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I'm a Leo (female) - ask me anything
Uh... are u eat meat or vegetarian... ? ._. (I'm fish I need to be wary of lion... some say they eat meat... scary... ._. but I just want to make sure... hopefully I didnt get eaten in the process... ) ._.
Good morning, and welcome to Oz, new LEO.
Cream and sugar, or do you take your coffee
black?
Cream and sugar, or do you take your coffee
black?
Hi,
Can I ask you why a Leo man would not contact you anymore after the first kiss (aside from the obvious)?
He'd been chasing me for two years and said I was the most amazing woman he's ever met. He brought up children and marriage often as a joke.
Yet, I kissed him which he didn't seem to mind because he told me he wanted to kiss me too. He hasn't reached out to me since that last date in January.
He's 23 and I'm 26. I don't understand what happened in his mind from being clingy to well... Nothing!
Thanks.
Can I ask you why a Leo man would not contact you anymore after the first kiss (aside from the obvious)?
He'd been chasing me for two years and said I was the most amazing woman he's ever met. He brought up children and marriage often as a joke.
Yet, I kissed him which he didn't seem to mind because he told me he wanted to kiss me too. He hasn't reached out to me since that last date in January.
He's 23 and I'm 26. I don't understand what happened in his mind from being clingy to well... Nothing!
Thanks.
Posted by MontgomeryWell thank you @Montgomery
Good morning, and welcome to Oz, new LEO.
Cream and sugar, or do you take your coffee
black?
Sweet & Strong - black with one 🙂
Posted by TrueBlessingsmaybe because you couldn't match his passionate kiss.
Hi,
Can I ask you why a Leo man would not contact you anymore after the first kiss (aside from the obvious)?
Thanks.
Posted by TrueBlessingsThere could be quite a few reasons, although I am not necessarily in the best place to answer as I am a female it could be:
Hi,
Can I ask you why a Leo man would not contact you anymore after the first kiss (aside from the obvious)?
He'd been chasing me for two years and said I was the most amazing woman he's ever met. He brought up children and marriage often as a joke.
Yet, I kissed him which he didn't seem to mind because he told me he wanted to kiss me too. He hasn't reached out to me since that last date in January.
He's 23 and I'm 26. I don't understand what happened in his mind from being clingy to well... Nothing!
Thanks.
- he got busy with work, studies etc
- the chemistry wasn't there when you kissed
- you kissed him thus ending the chase
- as he had been chasing you for so long, when it got real he got spooked
- He met someone new
- He is young and enjoying being a young man and all that comes with it
- he is waiting to hear from you
Maybe send him a brief text saying Hi, keep it light - if you get a response all good but if not you also have your answer.
Good luck x
Posted by TrueBlessings(What's the obvious?)
Hi,
Can I ask you why a Leo man would not contact you anymore after the first kiss (aside from the obvious)?
He'd been chasing me for two years and said I was the most amazing woman he's ever met. He brought up children and marriage often as a joke.
Yet, I kissed him which he didn't seem to mind because he told me he wanted to kiss me too. He hasn't reached out to me since that last date in January.
He's 23 and I'm 26. I don't understand what happened in his mind from being clingy to well... Nothing!
Thanks.
He's emotionally immature. He was chasing you for 2 years, so he's been after you since he was 21 right? Pretty sure he was saying grand things and being romantic with you. It was all fluff and no substance on his part. He probably got bored and ghosted.
Well, to be fair, he was the one who kept kissing me afterwards, so... This is what I meant by the obvious ...that he didn't like the kiss. We were at the movies and he kept either holding my hand or placing it on his chest...
I didn't feel the extreme passion, but I felt peace unlike my previous encounters. He isn't overly experienced with girls. I've dated guys who have tons of experience and they all said I was the best kisser/encounter they've ever had.
I'm a Scorpio, so I have enough passion for 2!
Yes, we've known each other since he was 21. We didnt see each other for eight months though. We reconnected when we both moved to the same country. Part of me thinks it got too real for him when we kissed and he realized he wasn't ready.
He also revealed during that date that he has drinking issues. I don't know why he disclosed this obvious info.
I'm confused. I kissed him first because he told me he was dying to kiss me.
Yeah, he was indeed saying grand things!
Did he really ghost though? I didn't reach out to him either. Why? I have no clue.
I didn't feel the extreme passion, but I felt peace unlike my previous encounters. He isn't overly experienced with girls. I've dated guys who have tons of experience and they all said I was the best kisser/encounter they've ever had.
I'm a Scorpio, so I have enough passion for 2!
Yes, we've known each other since he was 21. We didnt see each other for eight months though. We reconnected when we both moved to the same country. Part of me thinks it got too real for him when we kissed and he realized he wasn't ready.
He also revealed during that date that he has drinking issues. I don't know why he disclosed this obvious info.
I'm confused. I kissed him first because he told me he was dying to kiss me.
Yeah, he was indeed saying grand things!
Did he really ghost though? I didn't reach out to him either. Why? I have no clue.
Posted by TrueBlessingsWell it's possible that he is playing games to see if you chase him, but again this is just more immaturity. Also it's been a few months now, so I'd guess he ghosted. Likewise, it's never smart to chase someone who drops contact. It's also up to him to reach out to you and set up dates. Unless you did something to make him jealous, I'm going to assume that he's moved on to something/someone else.
Well, to be fair, he was the one who kept kissing me afterwards, so... This is what I meant by the obvious ...that he didn't like the kiss. We were at the movies and he kept either holding my hand or placing it on his chest...
I didn't feel the extreme passion, but I felt peace unlike my previous encounters. He isn't overly experienced with girls. I've dated guys who have tons of experience and they all said I was the best kisser/encounter they've ever had.
I'm a Scorpio, so I have enough passion for 2!
Yes, we've known each other since he was 21. We didnt see each other for eight months though. We reconnected when we both moved to the same country. Part of me thinks it got too real for him when we kissed and he realized he wasn't ready.
He also revealed during that date that he has drinking issues. I don't know why he disclosed this obvious info.
I'm confused. I kissed him first because he told me he was dying to kiss me.
Yeah, he was indeed saying grand things!
Did he really ghost though? I didn't reach out to him either. Why? I have no clue.
As I said, I didn't feel the sparks either.
I would not say it sucked, but there was nothing there, despite the feelings. There was no passion.
I'm not going to chase. I've got zero interest in that. I did nothing to make him jealous, I didn't reach out him after our date and he didn't reach out to me either.
I would not say it sucked, but there was nothing there, despite the feelings. There was no passion.
I'm not going to chase. I've got zero interest in that. I did nothing to make him jealous, I didn't reach out him after our date and he didn't reach out to me either.
Posted by TrueBlessingsI guess if there was nothing there for you there was nothing there for him....
As I said, I didn't feel the sparks either.
I would not say it sucked, but there was nothing there, despite the feelings. There was no passion.
I'm not going to chase. I've got zero interest in that. I did nothing to make him jealous, I didn't reach out him after our date and he didn't reach out to me either.
Posted by einspiscesNo need to be weary...we don't bite unless asked 🙂
Uh... are u eat meat or vegetarian... ? ._. (I'm fish I need to be wary of lion... some say they eat meat... scary... ._. but I just want to make sure... hopefully I didnt get eaten in the process... ) ._.
Posted by LeoMoniAre you always positive?
As seen on another forum...ask me anything??
Posted by GemitatiLeos tend to be quite sunny - I guess this is down to our ruling planet. Personally, I prefer to be positive/optimistic over negative/pessimistic...but as no one is ever 'always' one way we do have our down days but we're unlikely to stay down in the dumps for long.Posted by LeoMoniAre you always positive?
As seen on another forum...ask me anything??
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How do you win over a Leo?
Posted by earlorg16There's quite a few ways this can be done in the initial stages:
How do you win over a Leo?
- notice something unique about us and share it, be confident and classy when doing so
- be independent and have a full life, tell us about all the things you're up to and what you've done in the past; we like different people/ experiences so if you do too that's a bonus
- ask us out; sometimes we can miss things if they're not spelled out to us or if we do are too proud to act ourselves
- you don't have to be super stylish but make sure you look after yourself and are clean!
-don't come on too strong, show that you're interested but not desperate or clingy
- be positive
- know who you are and have ambitions for life, not necessarily career/money, share these with us and tell us what you're doing to achieve them
- always ask about us; our past, hopes, likes and dislikes
- never be afraid to say no to us, we'll respect you for it and we need to respect you to like you!
- show that you're reliable and that we can count on you to be there for us
- give us small gifts once in a while, not expensive but thoughtful and only if you're dating otherwise we may get a bit weirded out!
Posted by EmhendoHey,
So I'm new to DXPNET and I was dating a Leo woman and she dumped me. (See my recent post, please).. She still loves me, still wants sex with me.. But dumped me. Says she's confused.. I should be confused. I have told her I don't wanna be friend's and cut initiating contact and stopped watching her snapchat stories. She said she'll see a couple weeks how she's feeling about hooking up.. (Sex). I know I shouldn't wait on her to contact me, which I'm not, but judging by her last words.. Will she return? Will NC work on you type of women? Make you miss or wonder bout me? I try limiting my posting too.. I don't wanna come across unaffected or affected. I know I should use my social media as I want.. But I know I'm being watched and I don't want her gettin the wrong idea of where I stand emotionally.. I snapchatted a little today, which I haven't done in a few days and I also watched her snaps.. I'm not gonna watch her's again after today, but I hope she see's mine and remember how funny I am lol.
First things first, I don't think you should view this as a Leo thing - she does indeed seem confused but what she (and you) are doing is not fair on you.
Please put yourself and your well being ahead of what she may need, this means saying with word and actions that you won't be involved with her sexually as it has a bad effect on your emotional wellbeing.
NC is a good thing but try not to do it with the objective of getting her back, do it because you want to feel better. If you're doing things that make you feel better during the NC you'll be a much more attractive prospect if she does come around - you'll also have established firmer boundaries which will make her respect you more (respect is a big deal for us) also you yourself may even look at her and question whether she is actually what you're looking for as the NC may improve your self esteem/image.
Good luck - look after yourself first!
I understand that and I'm stickin to my guns.. I want to feel better and be better ar dating. I may have rushed her.. Anyways, I wasn't testing anything, but after snapchatting a little today after not being on all week.. She sent me a messagw on SC with "—".. Why break up with me and flirt like that? I'm feeling bittersweet about her doing that just now... Like it's nice and I feel flattered and panting like a happy puppy.. But what good is it when I know she don't wanna be with me. What's the hell is her deal?Posted by LeoMoniPosted by EmhendoHey,
So I'm new to DXPNET and I was dating a Leo woman and she dumped me. (See my recent post, please).. She still loves me, still wants sex with me.. But dumped me. Says she's confused.. I should be confused. I have told her I don't wanna be friend's and cut initiating contact and stopped watching her snapchat stories. She said she'll see a couple weeks how she's feeling about hooking up.. (Sex). I know I shouldn't wait on her to contact me, which I'm not, but judging by her last words.. Will she return? Will NC work on you type of women? Make you miss or wonder bout me? I try limiting my posting too.. I don't wanna come across unaffected or affected. I know I should use my social media as I want.. But I know I'm being watched and I don't want her gettin the wrong idea of where I stand emotionally.. I snapchatted a little today, which I haven't done in a few days and I also watched her snaps.. I'm not gonna watch her's again after today, but I hope she see's mine and remember how funny I am lol.
First things first, I don't think you should view this as a Leo thing - she does indeed seem confused but what she (and you) are doing is not fair on you.
Please put yourself and your well being ahead of what she may need, this means saying with word and actions that you won't be involved with her sexually as it has a bad effect on your emotional wellbeing.
NC is a good thing but try not to do it with the objective of getting her back, do it because you want to feel better. If you're doing things that make you feel better during the NC you'll be a much more attractive prospect if she does come around - you'll also have established firmer boundaries which will make her respect you more (respect is a big deal for us) also you yourself may even look at her and question whether she is actually what you're looking for as the NC may improve your self esteem/image.
Good luck - look after yourself first!click to expand
Posted by EmhendoSounds to me like she is quite young and immature - doesn't have any idea of how her behaviour may negatively impact on another person and if she does, she simply doesn't care. It also seems to me like she is looking to you for validation and keeping you on a hook for when she needs attention. If you allow her to continue in the way she is, this is all you will ever be to her - someone who she contacts for attention when she is feeling low and she may never take you seriously because you allow her to treat you badly.
Hey, thanks. I understand that and I'm stickin to my guns.. I want to feel better and be better ar dating. I may have rushed her.. Anyways, I wasn't testing anything, but after snapchatting a little today after not being on all week.. She sent me a messagw on SC with "—".. Why break up with me and flirt like that? I'm feeling bittersweet about her doing that just now... Like it's nice and I feel flattered and panting like a happy puppy.. But what good is it when I know she don't wanna be with me. What's the hell is her deal?
Either way, I still stand by what I said - look after yourself first..it doesn't feel right for you so it's up to you to get out and establish your boundaries. If I were you I would let her know that you need a time out/space from her, you like her but are not looking to stay in a situation that is no good for you. The door is open to her if/when she feels like she is ready but until then get on with your life - don't put yourself on hold.
I would also unfriend her on social media so that the temptation is not there, not in a spiteful way but as a means of self-preservation.
You deserve someone who respects you and is considerate of your needs, she doesn't seem like she can do that.
Good luck
How do I handle jealousy from a teen Leo female that I mentor? Will call her B for this example.
I've been put on B's radar because someone we both know complimented how I look in front of her, and lately B has gained weight/feeling self-conscious. I, on the other hand, have been getting healthier and looking better.
Almost immediately, B has been trying teen bully tactics (like trying to prove to herself that I'm not so great anyway - putting my makeup down, why I haven't done my nails, etc. - really stupid and petty stuff).
She's even asked me to not wear makeup, so she can see what I look like without it.
She's also been pulling away from our sessions, and that's a problem because it's my work.
How do I put a stop to this right away? Call her out? Ignore it? Focus on the work?
I'm too old for this shit 😢
I've been put on B's radar because someone we both know complimented how I look in front of her, and lately B has gained weight/feeling self-conscious. I, on the other hand, have been getting healthier and looking better.
Almost immediately, B has been trying teen bully tactics (like trying to prove to herself that I'm not so great anyway - putting my makeup down, why I haven't done my nails, etc. - really stupid and petty stuff).
She's even asked me to not wear makeup, so she can see what I look like without it.
She's also been pulling away from our sessions, and that's a problem because it's my work.
How do I put a stop to this right away? Call her out? Ignore it? Focus on the work?
I'm too old for this shit 😢
Posted by SunMoonStarsPretty sure OP will want to know how old you are versus how old she is.
How do I handle jealousy from a teen Leo female that I mentor? Will call her B for this example.
I've been put on B's radar because someone we both know complimented how I look in front of her, and lately B has gained weight/feeling self-conscious. I, on the other hand, have been getting healthier and looking better.
Almost immediately, B has been trying teen bully tactics (like trying to prove to herself that I'm not so great anyway - putting my makeup down, why I haven't done my nails, etc. - really stupid and petty stuff).
She's even asked me to not wear makeup, so she can see what I look like without it.
She's also been pulling away from our sessions, and that's a problem because it's my work.
How do I put a stop to this right away? Call her out? Ignore it? Focus on the work?
I'm too old for this shit 😢
Posted by SunMoonStarsFor the purpose of this response, I am going to assume you are older?
How do I handle jealousy from a teen Leo female that I mentor? Will call her B for this example.
I've been put on B's radar because someone we both know complimented how I look in front of her, and lately B has gained weight/feeling self-conscious. I, on the other hand, have been getting healthier and looking better.
Almost immediately, B has been trying teen bully tactics (like trying to prove to herself that I'm not so great anyway - putting my makeup down, why I haven't done my nails, etc. - really stupid and petty stuff).
She's even asked me to not wear makeup, so she can see what I look like without it.
She's also been pulling away from our sessions, and that's a problem because it's my work.
How do I put a stop to this right away? Call her out? Ignore it? Focus on the work?
I'm too old for this shit 😢
Firstly and most importantly....do not change a single thing about you for her - you are her mentor so you are in the position of leading by example. A life lesson she needs to learn is that there will always be someone who is more attractive, fitter, intelligent and younger than her but this does not mean that they are 'better' than her or that she can bully them to make herself feel better. A Leo's self-esteem can be fragile but your Leo needs to learn to develop this from within and not by comparing herself to others.
I would tell her that you have noticed that she has been disengaging from the mentoring sessions and you were curious as to why. It is important that you do not project onto her any of the things you have mentioned above but allow her the space to work it out for herself in a non-judgemental way. It is important that you set expectations for what is acceptable communication and topics that are not open for discussion; for example 'going forward it's best if we focus on XYZ during your mentoring sessions, as the purpose of the sessions are to help you achieve XYZ and not about me or my personal appearance'. If she continues to mention your appearance etc I would continue to raise the issue with her.
I would also tell her that you will have to end the sessions if she continues to miss them - this will set a very important boundary and teach her the importance of respecting people's time.
If you ignore what she is doing she will lose respect for you which will make it more difficult for you in the long run. Be sure to offer encouragement for the things she does well and if she is comfortable with it praise her publically if at all possible.
Leo thing aside, as a mentor you are in a position of leadership and this comes with the possibility for tension as people have a tendency to project all manner of issues onto you. I guess it's your responsibility to notice when this is happening and also when there is something you could do differently to make the relationship better.
Good luck
Posted by LeoMoniThank you for your advice. I asked her if anything is wrong, she told me she broke up with her bf. At 16, she's moody and all over the place. She also showed up with orange hair as she had to have it bleached in order to change the colour. Seems like she's experimenting with her looks and talking lots about plastic surgery.Posted by SunMoonStarsFor the purpose of this response, I am going to assume you are older?
How do I handle jealousy from a teen Leo female that I mentor? Will call her B for this example.
I've been put on B's radar because someone we both know complimented how I look in front of her, and lately B has gained weight/feeling self-conscious. I, on the other hand, have been getting healthier and looking better.
Almost immediately, B has been trying teen bully tactics (like trying to prove to herself that I'm not so great anyway - putting my makeup down, why I haven't done my nails, etc. - really stupid and petty stuff).
She's even asked me to not wear makeup, so she can see what I look like without it.
She's also been pulling away from our sessions, and that's a problem because it's my work.
How do I put a stop to this right away? Call her out? Ignore it? Focus on the work?
I'm too old for this shit 😢
Firstly and most importantly....do not change a single thing about you for her - you are her mentor so you are in the position of leading by example. A life lesson she needs to learn is that there will always be someone who is more attractive, fitter, intelligent and younger than her but this does not mean that they are 'better' than her or that she can bully them to make herself feel better. A Leo's self-esteem can be fragile but your Leo needs to learn to develop this from within and not by comparing herself to others.
I would tell her that you have noticed that she has been disengaging from the mentoring sessions and you were curious as to why. It is important that you do not project onto her any of the things you have mentioned above but allow her the space to work it out for herself in a non-judgemental way. It is important that you set expectations for what is acceptable communication and topics that are not open for discussion; for example 'going forward it's best if we focus on XYZ during your mentoring sessions, as the purpose of the sessions are to help you achieve XYZ and not about me or my personal appearance'. If she continues to mention your appearance etc I would continue to raise the issue with her.
I would also tell her that you will have to end the sessions if she continues to miss them - this will set a very important boundary and teach her the importance of respecting people's time.
If you ignore what she is doing she will lose respect for you which will make it more difficult for you in the long run. Be sure to offer encouragement for the things she does well and if she is comfortable with it praise her publically if at all possible.
Leo thing aside, as a mentor you are in a position of leadership and this comes with the possibility for tension as people have a tendency to project all manner of issues onto you. I guess it's your responsibility to notice when this is happening and also when there is something you could do differently to make the relationship better.
Good luckclick to expand
Anyway, I'll continue to try working with her with her best interest in mind. Hopefully, she absorbs what she can.
Hi sorry this is a really long story but I just want to get a Leo's opinion 🙂
I dated a Leo for around 9 months and we were very in love, we spent all our spare time together. He showered me with gifts and we always went on dates. We basically went everywhere together, we were inseparable. But we did start to bicker a lot especially when we went to parties. Anyway eventually we had a really big fight he was really jealous of boys that I had done stuff with in the past even though I was no longer in contact with them he was still really hung up on them and I ended it with him. I'm not a very confrontational person so it was very hard for me to end things with him, when I did he said 'no' and he kind of acted like we had not even broke up and we still hung out anyway finally i spoke up and made sure he knew that we weren't together. He then tried everything to get me back he would come into my work, etc so I decided to be JUST friends with him, but first we had to have no contact for a week just to sort our selves out it was hard and I don't think we lasted the entire week anyway the friends thing was really nice but then a guy started to message me and he saw and got really mad at me called me every name under the sun and then stormed out of my house, we had made plans to go to this fair the next day so I still went with my mates and he went as well but he brought a girl and I couldn't but think that was suppose to be me and him :/ anyway that day/night was horrible the girl rang us and was really rude she then stole his phone and deleted all our pictures together as well as was texting me pretending to be him (I could tell it wasn't, because he didn't text like that) anyway I ended up meeting him at night and kissing him (I was very drunk) after that I tried to get him back but he was so cold and mean and one day he would say we could work it out and then he'd change his mind and not want anything to do with me. so I gave him space anyway a few weeks later I meant this really nice boy at a party and we started talking. Me and my ex were still in contact but it was on and off so I start seeing this new boy and then one day out of the blue my ex rings me and asks me all about him it was super weird since we had hardly talked in ages and I did miss him. Me and my ex started hanging out again and we were hooking up anyway as time passed me and this new boy were getting more serious so i cut things off with my ex it's been about a year since we've seen each other (all my friends have run into him somewhere except for me) we haven't really talked to except for me reching out both times I was drunk and called him but we hardly talked. Until recently I called him but I was really drunk and he said if I'm really serious about this to ring him tomorrow when I'm sober but the next day I woke up vomoiting I was the most hung over I've ever been so I sent him a message saying could I ring him tomorrow? At first he agreed but then around 7 at night he said 'I don't think you should call me tomorrow' I ignored it and rang him the next day we didn't talk for that long before he didn't want to hear it and hung up so I sent him a nice message just saying I'd like to be friends or at least ambicable, he blocked me on everything and that was that a few days later I noticed he'd been watching my Instagram stories and he'd unblocked me on everything so I sent him a '?' And he sent one back but I never opened it and well now here I am... do you think he will ever want to be friends again with me? Or is it over?? I'm hoping it's not because we were once best fiends and it's sad to think that two people who were so in love now want nothing to do with each other. (I'm a Taurus)
I dated a Leo for around 9 months and we were very in love, we spent all our spare time together. He showered me with gifts and we always went on dates. We basically went everywhere together, we were inseparable. But we did start to bicker a lot especially when we went to parties. Anyway eventually we had a really big fight he was really jealous of boys that I had done stuff with in the past even though I was no longer in contact with them he was still really hung up on them and I ended it with him. I'm not a very confrontational person so it was very hard for me to end things with him, when I did he said 'no' and he kind of acted like we had not even broke up and we still hung out anyway finally i spoke up and made sure he knew that we weren't together. He then tried everything to get me back he would come into my work, etc so I decided to be JUST friends with him, but first we had to have no contact for a week just to sort our selves out it was hard and I don't think we lasted the entire week anyway the friends thing was really nice but then a guy started to message me and he saw and got really mad at me called me every name under the sun and then stormed out of my house, we had made plans to go to this fair the next day so I still went with my mates and he went as well but he brought a girl and I couldn't but think that was suppose to be me and him :/ anyway that day/night was horrible the girl rang us and was really rude she then stole his phone and deleted all our pictures together as well as was texting me pretending to be him (I could tell it wasn't, because he didn't text like that) anyway I ended up meeting him at night and kissing him (I was very drunk) after that I tried to get him back but he was so cold and mean and one day he would say we could work it out and then he'd change his mind and not want anything to do with me. so I gave him space anyway a few weeks later I meant this really nice boy at a party and we started talking. Me and my ex were still in contact but it was on and off so I start seeing this new boy and then one day out of the blue my ex rings me and asks me all about him it was super weird since we had hardly talked in ages and I did miss him. Me and my ex started hanging out again and we were hooking up anyway as time passed me and this new boy were getting more serious so i cut things off with my ex it's been about a year since we've seen each other (all my friends have run into him somewhere except for me) we haven't really talked to except for me reching out both times I was drunk and called him but we hardly talked. Until recently I called him but I was really drunk and he said if I'm really serious about this to ring him tomorrow when I'm sober but the next day I woke up vomoiting I was the most hung over I've ever been so I sent him a message saying could I ring him tomorrow? At first he agreed but then around 7 at night he said 'I don't think you should call me tomorrow' I ignored it and rang him the next day we didn't talk for that long before he didn't want to hear it and hung up so I sent him a nice message just saying I'd like to be friends or at least ambicable, he blocked me on everything and that was that a few days later I noticed he'd been watching my Instagram stories and he'd unblocked me on everything so I sent him a '?' And he sent one back but I never opened it and well now here I am... do you think he will ever want to be friends again with me? Or is it over?? I'm hoping it's not because we were once best fiends and it's sad to think that two people who were so in love now want nothing to do with each other. (I'm a Taurus)
Posted by D0min0When it works, it just works 🙂 yep, I get on quite well with Gems - they're always up for doing fun stuff and I like the airy-ness that they have. Good fun 😉
Unlike people that I'm really interested in, where I want to pick their brains apart and get to know every inch not only in their brain but of their body, Leos just "work". Always find, with myself, it's no question. We just get up and go-go-go.
You notice this with other "gems"? The connection is just some natural linear forward....thing? I guess that's more of a question. haha
Posted by MoonbeamerHello,
Hi sorry this is a really long story but I just want to get a Leo's opinion 🙂
I dated a Leo for around 9 months and we were very in love, we spent all our spare time together. He showered me with gifts and we always went on dates. We basically went everywhere together, we were inseparable. But we did start to bicker a lot especially when we went to parties. Anyway eventually we had a really big fight he was really jealous of boys that I had done stuff with in the past even though I was no longer in contact with them he was still really hung up on them and I ended it with him. I'm not a very confrontational person so it was very hard for me to end things with him, when I did he said 'no' and he kind of acted like we had not even broke up and we still hung out anyway finally i spoke up and made sure he knew that we weren't together. He then tried everything to get me back he would come into my work, etc so I decided to be JUST friends with him, but first we had to have no contact for a week just to sort our selves out it was hard and I don't think we lasted the entire week anyway the friends thing was really nice but then a guy started to message me and he saw and got really mad at me called me every name under the sun and then stormed out of my house, we had made plans to go to this fair the next day so I still went with my mates and he went as well but he brought a girl and I couldn't but think that was suppose to be me and him :/ anyway that day/night was horrible the girl rang us and was really rude she then stole his phone and deleted all our pictures together as well as was texting me pretending to be him (I could tell it wasn't, because he didn't text like that) anyway I ended up meeting him at night and kissing him (I was very drunk) after that I tried to get him back but he was so cold and mean and one day he would say we could work it out and then he'd change his mind and not want anything to do with me. so I gave him space anyway a few weeks later I meant this really nice boy at a party and we started talking. Me and my ex were still in contact but it was on and off so I start seeing this new boy and then one day out of the blue my ex rings me and asks me all about him it was super weird since we had hardly talked in ages and I did miss him. Me and my ex started hanging out again and we were hooking up anyway as time passed me and this new boy were getting more serious so i cut things off with my ex it's been about a year since we've seen each other (all my friends have run into him somewhere except for me) we haven't really talked to except for me reching out both times I was drunk and called him but we hardly talked. Until recently I called him but I was really drunk and he said if I'm really serious about this to ring him tomorrow when I'm sober but the next day I woke up vomoiting I was the most hung over I've ever been so I sent him a message saying could I ring him tomorrow? At first he agreed but then around 7 at night he said 'I don't think you should call me tomorrow' I ignored it and rang him the next day we didn't talk for that long before he didn't want to hear it and hung up so I sent him a nice message just saying I'd like to be friends or at least ambicable, he blocked me on everything and that was that a few days later I noticed he'd been watching my Instagram stories and he'd unblocked me on everything so I sent him a '?' And he sent one back but I never opened it and well now here I am... do you think he will ever want to be friends again with me? Or is it over?? I'm hoping it's not because we were once best fiends and it's sad to think that two people who were so in love now want nothing to do with each other. (I'm a Taurus)
don't take this in the wrong way but I think a better question for you would be 'what do I want from this guy?' the reason why I say this is because you have clearly moved on or a least tried to, yet still you want him around despite knowing that it would be difficult for you to be just friends.
FWIW - I think he was hoping for you to say you still had feelings for him when he asked you to call - but the fact that you didn't probably hurt his pride a little so he withdrew in order to protect himself.....as much as Leo likes to play, we don't play when it comes to our hearts so your drunk dialling is probably becoming too much for him and it may look to him like you're playing a game.
My advice would be to work out what you want, stop drunk dialling him and perhaps look at what your behaviour is telling him; you may find that you are sending a few mixed messages.
Good luck 🙂
Posted by MoonbeamerJust speaking as a Leo guy 1. his attitude is waaaay out the line. That amount of jealousy isn't appropriate. 2. There was too much flip flopping between you two. The lack of consistency turned him off (as MoonshineLeo pointed out) 3. When a Leo starts blocking/deleting/unfollowing you on social media, that a sign he/she is trying to remove you from their lives.
Hi sorry this is a really long story but I just want to get a Leo's opinion 🙂
I dated a Leo for around 9 months and we were very in love, we spent all our spare time together. He showered me with gifts and we always went on dates. We basically went everywhere together, we were inseparable. But we did start to bicker a lot especially when we went to parties. Anyway eventually we had a really big fight he was really jealous of boys that I had done stuff with in the past even though I was no longer in contact with them he was still really hung up on them and I ended it with him. I'm not a very confrontational person so it was very hard for me to end things with him, when I did he said 'no' and he kind of acted like we had not even broke up and we still hung out anyway finally i spoke up and made sure he knew that we weren't together. He then tried everything to get me back he would come into my work, etc so I decided to be JUST friends with him, but first we had to have no contact for a week just to sort our selves out it was hard and I don't think we lasted the entire week anyway the friends thing was really nice but then a guy started to message me and he saw and got really mad at me called me every name under the sun and then stormed out of my house, we had made plans to go to this fair the next day so I still went with my mates and he went as well but he brought a girl and I couldn't but think that was suppose to be me and him :/ anyway that day/night was horrible the girl rang us and was really rude she then stole his phone and deleted all our pictures together as well as was texting me pretending to be him (I could tell it wasn't, because he didn't text like that) anyway I ended up meeting him at night and kissing him (I was very drunk) after that I tried to get him back but he was so cold and mean and one day he would say we could work it out and then he'd change his mind and not want anything to do with me. so I gave him space anyway a few weeks later I meant this really nice boy at a party and we started talking. Me and my ex were still in contact but it was on and off so I start seeing this new boy and then one day out of the blue my ex rings me and asks me all about him it was super weird since we had hardly talked in ages and I did miss him. Me and my ex started hanging out again and we were hooking up anyway as time passed me and this new boy were getting more serious so i cut things off with my ex it's been about a year since we've seen each other (all my friends have run into him somewhere except for me) we haven't really talked to except for me reching out both times I was drunk and called him but we hardly talked. Until recently I called him but I was really drunk and he said if I'm really serious about this to ring him tomorrow when I'm sober but the next day I woke up vomoiting I was the most hung over I've ever been so I sent him a message saying could I ring him tomorrow? At first he agreed but then around 7 at night he said 'I don't think you should call me tomorrow' I ignored it and rang him the next day we didn't talk for that long before he didn't want to hear it and hung up so I sent him a nice message just saying I'd like to be friends or at least ambicable, he blocked me on everything and that was that a few days later I noticed he'd been watching my Instagram stories and he'd unblocked me on everything so I sent him a '?' And he sent one back but I never opened it and well now here I am... do you think he will ever want to be friends again with me? Or is it over?? I'm hoping it's not because we were once best fiends and it's sad to think that two people who were so in love now want nothing to do with each other. (I'm a Taurus)
Basically the bridge is burned, it's best you move on now. If he has some residual emotion for you, he may pop back up. We Leos are proud beasts though, so it's unlikely he'll make first contact.
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