In love with a leo man

Hi folks -

I would like some advice on the vast majority of wise and well informed people from dxp. I am in love wiht a leo man. I am a young looking 48 and he is an older looking 54 (lol). Anyway, he knows that I am attracted to him, but I recently found out that he has feelings for another girl. They may have dated for a bit, but she has cooled. And I know that she does not return his feelings. I like this man alot - I am a virgo-libra cusp by the way. He has a very sweet and loving heart, he has beautiful grown children. I wouldn't mind putting in some effort in establishing a grounded relationship with him. I mean, we're getting older and I really don't want to waste time playing games. But, I would like to establish a sincere relationship.

How should I handle? Anyone have any ideas? If there are leo men that would like to submit their input, I am more than willing to listen.

Thank you in advance!

Hello klh...

Just wondering what the "younger-looking, older looking" observation has to do with anything?

Doesn't matter what anyone looks like, if he feels for her, he probably won't be able to *feel* for you. How about being his friend without motive and see what happens?

i don't think you can manufacture what attracts a leo man. you have to 'own' that confidence and be a notch above the rest. the more others notice you, the more the lion's interest is aroused...unless you're sleeping with anyone who says 'hi', lol!!

no matter how much they chase, they ultimately still want you to come to them but without throwing yourself at his feet.

if he is interested in you, no matter how slighty.....if you appear as oblivious to him as any other admirer looking your way, the moment you do eventually say 'hi' will have more impact.

anyway. it either comes naturally or it doesn't.

unfortunately, if i like someone i turn into a clumsy bafoon who is completely unable to speak intelligible english.

but i look damn good doing it, lol!!!

Thank you: BigGirlPanties, Jynja, Seraph, Ninjafish and RigorMortis, for taking the time to submit a response. I think that BGP is right that being a friend is the best way to approach matters. Actually, I learned some things about him that I am not too happy about. He has a character flaw that requires internal work. However, he may be the type of leo who is too set in his ways to change. Again, thank you all for your input.

A leo man with a character flaw—

NO! NO ! NO! Not possible.

Ok, so tell us..what is the flaw? Maybe Seraph can tell you/him how to fix it.

^^^lol^^^

It's a looong story I only gave you guys the jist, but there is so much more to it. Unfortunately, it's time to go to bed - work tomorrow. But I will give you guys the full story.