Im not breaking up with you What the hell?

This topic was created in the Leo forum by tokyodiamond21 on Wednesday, April 11, 2007 and has 5 replies.

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@tokyodiamond21
19 YearsAries

Well my Leo invited me back into the den. But now its even bigger now b/c we had some drama to happen and now he wants me to come get my stuff from his place. I gave him a look like "we breaking up aren't we?" But he read my expression and said "we're not breaking up, I just need time to think". So now we back at square one. I dont know what to do AT ALL. As an aries its my instinct to move on.We feel like if you push us away then you dont want us. But my Cap friend, who is basically a leo guru, told me that if he said we not breaking up then we're not breaking up and just let him be alone. I really care for him alot and I miss him but should I stick around or just move on? I dont want to be sitting around waiting for him to get over himself and then he moves on. I dont understand him at all b/c just this past week he tells me I mean a lot to him and that he wants to take care of me and my baby. Even from the last event we had he cried in front of me, which is the first time he was ever like that. I figured that since he instill so much faith in me then, that why is he pushing me away as if I was juss a weekend fling? Is this a Leo show love? I rather be alone then be on the sidelines heartbroken. Its to the point I asked our friend to go get my stuff from his place, I can't even look at him Im so hurt and bewildered. How long will this last?

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@krobe03
19 Years1,000+ Posts

krobe03
Before I TRY to help you understand your leo, I need to ask a few questions. I'm sorry to say it and I don't mean to hurt you if I do, Leo's hate the way Aries carry themselves. I will get back to that. Is the baby his? What have you said or how have you acted TORWARDS him. I have to pick up my daughter but I will be back in about 30 minutes. Tell me all you need to know.

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@tokyodiamond21
19 YearsAries

lol like we dont hate the way leo's act lol but eh we live with it. And no the baby is not his. And he offered to be there I dont expect anyone to be there for my child but me. And I didnt say anything. And its a REAL private situation that happened between us but put it like this. He gave me something can be easily erased with a drink and a flush and I didnt get mad about it b/c this most likely happened before we got together. I know Im not cheating and I know he's not b/c we be with each other alot.

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@tokyodiamond21
19 YearsAries

But he got a lil upset asking why Im not overacting. And I said why overact. Lets just get this over with and move on. We are too good for each other to let this interfer but I guess he's not seeing it that way

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@tiki33
20 Years10,000+ Posts

OKay so this is a sensitive issue, sounds like he may not be ready to settle and he's torn over it.

Seriously, I'm sure you don't want nor intend to expose your childs health so its best to get your stuff, get tested and make sure your healthy if you haven't already done that and move on until he can give you the answers you deserve.

When pregnant emotions do run high and your very sensitive and vulnerable at this time, you may want to shift your focus on yourself and let your leo work out his feelings, he'll come back to you when he's ready.

krobe03 can be a very good help on issues such as this, you may want to provide more details and she can help you out.

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@krobe03
19 Years1,000+ Posts

tokyodiamond,
I would prefer you email me on this one. I am a leo, and I have and will always live around Aries, because my mom and daughter is one. Cry it out before you email me though, I will try to consider you are pregnant. Don't expose yourself like this.