. and he appreciates me for it. when he goes away, i literally let him be i dont nag him or anything because i am confident enough with myself and do my own things and use the time to work on me. Maybe everyone is right - maybe he feels trapped? But he has told me countless times i am worth being with, I am 100% perfect to him and how i treat him.... when he is VERY low (PISCES MOON) he says things i think he may not mean? I am confused.....?
scorpio wants a partner, not some little bytch they have to mommy for life
do you want to be married, have children? have a good life?
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Ya i think its time to do my own thing ! 😢
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