I'm a Libra woman and I want my Leo man back

You'll have to wait this out, whatever you do be cool and try not to stress yourself and the baby out, you'll survive with or without him, if he comes around don't argue with him, just hold your tongue until after the baby is born, cussing him out and talking crap about his new woman will not make him want to be there for you. Accept that he's moved on but yes make sure you remind him he's partially responsible for his child.

Posted by NaturalLibra

Posted by ninjafish
Why did he break up with you?

He broke up with me for a lot of reasons according to him. He is unhappy in our relationship, he needs a break, he's stressed out, he's not ready for this type of relationship, he can't take care of me, him, and two kids. he's tired of me stressing out about how I'm going to take care of the baby...and he said I took him for granted. I never took him for granted. I adore him. I don't even know how he could say that.

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He needs a break but yet he gets involved with another woman a week after he breaks up with you? The best you can hope for is him being a responsible parent. Seriously, the other woman was in the picture long before he left you. Even if he's just immature, how long are you supposed to wait for him to grow up? I would just focus on the baby. You don't need the stress of him being around or trying to get him back. Honestly, if I were you I'd be prepping to go at it solo. A better man will come along.

wow....babies having babies. what a sad thread this is 😢

the main thing to focus on is the fact that this baby will have you two tied together in some respects for many years to come. he may feel confused or under pressure right now with this being his first child but things will change and he'll have to grow up at some stage.

most times when people are in your situation and are feeling hurt after a break up, much of the pain is caused by the prospect that if you don't get back together soon...you never will or they might find someone else who becomes a great love to them for many years and that'll be that for you!

but when you've lived another 20 years plus some (like me 😄 ) you realise that time changes so many things and that things DO really happen for a reason. if you can surrender yourself to time and trust that things will work out for the best, you'll find exactly that happening.

i'm sure you're doing this anyway but just concentrate on being the best mother you can be. do you have much contact with the father of your first child? do you have a good support network of family and friends? if so LEAN on them. you're very young and you need help to get through this. take care of your children but most importantly take care of YOU cos you need your strength for what is the hardest yet most rewarding role in a woman's life....specially us single mums!!

i'm glad you've found dxp. irrespective of what you believe about astrology there are some good people here who will always be happy to give you advice so that you don't feel alone in your situation.

*hugs*

always falling for
the wrong
guy

but leo
will
do
the
manly thing
so don't
worry

it becomes
verse

bull dust
that's mean of you
that leo
like you
should never have
complicated her life.

not her fault
his

men take
responsibility
for their actions

Posted by ninjafish
lmao dimitri I love it 😆

& *big hugs* to naturallibra

Thank you 🙂

Posted by dimitri
bull dust
that's mean of you
that leo
like you
should never have
complicated her life.

not her fault
his

men take
responsibility
for their actions

Thank you 🙂

Posted by WoundedLeo
Oh Jynja,
Give the girl a break. Why is it that someone always has to pass judgement on these threads? Why can't we just listen and try to help when we can? What do we gain by denigrating people? If she tried to trap him it backfired. Period.

Testing her to see how many bad words she can spew is irrelevant. She's 20 years old. I'm sure she could teach us words that you and I have never even heard of before LOL.

That is kinda messed up Jynja...you don't know what her situation is.

To the OP, get used to it love. As long a you make a thread, you're gonna get posts good or bad. You did ask for opinions. So she gave hers. I think from this point forward, watch your words carefully. People have the right to post whether its your thread or not. Rig ia right. There are plenty of people here to help. But there are plenty here that will simply belittle you.

jynja was only playing devil's advocate to be fair...she's a sweetie really.

naturallibra: it's a shame when things resort to name-calling on either side but you have to realise that expressing yourself on these boards can be hard...you've got the intonation going on in your head and it sounds a certain way but when you write it, it just sounds mean. i've done it loads. name-calling too lol!!

i like how dmitri writes. even if the words are mean, they sound pretty when turned into verse 🙂

anyhow. i think a lot of people forget that there are two people involved in having a baby...not just the obvious initial 'seeding' but throughout the whole of the baby's life...including the time in the womb.

just like women can get post natal depression, men can get pregnancy related depression too. for a man, it means he is expected to step up to the mark and deliver security and stability to his new family. this leo is so young, as you are too and my guess is that it's all freaking him out. combine that with your own experience of the pregnancy and how it can make you oblivious to your partner's feelings (it's natural cos the baby's inside US after all) and he probably felt cut out of the deal and yet with all this expectancy laying heavily on his shoulders.

you are left in a position where you just have to deal with the facts. he's gone and you don't know his true reasons. he may come back, he may not...what are you going to do in the meantime?

you've already had one child at a young age and i should imagine that has made you more mature than you would otherwise have been. he's been facing the prospect of having to grow up instantly since you found out you were pregnant. perhaps he's kicking back at that by getting involved with someone else.

personally, i think leo men are such slaves to their egos that it's only during times when they have no-one to stroke them that they assess their relationship situation. so for whatever reason, this is why i suspect he's gotten involved with another so quickly. it's almost like a kind of denial in his case which is not sun sign specific...it's a fact when some men are faced with the huge deal of being responsible for another life.

You're so young, gosh this is tough I'm sure. He's not coming back to play the role you need him to, he's not looking for less pressure because if that was the case he wouldn't have jumped into a new relationship. I sense he wasn't as into you as he appeared to be or he wouldn't have allowed the relationship to end only to be with someone else. Plan for your future, focus on your baby and definitely look into using contraception, I hate saying that to a grown woman but clearly if you don't slow down you'll be in this predicament again. He'll come around eventually but he won't stay so be prepared for that, even if he demonstrates he wants a life with you he'll most likely flake out because he's just way too young to be interested in being in a relationship that requires big responsibilities, boundaries and limitations.